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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Your parents need to get custody of that child now..because if they don't there is a possibility she could take the child with her when she does leave. Then your parents will have that worry of the unknown whereabouts of their grandchild hanging over their heads.
They get full custody of the child then they kick your sister out, using legal force if necessary.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): The child is caught in the middle, how do you think the child is going to feel if his/her mother is kicked out and they are left behind? I know by the sound as if the child's mother doesn't want him/her but you don't want the child to know that.
There is no saying she will leave the child behind anyway, she may just disappear with the child, then how do you know he/she will be looked after.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe treats the child as if its one of her siblings and not her child. The child cares more for my mother than for his own and has recently started calling my father dada. if she goes then my mother will apply for custody of the child because my sister is incapable to caring for the child. she talks about going on holidays when she doesnt even pay for childcare.
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reader, raiders +, writes (11 April 2011):
 If your sister leaves and stays with someone else is there a chance that she will be leaving her baby with just anyone so that she can go out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): Do they want just your sister to leave or do they want her to take 'it' with her?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 April 2011):
 What's the best thing to do for the child?
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