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anonymous
writes:Okay guys this is kinda embarassing for me but i plan on having sex for the first time soon. I am really worried about how long it is gonna take me to ejaculate. This girl that i am with is super hot and she wants to role play and that is gonna turn me on so much and i am worried that i won't last long at all. does anyone have tips on how i can stay in the game for a desirable amount of time i really don't want to embarass myself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): If you are afraid for something it will happen, so make from you weak point a strong one. Tell her that she is turning you on so much, that you are expecting to lose control and to cum quickly, so suggest first oral or with mastrubation together and after it with penetration.
With changing from position when you feel you are close, you can delay also a long time.
You mentioned staying in the game for a desirable amount of time, realize that this is for every woman different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): Okay, i don't know if this will work for you but my boyfriends used to do this and it worked for them. It's really a no brainer. When you "in the act" set your own pace, and when you feel yourself wanting to cum, slow down your pace or just stop for a second and when you feel you have yourself under control, start slow at first and work your way back up to a pace you want to go... or rather a pace SHE wants to go. That should work, and i hope this helps you a little.
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (19 January 2009):
If you masterbate before she comes over it will make it harder to come so you can try that. Also if it feels really good during sex stop and kiss her neck and whn you feel more in control begin again. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): purchase a penis ring. it keeps you from coming. it can be a bit uncomfotable. or just hold yourself tightly under the head of you penis. i bet you could tie a string there too....
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): best advice I have is to just tell her the truth. The first time will be quick, not much you can do to change that. But round two... that's when the fun will begin!
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