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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't understand men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 258 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I Dont understand MEN!!! Right ok this is what i dont get... There a lad who yes i am insanely over the top in love with...he knows i like him(not to that extent but he knows and stuff) because everyone used to think he liked me back, he showed signs of liking me includ... (689 words)

I don't think my b/f wants to be with me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 258 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - i dont think my boyfriend wants to be with me anymore i mean i dont want to be in the relationship if he doesnt and i thnk this because he's been callin his ex girlfriend and when i even talk to my ex's he gets med and now i think that he's gettin so much attention from g... (122 words)

Ready for exclusive relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for 3 mths and I'm ready for an exclusive relationship. I don't think he's seeing anyone else but I can't be sure. What do I do? I don't want to scare him off. Is it too soon to get to this level? I've been playing it cool so far and it's working but ... (74 words)

How can I stop thinking about this woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 258 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, How can I stop thinking about this woman? 5 years ago I met a girl who I fell for, she was leaving the country to go back home, we spent a month getting to know each other but nothing happened. I didn't let on my feelings and I thought over time I would forget abo... (185 words)

My boyfriend thinks my sex drive is too high!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am a 21 year old girl and my boyfriend is 24. For the last few years I have masturbated almost daily and when I got into this relationship my sex drive has remained really high and my boyfriend comments on it a lot. He never complains in the moment of course... but in other ... (106 words)

Tests to see if your bi??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey, just wondering if there's a good solution to actually finding out if you're attracted to men that doesn't involve having a relationship? I like women definitely but I think I could be bi so I just want to find out!... (41 words)

I'm with the baby's father, not much in common, and I'm thinking of my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Well hello everyone! My name is amber and im gonna be twenty years old...and Im gonna be a Mommy. I met the baby's father about six months ago..we found out that i was pregnant just a few weeks into our relationship.. At the begining of our relationship we both had so much fun, ... (276 words)

Should I trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi really need advice, started seeing this guy in August, it started not serious but then when it started to get serious he started to pull away and in January finished it.. I never contacted him but in about a week he was texting to see how I was then admitted he missed me and ... (184 words)

Underage... why do it???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - It's starting to become more common around my area, and it's starting to bug the hell out of me and get on my last nerve. There is obviously relationships in my area, but the thing that is worrying me is the fact that teens (12-15) are bragging about having underage sex. Th... (146 words)

I'm looking for a gift to buy my boyfriend to show him I really care about him. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm looking for something (a gift) for my boyfriend to show him that I really care about him. We've been dating for a very long time and we're quite committed. I was thinking about getting him a ring.. I don't think it would freak him out but I'm not sure what kind of ring to ... (141 words)

Can you still be pregnant even if you have your period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Is it possible to still be pregnant if you have your period? or can it be different for different women?... (20 words)

Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had an 11 year relationship with my boyfriend, we share a son 4 years old. I have decided to go back to school for medical assistant and he was not very supportive of that. Meaning he wanted a wife barefoot and pregnant. Anyhow, I went to school with an exception of having ... (228 words)

How can I get him to touch me in a special way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half and I'm his first girlfriend so he's not too sure what to do but I really want him to touch me in a special way (as in on the body) how can I ask him without saying anything and without freaking him out!!! please ... (60 words)

How do I give a neck and back massage to a shy man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm meeting up with a guy around Easter. I'm going to ask him if he wants to watch a movie (preferably at his house as it would be more comfortable). He's an older man and is not married; we've known each other for about five years and have been good friends for three. We have ... (238 words)

I'm engaged, but dreaming of another!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - dont no wat to do,, im enganged to a great bloke and he treats me so good and he would never do anythin to hurt me,he worships the ground i walk on. but there is this guy called ryan and i cant stop thinkin about him..if i dont think about him i dream about him!..i just don... (112 words)

How do men want to hear our concerns/needs/questions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Tell me, why is it that when we women think we are being as direct as can be with our needs (not just sexual) don't seem to get it? Is there a certain way we should be phrasing our needs or does a man understand what we are saying but does not know how to respond to what we ... (108 words)

Making myself as sexy as possible on webcam

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend is going away to university and i won't be able to see him face to face for a while, we are going to use webcam to keep in touch, my question is how can i make myself look as sexy as possible on webcam... it may sound stupid but what sort of positions would look ... (68 words)

G/f too embarrassed to tell me anything

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - im 14 and my girlfriend is really in experienced and shy, how do i know when she is ready for more than making out if she wont tell me because she is too "embarassed"... (34 words)

My husband frustrates me sooooo much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - You know this is something for me because I've had a lot of bad relationships, but I was hoping that this one would work because he is older than I am in many ways. But he has done so much with his life. I want to know how do I get my husband to care about himself. The wa... (145 words)

Cheated on for the 2nd time!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband has cheated on me for the second time. Yes I'm hurt but I love my man. I filed for a divorce a couple days ago but we haven't signed off on the papers yet. We really don't want a divorce but he is still seeing this other female, what should I do. PLEASE HELP. I LOVE ... (61 words)

How do I ask her if we can meet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have previously posted about meeting this girl online and getting on well with her, but being nervous about meeting her, though wanting to. Brief history again - she contacted me in late December on match.com. I replied about 12 days later (I hadn't been looking very oft... (179 words)

Am I a candidate for becoming a lesbian?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Sometimes I spend 10 or 15 minutes standing naked before my full length door mirror admiring my beautiful body. I have shapely tits with perky nipples, a sexy ass, a flat stomach, shaplely legs with pretty little feet. It seems to me that I have a perfect body with georgious ... (108 words)

Do I quit my marriage altogether? Confront him then quit? Help!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a 24 year old, I have been married for just over 2 years and in a relationship with my husband for just over 7 years. We dated young and married young, but we were both experienced sexually with others. What I mean to say is that we weren’t each other’s firsts or fifths. ... (712 words)

How can I get my husband to take more pride in his appearance and diet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I am 33 years old with an 11 year old son. My husband's 35. Our son's doing great in high school, and gets great marks in all his work. When I met my husband he always kept himself in good physical shape, had a toned, lean body and was full of fun. However, since w... (287 words)

I just can't get him out of my head...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, Ok, basically I really like this guy, he's been on my mind since I first met him and I can't seem to get him out of my head. I don't know what to do, how can I get him off my mind? If I have a spare thought, it's usually about him... I've never had something like this ... (141 words)

Should I pack up his stuff and forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey all, My boyfriend and I had a great three year relationship going. I was his first true love, and things were heading toward commitment. Nothing seemed amiss. However, out of the blue, he just stopped wanting to be with me. He moved out of town, took his stuff, and "mut... (552 words)

I'm a bit apprehensive being left on my own...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - This is going to sound really stupid but here goes... I am 20 years old, and my parents are going away for a month to the other side of the world.. I am feeling a bit nervous about being myself.. me being on my own during the night. I have always had a fear of anyone breaking ... (221 words)

I'd like to know who "I am" to her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a great girl for a few months now. But we have an.... unusual relationship. Our relationship is open and I know from time to time she sees other guys. I'm free to see someone else but I only see her. I've made one of those classic guy mistakes, I thin... (280 words)

He lies alot about stupid stuff

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Can someone please give me their opinion? I met this boy in my biology class and he is a grade older than me. Hes really nice, and cute.. he always makes me laugh. For months we just talked in school but for the past week we have been texting and on aim everyday. im not the ... (353 words)

I want my ex back he's over me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i was with my ex for 8 months, we had a great relationship everything was perfect really perfect. then after the 4th month we split up i thought this was it he was so determined that it was the end, for good. but he came back 3 days later. every 2 months after that we split up ... (213 words)

I don't want to split them up just want to stop thinking of him so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Heyyy, Soo, i am in love with a guy, but he has a girl =( We've always spoken on msn but since hes been with her he hasn't spoken to me once. We are in some classes together and he doesn't stop stairing at me! I am sooo confused lol I dont want to spilt them up just want ... (91 words)

Says she loves me but isn't ready

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - She told me she loved me, but she isnt ready, what do i do? This girl i love very much we had gone out for almost 2 months but she realized shes not ready for a boyfriend, mainly because shes still going over the getting overproxess of her ex ( they went out for 3 years) a... (248 words)

Will this make sex easier? Or more painful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I've been going out with my current boyfriend for nearly half a year now, and lately we've been discussing having sex. I love him so much and i'd be willing to give my virginity to him, i just worry, will it hurt? he was fingering me the other night and got all four fin... (94 words)

How do I stay on a diet at Easter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (?) age 16-17 - i want to start a new diet but how do i stay on this diet at easter? wat should I do coz i usually eat like ova 5 chocolate eggs in that one day, no joke. how do i stop this from happening? thankyouxx... (44 words)

My best guy friend is starting to act really strange..I think its because of my b/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my seventh boyfriend now for about ten months and everything between him and I is going pretty decently. Although I'm quite sure he is not the one for me, I still like him a lot and that's why I'm staying with him. My issue is my best friend, whom is a guy. W... (311 words)

We both have conjuncitivitus after drunken sex..coincidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi... this is really quite embarrassing and degrading. Me and this guy from my work place got stupidly drunk and had sex. I don't usually get drunk, I can barely remember it. I am 80% certain we didn't use protection. It was such a stupid thing to do, I am well aware of th... (234 words)

Stuck between friendship & a relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem. I am 43 years old and my best friend in life is a beautiful 27 year old woman. We have developed over the last 3 years, a very deep connection. We understand each other in business and in personal terms, speaking every day, seeing one another in business ... (286 words)

I'm really hurt the way my husband speaks to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi All. I am really hurt the way my husband speaks to me. He always supports his sisters and mother. Even if they say anything to me that hurts me,he says i cook up stories and tell him against them. Why would i do this? i am just trying to share my feelings with him. I love ... (82 words)

I've been eyeing this girl and can't stop thinking about her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - i need help aunts there's this girl i've been eying and i cant stopp thinking about her, what can i do to get her to notice me...i dont know why but all of a sudden i get a wave full of feelings towards her and i 've never felt this way before...we are close friedns ... (160 words)

I can't function right now because my father was released from prison!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay I have a very serious problem which in effect could ruin my life (hope that dosent sound too drastic!) As a little girl, my father was horrendous. He was a drunk who beat my mum up all the time. When I reached the age of 6 I started to stand up for my mum which only meant ... (458 words)

We were supposed to be "exlusive" so why is his ex always around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 258 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Please help all agony aunts! Me and my (I don't know what to call him, so lets say ex) were dating for a while. He hired his ex, as his secretary and since then he's stopped talking to me as much (maybe 5 minutes a day) We were supposed to be 'exclusive' and he decided to go ... (157 words)

I had a dream about the PE teacher and now I am always thinking of her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok. I am a 17 year old sixth form student. A few weeks ago I became really attracted to one of the female PE teachers at my school. I'd say she's in her mid twenties and she isn't the sort who makes herself look provocative. She has never taught me before because she joined ... (380 words)

Why does 1st time sex hurt the girl so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - My girlfriend and I have been together over a year, and we are now both 16. We have talked about sex and decided to wait until we were both of age, and also decided to use a condom. However, the other day her best friend had sex for the first time and told my girlfriend it was ... (121 words)

Constant cycle..first she wants sex, then she doesn't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, My girlfriend has been hinting at having sex lately, and we'll play and tease (she initiates). However, when we start getting serious, it will lead up to just getting there, but then she decides not to, despite that she says she is ready for me. This is like an on-going... (153 words)

Are all females overly critical of their appearance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi there...well I'm just after some opinions here. Do all females really judge themselves badly on their own appearance? I've had a couple of girlfriends in the past, both in their early 20's, who both seemed to be convinced that they were plain looking...e... (92 words)

How can I find out if my internet love is married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I find out if my internet love is married?Is there any place I can check? Or any kind of agency that someone knows of to check?... (28 words)

Never had a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i am 30 years old and i never had a boyfriend even my first kiss,i find it hard to meet guys.most guys i know talk about other girls in front of me like i wasn,t there,any other guy i have liked always fancied someone else and i get just left there on my own, there is one who ... (279 words)

Mixed signals..how do I figure them out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i have a crush on this boy and he sends me mixed signals. he says he doesnt like me like that but he acts like it. i dont no wat to do.... (32 words)

I'm afraid g/f might be pregnant but don't want to scare her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm worried that my girlfriend of 13 months could be pregnant. We haven't actually had sex but she is two weeks late for her period and we have done everything apart from sex. We are very careful and try and keep any come away from her, but I am worried I may have got some on ... (153 words)

Sexual problems in our marriage and running out of time to solve them!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband and I have been together for 7 years. Our anniversary is actually within the week. We are both concerned about our intimacy. During our first two years together, things were fantastic. Then came time for me to deploy. After two weeks of being gone, i found out from ... (368 words)

How do I get the old me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i used to be a strong woman i raised two kids by myself then i met someone and they changed my life for the good at first but now i can see im in an verbal and emotional abusive relationship i am also in thousands of pounds of debt where i never was before, i accuse him of not ... (120 words)

Fiance will not get a job!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi all, I have been with my fiancé for nearly 2 years now. Recently he was made redundant and to make ends meet we are now living with his parents. I am still in work and just got promoted. My problem is this, my fiancé, let’s say his name is Dan, will not look for a job.... (278 words)

Am I completely hopeless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear fellow readers, I'm 24 years old and am well aware that at my age I should be confident in my youth to find dates but adult enough to have relationships. Well, I haven't had a serious relationship for over 4 years, and that wasn't such a significant one either. Bet... (361 words)

I lied to him about my age, now he's finding it difficult to trust me. How can I gain his trust back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I wrote earlier about lying to my fiance about my age. Well the thing is I thought we'd past that, but apparently, it keeps coming up, now and then if I do anything, he suddenly remembers that I lied before. How do I keep him from second guessing me? Do you think we can ... (59 words)

Does he really want to be with me or does he just want me to think that he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 years old and madly in love with a guy I have known since I was 6 yers old (I know I'm young but I also know what I feel). I "dated" him in 1st grade and was "with" him until he moved in 4th grade.... but since we were so young we didn't really talk outside of school..... (298 words)

My husband keeps on taking photos of me shaving my legs in the morning or getting dressed and then shows them off to his friends in work. Why does he do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there I am 27 years old and my husband's 31. He keeps on taking photos of me shaving my legs in the morning or getting dressed in the morning, and then shows them off to his friends in work (sometimes via e-mail, I've heard!). I've tried talking to him, but he just laug... (135 words)

Is that the only reason they like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I am thirteen years old meaning I am still in school. I have had boyfriends in the past and all that, but haven't done anything drastic with them. I am 34C, which is bigger than most girls in my year. But the thing is, when I talk to boys they only show intrest in my boobs ... (106 words)

How to approach a really shy guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hello everyone, I really need some advice. But it's kind of hard to explain. There is a really nice guy that is a friend of a friend. I have met him several times and we have chatted online a bit. He is older than me. For a while now his friends have been jokingly tryin... (606 words)

Girlfriend too moody recently...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Dear all, My girlfriend and I have been going out for 9 months. We're 2 school years apart but I'm 20 and she is 17, but the age difference never shows and I'm very happy in the relationship. More recently though, she has been going into moods more frequently and its starting ... (241 words)

Are condoms enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been seeing this guy for a while and we have decided we are ready to sleep together, he knows that I am not on the pill (I don't want to) and he says a condom will be fine, which I sure it will be but I am a little concerened.... (52 words)

Did I "miss the boat"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I once met a guy and he asked for my digits, I gave them to him and he promised to call. He called and askd to see me, I agreed but I didn't go because I wasn't really interestd in him. He hasn't called me since then and I recently saw him. He ignored me completely. ... (93 words)

Would it be wrong for me to have a sexual relationship with him and nothing more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi everyone, For a couple of years I have been flirting on and of with a guy a few years older than me and it's hardly ever led to something. But he came to a house party at mine on Friday night and things got a bit out of hand and we ended up kissing and we very almost had ... (182 words)

He uses his anger to distance himself from me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Any suggestions? We have been together for 11 months. However he uses his anger to distance himself from me. Whenever I get upset or hurt over something he does or something that happens he gets angry.. He expresses this anger by distancing himself and giving me the silent ... (121 words)

Crying after an orgasm at night

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a lesbian in a completely monogamous relationship. My partner and I have been together for about 2 years now and have known each other for 3. I've read about crying after orgasms, and it's been happening to me for a year or more now. I'm not exactly sure why it is ... (255 words)

His "kiss" wasn't exactly what I expected.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have wanted to kiss this guy I have known for ages and we finally done it last night however, it wasn't quite what I was expecting and by that I mean our lips never touched and I feel like we didn't really connect, he just kinda licked my lips with his tongue and felt my bum ... (107 words)

What can I do to give him pleasure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I need some girlie advice, I have been seeing this amazing guy for about two months and we have just snogged and touched each other, I want to give him pleasure but as I have never done this before I need some advice. How do I start it, should I use condoms or not? Should we ... (104 words)

She seems to be holding back but I want to take our relationship to the next level

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have started seeing this girl I will call her Holly who I work with, she is great, a really lovely person and we just click, my problem is is that I am used to the full on type of girl who is confident and I am not to sure how to act around "Holly". It doesn't matter what I ... (140 words)

She won't get back with me yet doesn't want me out of her life... what gives???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 38 and my now ex gf is 24. We were going out for just over 12 months and it was great. Then I walked out of my job and she ended it. I had a few problems at work, nothing big, so didn’t mention them to her until the day I walked out. She said I should have told her, and she ... (422 words)

My boyfriend is so close to his male friend that they call each other "baby"! Do you think he's gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend has a best friend and they have been really close that they even call each other baby. It was until I started to show that I didn't like that, that they stopped but my boyfriend still calls him behind my back even when he sends sms or on the phone. His friend has ... (90 words)

25 years old and never had a boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I need some help/advice. I am 25 years old, have never had a boyfriend, I have only kissed a bloke once (never anything else). I really like a guy I work with, it's the first time ever that I have actually been attracted to anyone, the thing is I know nothing really about sex ... (83 words)

How do I show her that I love her and think about her but that I need some "me time" too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been married 2 years and she is Filipino. Ever since we got together she wants to be together all the time. Sometimes I just want to go and do things with the guys. She tells me she wants me to do things with my friends but when I tell her I'm going golfing ... (90 words)

How can I talk to my mom more about ME dating and how I feel I'm ready for it?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I talk to my mom about almost everything except my personal feelings. I never talk to any one person about that. I keep my thoughts to myself most of the time about relationships. Some of my friends are starting to date now, which is kind of new to my country at their age. Th... (177 words)

Why are boys so immature where relationships are concerned?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Why do boys act stupid in relationships? BUT are smart at any other things like sports or cars?... (18 words)

Will my ex boyfriend come back if I ignore him???

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I really want my ex boyfriend to come back. He has told me before that during the course of our relationship that he likes a challenge and he that I gave him a challenge in the beginning. Due to his work schedule, we broke up. It caused alot of arguments and some really hurt... (113 words)

I would love to meet someone else but lack of confidence is holding me back.

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there guys... I could really do with some words of wisdom, as I can't really talk to any of my friends about this... Basically, I am 24 years old, and came out of a 4 year relationship about 18 months ago. I can safely say that I'm completely over it, and feel ready to mo... (309 words)

I'm now living in the same flat as my ex and I still have deep feelings for her... help!

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - At the moment, I feel like my life is pretty empty. I'm a 20 year old student and 7 months ago I split up with my girlfriend of a year and a half, I did love her very much, however, she was so controlling and demanding, it just forced my self confidence so low I was on the ... (250 words)

He can't maintain an erection and it's killing both of us!

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been patient for far too long now... I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. We don't live together and he's an hours bus journey away. I'm 23 and he's 24 and we've never successfully had sex :( when we went on our first holiday together the first nite ... (216 words)

What should I do if the baby isn't his?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a mom of 3 little girls and yesterday I found out I am pregnant again. When I became pregnant with my oldest daughter my boyfriend was delighted. She was a ray of sunshine. 4 years on and I became pregnant again but my boyfriend wasnt the dad. He was devastated obviously ... (112 words)

My girlfriend of 14 months split with me, we still see each other, she just won't commit.

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - We were together 14 months and I thought all was well. Then out of blue she decided to split with me, saying she couldn't be with me at the moment but that she loved me and I have a special place in her heart. Since then we've still seen each other, still gone on nights o... (174 words)

I can't feel anything when he's in me

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been having sex for about six months now but my boyfriend is a little on the small side and i can't feel anything when hes in me. Even when he give me oral and touches me i don't really feel anything. I have to act when we are having sex to not hurt his feelings. Is the... (72 words)

Husband not interested in me but mailing photos of himself to a guy?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past few weeks, me and my husband's sex life used to be very good, but now it's gone from red-hot to zero-passion. My husband doesn't seem to show any interest in sex with me any more - I even wore sexy lingerie one night to try and get him into bed but he just show... (324 words)

I'm interested in 2 other girls but have a girlfriend

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Well I screwed up real badly. Summing it up real easy. 1 I have a gf thats madly in love with me, I've lost interest 2 I'm madly in love with 2 girls who know nothing about each other 3 Another girl has a crush on me, I like her a bit. The Issues... I want to d... (166 words)

Road trip, bereavement and cancer advice wanted

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids, At last my question for you all :D. Very soon i am of to America on holiday with my friend and his wife. We are going to be road tripping around LA – Phoenix – Flagstaff – Vegas areas. However, it isn’t just a holiday, there are two other activities that ... (391 words)

"things going too fast & too heavy"

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi met someone and we went out. everything was going well said he would take me out last night for a meal etc. Been in touch during week and he was talking bout coming to my sisters wedding etc. Lost my phone on sat night and my mate texted him to let him know what had ... (399 words)

Boyfriend beats the hell out of me

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend beats the hell out of me when I get him upset (he says I'm "getting fly.") He choked me when I was 8 months pregnant (outside), and he beat me up in front of our 2 daughters and my lil sister. I have been kicked, punched, slapped, head slammed, choked, spit on. ... (142 words)

How do I back out of this emotional mess?

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I was in a relationship and didn't think i could suffer heartbreak because i thought i was tough. i loved this girl, but it turned out she didn't trust me. i can't back out of this emo tional mess. please suggest a way out.... (44 words)

I want to squirt!

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 21 and I am really feening to squirt. I know it might sound crazy or nasty, but I'm sick of hearing about girls squirting, and I'm not. Is it me or is my boyfriend supposed to make me do it? Can every girl squirt or is it just some? I'm totally confused about the whole ... (62 words)

How can I talk to him? He's playing the "start & stop" game

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hiya, well this isn't really a problem, but its annoying me big time... theres this guy in his first year of college, and hes absolutely gorgeous, we started talking last year sometime and he's really nice and always complements me etc and ive met him a few times, but then we ... (135 words)

I don't want to be fingered!

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay... Right so ive started seeing this boy in year nine and im in year eight... We were talking and i realise that the boys in his year have fingered girls. I dont want to be fingered and i told him that but i dont know if he expects me to let him. He said he wouldnt push me ... (122 words)

He abuses me "slightly..but breaking up is really hard to do

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8 March 2009 (F)

- I am not happy in my relationship with my bf. He abuses me slightly, like its not that bad, but it does upset me. But the thing is, there is times when I am really happy in the relationship too, and I dont want to let go of those. Within the last week, I have made several att... (199 words)

I desperately want more of a life!

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Aaah, help! I am having a relationship with a man who has two teenage boys. We don't live together. That was my choice as I don't wish to lose my independence but I suffer from anxiety. My partner can be pretty lazy. He doesn't work at the moment due to work being so scarce ... (288 words)

I love my best friend's boyfriend--its not working between them

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I love this boy and he is dating my best friend. He say that he could see use together. And him and my girl aren't working out. What do you think I should do go for it or lieve the one guy I ever loved?... (45 words)

What does she classify as sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My wife and I have been married for 1 year and we dated for 2 years before we got married. We were both virgins and we were saving ourselves for marriage. We both cherrished our virginitys and think its something special. We gave our virginitys to each other on our wedding ... (443 words)

Why did he want sex when he was angry?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay me and my bf,have lots of fun together.But i get worried about him when he goes on this temper thing.One time i was over at his house,and lets just say this wasn't one of his great days.He was angry,then he started saying babe please can you give me some sex.I was like ... (149 words)

Can an affair make our relationship stronger?

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife of 12 years met a guy online a few weeks ago. She kept me in the loop as the relationship developed into a very sexually driven banter. Now she is trying to meet up with him and ultimately have sex. This has been a roller coaster of emotions for me. I know my wife ... (173 words)

I'm so confused! He flirts with other girls but does he like me?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ok, i have a crush on my friend, we´ve only known eachother for 3 months, but since the day we met he´s been sending mixed signals... he always mentions something about others girls, if he made out with them, or he thinks they´re hot or whatever, once he said "why wouldn´t... (409 words)

How do you want it baby?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - While me and my boyfriend are doing foreplay, and getting 'heatin' up for sex. He ALWAYS asks me "how you want it, baby?" and i get sooo put on the spot! We have no names for any of our positions, and...i can't even think of anything sexy to say. The only name i know, is the "... (204 words)

I'm gay I wouldn't go after his girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

8 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Hey well i guess this question can be kinda confusing, but here it goes... Okay one of my closest friends knows that i'm gay, so we chit-chat and talk like gal-pals. But her boyfriend is getting jealous cuz were always talking about stuff, that he shouldnt really know, and... (148 words)

True love? Or kiddie love?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I've been going out with this guy for 4 months.we are both 13 in the 8th grade.im deeply in love with him and he feels the same way.we have had our complications but we stuck it out.yes we are young and making so many sacrifices for each other but this is the way we feel and we ... (67 words)

B/f and I don't communicate about our sex life

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend don't really communicate about our sex life. We have sex, and thats it. Of course there is common things that bother me about our sex life that i would love to talk about or change. I am very comfortable around my boyfriend, so i was wondering..is there an... (107 words)

Dating this guy but in love with someone else

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Theres a guy I've hated for pretty much ever, but we had to be partners in biology and I realized I'm in love with him. Ok this other guy that I'm not interested in asked me out. I said yes because I know the other guy could never love me back and I thought maybe I could get ... (157 words)

She doesn't see how special she is

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi, im 15 ad my gf is 14, shes always so self conscious abt her weight ( shes a tad bit chunky, not even) and abt how pretty she is(beautiful btw) but everytime i tell her tht i think she's perfect, it seems as though she doesnt care abt my opinion, i try to make her feel ... (69 words)

Do I believe him? Or his friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - First off, Sorry it's so long! My boyfriend and I have been dating since October 2008. I love him, I Honestly do and I know he loves me. We haven't had sex yet but we have done other things like he's fingered me, and stuff like that. Well, today him and I went to a dance ... (237 words)

I went on his myspace account to see what he was up to

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year, this is the second time we've dated. the first time, he left me for his ex-girlfriend. but, i figured out his myspace password a couple months ago. i wanted to go on so bad and see what was up, but i thought ... (273 words)

I'm only 21 and I have lost the passion for sex in my relationship.

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a 21 year-old female who has lost the passion for sex in my relationship. My fiance wants it all the time, and is beginning to feel rejected. If I am not in the mood it's no fun for either of us, so what should I do?... (48 words)

He was my best friend and I'm in love but now I rarely talk to him.

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - okay well theres this guy who im going to call "nick" . well nick and i have been bestfriends sense 5th grade and i am now in 8th . we went out once in 6th grade which was totally ridiculous. it was about a week and we never even saw eachother. i broke up with him cause of ... (729 words)

Will masturbation affect my health in the future?

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Will masturbation affect the future or health of a boy who is 18... (13 words)

He's cheated numerous times so I left but now I feel bad. Am I crazy?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it worth givin a man another chance after he cheated 2x's been abusive physically and mentally..and I just caught him again sendin a gurl a nude pic of himself he's leaving me messages tellin me that he's sorry and that he cheated on me with that gurl in the summer because ... (124 words)

I think my teacher wants to have sex with me!

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm so confused. I posted a question on here a year ago about being in love with my teacher. I came to realize I was trippin. I have her again this year and I don't think I'm in love with her again lol but I am lusting over her. I don't want a relationship with her or ... (301 words)

We broke up and are now back together but I no longer feel the same. Can it ever be the way it was again?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - my bf and I had a really bad patch awhile back and broke it off for a bit. We have gotten back together, but the hurt I went through caused me to go a little bit numb or something. I guess I just shut down for awhile to be able to function. Anyway, since we have gotten back ... (168 words)

I am obsessed with my senior colleague!

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 26yr old gay guy. not out n dont intend to be out as it is going to affect a lot of lives adversely. i think i have a deeply infatuated with one of my seniors. i am just too obssessed with him and cant stop thinking about him. i work very closely with him... the only ... (211 words)

I dumped her and she lost her grandma at the same time. I feel terrible but am still angry.

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok, so my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend grabbed her butt yesterday. I have asked this guy nicely to stop messing with her in the past. I have also asked in a mean way. It's obvious that he's not going to stop. When i found out on friday i was looking for him to beat his ass in ... (370 words)

He texts his ex's about me!

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - For the last few months my guy has been textin his ex's more and more. It's not this that bothers me its the fact that he never defends me to them and he tells lies about me to them and agrees with them over me. Recentley he started to delete his entire text message outbox and ... (145 words)

Does he like me? And if so, how can I get him to ask me out?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - there is this guy at my school. we have the same lunch hour and kind of the same friends. well I would go sit at the table with my friends and he would sit at another table with his. so every once in a while I would catch him looking at me. I like him to, so I found it ... (269 words)

Not sure if he likes me. What should I do?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - at firstI know this guy for 2 months and the begining of 2 months we talked everyday till his school started.cause he is overly hardworking..after 2 months i asked him that how does he see me? he said me more than friend.he said me he liked me. cause if he didint like me, he ... (93 words)

My girlfriend wants to make love but I'm not ready yet.

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Im 13 and my girlfriend is 14 and she says lets make love i said i want to wait what should i do? a=Do it b=wait Please help... (32 words)

In this affair he thinks of me as a booty call, but now I'm falling for him. Help!

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well where can I start. I am having an affair, we are both married. I don't understand what type of an affair it is? We only meet about once a week, and all we do is have sex. It's been going on for over a year. I am getting so attached that I miss him. I know my feelings ... (99 words)

I'm falling so deeply and now I'm broken... help...

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently so heart broken I dont know where to start my story. 2 years ago Im seperated from my husband and about 6 months after I met a guy through an adult online dating site thinking i want to just look for some exclusive fun (I dont do having sex with many differ... (1111 words)

I'm heartbroken and confused. I want to phone or text him but am I being needy?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relationship for the past 3 years. He lives in Manchester I live in london. I met him on internet dating, he was an asylum seeker and he had nothing to his name. That did not matter I loved him for the who he was. I have one daughter who is grown ... (1187 words)

I need some advice please. I cant figure this guy out!

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have known this guy (23) for over a month through my friend. At first, I didnt really notice him too much and kissed his roomate (while drunk). I found out the roomate is a player so I just forgot about him and started talking to the other guy. My friend told me that he is ... (330 words)

He asked what I would do if I found out he cheated on me. Should I worry?

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hi=-) just 1 day ago my boyfirend asked me what would i do if i were to find out he was cheating on me this really confused me alot becuase hes always saying how much he loves me and that im the only girl for him. but then why would he ask me this question it really confused me ... (80 words)

My life pretty much stinks on ice!!!

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I don't know what to do... I always feel so down and lonely... my life pretty much stinks on ice!!! I'm always depressed, nothing ever comes easy for me and I dont think I can handle it any more... and to put on to that misery.... I rarely get along with my parents, they ... (156 words)

I have really bad nightmares and that I sometimes get violent, I'm panicking majorly here.

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey there, I'm wondering if anyone can help me here, my girlfriend has told me that in my sleep I have really bad nightmares and that I sometimes get violent, I'm panicking majorly here. I'm a nice guy, never anything bad about me but this is out of the ordinary, it's been ... (119 words)

Will she be turned off by my "lil buddy?"

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8 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - hey aunts , i need some advice.. okay here's the deal, me and my girlfriend really like each other and have been going out for a year..she's 15, im 14.. well any ways we've made out and stuff but have done anything other than that, and we're not planning on doin... (180 words)

Help to get me out of my misery

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8 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I kinda don't know what to do... I am soo unhappy .. miserable and lonely. We have been broken up for a half a year now (no contact at all). Our relationship was good, some fights here and there mostly because I was way to jealous... but I know he loved me and I loved him. We ... (320 words)