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writes:hey, my gf wants me to masturbate in front of her..but the thing is, ive never masturbated (i dont like it) and she doesnt know that. shes coming over and i dont know what i should do. i cant tell her and i dont want to masturbate in front of her, help :S Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wasnt bragging...lol im actually doing the opposite and calling myself a manwhore? but i dont think this problems clinical and needs a professional, but thanks for the adivce :) yeah i think ill ask her to join since that sounds like a good idea. but thanks everyone =)
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (24 January 2009):
maybe you should turn the masturbating for her into something that you both can do. ask her to help you do it, so use her hands on your penis and put your hands over hers. that way she is the one giving you a hand job, but it looks like you are doing it. it's more intimate anyway.
you should never feel like you have to do something for someone. that's so wrong. you should only do what you feel comfortable with. you never know you may like it once you try it. it seems like you don;t have a strong sense of yourself and you're not comfortable with yourself. you obviously have some sort of issue.
as for bragging about sleeping with loads of girls...what exactly are you trying to prove with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell my parents are divorced and i doubt my mom would help me lol. she doesnt even know im not a virgin
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbefore ive had sex with like 12 girls, but when i started dating my girlfriend (amber) shes the only thing i think about. i stopped whoring around for her and i want her to get that i dont want to masturbate. shes coming over soon and i dont know how to tell her
btw im 15 not 30-35 :p
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (23 January 2009):
how can you be a manwhore if you have never masturbated and found out what you like sexually? masturbation is a great way for men and women to find out what they like. my ex bf used to jerk off in front of me all the time when we were getting hot, i used to help him out. how can you not like it? it's not much different from when a girl gives you a hand job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim anything but a prude. she knows i was a manwhore in grade 9 but i changed for her in grade 10. i wont get into detail of what ive done cause youll call me a manwhore too :p
but the only thing is, i dont like masturbating. but weve done everything besides that,
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