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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I tell her I made out with someone when drunk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Before I left for to Mexico for spring break I was kind of seeing a girl. We weren't officially dating but we told each other that over break we can look but not touch. So I went to Mexico and she went back home and I got blacked out drunk one night. My friends tell me this ... (104 words)

Trippin out!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In the middle of February I had unprotected sex. I got my period at the beginning of that month, but now is March 23 and I haven't gotten my period. It's already going to be April and I am worried and stressed out. HELLPPPP:)... (49 words)

Why would he even what to try for a baby knowing I would be her dealing with it alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I married my high school sweetheart and he is the love of my life, he joined the army shortly after we graduate (a few yeard later we got married). He knows that he will be going overseas before summer. I don't want him to go and have expressed this many times, and he always ... (135 words)

A dilemma of thoughts... please read.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I've got a bit of a dilemma.. my ex boyfriend and I of 3 and a half years broke up 4 months ago and as any other person I was lonely, however, I didn't jump to the chance of having as many things as I pleased. A couple of months ago I met Ryan through some friends, an... (374 words)

Sooooo hungry but I can't eat. HELP!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. So here's my problem, about 3 weeks ago It started. Every time I eat meat, or anything that has a sauce on it or is greasy I either feel naseaus and have a headache or barf. (Dairy doesn't help the predicament because I'm lactose intolerant) Now I know that this site i... (180 words)

My beautiful baby was born dead and I'm finding it very difficult to cope... Please help me...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - On the 27th of February my baby was born dead... I'm finding it very hard to grieve and do anything. I have an 18 month old baby and I can't seem to hold her... I don't know how to go on. Please I need some help. ... (48 words)

What to do in this situation: Boyfriend/friend trouble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - It has been a long time since my boyfriend and best friend spoke to each other. It's not the solution I wanted and it was certainly not what I wanted to happen, nevertheless suggesting it. 6 months ago, they were so close together. So close that my boyfriend would just liter... (488 words)

She really wants me to go to her party... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my best friends is going to invite me to her party. I want to come and I know I can come but the thing is I'm not really friends with the people she is inviting. Some of them are total bitches to me and she doesn't know that. A couple of the guys, I had crushes on them ... (80 words)

Help me before this teacher crush turns into a obsession....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well firstly I was one of the first people to meet him years ago. I think it was love at first sight (I know it sounds cheesy but just bear with me) I developed a crush on him for months because he was the sweetest guy I'd ever met in my whole life. Like the time I was hungry, ... (331 words)

Opinions please... How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call herself lesbian or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call herself lesbian or bi? For 7 years now I been lovers with a very hot and sexual woman. I give her oral sex all the time and we have hot make-out sesions. I lust after her, I always try to cut ... (138 words)

He cheated because he thought I did!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for six years. I am 34 and he is 28 we have a 4 year old and 8 month old. He has commitment problems. We get in a fight and leaves to his sisters for like 5-9 days then comes home for about two weeks and the cycle repeats itself. A couple of months ... (315 words)

What happened to me????? Sexual harassment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok now last October I went to a lock-in. And this boy in my class was there. During the dance he came up to me and tried to make me dance with him but I said no and my BFF told him to leave me alown.(I don't like him he's like a really bad boy). He came back a second time and I ... (175 words)

I have a crush on my female best friend but I have a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I really like my best friend. -Story behind the question- You see I've been bi for some time now, and well all my friends are bi too... everyone knows all of us are bi but we don't normaly like each other... You see We all do have boyfriends, and we are all very hap... (186 words)

If it was so innocent why hide?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

23 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A couple of nights ago I walked into my bedroom and my wife frantically attempted to hide her phone beneath some laundry she was folding. When I reached for the phone there was the name Antonia. She went on to tell me that it was some chick she met on an online virtual life ... (135 words)

Am I asking too much to tell her NOT to see the "friends" she cheated on me with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend that I'm still with cheated on me about a year ago and we have been fighting more and more now. She cheated on me with her friend "lets call her the Bitch" that's a girl and her boyfriend and now my GF can't understand why I don't want her to hang out with them ... (183 words)

Does he just want to be friends or does he like me more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that I like. I asked him to hang out with me a while back, and he seemed pretty nervous around me, like I could tell, and so could my friends. Also, when he was just around me, it seemed like he couldnt think of anything to say, and he'd just be really shy, but ... (252 words)

I really want to be in porn!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want to be in porn. It's my dream. What do I do. I'm even on chatrooms where I meet up for all sorts of sex with all sorts of people and send photos of me. Everyone says I'm a stunner and I really just really want to be a porn star. Advice please!?... (55 words)

Why can't I get on with my life? I can't function!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know I need to move on and forget my bf because we just don't see eye to eye which I could live with but he can't. Why is it so hard for me to move on? I have at least 5 guys asking me out a week but I don't want to go out with anyone. Even my ex bf from 3 years ago wants ... (187 words)

I have to let him go due to his jealousy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my boyfriend so much and I know he loves me. But I know I have to let him go due to his jealousy. He gets very upset when other men say hello to me and then he withdrawals from me completely. I dont know why he is like this. I guess he is afraid that I will hurt him ... (343 words)

Recently I have started having feelings for my friend's gf and iI don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - my best best friend has a gf. they have been dating for quite a while now. a year and a bit in fact. they are very happy and are intimate. i myself have a gf but we never talk and the love just isn't there. recently i have started having feelings for my friends gf and i dunno ... (64 words)

I just need to know what to do to get this person to fall back in love with me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this girls for about a year on and off. Recently we lived together and I started to feel taken advantage of so we decided to live seperately and still date. Well we both say we love each other but yet she doesn't show a lot of emotion twords me unless I do s... (162 words)

I'm really falling for my friend with benefits!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and he's 15. We're friends with benefits! It started about a year ago with just fingering, then oral, then vaginal sex in all different positions and then anal. Now we just do whatever whenever. I think I'm falling for him, he's so lovely and funny and such a good ... (109 words)

The waiting game is driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are trying to get pregnant. We had sex when I was ovulating. Can you take a pregnancy test before you period is actually due? I'm not due until April 2, but the waiting game is driving me crazy.... (42 words)

I was too drunk to remember what I'd done!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, my sister is 15. She's dating a 16 year old who has a 14 year old sister, 24 year old brother and a 26 year old step brother. My sister's bf had a massive birthday party for his 16th and I was invited as I'm friends with his younger her sister. There was alcohol at his ... (216 words)

Is there any way I can get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my girlfriend around 4 months ago. She found out after reading texts on my phone. I regret what i've done so much and i know i love her but i cant prove it to her anymore. We've been 'staying friends' since, but its on and off. Is there any way i can get her back... (67 words)

I've never been in this situation and I really do love this girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - about 3 weeks ago a the girl i love told me she loved me, it took her a course of three days to say it, first day she explained she was scared, becasue she didnt think she wouldnt fall in love again, second day she says she mite love me to death, 3rd day she finally said it, ... (271 words)

OMG my life is such a mess!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya ;) well right my mum's married to this guy who i actualli hate like not dislike he hates me too and if i ask my mum a question he will always but in and earlier my mum was telling me off and i said well why are you shouting at me and then he told her that she didn't n... (213 words)

Maybe I should just tell the guy I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So really like this guy who I've been friends with for ages. He used to really like me but now fancies one of my taken best friends...I don't know what to do, sometimes I think there's a chance he might still like me but I'm scared he'll just say he's in love with my friend ... (123 words)

I cannot buy one that is exclusively a sex toy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have read on this forum about girls using the handle of brushes and other items such as shampoo botthes for personal pleasure and experimentation. I went shopping and could not find anything that looked reasonable, It need not look realistic in shape but the size needs to b... (97 words)

Controlling Ex Husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice on how to handle my controlling ex husband. I was married for 15 years and have 3 children. The oldest of my children is 14 and the youngest 6. My ex wont give up. He is in complete denial. He says there is no way that I don't love him. He says it makes no diff... (230 words)

Why do my friends and himself won't tell me why he stopped talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this boy about a year ago in the summer, when I went back down South to see my old friends. He's a friend's friend, and we hit it off straight away. It's just a friendship, he was basically in love with the friend that introduced us. After a while, our friends started ... (489 words)

Is there anything I can do to help him see our problems are fixable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. I am his first serious relationship, and he is my first adult relationship. We are both very stubborn and always feel we are right. When we speak calmly, we can understand the other person's point of view, but it t... (313 words)

If I tell him that I am in love with him would it jepordise our friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently met up with this guy who i hadn't seen in years i really like him and would love for something to happen between us, should i tell him how i feel. if so how should i tell him, i know it sounds silly but i've never told someone something like that. if i tell him tha... (86 words)

I'm so unhappy in my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid For the last two years, I've been unhappy. During my finals at uni, this guy who I used to date contacted me after a long period. He said he liked me and wanted to date. To be honest I couldn't jeopardize my studies, I think at the time I was scared what coul... (332 words)

Should I tell him why I'm mad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i found out that this bo at m high school liked me. i wasnt really intrested in him at first, but friends conviced me to give hima chance. Just befor the march break we started talking and i decided to give him my number. we texted and talked on the phone and it seem... (156 words)

Why does my friend always start conversations like this? It really annoys me!

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 months and i really really really like him. A few days ago my friend and i were talking and she asked me to describe how i really feel towards him and that i cant just say i love him so i did (well the best i could) then she ... (244 words)

Broke up still sleeping together, but he says we shouldn't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone shed some light.... My boyfriend finished with me a few weeks ago and since then we have continued sleeping with each other, i am still crazy about him and it was my fault we broke up, we argued a lot. It's obvious he still cares about me and there is a big attracti... (130 words)

13 year age difference an acceptable age gap?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Once both parties are legal, is 13 years an acceptable age gap? Some people say it's gross or awkward, but my parents had an age difference of 14 years (they ended up getting divorced, but not because of that...). WHat do you think?... (43 words)

Is it normal for a guy to get mad, then run away & hide?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age - Is it normal for your boyfriend to get really mad and then run away and hide. Is it normal for him to take it to the extreme and go away on a vacation without you. Yes I know this is stress related and he is angry but I would think he would rather make memories with the one ... (230 words)

Husband refuses to pull his weight

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with my husband. We have known each other for about 2 1/2 years and have been married for about 7 months now. We have been through a lot together, and I have recently immigrated to be with him, and am now trying to get my papers etc. I love him very much. ... (348 words)

Abnormal nipple erection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21, female, single. I have a problem of abnormal erection of my nipples. I have good firm breasts but only my right breast nipple erects and becomes really hard while the other nipple remains the same i.e. it does not errect. Please advise in this regard as it is very ... (55 words)

Is a girl sending him photos of herself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14. My boyfriend is 17. I found loads and LOADS MEANS LOADS of porn on his laptop. I came off straight away, but can't stop thinking about it! He asked me to show me my vagina on webcam anf i refused! Some of the pictures look like from phones and have come from the "my ... (72 words)

Will he get back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Will he get back to me? The other day I discovered my "man" still had feelings for his ex. I truly love him and told him I would be prepared to wait for him, but seeing I was also a bit annoyed with him I also told him I didn't know when I would see him again. Anyway, I havn... (95 words)

My husband gropes my best friend when he's drunk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help!! My husband and I went to the Island for Spring Break 2009. We all got relevantly drunk but apparently my husband surpassed his limits. My best friend told me at the end of the night that my husband had groped her ass and tits while we were out and about. Stating ... (150 words)

Erection problems... Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now, and whenever we try to have sex, it won't happen. Whenever he puts the condom on he loses his erection and can't get it back to put it back on again. It's happened around 10 times now and it's fustrating us both! ... (105 words)

My life is full of tragedies, sadness and crises. Do we all suffer or do some of us suffer more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) age 51-59 - My life is full of tragedies, sadness and crises. Not caused by me. It's the kind of things what just happens to you, without you causing it... One bad luck, after the other. I'm not even trying to complain on this any more, but I'm just really interested to know, what is ... (151 words)

Is he a woman beater

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my friend is with this guy and they claim they "love" eachother but everytime i talk to him he's always saying that he';s got to prove to his gf whom is also my friend that he loves her because she's said! this is getting really pathetic tbh and the other day he told me ... (190 words)

He's cheated on me before and I'm sure he'll cheat again, I just don't know what to do any more...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (he's 20) was really sweet since we got back together but now he's starting to be mean again. I asked him why he treats me so bad but he just gets mad and says that he treats me right. His ex which he had 2 kids with keeps calling my house and every time I ask him ... (261 words)

Yesterday I was working and my boss had sex with me, he's 70.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just need to let this all out, it feels like a huge burden to carry and I feel so upset, dirty and alone. Okay, I am 17 and at collage, I have a Saturday job in a small family run shop nearby. Yesterday I was working and my boss had sex with me, he's 70. I couldn't do ... (144 words)

Is it possible we could get together in the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 11 months broke up because i had gotten bored with our relationship and felt like it was going no where. Im 17 and he is 19. I can see us together later on but just not right now. Do you guys think that we could successfully get back together in the ... (57 words)

I don't want to be made into an idiot..but I'm not sure I trust him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for over 8 months. About 4 years ago, I ended a relationship with a man who turned out to be married (I fully believed him that he was separated and in the process of divorce..it turned out that he was literally living a double life with me and ... (1247 words)

My girlfriend is being really distant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

23 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - She says she's going through a stressful time at the moment with her parents and work. i know it sounds silly but shes stopped putting kisses at the end of her txts and everytime I talk to her it feels like she doesn't want to be talking. I'm scared that she's thinking of ... (89 words)

I got the attention..but now don't want it..I have a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help..i have made a fake msn account and added this guy that ive been speaking to.. the catch is.. i have a boyfriend.. and iv been speaking to this guy but dont feel anything for him, other than i like the attention, but i feel it is too risky to text him off my phone ... (140 words)

Use vibrator for stimulationj want boyfriend involved!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't honestly know how to say this but the other week my boyfriend and I were having anal sex. It's a regular thing. But when he 'pulled out' I emptied my bowels involuntarily. At first I thought something was wrong and my boyfriend was a bit horrified. I know now that ... (105 words)

How to get real results with exercise, diet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hello there! I 'm trying to lose some weight, and I exercise a lot more than I used to. I got a rowing machine, and I go on it everyday, I also go for walks,but I don't seem to lose weight at all, maybe even put some on. With the exercise program I burn around 500 cal,a da... (124 words)

He insists it wasnt serious, but I am upset at the innapropriate texts between my husband and this other woman. I want to confront her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age - I discovered last week that my husband has been texting a woman he has been working with suggestive texts and she likewise. He admitted it has been going on for 2 or 3 months and obviously was careless enough not to delete the ones I discovered. I have NEVER looked at his phone ... (207 words)

He loved me when we couldnt be together, but now that there is a chance for me to live near by he doesn't want me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I know if he has real feelings for me? I met this guy on the internet about 9 months ago. We then started chatting online and webcamming for several months. i then took a chance and flew to Canada and spent a wonderful month with him. it was the most amazing time. We... (361 words)

We want to spend the night together, but we are only 15

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll of been going out with my boyfriend next week for a year, and were both fifteen even though he's almost sixteen, i've still got another 10months to wait. i see him alot and we love each other very much; we know we probably wo't last forever but for the time being were all ... (227 words)

He says he didnt write that email. Could the computer have a virus, or is he lying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Just a couple of hrs ago I was mailing out an Invoice for my partener of 8yrs and opened up his contacts which opened up an old email account of his that was rarely used. I found an email in the drafts folder addressed to Sexy Men Directory. The email said "your a hottie". WOW ... (167 words)

Any tips or tricks to make kissing really great?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hiyas! My bf and I have been together for a little while, but I have found that I don't have any tricks or anything. He immediately found my soft spot in my collarbone, but I don't have anything that can make him go crazy like he does for me. Any tips/tri... (108 words)

He is afraid of commitment and keeps running away. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age - He was hurt so deeply once, not by a woman, that he ran away from everything for years. His life, his friends, his family. He had to start over again from nothing. Now I feel that he is doing this to our relationship. His fear of allowing himself to love and be loved is so ... (332 words)

Some creative and inexpensive ideas for a birthday gift would be appreciated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some birthday gift ideas for my boyfriend of two years. His bday is coming up in exactly one month from today, and I would like some ideas on what to get him. I am leaning more towards making him something, like some arts and craft, cookies, or treating him to a couple ... (68 words)

My husband became suddenly impotent. Any ideas why and what can be done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) age - Hi, I;m really looking foreword,to see your take on my situation... This is about my husband. So we live together 25 years ago, and a few years ago ,my husband went limp suddenly in a middle of an intercourse. It never happened before. We just stopped it, and didn't pay too ... (207 words)

He's not a teacher, just a trainee teacher and not that much older than me. I think this is more than just a crush.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, everyone :) Here goes... For a while now, I have had feelings for a male member of staff at my school. He's not a teacher, but a trainee teacher who takes classes as a supply teacher from time to time. He looks to me in his early twenties. It would be any normal teenage c... (216 words)

My sex life has gone all down hill and I am just 20

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello i'm sorry to give you all of the gory details but i don't know how else to explain it. Well i have been with my boyfriend now for nearly 3 years, I am 20 and he is 21. When we first began having sex it was a great experience for both of us, but within the last year i have ... (159 words)

Torn between my lover and the dream of traveling. What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some help on this. i am 22years old and i live in ireland...ive always wanted to go and work abroad and lately ive been thinking alot about it. i have a girlfriend ive been with for 3years and i am completly torn between what to do...i dont want to lose her, but i al... (187 words)

I really want to get over his cheating, but I don't know how...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend cheated on me back in October, two girls in two nights, and I still haven't gotten over it. I told him I forgive him, because I love him, but since then it hasn't been the same. I really want to get over this, but I don't know how.... (54 words)

My does my cousing keep touching my bum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, so for quite a while my male cousin who has a girlfriend has whenever he sees me touched my bum, or grabs it slightly. So I saw him in a club and he touched it every now and then and I've never said anything or reacted in any kind of way because I didn't want to make a ... (88 words)

Why do I go back to him? Do I just get lonely and go back to the ex because I can?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hmm, okay here goes. So I'm 17 and have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. I'm the one who has done the breaking up in the past. We broke up at the end of august last year after being together 6 months, because by the end I just wasn't happy at all and ... (650 words)

Does Enzite REALLY work?

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is there any way to make your penis larger. I hear about things like enzite and all these others that make it bigger but do they really work? Do you have to keep taking them to keep it big, does it just make your erection big, or does it make your erection and flacid penis ... (84 words)

B/f has aspergers syndrome..what can I do to help him?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I was wondering if there is anyone out there whose parter has mild Aspergers syndrome. My boyfriend whom I love deeply and would do anything for, has this condition. I would really apprieciate ideas on how to help and support him. Recently hes been stressed due to a ... (445 words)

How long until we have sex?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I just started seeing this guy. He seems very nice, and cool ... little bit of a party animal, but I don't mind. We went for 2 dates .. kissed .. and at the second one he did ask me, if he can come upstairs, but I said no ... he didn't push. Anyhow .. how long do ... (128 words)

His friend Katie is getting to close to him for comfort!

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. I love him to pieces. I'm not a jealous girlfriend and I know I can trust him but he has this friend called Katie and she fancies him. She is all over him all the time. She tried to kiss him in front of me but he knocked her back. ... (67 words)

How can I know if he truly loves me?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m a 16 year old girl, people always say that I have a beautiful face and generally boys are attracted to me… but there is this one guy, he’s 2 years older than me, we go to the same high school but we don’t talk that much; I know that may sound crazy, but the first time I ... (304 words)

Where can I find a serious woman?

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, Well these days and times everyone is into scandalous dating and non-serious relationships around my age group(18-22). I myself am 18 and I've looked far and wide to find someone who wants to have a serious relationship. I've been told by girls I'm physically attractive so ... (113 words)

I want a permanent future!

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend had several girl's numbers in his cell. We have been together for over a year. I finally got the nerve to ask him why he still had them in his cell. When I did he got really mad! He said I bring drama because a few weeks ago I had asked him if he was serious ... (204 words)

Should I be happy that even though he goes out and he gets female attention it's me he wants?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is gorgeous. He has the charm to go with it that's why I love him so much. Thing is he has lots of friends, female ones too! And I seem to have a problem with this. I know that they fancy him and would love to be with him he gets a lot of attention from females as ... (111 words)

Why does my boyfriend have bi desires?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together for almost two years and since we've lived together I've discovered alot about him I didn't know. I was curious when I noticed he had naked pictures of himself in his photo files. When I confronted him about it he just blew it off and said he was just bored ... (335 words)

I don't know what to do... Should I have sex with him?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Let's just get straight to the point, I'm nearly 14 and I've been seeing this lad for just over 3 weeks, he's nearly 16, but the thing is he wants sex even though he says he's ready when I'm ready. Sometimes I think he will dump me if I don't have sex with him even though when ... (131 words)

My husband allowed me to have sex with someone else

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband allowed me to have sex with someone else. Could he love me?... (16 words)

Can't get a job and feel worthless!

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I lost my job to the recession and credit crunch in September and I have been unable to land another job. I've applied for hundreds of jobs. I've had one interview and the rest never bother getting back to me. I even tried to get a job at a place I worked at (for five ... (179 words)

Her libido is way off the richter scale!!!

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my fiancee for two and a half years. I couldn't ask for a better lady. She's intelligent and absolutely stunning. The thing is though, she has a massive sex drive. She's never satisfied with just vaginal intercourse, she has to have anal intercourse as well. Now,... (160 words)

Do I tell her my feelings and gauge how she feels or should I leave it?

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23 March 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I am married with a daughter of 11. I share my bills, a house and a daughter but there is no love-hugs kisses or anything else. There is always an excuse for not having sex or even hugs. She would rather do the housework or watch the TV. I do a lot around the house and help my ... (148 words)

Were we ever meant to be?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, the problem is that I cannot get him out of my mind. What should I do? Besides, I know he is still in love with me because when I asked him to help me forget him he got very sad that he even stopped chatting with me. Someti... (127 words)

I don’t understand why he won’t grab the chance with me

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Does anyone have any advice please on emotionally distant or emotionally unavailable people? I am certain that my man is one of these people. We have known each other for 18 years (we met when we were 18 and are now 36) and during that time we have developed what I th... (456 words)

My friend seems to have got very distant with me.

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend and I have known each other since we were about 8-9, we have been close since we met each other. Used to have a right laugh, tell each other everything. Obviously we used to have loads of other friends. But just recently she seems to be getting distant. She never ... (139 words)

Is it ok for them to share a bed?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, my boyfriend's friend who is female is staying at his house... Before I met him I met him through her they were really good friends.. She used to tell me that she used to stay at his house and they shared a bed but didn't do anything. She has been with her boyfrien... (145 words)

Need help with overcoming past hurt to move into a great new relationsip

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a great guy for about a month and a half now, for some reason we started having these silly tiffs, and when things started getting a little out of hand we decided to give each other a some space to figure out what the root of this problem could be... I re... (160 words)

I told him once, should I tell him again 2 years later?

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23 March 2009 (F)

- Hi, I don't know what to do. I'm 14 and I really like this guy, the thing is please don't say you're too young because I'm sure when you were my age you were interested in boys. Okay he's in loads of my classes at school, they always make fun of me and things but one day when ... (195 words)

I'm trying to train him not to treat me as a sex object!

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Need advice. The ex rang and wanted to be with me sexually last night after avoiding me for an entire week..yes 7 days.. so I said no cos I wanted him to understand he can't just creep back into my life like that and expect me to go with him just cos he is lonely and wanting ... (383 words)

Follow up: Advice taken many thanks

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23 March 2009 (F)

age - well i get my tests done tomorrow(should i get tested 12th March 09) it will put my mind at ease whatever they reveal, hopefully i will be clear of any infections will keep you posted,thanks to all that replied to previous post you all gave great advice. ... (47 words)

I don't want to be intimate with him, and he is upset about this

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been married for 17 years, and I thought I am the one and only in his life. He had recently started a new job that requires really long hours, he practically disappeared from my life and our son's life, it affected our relationship, but I never thought that he can be chea... (119 words)

Loving girlfriend but all I can think about is her exes

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im in a loving relationship with my girlfriend. When we started going out everything was great and I was never worried or jealous of previous sexual partners but as we are together longer I get more and more jealous. We are lesbians and because she has been with men be... (205 words)

She doesn't want me to perform oral sex on her

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months and have a healthy sex life. Just recently I've wanted to find more ways to pleasure her and one being eating/licking her out. She has had a few male previous sex partners, one being who she let do this to her but I have ... (108 words)

He left and came back! Should I believe him?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and married. He is 22 years old. We have been together for about 3 years now. Last year i got pregnant and thats why we got married. My mom kind us forced us too which was kind of stupid of us to let her do that. So everything started when i came home 4 days... (513 words)

Natural problem for a virgin guy with foreskin?

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and a virgin, I've got a problem with my foreskin, see it covers my penis head while erect, while not erect i can pull it down (obviously for hygienic purpose). Also sometimes it gets erect and the foreskin gets pulled down but it feels painful and the erection goes ten... (78 words)

When its good its really good

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always had problems with depression and expressing my emotions. I had a troublesome relationship with my father in my childhood and it seems to have manifested into my adult life as causing me problems expressing how i feel, depression and generally lack of confidence. ... (263 words)

8 years of marriage..6 with no intimacy!

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help!!!! I have been married for 8 years, six of which have been void of intimacy. My husband can't even hold my hand or give me a hug!!! We have had sex once in six years !!!!!!!!!!! We have had counselling which has in no way helped. I have a 5 year old daughter who h... (143 words)

Should I try and move on by dating other guys?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im in love with a guy but he ended it with me a few days ago he says he still loves me but then just today he told me he doesnt like me more then a friend because i pissed him off to much but it wasnt me pissing him off because id come home from his each weekend all teary n ... (154 words)

I am a virgin so this type of thing bothers me

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a virgin guy 24 years old. I was on a trip few months back to some outstation.It was a group of some people so it was a nice time. We all slept in a single big room each time. I usually sleep wearing a payjama without underwears. So one day while I was sleeping... (192 words)

This way too confusing....please help

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well my best friend since 3rd grade told me the other day that he was bi-sexual i have no problem with that , i see nothing wrong with being gay or bi. I am however straight male and a couple months before he finally told me , i noticed when we spent time together he would flir... (346 words)

Did my behavior push him away?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some serious advice here... I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and I don't know what to think. I have been a little clingy, asking him to stay over more, trying to make love more(usually after one time he is spent:(), and calling him as soon as he is off... (175 words)

If you have no periods does it mean that you are not ovulating?

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23 March 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hi. If you have periods does it mean that you are ovulating, i had no periods or at least one every 6 mts untill about a year ago im confused as some say yes and some no. Is it possible to have them and not ovulate?x... (46 words)

Vaginal infections from fingering or oral sex?

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, well me and my girlfriend have just started trying out oral sex and fingering as well. But my girlfriend is worried that she could get infected by it. Can she get vaginal infections from oral sex or fingering? if so whats the risk? is it a high risk? any comments would b... (59 words)

What do I do with a verbally abusive alcoholic spouse

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - what should i do?? We have been married slightly over three years now and he was an alcoholic before i met him with a whole bunch of issues from his childhood and parents breaking up to pressure of his father's 'empire' today plus society pressure and all that jazz that c... (560 words)

I'm screwing it up and it kills me

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in love with my best friend for about a 2 years. i finally told her how i felt and after about 2 months she broke up with her boy friend and made it pretty clear she wanted be with me. so i was stoked and for about 6 weeks it was really great. then all the sudden it go... (168 words)

Is 30 years old, OLD?

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23 March 2009 (F) age 41-50 - is 30 years old ,old? because i think its old. ... (12 words)

Should I tell my mate from soccer about her behaviour with this other guy at work?

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. Difficult situation at work. One of my mates from the after work soccer team is dating a rather attractive women who works in my department. He works around the other side of the building. When her boss is away I increasingly see her spending time (15 minutes here, 30... (290 words)

Tips on making love longer?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi how can i help my boyfriend stay on making love a longer? ... (18 words)

Why am I so selfish?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 22 and I have been in a relationship for a little over two years, but lately i have started to realize that i am being selfish. My boyfriend is beginning to get fed up with me...he pointed out today that i dont do anything for him, simple things mostly...i just dont know... (173 words)

Should I transfer to be with my boyfriend?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I transfer schools,leave my family and friends (birthplace) just to live with my boyfriend that is in the Navy?... (20 words)

I'm holding on to a shred of hope

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23 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I really dont know how to get through this on my own any more, and none of my family or friends seem to know how to help so if anyone out there can tell me something, anything that will make this hurt a little less it will mean the world to me. my ex and i(of almost two year... (597 words)

He sees everything in black & white..no hope of us getting back together

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my fiance and i just broke because he doesnt want a family and i have a 2 1/2 month old baby and he said that he isnt in love with me any more. he said he still wants to be friends but with benefits. and i agreed to it cuz we are both madly attracted to each other and i still ... (261 words)

He doesn't feel the same, he still has a thing for his ex

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 5 months and he warned me from day one that he didn't want to hurt me. I told him I wouldn't let him but I don't know anymore. He told me that he and his girlfriend broke up two months before and that he was still in love with her. I like him a ... (348 words)

I gave her a ring, she calls me pet names and then starts dating someone else!

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and she is 21.I was going out with my ex for 4 years.She is hot and when i gaved her a ring she wanted for years she says I'm going out with someone else.it hurt me for so long.For some reason she calls me by my nicknames she gave me like boo boo,robert boo ... (109 words)

Parenting advice wanted!

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. i was wondering if anyone has parenting advice? i am 22 weeks pregnant and terrified. any advice about birth, raising a baby, names for the baby, or the portion of the pregnancy comming up would be greatly appreciated.... (40 words)

I lied about my debt problems so I wouldn't lose her! She left me...help!

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my fiance' for three years. She moved here from another state to be with me. Being recently divorced, I am broke. I did not want to lose her so I continued to spend money and shower her with "things". I charged more. Became more in debt. I lied about my ... (95 words)

How long after you had unprotected sex do you know if your pregnant?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How long after you had unprotected sex do you know if pregnant.If I got my period this month? I really don't want to be pregnant:/ because hopefully I'm going to graduate from high school this year:)... (40 words)

How do you start up a long distance relationship?

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl on a cruise just this spring break. We hit it off really well, I had asked her at dinner if they were going to the club and they said they were. Right before they had shown up I asked for some salsa music so I could dance with my friends fiancee. She walked in ... (330 words)

Can using a vibrator ruin your vagina?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - would using a vibrator ruin my vagina? would it give me BV or would the vibrating make it look different than a regular vigina?... (24 words)

He came on so strong in the beginning but then backed off??

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and i broke up sort of mutually and then i wanted to work it out and he didn't think it was possible...for several weeks i tried (asked him out to dinner and he always accepted and we would talk but it always ended up the same with him not wanting to get back together) ... (401 words)

Met online, had great time but now he says it won't work?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age - hi met this gut on line dating been out over past 5 weeks chemistry is there he said hed fallen in love with me from the moment he saw me now he says it wont work hes a lovely guy and id like it to work what advice can you give i miss him... (54 words)

I'm straight but want to experiment with gay sex! How do I go about this?

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a straight, 20 year old, virgin male. I'm insanely horny but have been unsuccessful by all means. I have always been turned on by gay porn, but always was attracted just to the sexuality of it, not the fact that it was men, and I never had any intention of acting on it. ... (97 words)

He gave me permission to have sex with other guys! Does he love me?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long disatnce relationship and my boyfriend gave me permission to have sex with other guys. Is this a bad thing or does he love me? I love him very much... (34 words)

My kids deserves a better dad who is there to support and confide in them who is not part time.

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in the post pardum stage but not sure if my feelings have to do with any of the decisions I've made. My kids dad and I have been in and out of relationship. We are cool and one point and here we go... big blown argument. Past issues come up, etc. What hurts, I asked ... (309 words)

I still can't get my ex out of my head!

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23 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Me and my ex boyfriend split up 3 years ago and I still cannot get over him. I've been with other men, but in the back of my mind it's always him. We still talk, and lately he's told me he still has feelings for me, but then after telling me he ignored me for about a month. I... (67 words)

My period only lasts 3 days and I never get cramp, is this normal?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this isn't a relationship question, it's actually about my periods. I'm a 23 year old woman, have slept with three guys in the past, including the guy I am currently dating (we've been together for two years and seven months now). I've never taken birth control and probably ... (184 words)

Period pain and cramps.

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What is going on with me? I'm 13 and I've had my period since I was 10 years old. Last night I started for this month and I was getting ready for bed at about 1 am, I love staying up late on weekends and I couldn't fall asleep. I got the worst cramps I have ever gotten in my ... (116 words)

What to say on a first date?

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23 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm asking out a girl but if she says yes I have nothing to say after so can y'all give me some ideas???... (25 words)

I don't believe in god, how can I tell my parents?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known that I don't believe in god for about 5 years now. At first I felt terrible about it, but then I found out that a few of my friends don't either and we talked and now I'm okay with it. The problem is I don't know how to tell my parents. We don't go to a church very ... (106 words)

Am I wrong to leave or should I stay for our youngest daughter, who also tells me to leave him.

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been married for over 21 years to the same man we have 2 children one is 21 the other is 12. I've found several signs of my husband cheating on me and I'm ready to leave but I just don't know if it's the right thing to do. I guess because we've been together for so ... (159 words)

He cheated... now what?

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need all the help I can get! I just went on my boyfriend's myspace and he's been cheating, what the hell do I do? I'm scared, it's been happening for a couple months. I'm so stupid, why didn't I see it before? What can I do? I'm having his baby and I'm worried about what ... (134 words)

I REALLY want to go with him to the prom!

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I had this boyfriend in 8th grade named Darell but I broke up with him after a few weeks because either I got scared or I just realized I didn't like him like that. I don't know .. it was something stupid. We were like 12 after all. Anyway, I'm a senior now and prom sea... (228 words)

I found my boyfriend and his ex in bed together today!!!

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 2 months (that I was really starting to fall for) cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. They are friends and have been since they broke up. I found them in bed together today. He said they went out and got really drunk, so drunk that he doesn't remember ... (136 words)

I want to call him just to say hello, and see if that connection is still there between us.

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23 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who is relatively new. We get along great, and I have a lot of fun with him. Also our relationship has a lot of passion in it. But I have realized that passion is only temporary, and I'm starting to think What's going to happen down the road? I'm not in... (350 words)