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41-50,
anonymous
writes:When I have sex with my husband, I tell him of my fantasy of watching him **** another women. I usually go into detail. I am so into it while we are having sex and if he brought someone into our room at that moment I would let it happen. I also tell him about my fantasies of a threesome. However, as soon as we are done and I have an orgasm, the fantasy instantly disappears and I do not want to have anything to do with my husband and then I feel bad. I am not sure what I am feeling bad about. I have tried not verbalizing my fantasies but I always fail. Why do I feel this way?
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reader, Demon_2004 +, writes (27 January 2009):
 I would say that as long as it doesn't happen. I would not worry about it. The thing you need to remember is that if it does happen dont get mad dont feel bad.
But the thing that you need to remember is that it might not be wise to do it because. It might turn around and bite you in the butt when your husband forgets to include you in it the next time.
As far as feeling bad about vocalizing your fantasies. I wouldn't worry about it. I enjoy it when my wife tells me her dreams. It makes sex even better that way I now what to do.
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reader, secretworld +, writes (27 January 2009):
Dear Mrs. Fantasy-It's normal to have these fantasies, I have them all the time! I think what kicks in is the guilt you feel about unfaithfulness and thinking about bringing someone into your relationship. As long as he knows that its only a fantasy, or its only sex (if it actually does happen) then you shouldn't feel bad about it. If you are trying to not verbalize your fantasies but need an outlet to express yourself, try writing! We all need a great erotic novel!
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