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writes:I am a 27 year old female that has been in a relationship with a male for two and a half years. He is the man I have seen in my dreams and I adore him and he the same (at least I hope..lol) Seriously, his birthday is coming up and he made a joke about a threesome. I told him right away. What I didn't tell him is that I have had a threesome before and actually find women to be very attractive. I don't care to only be with a woman, but I would love to be with one again and having him be there would make it just perfect. So I later went to him and said yes no problem I will do it for your b-day. We will be out of the country so I have to find someone that willing to travel bc he said it's up to me to find the girl. I guess you can say this is a two part question. First, I am concerned that if I find someone I will be tempted to continue the friendship with her after we "get together" and get back to the states. Next concern is I am not sure how I will feel about him engaging. When I did it before, it was not with someone that I was emotionally connected to. So it didn't matter. But I dont' want to lose the feeling in the middle of everything because of jealousy...Do you think it's wise to go along with this b-day gift? And if the answer is yes, how do I go about finding a female? Forgive me for sounding naive....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to say thank you to everyone for there response to my question. It has been extremely helpful in my decision to not go along with it. It's so weird bc we went out yesterday to a Japanese restaurant and he found the waitress to be so pretty and then hinted at her and I realized I had a problem on my hand before it even began. Thanks once again and there will be no threesomes in my future....
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): You could always hire a call girl for the evening.
She's being paid for her services so emotions don't come into it at all.
Hell you could both go to a brothel and jointly pick a gilr for the both of you.
Reputable? No. But really, the only safe way of a couple having a threesome.
Flynn 24
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (23 January 2009):
 It takes a very unique type of relationship to be able to partake in a threesome and continue to have a perfect, healthy relationship. Trust me, I've been there. For the most part, it is a very easy way to make waves in your relationship, when there wasnt anything wrong with it in the first place. I rarely see a couple make it after having threesomes, wether the male was physically involved or not. A good clean birthday gift (in my opinion), would be a kick ass porn, sexy role play outfit, and a night dedicated to your man. At least this way, you both benefit from it, and there is nothing about it that may create unnessesary drama between the two of you. Be glad you (so far anyway) have a perfect relationship with your man, and try to hang on to that. Lots of love!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): no, when feelings are involved it can never be a good idea.
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