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*unaVallentine
writes:ok so, i was with my ex for a year and 2 months, he currently has a new gf because hes 'trying to get over me' we had sex a couple weeks ago (yea i know im such a horrible person letting him cheat on her like that, blah blah blah) but the condom broke and we didnt notice, so he ended up getting me pregnant. so i was wondering, should i keep the baby? should i give it up for adoption?please help me :
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): I'm guessing you're not one who believes in abortion, as you didn't add it to your options? But of course, that is another option and as you say you only had sex a couple of weeks ago, the baby isn't even a baby right now, it is just mixed sells.You need to talk to someone ASAP, a close family member if possible. This is a highly serious thing and such a huge decision for someone your age. You will not be able to look after the baby financially so adoption could be a wise choice. Just remember, what ever you choose, it is your choice and yours only.
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reader, macdubh712 +, writes (11 April 2011):
sexlessintheuk hit the nail on the head.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (11 April 2011):
 He won't be able to take care of the child financially, neither will you. Talk to your mum and dad and make a plan of action.
Adoption is not a bad choice. Since you only got pregnant a couple of weeks ago abortion is another choice. It may not be the right one for you, I really suggest you talk to someone NOW who can help you make the right decision. (that someone ought to be an adult you can trust, hopefully this is your parent/s.)
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