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*uth2203
writes:We had sex even though he had a girlfriend.He told me they were on a break and he told her about me.Now shes gone to america for 2 weeks hes still sleeping with me and ive fallen in love! What do i do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007): i've been in a similar situation and I got hurt because i didnt listen to the advice my friends gave me. If he wants to be with u he will leave his gf for u. Tell him how u fill and ask if he will leave her to be with u if he doesnt he isnt worth it, trust I know how it feels cz it happened to me, this evening. He isnt worth the pain. But if he leaves her for u then he is obviously feeling the same, but also be careful that he doesnt do it to u.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007): get rid of him doing that is really wrong and if you to ever get together he'll do it to you to trust me i know this isnt what you want to hear but its the truth
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reader, so-n-love  +, writes (3 April 2007):
 Hi ruth2203, First of all you know that guys will say anything. Honestly I don't think he told his girlfriend about you. But if you feel like he wants to be with you. Than you need to tell him to break it of for good with her. You don't need to be confused or stuck in the middle. You deserve better! Hope i could help!
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reader, Melanne +, writes (3 April 2007):
 Well to be honest with you, you knew what you were getting into before you slept with him. You knew he had a girlfriend and yet you still slept with him now you have fallen in love and gotten into a big mess.The fact he told you they were on a break indicates there might have been trouble in the relationship, but really you should have made sure they were finnished with first. Now your in love with him and this must be hurting you.You need to tell him that you have fallen in love with him. You need to be up front and just tell him how it is. If he really feels the same about you then he will want to be with you. If however he still wants to see his other girlfriend then you know he is not committed to you and just looks at you for sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007): It's looks like he's having his cake and eating it from where i'm standing. You have got to give him an ultimatum, either he breaks up with his girlfriend or loses you. If he dumps his girlfriend then it at leasts shows that he is serious about you but if he stays with her then move on, he isn't worth your love.
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