New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244961 questions, 1084299 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in March, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (129), 2 (148), 3 (132), 4 (104), 5 (111), 6 (107), 7 (99), 8 (118), 9 (147), 10 (128),
11 (140), 12 (137), 13 (111), 14 (78), 15 (135), 16 (107), 17 (105), 18 (116), 19 (129), 20 (98),
21 (100), 22 (121), 23 (135), 24 (114), 25 (116), 26 (108), 27 (98), 28 (103), 29 (123), 30 (151),
31 (125),

Archived questions from: 10 March, 2009 (see latest questions)

(More questions from March, 2009)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When is it time to call the marriage quits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - When do you know its time to call it quits? I know people change especially after 20+ years but how long do you hang in when you feel nothing. When you look at this person and don't have anything to say or want to be in the same room. When you dread the weekends coming ... (177 words)

She grabs me by the neck and just starts making out with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - okay today was very strange and i need some advice from you aunts..' well any ways my life is pretty dull, boring, not full of excitement at all..pretty miserable in fact.. but today i was on the bus and all of a sudden this this really hot girl came out of no where.... (238 words)

How can I control my urges without slipping into addiction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, my question is about porn. I am a recovering porn addict who is currently in the process of trying to break that addiction. From a moral standpoint, I see nothing wrong with porn, masturbation or anything along those lines, so long as they fall within the letter of th... (217 words)

Cheated on while we were engaged, but didn't find out until after we got married.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my husband and i were recently married 2 months ago. a couple days ago i found out that he had sex with a married woman while we were engaged. He has hid this secret from me for so long now that it doesnt even seem real. The only reason he was forced to tell me is because ... (163 words)

Is this girl into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend just broke up with me so I changed my facebook status to single and a girl I have not talked to in along time commented on my wall that she missed me and friends and that she is moving into the area where I live. Does this mean she is into me?... (55 words)

I'm scared that what happened to me before might happen again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - rite ok im not sayin this to get attention or sympathy!..i was sexually assualted and attempted rape on me a few years back! by my ex bf.. my new bf who i been with for almost two years wouldn dream of doin anythin to hurt me. but he started takin up a new fitness regime w... (188 words)

Have a boyfriend but initiating texts with another guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are sooo in love, and have been together a little over a year.. But lately i started speaking to this guy on msn, who, took an interest in me shall i say .. and, foolishly, i began to enjoy this new attention i recieved from him .. now i find myself ... (115 words)

Could this mean that I am gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question. I have had a past that is bugging the heck out of me. What should I do to like keep my mind off of things and just face the fact what i did was wrong? I am 17 soon and around the age 13-15 when i was in the middle of just getting to know about sex and ... (133 words)

Online in the last 30 days..what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this might sound dumb..but what does it mean when a profile dating site says, 'online last 30 days' Does that mean he hasn't logged on just recently, but yes in the last 30 days?... (39 words)

Girlfriend shows no emotion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know why I feel the way I do, and I'm so confused. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months now. But I've always had a few extreme problems. Since our schedules are so busy, we're getting less and less time to talk. That's fine with me, but she rare... (509 words)

I am dreaming of our future and he is thinking of my past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am engaged to be married in less than 6 weeks. I am 30 years old. My fiance is 25. We have been together over 2 years. 90% of the time I am the happiest I have ever been; when he comes in the room I feel myself soften, my body relaxes and I can't help but smile. There is one ... (333 words)

I think I upset my teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm afraid that I've upset my teacher. Our class was in the library today and we were supposed to be doing research for an upcoming project. I'd checked out a few books for it and felt pretty good about the whole thing, so i decided to read my book for english class (i... (351 words)

Trying to explain how I feel to my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do u think about this .....? trying to expalin how i really feel for my boyfriend...what do u think ?any good? hey baby, So its the middle of the night and as always am sitting thinking of you. As you know im not the most romantic person and not that good at ex... (308 words)

Which guy do I go for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so 2 guys like me i really only like one but the other one is making it hard for me to choose because hes being so sweet i know your gonna say go for who you like more but i want something besides that answer please... (51 words)

45 year old stud only wants sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a very sexy man two months ago through a friend of mine.i am 50 he is 45.We had very passionate sex on our 3rd meeting,but afterwards he told me he didin't want a relationship,and he hadn't had one for 10 years. I'v had only 2 partners in 25 years,both of whom where a ... (220 words)

No period since coming off the pill

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i've been on the pill and had unprotected sex with my long term boyfriend. I thought it was a good idea to come off the pill as it was giving me spots and terrible mood swings. Ever since i have come off this pill i haven't had my period. Could i be pregnant?... (59 words)

He loves my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 14 year old girl whos in love. at least, i think its love, ive never felt for anyone like i do for him, he doesnt just give me butterflies, he weakens my knees and melts me, he sends shivers up my spines and i actually care for him. enough to help him hurt me. lets call ... (340 words)

What is going on with this guy and is it over???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Back in September I met this guy at a bar, he was looking at me like no one had ever looked at me before. I decided to talk to him and give him my number. He called me three days later and we went out on our first date. He was really into me and we started seeing one anoth... (380 words)

This is a story of 3 sisters (subitle: Is there a spot in Hell for me?)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I may have seen something similar to this posted here before. This is a story of three sisters. The first one I met was the middle aged sister, I'll call her "2". We met at a party a little over four years ago. We exchanged numbers, called, made plans, w... (1243 words)

I have a huge crush on my teacher - but will not act on it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge crush on my teacher. It's completely harmless and I would never act on it, but honestly, he is exactly what I think a compatible partner should be. Most guys i meet are superficial, or lack hamor and morals. They are not very smart or academic. I imagine it mus... (86 words)

Semen on fingers - could she get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,im 15 and my friend, also 15, is really worried that she is pregnant. Her period hasnt come for 2-3 weeks now. She told me she never has irregular periods, but her mum is never on time. She had been with a guy for a while and she had some sexual contact with him, she told... (158 words)

How do we know when enough is enough?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if two people are in love but cant seem to get they're shit together how do they know enough is enough?... (21 words)

Am I meant to be single, alone and unloved? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - there is a guy i used to know from 6 years ago .he asked me out but i rejected him indirectly .but i did like but i was shy and quiet .he tease me alot but i tease him too.but he a lot girls who liked him and spend time me alot but i didn,t know what to make with it i had no ... (319 words)

Is it OK to take a shower together if you haven't slept with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months, we kiss and that's about all, I want to take thinks slow, he has suggested I stay at his (I think he wants sex) and we can have a nice bath/shower together. Do you think its a good idea to have a bath/shower with someone ... (107 words)

Is he going off me or am I worrying too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and we've moved in with each othere and things are great. Although i don't know if im just being a sex pest but we used to have sex all the time- and now its me that always suggests it. Also once we've done it i want more because I ha... (78 words)

I fear that strippers aren't going to be the only ones catching his fancy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i have been with my boyfriend for ten month in three days and he has changed a lot. When we started dating he didn't hang out with his friends very much even though i told him that he should. He would bring me along sometimes and we would have a blast, and i have become f... (303 words)

Slept with b/f & friend during ovulation time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I slept with two guys around ovulation time. One is my boyfriend who always ejaculates in me and one was a friend. The friend put in his penis for a minute and didnt cum. Now I'm pregnant and dont know who the father is. I'm leaning towards my boyfriend since he came in me that ... (64 words)

It hurts to be with her..it hurts to be without her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 and my girlfriend well ex now got into a fight about her and her ex (he moved away but is comin back next year) okay heres the story she always talks to him which yeah im fine with but she calls him when shes with me and they say sweet things to each other and they say... (214 words)

Was she trying to irk me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - First off I wanna say Hi to everyone on the site. I am slackersace and new to dearcupid. I shall start my career of asking dumb questions now. So heres the thing. I finally worked up enough cahones to ask my favorite Latina sweetie out on a date. Pretty radical right? I thou... (200 words)

Alot of sexual tension but I'm not experienced

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice regarding a fella I have liked for a while. We work together and we started to flirt about three years ago but we never really spoke until about two years ago, we arranged to go out once but he blew me out without an excuse after that we stopped talking.... (221 words)

Boyfriend looks at other women when hes with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for my boyfriend to look at another woman while with me? It really makes me feel awful and I've told him this many times but he doesn't seem to stop. Please help! ... (37 words)

Messing around with other guy but I want to be straight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am a straigh 16 year old male and I have a few things on my mind. I experienced with another guy friend of mine awhile back and i honeslty didnt know what i was doing. and we humped eachother. nipple play. penis play. thats it. nothing with him sucking my penis or anything ... (110 words)

I kissed a guy at work but unsure what to do now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I kissed a guy at work but he got a bit turned on, well very turned on so I pulled away as I kinda got the feeling he wanted more than a kiss and a feel, he keeps suggesting we should do it again, but I just don't know what to do as I am very inexperienced and he is the ... (124 words)

Bring back a lost love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - On Xmas day my Girlfriend of 2 years left me. We where living with her parents while we saved for our own place. The reasons she gave me was because it had become difficult with her family. The relationship was a good one many happy times together we laughed so much. We planned ... (314 words)

My friend took back cheating husband and I'm worried about her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - A friend of mine has gone back to her cheating husband,They've been together since she was 19 (now 27)..married 2 and a half years ago....but after 18 months of marriage discovered him signed up to a dating site arranging to meet up with a girl....so she kicked him out. Afte... (201 words)

Me & best friend had a threesome and now things are kind of strange

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so back in Jan. me and my bestfriend had a three way with this guy that i know and they never meet each other until that night and he came out and picked me up and we went and got her. so when we went back to his house to start up. and after we got done smoked a ciggerett ... (312 words)

Do girls have a scent "down there"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this girl for a while and we are starting to take things a bit further, she wants me to perform oral sex which I am happy to do more than, I have never given oral before and am a little shy about what to expect down below, do girls smell, I mean not like bad ... (75 words)

The guy I like likes my best friend! What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyy everyone, im going through a really hard time, as one of my best friends and i both like this one guy, and typically he likes her! i really like him but he doesnt like me and he likes her and she likes him! she keeps tellin me about all the dates she goes on with him, and ... (68 words)

I think we like each other but we both have expressed our feelings for others

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right I have known this girl now for about 6 months and we are really close now, seriously good friends. Call her Girl A. She is great to talk to and we have always connected in a friendship sort of way. Yes, she is a very easy person for most people to get on with but in ... (827 words)

Men in comitted relationships hanging out with their best friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how often do men in long-term committed relationships with children hang out with their bestfriend? and for how long in a single time? should it only be them or should i be involved as well and how much? (we hav both cheated on each other and this friend tagged along with ... (53 words)

I'm dating but live with my brother and it embarrasses me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello there... I hve just started dating a guy (seen him 6 times now) and we get on really well. Im just so embarrased because I live in rented accomodation with my brother and it gets me down. I cant afford to rent on my own and feel embarrassed asking him to come to mi... (117 words)

Boyfriend has serious weight issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, my boyfriend is having serious weight issues, he is 15 and is 6ft, he refuses to weigh himself, so we dont actually know how much he weighs, but that isnt the question, the question is how much Should he actually weigh? I want to get into his head he isnt over weig... (100 words)

My boyfriend's friend is a scumbag

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i hate my boyfriends best friend he's a scumbag and a bad influence on my bf sometimes we have kids what should i do? ... (26 words)

Afraid of falling in love again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am afraid of falling in love again! I have been with someone recently and I think I'm falling in love again! He is struggling financially and so am I. I tried to break up with him but I could not see it through and I am sure he feels the same. Any suggestions we... (68 words)

Curious: how long do guys in LT committed relationship hang out with their best friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how often do guys in long-term committed relationships hang out with their best friends? and for how long in a single time?... (22 words)

He doesn't hug me but is all over his mates

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im going out with this guy for two moths now and we really love each other. but he'll never tell me whats bothering him he just puts his guard up and stresses at me and now hes always stressed about sumat coz our group of friends have had an argument and split up and his best ... (208 words)

Meeting the parents - am I reading too much into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for all! My boyfriend and I are planning something special for Mother's Day weekend. That's about two months away! We looked at a brochure and he said..Let's do it! I agreed and we made the reservation. I thought guys would get scared if a girl planned ahead?..... (113 words)

What happened with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - thankyou all to your answers.following my previous quuestion. still didnt get a clear answer ...i would like to make it really really clear as i wanted very straight forward answer..this guy came to my bed randomally and surprised me ...i didnt even show him any sign of ... (591 words)

Sick and inappropriate prank makes me want to divorce him!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was told by the army 4 weeks ago that my husband was killed in Iraq. I became depressed, and started over-eating, and constantly crying, wishing he'd come back. However, I was sickened to find out the whole thing was a hoax about a week ago. I also found out that it wa... (124 words)

She said she loves me but not ready for a relationship. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - She said she loves me, but isnt ready for a relationship, how can i approach this? so last week the girl i love told me she loved me it was probably one of the greatest feeling in the world to hear that from her mouth, but as a couple days went by she told me she didn't w... (258 words)

What do the words "I love you" mean and why would you say it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do the words "I love you" mean and why would you say it?... (14 words)

Am I blinded by love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After My Divorce I went wild and said just what every other girl says when they have been through hell, I will never love again. I met a guy in December that has just taken every inch of my heart, and I’m not sure if it’s in the best entrees for me to love him. When we fir... (794 words)

What should I make of his remarks and what would you do about them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together over a year now. I asked my boyfriend if he was serious about me. Our circumstances have not changed. He still has no job, still drinks a lot and has not hinted around any about marriage. His answer to my question was this "yes I am, I'm ... (151 words)

We split up but he won't leave me alone even although I have moved on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this guy who talks to all these girls on msn and by phone he has never met them, and always agrees to meet them which never actually takes place, when I was with him he still talked to them and went to them with his problems instead of coming to me, when I was his ... (155 words)

He knows! And now I don't know what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Um... okay. I like this boy (call him Danny), that much is blatantly obvious. His best friend (my best friend's boyfriend) found out and has told him and Danny didn't believe him!! I suggested showing Danny the texts on his phone (but then he got grounded so I don't know if he ... (185 words)

I'm dying to know how he feels about me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I love a guy very much from last two years.... He is a very nice guy... He is my good friend... We both have a nice time together.... Even our friends tease us that we both are attracted towards each other..... sometimes he doesn't like when our friends tease us but ... (96 words)

Is it true if you haven't yet started your period you can still get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, umm is it true if you haven't started your periods you can still get pregnant? of course you ave to use a condom but I was just wondering if this was true. thankz... (39 words)

She wants to cheat on her fiance with me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey People! Need some help and advice! Im Male and iv got this female friend who has been flirting with me more and more, she has a bf and is engadged to marry him.... Shes cheated on him before and he forgave her now she wants to cheat on him with me... She wont leave me al... (98 words)

He has terrible habits, which I know I can't change, yet still wish I could!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need a guys point of view i have fallen for one of my guy friends.. now this crush has been going on [forever] (we have kissed drunk) but he goes normal/ strange with me he also smokes bongs most nights, but hes such a lovely guy.. people say im smart, hilarious, friend... (124 words)

Am I reading into this or could there really be true feelings?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been interested in this man for about 3 years. I never thought I would ever get a chance to talk to him because I am just way too shy. Last summer I was out with some friends and he happened to come in to the place where we were hanging out. I knew right then and ther... (595 words)

When a girl starts to orgasm, should I keep touching her until she's finished?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question Ive always wondered about. Whenever a girl starts to have an orgasm do they want/need the guy to keep on touching them to keep it going or once its started does it just go by itself? I know for a guy if i started to orgasm and then just stopped masterba... (157 words)

My face feels numb when we have sex...what's causing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When i have sex with my boyfriend i get a pins and needles sensation in my face. Like its numb. Not everytime. But often. I dont orgasm through sex so what is this? ... (33 words)

My boyfriend is emotionally abusive, but I don't know how to leave him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Ok I have a boyfriend who is almost 26 years old, we've been together for 1 and 1/2years. For half this time though he has been emotionally abusive but tries to disguise it as "joking" comments. He orders me what to do, says we are moving across the continen... (454 words)

Should I continue to justify my resentment, or should I just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know I have a huge anger problem. I have had this problem since I was little. I know the cause of the problem; I just don’t know how to plan for a positive outcome. I know that a lot of my problem comes from early childhood when my mother and I were inseparable. My mother ... (473 words)

What do I do when I'm on top?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never done the girl on top position and always felt a little self conscious about it. Like what exactly am I supposed to do? Do I go up and down or move back and forth? I dont want to appear fat to him and I dont want him to be grossed out. Also, how do I know when to ... (65 words)

Should I move on or go to the next level?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

10 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with a woman for 7 years and she's 37, im 28 now. recently [last november] i went to jail for 3months and was released a couple of weeks ago i come home and she tells me she has a friend and that me and her can be friends i told her i wanted to marry her ... (216 words)

Could anyone give me some tips on how to improve my appearance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all.. i was just wondering. its my 19th birthday coming up next week and im going out for a meal and into town clubbing afterwards. i no im not very pretty, i also dont wear much makeup apart from alight foundation and mascara and a bit of light blusher and lipglo... (230 words)

My husband is adamant that we will not be having any more kids. I don't understand this! Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am happilly married with 2 gorgeous kids (one boy one girl) I am desperate to have another baby but my husband has said that he is done. He has said that it is either our marriage or another baby. I put it to him if i got pregnant - would he leave me and he said that yes, ... (102 words)

Will it ruin our friendship if I confess my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm deeply in love with one of my closest friends. She is a co-worker. I think that she has feelings for me as well, and the major reason nothing happened before is that we worked in the same office. We no longer work in the same office however we do still have regular ... (147 words)

Do you think my ex's rebound relationship will last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age - my ex and i where frineds after our brake up and the friendship was going better. he always wanted to be there for his step kids. he always said they where his. now his new girlfriend of 5 weeks has told him he can't be friends with me or be there for the kids he loves. that... (170 words)

Our long distance relationship is taking its toll on us, how do we stop the silly arguments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years we met while on holiday and live 200 miles apart we are in love and do want to be together but the distance is takin its tole on us. He moved in 3rd december and he recently moved back home because he missed family ... (148 words)

I feel like my boyfriend is trying to push me away.....Is he trying to get rid of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The relationship I have with my boyfriend is slowly falling apart and I don't know what to do. We have been together for a year and in the beginning it was wonderful, he was so affectionate, loved to just talk to me about anything, so interested in what I had to say. Last Octo... (358 words)

This girl is blowing hot and cold all the time but I still want to get to know her better.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - As the title explains, there's a girl at my uni that I like. In the past month or so, we've hooked up a lot - including staying with each other twice (although nothing's happened) other than passionate kissing. Anyway, I've asked her out a few times - the first time, she ... (396 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years, and immediately regretted my decision. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex for 2 1/2 years. We had a good relationship.. barely ever fought. I think we both just started getting bored with the relationship and decided to go our separate ways. Right after we split I regretted the decision and tried to fix things but he wasnt having ... (191 words)

I don't understand why I don't have a boyfriend. Help please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't understand why i don't have a boyfriend. it seems like ever since i broke up with my boyfriend of two years i cant seem to find another boyfriend..i mean i have been in relationships after that but they just have all gone wrong. plus some of them are not my type but ... (170 words)

Should I send him a second message with my number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm pretty new to the whole dating thing. I was just wondering. If I told a guy that I had feelings him online (I have met him) and he said he does me and that we should meet up sometime. I agreed but didn't ask when... or any question really :/ And didn't give him my number. ... (86 words)

Still havent had my period and now I am worried I could be pregnant!

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well its kind of a difficult story i went to the doctors about 4 an a half weeks ago because i started to get irregular bleeding for abouut 6 weeks but i would only bleed for few days then come back on again and the last time it happened was 31st of jan and the doctor told me ... (206 words)

Any tips on how to make him last longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My long term boyfriend and I have recently in the last 5 or so months, have started having sex. I love him, and don't in anyway regret this decision, and our relationship isnt purely physical and sex isnt everything. However, when we do have those special moments and get ... (140 words)

He's nice, but how do I tell him I don't want to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there's this guy at work who's really nice and seems to be really interested in me. unfortunately i dont feel the same. he hasnt come out in the open but he's always hanging around me. he insists on buying me lunch and stuff. if i refuse he looks awful and i end up just tak... (124 words)

What can I possible do to win her back????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

Confused male question to the ladies: do you all have a G-spot??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hiya Been with my partner a while now, previously to that id been married most my life. All is good, but on one area im a little puzzled. With my wife her g-spot was easily found, on the front wall and a couple of inches in- and it felt like a rough patch of skin. Any... (175 words)

Once a cheat? The doubt is driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm looking for some advice. I've been with my bf for nearly 9 years. Last year, he came home (we were living together, not engaged/not married)from a working trip abroad and abruptly told me he didn't want to be with me anymore. Four weeks earlier, he'd talked abou... (384 words)

Old fashioned, or something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - im a gay male been dating a man for seven months and we fooled around we never had anal sex he is 54 im 41 could he be oldfashioned or could it be something else? we talked about being committed to each other... (43 words)

Do men not want sex when they are stressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, where do I begin...I am seeing a guy and I love him very much, when we started seeing each other he was married and I was engaged, almost like a infatuation relationship, his wife found out and of course she told my fiance, so both our relationships ended. We soon found ou... (678 words)

I regret the abortion but I'm expecting again and I'm scared, any thoughts?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone hope everyone is ok. Right ive been with my fella for 4 years now i have a lovely little girl with him, she is 3 years old. well i got pregnant a few months after my little girl was born and i was going through a hard time with her because she was my first. ... (348 words)

So should I accept when he asks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) age 26-29 - I am quite a good student at school, and am respected by my peers in that sense, but at the same time, my friends all like me, and think I am a fun, funny person to be around with. I am always pulling small pranks and just having fun, but balancing my studies at the same time. ... (175 words)

I screwed up! Should I just call her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I recently had one of the best nights with a woman I have ever had, at least that was my interpretation of the night when under the influence of alcohol. After a few days of coming to terms with what actually happened that night, I can see that I really screwed u... (1166 words)

Finally got the strength to walk away from a cheater

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age - UPDATE After finding out about my husbands affairs just over a year ago (3 over our 20 years of marriage)and all the lies and excuses i have finally LEFT HIM,i tried to make it work i love him with all heart but can not be with him any more. It took a year to try and work out... (423 words)

One date and I don't understand his actions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online two weeks ago and he recently asked me out. He planned the whole thing so well and made such an effort and even wanted to pick me up (I decided to meet him there for safety reasons). I mentioned to him once that I collect certain items and he apparently went ... (487 words)

He's married has 3 kids & wants to have sex with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I work with this guy that is married and has 3 small children. His wife doesn't work because she takes care of the 2 youngest children while he works. He says he is not happy with her. We have been friends for 3 years and have been fighting our attraction for one another. ... (99 words)

Why Anal sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why does a man want to have anal sex with his wife? Why that kind of sex? ... (18 words)

She's lying to my face about things going on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a follow up question still pertaining to the question i asked on March 2nd the link is here http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-a-break-up-coming-on-and.html My wife has been lying to me about one of her male friends at work. like having him in her car and even... (326 words)

Why can't men understand how women feel about porn?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why cant men understand how many women feel about porn? Especially after we marry and have babies.Like it or not guys, we mothers often give up a lot when we marry and have kids, Its pretty heartbreaking when we lose our pre baby bodies and end up with stretch marks and sags of ... (208 words)

I am married but have feelings for my first love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married with two kids. I have been with my wife for 9 years. I am having problems because of PTSD. This point is valid because I love another woman. I have not acted on these feeling and my counselor said that the feelings stem from my history with this other lady. She was ... (404 words)

Am I making a big deal of nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i would like to know if i am just being a big baby or if i should be as frustrated (i guess would be the right word) as i am.. my and my girlfriend decided to make the step to engagement on new years FINALLY but like everything there is a problem. her "best friend" (male an... (382 words)

What should we be talking about, how should we be talking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My gf(23) split with me(39) a few months ago. Recently we started seeing each other again. We discussed why we split, and the biggest reason see said was that we didnt talk. But we both are not the talking type. We can answer a question with one or two words rather than spin... (162 words)

I want to pursue a married woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have recently met this amazing women, she is everything I want in a partner. The only problem is, is that she has been married for almost 20 years and has kids. im in my mid twenties, and she is almost 40 LOL! yes there is a hudge age difference, but i cannot pick who i fall ... (156 words)

I'm trying to change for my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im having problems with my boyfriend. im trying so hard to change for him and he still doesn't see it. when ever i try to talk to him he takes my words in a wrong way and he thinks im complaining to him. i want to make things good again because i really love him but i dont know ... (67 words)

He said he wanted to kiss me..why didn't he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Someone please ease my mind! I have known this particular gentleman for about 5 months. We met at Walgreens where we exchanged smiles and had a pleasant conversation. He seems to be very busy with his job, his club and his fitness. So I figured that is a reason why he didn't a... (373 words)

Ready & can't make things work!

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex, only problem is, he cant get it in! we have tried once, and it just wouldnt go in. I know the problem isnt because im not wet enough, i know i was. i just dont know what the problem is, any help and TIPS would be greatlyyy ... (58 words)

I have very low self esteem and don't like what I see when I look in the mirror

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have really low. Selfesteem now and i dnt know why before i was pretty sure of myself and i dnt think am da most gorgeous gurl but am pretty i know it but i dnt feel like it... Im 5"11 and i dnt think guys like that am a dark skinned spanish i can pass for a black girl.... I ... (115 words)

I slept naked with him and now I'm worried

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I slept naked with my boyfriend..How ever he was clothed..He kissed me all over.. After this I'm really guilty for what i did:(:(I am not even talking to him properly.. what do i do in this situation???I'm having sleepless nights cuz of this.He also sucked my breasts.will t... (96 words)

I think we have tiny crushes on each other!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Wooooooo! I think i'm majorly crushin' on my Band Teach! That's just akward! And since he's my Arts and Hummaities, Band, Music Theroy, Sunday School Teacher I pretty much see him ALL THE TIME. I don't really know why I sorta like him, though. He's not like sexy or anything, ... (373 words)

My husband shows my naked photos to his female friends. Should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a lot of friends who are girls. Recently he told me that he likes to show my naked photos to his female friends and may be a video of two of us having sex. The thought turns me on. Is his behaviour normal? or is it reason for concern? help!... (53 words)

Why doI feel like this? Totally confused & anxious

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just meet this guy. he was acting like he liked me. i was a jerk because he reminded me of someone i hated[the looks were very similar, i coulda sworn it was him but it wasnt]. but he kept acting all flirty. [i wasnt a complete jerk, but i wasnt very very nice, i joked ar... (110 words)

Whats she implying? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, so heres the deal. I was with my ex for nearly 5 years and we have a child together. The relationship ended because of me, and Im willing to admit this. We went almost a year after the break-up without talking (unless ablsolutely neccessary). Recently we have gotten back... (172 words)

My b/f says it hurts while we have sex. What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend says that it usually hurts when we have sex. what does this mean? are we doing something wrong? should i be concerned? [moderator's note to the poster: can you elaborate a little bit? hurt in his pelvic muscles? hurt where?]... (43 words)

Why does she get dry so fast? She says it hurts too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I can usually get my girlfrien wet and turned on. But when we try and have sex she tells me it hurts because she gets dry so fast? She says that it hurts because it gets to dry while having sex? She also says she has had sex with other people in the past and has never had this... (65 words)

Our sex life is unbalanced. I give, she takes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for around 2-3 years and we just started moving farther with fingering and on valentines day she gave me a handjob for the first time, which was exciting since she NEVER does anything to me. its more me doing things to her which is ... (133 words)

She doesn’t flirt or date. Is she interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

- She doesn’t flirt or date. Is she interested? I’m interested in one of my classmates but her signals are very confusing. Some feminine insight would be much appreciated. I was interested in her two years ago and it appeared to be mutual. She invited me over for a great ... (579 words)

Any advice on different games we could play using lube?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have vaginismus so my boyfriend and I can't have intercourse. We do other things, we just can't have penetrative sex because it hurts me too much. For a bit of fun tomorrow (so really need a quick answer!) we're going to buy a bottle of lubricant and fool about, and I was ... (93 words)

My friend is facing a possible custody battle. Does anyone have any knowledge of American law?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - heres a question, my friends son hes 13 yrs old, canadian citizen. but at 19 months he was sent to states where he was placed into legal custody with grandmother but u.s border patrol claim hes illegal citizen but lawyer says its a messed up case because the case went thru a ... (111 words)

I miss my ex, it hurts so much! Am I insecure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things.. I wish my ex would come back but I have questioned the situations that happened over the course of the 3 plus years I was with him. I wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a cycle that i guess i c... (1555 words)

Bad sexual experience!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i would like to ask my question in another form..iam really having a hard time trying to know what exactly happened with me because i cant figure out . I DONT MEAN FOR VIOLATION. i been watching a movie with friend and i was on the bed ..he came over to my bed and sat facing me ... (217 words)

Still a virgin but wants to lose it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi:] I'm a 15 years old and I really want to lose my virginity. I believe i'm ready mentally and physically, but i'm still scared about the pain and the bleeding. I'm on birth control already and i've had many chances to have sex but i've always backed out. There's this guy... (116 words)

I want to be with him and marry him. How do I approach this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been split up from my daughter's father for 2 and 1/2 years. I just broke up with the first guy I dated since, because he was to clingy. Now an ex-boyfriend has come back around. He is a marine stationed in SC. Two nights ago he tryed to get me me to marry him for like ... (157 words)

Torn between my ill mother (raising small children) and my fiance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am in a very emotional situation right now. I am torn between my family and my fiance. My mother called me a couple of weeks ago from across the country (california) to tell me that she is HIV positive. At that point I didn't know how to take it, I was crying... (298 words)

He kissed me when he was "high". What do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi so ok this question is kinda complicated Lol I don't even know If it's a question but here goes ok so I'm currently 15 and a sophmore in high school. Idk how to say this Lol but ill try ok so when I was in 3rd grade I kissed a boy for the first time he was my neighbor and ... (266 words)

I want to still be a virgiin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have had expierences in my past life and I can not stop thinking about them. when i think about them i reallize how stupid i was and wish i could go back and change it. I am a straight male and awhile back me and a friend humped eachother naked, and we jacked off ... (141 words)

How do I know he really loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well i always tell my boyfriend i love him and he says it back but how do i know if he really loves me bacause he always tells me that he want to be with me forever and he dont want to lose me but how do i know that hes not liein i mean he is the firts boy i KISSED and... (90 words)

I love my b/f but I don't want his family. What to do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, his parents dont like me, end of, case closed. I stayed over his house one evening and we were talking on the stairs the next day and all his dad said to me was 'move im trying to get upstairs'. then when they came to fix my ... (255 words)

3 questions on [teenager] masturbation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i just have a few masturbation questions.im a fifteen year old boy just to let you know. question 1: is it normal to have your legs bent while masturbating?when i lay my legs flat, im still able to cum, but i have to work a lot harder. question 2: everytime i cum, i very rar... (99 words)

Curious why my FWB never initiates

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a friends with benefits situation with a guy i dated for two months, so here's my delimma: It was my idea to do the FwB thing after I told him he was treating me terribly and he seemed to lose interest in pursuing me as a gf..so now we have FwB relations and we enjoy ou... (174 words)

What do you think of dating your step brother/sister?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What do you think of dating your step brother/sister? I'm not doing it or anyone else that I know of, I've just been thinking about it for a while and wanted to see what other people thought. I do and don't approve of it. ... (44 words)

He doesn't want to go out with me - but keeps staring at me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - OK I asked him out he said no he has a girlfriend. Now he keeps looking at me in classes and I hate it. If he doesnt want to go out then why is he staring at me? I realy need some advice.... (46 words)

Had baby with 1st cousin..no one knows

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this is hard i havent told anyone-my son is 2 1/2mo's old i got prego by my first cousin nobody no's who the father is its been a hard secret to keep for a year .in the past when i was 14 he was 19 we got caught doing it in a car he went to jail for 3 years and now is a ... (175 words)

He ignores texts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My so called boyfriend ignores my texts when I ask him something like," You want company this weekend?" or somehing of that sort. he replies back when I ask him how his day went. Also, he is saying things like, the reason he isn't dating me, persay,is because of my family ... (77 words)

Follow up: In college and pregnant - am I overreacting to my doctor's remarks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

10 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 21 year old college student about to graduate with my biology degree and i've just found out i am pregnant. I posted a few days ago about how i didn't know if i wanted an abortion or not and i am still undecided. Well the plot has thickened, and i am feeling more ash... (398 words)