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writes:Recently for past 5 months my husband masturbates more than i can count. Our love life had been really awsome and try to play out fantasys! I accidentally caught him one morning with my underware before getting in shower. Tried to over look it but any more its happening way too much. Our love life for last 3 weeks has been twice a week. I understand all the srniarols; i have tried to talk to him non threating way about it but I feel somethings going on...any ideas. He we have had a finacially difficult time; but have managed to keep a float. Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (20 January 2009):
 Do you not masturbate? Most of us do, at least occasionally, but I understand your concern if his activities seem excessive. I think this may be an indication of viewing too much pornography online. This can become an addictive fantasy for many (both men and women). Reality is better, but the thousands and thousands of online pornographic videos available today tend to feed a man's tendency to seek variety. Marriage should be monogamous, but perhaps occasionally viewing some porn fulfills a man's natural urges for that variety. If it begins to replace natural sex with a wife, however, there is some justifiable reason for concern. My suggestion is to talk about it without confrontation, judgement or ridicule, but perhaps with better result, first consider being a bit (or a lot) more provocative in the bedroom.
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reader, demon2004 +, writes (20 January 2009):
 maybe you should try and help him with his problem by taking matters into your hand and do it for him. If you are comfortable doing that. There are times when my wife doesn't want to have sex and she will do it for me and it is nice.
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (19 January 2009):
 All men masturbate. No matter how pleasing their sex life is, no matter how much they love their wives, no matter how attracted they are to their wives...
Don't worry about it. And please don't spaz on him about doing it. All men do this...all the time.
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reader, Felina  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Hi!I think all men masturbate,even with a good satisfying sex life.It´s just something they have to do....I also so it...But maybe not as much...
I dont think you should worry about it.You caught him,but I bet he has always been doing it.Dont think its because youre not pleasing him or something like that.I think that´s just the way they are.
Just my opinion.Hope I helped.
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