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I want to marry my lesbian lover, but how do I go about this when gays cant marry in America!!?

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Question - (3 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *o-n-love writes:

Me and my fiance we are a lesbian couple. We both have wedding rings. Everyone knows that in america Gays can't marry. And she is in the military. I want to have a serimony in my back yard and let one of my friends say our vows instead of a priest. and all the people comming are her military friends that know about our relationship. i just don't know how to begin doing all of this! and how am i sappose to do this. if anyone can help i would be so happy to hear your answers, i mean all detail if any would really help.

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A female reader, so-n-love United States +, writes (3 April 2007):

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so-n-love agony auntbut going over sea's is out of the question. she is in the military, and she can't go over sea's unless she is going to iraq or somewhere els.

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A female reader, Alli United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2007):

Alli agony auntHi my suggestion is to come to england we have now made it legal, and there have been a few marrages here from people in the states. if you both really want to do it, then save to come over have a little wedding aand a huge celebration when you get back to the states. but everyday you can show her what she means to you, wedding is just a peice of paper, you can easily get your last name changed to hers as a nice suprise. hope things work out.

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