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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey, me and my 15 year old girlfriend (were sexually active but don't have intercourse) is very very self concious about her period. She won't let me touch her in anyway below her waist, any ideas to help her ease up? She's very clean..always, and doesn't taste bad
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reader, just here to help  +, writes (11 April 2009):
 if she feels self conscious about her period then don't push it. if you make her feel pressured you may end up losing her. i know that if anyone tried to do anything to me while i was on my period they'd know about it believe me lol. so just work with her on this one. if she doesn't want to be touched don't push her into it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): pffft
would you like doing anything sexual with blood going everywhere and the knowledge that youre probably hurting her?
dont think so.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): I don't like to be touched during my 'red moon' either. Why would you want your fingers in that??? Have a little self control and give her some respect during this week. All guys have to deal with it, not just you.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (24 February 2009):
 Ya know, she probably hasn't been at this for too long and I'm 22 and still don't like my fella of 4 years to be messing around with me during my "Dark Week" - a.k.a, my period. Usually I'm feeling really gross and uncomfortable and I just want him to keep things about the belt. It works out, it builds anticipation for when we can get back to business.
If she's uncomfortable, I wouldn't push it. There are lots of things you can do for 5 days when down South isn't available. Like Anon says, a back massage is AMAZING, or just making out and focusing on the top half. Once you start going father, you sort of forget how much fun just good ol' making out can really be!
So, I wouldn't push it. You can wait for 5 days. And then, she'll be much more happier and open with you, because she'll know that you respect her discomforts.
Good luck!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): maybe she feels uncomfortable during her period. its not the nicest of feelings and can you make you feel horribly .. messy.
if your thinking of touching her 'down there' when shes on her period i would think again because thats not very nice. at all.
if its just that you want to pu your arm around your waist, maybe ask her whats wrong, is she hurting? tell her not to be embaressed, you tottaly understand, perhaps suggest a back massage?
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reader, J-LOVE +, writes (24 February 2009):
tell her that you understand, tell her you think her period is cute and maybe she will feel like there nothing to feel weird about
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