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writes:Okay, This is a pretty weird question, I'm going crazy though. My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate. I know this is possible because of all the crap I've read on the internet. It's not that big of a problem right now but I'm considering my future. I want to experience pregnancy. He's never ejaculated, even while masturbating.. his whole life. When he was born he had severe problems and almost passed away, they had to do with his stomach. I'm not sure on the details but I know he requires daily aid in having a bowel movement. Has anyone ever heard of a problem like this? I'm confused.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 February 2009):
 Superb information from Tisha !
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 February 2009):
 I found you a very respected source for medical information:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/retrograde-ejaculation/DS00913
And another one I don't know much about, but seems to have some interesting information:
http://infertility.suite101.com/article.cfm/sperm_problems
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 February 2009):
He might have a condition called retrograde ejaculation, where the semen backs into the bladder during orgasm and is then expelled when he urinates.
If you want to get pregnant, you and he are going to have to discuss this with a specialist.
Here are the references for your edification:
http://men.webmd.com/guide/overcoming-ejaculation-problems
[excerpt] Retrograde ejaculation is the least common of the ejaculation problems. It causes semen to back into the bladder during orgasm instead of exiting by way of the penis. The semen is then later flushed out when you urinate.
Retrograde ejaculation can be caused by diabetes, nerve damage, various medications, and surgery that disturbs the sphincter muscle. It's harmless and won't interfere with the feeling of orgasm. (It can also make for an easy post-sex clean-up.) But since it does affect fertility, some men may need treatment if their partners are trying to get pregnant.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 February 2009):
Well, have you asked him about this? Apparently, or you would not have said that he has "Never ejaculated . . . his whole life." I would think that he knows the reason. Ask, then you can decide whether he is the mate for you.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 I've never heard of this in my life.
The best solution I can think is to take him to a doctor to discuss it and maybe run tests to see if he is physically capable of ejaculating.
Poor guy, he's missin' out...
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