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writes:soo..seems petty but..! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, and were really good friends before that.Hes lovely, attractive, charming, outgoing and I really genuinely love him.We had sex for the first time about 8months in, as I had some trust issues to deal with before sex, which he was very considerate and patient about!However, lately as much as i do love him, im starting to feel a bit bored. We just are doing the same things, same habits as always, same texts, and he has such a busy lifestyle with uni,rugby,gym,family,me its hard to break our habits without offending him or comprimising something else.Basically im looking for ways to spice us up again, and to get out of these habits.
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reader, shaleen  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Maybe you should do some serious soul searching. What would you like to do to spice things up?? Ask him outright about what he would like to do. If you find yourself getting too bored already (you shouldn't be getting so bored so quickly)then maybe you too aren't compatible enough. But you say you love him, so it could just be that you are comfortable with him, enough to actually get to that bored point. In which case, sit down with him and tell him you'd like to go do something differant. ;)
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reader, lovesalias +, writes (23 January 2009):
 I think that you need to figure out what it is about him that you love. Are you involved in outside activities as well? Have you talked to him about it because he may be feeling the same way and it is best to communicate with eachother before one or both of you do something that will hurt the other person. Try talking to him about it and see what kind of solution you can come up with together! Good luck! I hope this helps!
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