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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

His lack of intimacy makes me think he might be gay! Your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age - Why my boyfriend is not interested in itimacy? I have been dating a guy I met for a couple of months. He was in a long marriage and his wife left him. I would say this guy has some feminine characteristics even in his walk. His house has no clutter anywhere, it is ... (411 words)

He lives so far away and if I don't see him soon I'm gonna die!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm Nichole. I have this boyfriend and he lives in California... you see I don't live there, we always talk about what it's going to be like when we're older but I don't care about then, I want him now! I never see him and I love him more then ever cuz he's the first guy ... (124 words)

She says she's interested in me but wants more time... is she stalling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I'm having a problem with this amazing girl who I have been intrested in since December but she, for some reason wants more time even though she has said that we will be together. She says she's intrested in me but she keeps stalling. Should I just give up? or should I ... (71 words)

How can I help my friend to relax more in public?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I'm 16 and I would like to know how I can keep one of my mates relaxed in public places as he get very tense around other people and saying "relax" definitely does not help. For instance we went to see a comedy gig tonight and he was never quite settled, always ... (85 words)

Is my boyfriend being disrespectful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Today my boyfriend was talking to his friends and they were talking about me and saying how much of a baby I am and then he was talking about our sex life and stuff like that and my boyfriend was just sitting there and laughing and thinking that it was funny to make fun of me ... (118 words)

Why does it have to be over before it begins?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend and I after many years of liking each other have started seeing each other. The sex was always sort of brief, but now, he orgasms before we even have intercourse. And when it happens, he avoids me for a few days. What does this mean and what can I do to fix this? ... (64 words)

I keep remembering everything we did together and everything she said... it hurts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and me and my gf broke up a little while ago and it's a long story so let's just say we had too many differences, well anyway when we were going out I remembered everything she told me and I mean everything. Even when we weren't going out and I always think about ... (102 words)

The whole story - I don't know what to do any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend of 13 years with all my heart and soul! I can't picture my life without out him and I really don't want to! We have always had an awesome relationsip! Right now it's a bit rough-1st time ever! I just wanna fix it! He recently cheated on me with a girl at w... (1367 words)

I need your suggestions! How can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a girlfriend and she was my first true love. It felt like it at least. She told me a month into our relationship she had feelings for her ex still who was my best friend before I started to date her. I was there for their whole relationship, and now she moving onto ... (166 words)

Does he want more from me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just fingered me and it was really good. I just want to know will he want more now and want to have sex? I mean we have talked about how we are going to want a little bit but he is always all over me and was just wanting to know if he is going to want more. Hope ... (65 words)

Situation with teacher and me and I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't spoken in a year (to my teacher) had a bad time with him, I am leaving school in 4 weeks and I somehow want to talk to him and ask why he never spoke back to me when he promised he would never ignore me when he did so harshly. I want to know some answers but I am... (212 words)

I feel like I am at this point in my life where I am missing out on things and it breaks my heart he does not want to be there with me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have 2 children together (8 years old and 18 months old). I am due in June with our 3rd child. I am a stay at home mom for the most part, running two businesses from home aside from being a super mom, maid, cook and wife. My husband never cooks, or cleans and ... (554 words)

I'm so confused... Does he like me or what???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl and I have a student-teacher(you know a person in college training to become a teacher), he acts like he like me. He is 22. Here are the things that he does: 1. When he was supposed to be watching the whole class to see what they're like the whole t... (247 words)

To go or not to go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. But it was all very unexpected, I never expected him to break up with me, because everything was going great. And then one day he calls me and tells me he was not feeling it any more, and that we should be friends and that... (180 words)

I always think that if I hold on a little bit more she would love me again, but nothing's happening..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. At first were were having fun and I can see that she loves me as much as I love her but now things got a little bad for me. She told me about this guy that she was talking with on the internet and how mature and how ... (302 words)

Is this a phase or something I should get out of?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year now but lately his interest in me seems to have disappeared, he's also become a lot more immature than I had realised before the relationship started. He's a musician, and even though I'm happy for him, it seems that he's puttin... (211 words)

What should we do to make it good between both of us and make our parents happy too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so me and my gilfriend have had are ups and downs and as of now, what should I do? I want her to marry me and she wants to marry me. But, there are many things wrong, for one her parents don't like me and mine don't like her but we are both 20 so what should we do to ... (75 words)

Teacher Love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok...do i hear anybody? *tests mic* ok...good. Listen please, i really need help. My teacher said i'm sexy and i'm only 13, he's 29. i love him, and i know all the risks i'm taking if i do love him. (The whole teacher can loose his job thing) Yeah, got that. We've kissed b... (72 words)

Trouble in Paradise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend is 10 years younger than me. We have been together for 7 months. We used to snuggle all night long, have sex twice a day everyday but as of late he does not snuggle at all. He was also not too interested in sex the other day. Has the new worn off.... or shoul... (72 words)

Just want to be friends...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Sigh...well here it goes... This girl at my school asked me if I liked her while we were txting and I said ya cuz I really do! Anyways before I even asked her out she told me she just wants to be friends... That was like a month ago and now she complitly ignores me. I asked wh... (125 words)

Can fingering cause pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiancé has last her periods on the 12th of February 2009, after which we have not be much sexually active, but yes we have had some fingering/masturbation session, and i don't remember if I touched my genitals b4 I fingered her, but have not had a sexual intercourse howeve... (137 words)

Relationship status: COMPLICATED

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So Ive been with this guy on and off for more than a year now (Dec 07). We get along well, have good sex and get along with our friends. We dated officially for a good half of the time we were together but since June of last year we have gone back and forth between dating, ... (922 words)

I have some fake friends on Facebook

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have some fake friends on Facebook.There are some who rarely talk to me, some who have never spoken to me at all,even though i have sent them messages,and i'm really getting annoyed !. It feels like they just add you to be nosey and see what you're up to,not because they actu... (199 words)

Shall I just drop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - hi i'm 22yrs old hope you can help i have known this lad for seven years he has always liked me as we worked together but i had a boyfriend and saw him more as friend we didn't see each other for two years as i went to university i have been back for two months and have been... (164 words)

Are all women not created equal?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Just wondering if anyone knows is it possible for all women to squirt when they have an orgasm? I have been trying and not having any luck is there a trick to it or are all women not created equal (lol)?... (42 words)

She wants a break for a week and I now realise I have been a fool

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my girlfriend on the internet a year ago we have met 5 times , we are 500 miles apart , i love her so much , i am a jealous and paranoid person and i have accused her of all sorts , i have treated her badly , the problem is now she wants a break for a week and i have now... (99 words)

In 3 days her attitude changed completely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why would a girl that was really into you for weeks beforehand suddenly loose interest in barely 3 days. She went from being as giddy as a school girl, to wanting to only be friends, to not wanting to talk to me and asking for some space for a while. In 3 days her attitude chan... (89 words)

What could his gaze mean? Good? or bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, on friday i saw a guy who i have had a cush on for some time now. i saw him staring at me ( like a gaze but he had a serious look on his face)it was also from a distance . i am puzzeld by his look i when i caught him doing it he just carried on so i smiled. ... (110 words)

Why can't I get wet during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with my ex boyfriend, actually he was my first. we had sex multiple of times but i could never get wet for him.when i masturbate i get really wet so i dont get it .i have a new boyfriend now and we've been dating for awhile and i want to have sex but im afraid i wont ... (114 words)

I'm really insecure about my big clit...help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hardly feel comfortable writing about my clit much less letting any guy see or feel it.i really want to take it a step further in my relationship with my boyfriend but im to scared to because my clit is big and i don't know if he will like it. some guys get turned on by it, ... (111 words)

Men:- Why do some guys say one thing in a text and do the opposite in real life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Men:- Why do some guys say one thing in a text and do the opposite in real life? - Why can't men just be straight with us women? Do men always mean what they say in a text or do they just hide behind the words?... (48 words)

Am I the only married lady who lies to her husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, normally it is the husband that lies,but it's different in my case. i would like to know if am the only married lady who lies to her husband. i dont want to any more but i just cant stop.i lived a rough life as a youth (which he knows)and whenever i call up a mal... (165 words)

Husband wants me to have family in room when I give birth...im not so keen..

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, im preganant and baby due in august. Me and my husband are both thrilled but theres 1 aspect im not happy with.... I am having a hospital birth and so far a vaginal birth which is all good but my husband wants his parents and possibly some other relatives in the room wi... (244 words)

Period question .. Attention ladies!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To the ladies.. How many day s were you behind on your period. Ok let me explain lol. If you were suppose to start the 14th and you didn't. What was the most days after you were suppose to start that you missed.. Like me I started the 20th last month I should have started ... (80 words)

I want to get all my old feelings back and just be happy with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend because i felt like i was too young to be with just one person. I felt like my feelings had changed for him as well. The problem is that i dont want to move on from him. I want to get all my old feelings back and just be happy with him and get back... (66 words)

I am hurt by this behaviour and wonder if I should behave the same way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman that has a great male friend through a business partnership. We would spend long periods of time talking to each other and I confided some of my marital problems to him. I realised that we developed feelings for each other and I also realised that eith... (104 words)

How do I get him to see this and give me a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in a relationship with this guy the first time we met i jumped onto him and wrapped my legs around his waist after i grabbed onto his genitals. he told me the other night that we started our relationship off wrong. we had sex three days after we met and now he has broken u... (99 words)

I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant from a 20 yo....will he go to jail ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 years old and im pregnant from a 20 year old....will he go to jail ?? i mean when i have the baby i'm going to be past 16 ..could he still go to jail?... (36 words)

What do I do to make her leave him and me alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 17 and i'm pregnant. my boyfriend of 2 years who got me pregnant is 28 and there is a huge problem and it's not the age gap its his ex girlfriend. he has a 3 year old daughter by his ex girlfriend and his 3 year old daughter looks nothing like him and he even said he ... (344 words)

Is ex leading me on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i was stood up by this man that i thought was interested in getting together. well we talked on the phone prior to meeting. when the day came no him or phone call. should i call him or should i wait for him to call. by the way this man is my ex.... (55 words)

Has anyone ever experienced this before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Aunts...i'm wondering can someone help me with distinguishing the meaning of something that happened to me as a teenager. Well it's kind of weird, but i'm sure someone may be familiar with this sort of thing... here goes...when i was about 14yrs old, i was having sex w... (243 words)

I'm really confused would he still wants sex with me yet he has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - HI guys, ive just started talking 2 my ex again, i said id lend him money which i have done before, i said 2 him he can give it bk 2 him when ever he can, but then he goes and replys yeah im sexually favs, i mean yeah i still like him, and have slept together since we spli... (155 words)

I think he's gay and I want to break it off! How do I end this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for a month now and I have always suspected he was gay. Here's why: 1. He likes to get manicures and pedicures. 2. He knows nothing about cars or sports...I know way more than him. 3. He talks about how his male friends are "his soul mates". 4... (315 words)

What would you make him do to win you back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This will be really long and complicated because I am afraid if I don't explain it right then I will get advice when people still just don't understand and I'm getting enough of that as it is. I'm 16, so is my boyfriend, it's been six months. He has been with other girls be... (539 words)

How does anyone ever trust a cheater again?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age - Many answers advise that if you have been cheated on, the cheater is going to lie to cover up the truth or to make things seem less serious than they actually were. I am in that situation and my question is, if the cheater is assumed to be lying, how does the victim EVER reg... (186 words)

Am I being selfish because I want to be a mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for a year and a half together for four. I believe I'm ready to have a child, I'm in my late 20s and I want to be a mother. My husband is not ready. Throughout everything in our relationship I always have to be the submissive one and have to wait for him to ... (291 words)

Opinions on women going braless

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I have been doing some research and I keep finding out that it has never been proven that bras help keep breast firm, or stop them from sagging. I've been thinking about this issue, and what bras mean in the bigger picture, and I just don't think I want to wear them ... (137 words)

Is this guy playing me? Or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey people..can you help me with this please.. My question is, is this guy playing me? Basically, have known him for a couple of years, liked him for all of it...but it is only recently that he has come to find this out. We were at a houseparty when one of my friends told him... (129 words)

I'm losing my girlfriend..please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and i have been going out with this girl who i absolutely adore for 2 and a half years, i thin she's the most beautiful person in the world and i love being with her. we've gone through a lot of crap in the past, her kissing other boys, me kissing another girl but we've ... (447 words)

How do I walk in high heels?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! This is one for the girls [i'm not sure there are many guys who will know!] I've been a bit of a tom boy all my life [i'm now almost 18 - in 2 months] and when i go to party's i usually wear a skirt with tights and flat boots. I'm now starting to lose a bit of weig... (208 words)

I have moved out because of wife's emotional abuse but now I can't see my daughter

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been having marital difficulties for the last 6 months. I have now moved out as I cannot no longer put up with my wife's mood swings,lack of trust, emotional and verval abuse and ingratitude. We have a 6 month old daughter who I am now being denied access to as she ... (108 words)

I've gotten my tutor into big trouble!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok im 17 and basicly I have a tutor who I have liked for a long time and i was pretty sure he liked me too because of how flirty he was with me he'd like stroke my leg, playfully grab the back of my neck,ask me to stay behind class to help him do his work, hug me, tell me how ... (210 words)

Why won't she open up to me? Why is she looking for other guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have known her for more than a year. Two or three months ago she broke off with her bf and she felt very sad. Now she looks like back to normal self but she seemed change in her behaviour. Nowadays she often looks for new guys to go out and meet. Guys known from internet or ... (182 words)

How can I tell her diplomatically that I'm not interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello people, first of all I would thank all my friends for their kind support in my earlier question. I have a serious problem guys, I am 21 and my girlfriend is 18. I got hooked to a girl a year ago just for the heck of it!! She's the ugliest girl on earth and certainly not ... (216 words)

What can I say to my daughter's boyfriend to make him feel more secure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age - My daughter, 17 (18 in July) and her boyfriend (19)have been in a relationship for nearly 3 years. All they do is fight. Her boyfriend is very insecure and thinks that she is going to cheat on him with every male friend she has. They do love each other, but I don't know what ... (74 words)

When it comes to "connecting" with girls I get scared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old male and have never dated nor had sex. I admire girls but when it comes to connecting with them, I get scared, lose interest or feel inadequate. Some girls show interest in me but I remain stuck since I don't know how to respond. I really need advice from a ... (60 words)

Do I need someone to be withholding in order to feel attracted to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a really tough time moving on from a totally heartbreaking pseudo-relationship with an older, emotionally unavailable man. It lasted about 5 years. I was/still am in love with him to the point of obsession. It was really unhealthy but he was so incredibly unique and ... (191 words)

We're "on a break", then he joked we were "Friends with Benefits" ???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 weeks ago my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and I went "on a break". It was his idea since we had been spending too much time together and arguing a lot more than normal. A few days later I asked what he meant by "break" and he said it was that we were still dating but just ... (434 words)

Why won't he trust me? Should I tell him that I over heard him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband since high school, we got married last summer and I thought we had the perfect relationship. He is in the army and will be leaving to do a 8 month tour on April 15. Last night I overheard him telling his brother that he is uneasy about lea... (129 words)

Why is she so uncomfortable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Split with an ex over a year ago, I found out she was seeing someone else. We all work in the same offices. I walk away wish her well and to my knowledge cause her no trouble. Throughout the year she has been very hot and cold with me without any real explanation. Too... (333 words)

Will having anal sex ruin you or stretch you out in "that area"??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just curious... will having anal sex ruin you or stretch you out in "that area"?? How long does it generally take to work up to being able to actually have anal sex without it hurting so much?... (37 words)

I'm afraid I had my chance with him and wasted it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really like this guy I met in college and I was trying to flirt with him at our end of year party because he seemed interested too but we didn't hook up in any way and now the semesters nearly over and I'm afraid I had my chance with him and wasted it. I'm so upset, I'm ... (137 words)

We broke up so that we could see other people, but what if end up not getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupids, My bf just broke up with me a few days ago, it hurts so much and I'm really confused. We have known each other for 4 years, but dated on and off for 2 years within those 4 years. We started dating since he was a freshman in college, broke up for a year and half ... (351 words)

His behaviour has made me feel jealous. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a woman who can admit to other women as being beautiful but enough is enough. My boyfriend stares at every nice looking girl...not look but stares. So when I'm talking to him he doesn't hear a word I say. I asked him to stop doing that around me or not to make it known. I ... (256 words)

I've finally fallen for him, but now he doesn't care. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I was in love, in a 2 year relationship and then he suddenly left me and didn't even give me any reasons. I was shocked, and alone for about three months, and then this guy (my current bf) came around and I really liked him. I even thought at one point that he could make me ... (237 words)

How do I get my girlfriend back or is all lost?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to know how I get my girlfriend to go back out with me.... I started seeing this girl a year ago just after I left my wife, it was the most perfect relationship ever....Never argued about anything, agreed on everything, had great fun, good sex life etc etc She ended... (402 words)

Moving in with girlfriend and her kids

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hay everybody, My girlfriend and I have been in relationship for almost two years and have decided to move in together.She has three kids (7,9 and 11 from first marriage).She is seeling her house and with that money will pay off her mortgage and want to put second half towa... (206 words)

He has done this before where we break up and then get back together...??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had a rough month kind of like constantly walking on eggshells. He went out on St pattys day all night and didn't call me which I found disrespectful since we live together. I called him the next day and he gave me the worst attitude. That's when our ... (148 words)

He left our family abandoned overseas for the military life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Everyone, I came across this website by accident and what a blessing. I am hoping that some of you can make sense of what's going on with me. Here is my story in a nutshell: I have been married 5 years and have 2 children. We had the perfect life....until th... (292 words)

Broke up with ex, I'm happy, he's not, how can I help him cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 4yrs just over a week ago. He'd given me many reasons to doubt his love for me, he just stopped caring about everything and refused to ever talk to me about it. Throughout the relationship i'd caught him having sexual conversations online with ... (383 words)

Boyfriend doesn't get it..I feel like I am suffocating

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20 but by now I had 3 serious relationships and the last one was very difficult to get over. I loved him and I still do, he is the guy you write books about hes everything every girl can dream of. But for me most importantly he loved me and hes just such a romantic. So now ... (159 words)

My b/f touches me in intimate places whenever he feels like it! Normal?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there, My boyfriend of 7 years likes to come up to me and touch my breasts and private area whenever he feels like. When I tried to tell him stop because I am in the middle of something, he would ask me if I would be happier if he didn't touch me at all. I don't kn... (88 words)

Should I tell ex of 3 year relationship that I may be pregnant?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm currently nineteen, and have just gotten out of a three year relationship with someone twelve years my senior. He and I met on the internet, and when we did he lived nine hundred miles away. He moved to me a year into our relationship. I was still sevent... (114 words)

Thoughts about sex, early experiences?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I know it is several years too soon but there are things I think about almost constantly. I am a freshman in HS and have never had a boyfriend but when that time comes and I am willing to have sex does the BF remove some of my clothes or should I? I hope that I will be ... (127 words)

Porn & my husband's midlife crisis?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband and I have been happily married for 7 years now but over the past year he's masterbating over porn more than we have sex, it seem to be taking over our sex life. he doesn't know that I know about this. I didn't mind him looking at porn but now it's getting to the ... (165 words)

My husband had an affair with our daughter in law!

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - four months ago my husband came to me and confessed to an affair. this was the second time he cheated-or at least that i caught him. first was ten years ago with his secretary. i forgave him then but this time was much harder. it turned out the other woman was my sons wife, the ... (179 words)

He is with another but I still love him

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay I was with a wonderful man we hit it off so quickly the next week we moved in with each other.My past was pretty violent with men I started not to believe any nice things he would say.I started getting comfortable and hating my job. I gained lots of weight. He moved out a ... (223 words)

Best time to have sex without pregnancy?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - which time is safe to do sex with my gf? whether 7days after or before 7 days of her period for which she will not get pregnent?... (27 words)

How do I get over what I had and be grateful for what I've got?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Compared to some peoples' problems on here, this probably isn't very bad but some advice would be welcome nonetheless. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 18 months now. For the first 12 months, everything was amazing. I couldn't do a thing wrong. She worshipped the g... (507 words)

I slept naked beside him... now we've broken up and this worries me.

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, 1) First of all I'm confused totally. Dunno if I should be in this relationship... Sometimes I feel I can live without him... But otherwise it's like I really can't live without him. Can't wait to text him. Now, I really dunno what decision to be taken. But yes I do... (251 words)

I've had 2 abortions and I solely regret having them now...

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 24 year old female, I've had 2 abortions. I had the first one in August 2007 and thereafter in January 2008. The first time I was so scared I didn't even think of anything but my fear of my parents and my boyfriend at that time not at all financially stable, I was so ... (256 words)

Threesomes and the mess that comes with it... is this slutty behaviour?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am dating this girl who is without a doubt the greatest person I have ever met, however, I recently inquired about her having a threesome with two guys, mostly because I made a joke about us having a threesome with some random 10/10 I saw, then she said its not a threesome ... (220 words)

How could things change this quickly? Is there someone else?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend broke up with me after being engaged, telling me he loves me every day, that i am going to be his wife soon, met his mother and he spoke of meeting his other relatives too. out of the blue he says its over, that he has issues, that we can still talk on the phone ... (169 words)

I'm worried that no one will be able to satisfy me

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been living in the USA since I was nine and came from Northern Pakistan. I have been spoiled by many gfs especially one of them who wanted me to play all imaginable anal games with her which made me orgasm 10X better. I am well settled, self employed, own my apartment so ... (146 words)

Worried about tension

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 25yrs man. now i was working united arab emirates.basicaly i am an indian.my girl friend is in india.Sometimes she was loved me too much but sometimes not.on that time she has given lots of pressure for me also.i loved her too mcuh as more than myself.last 3yrs we werent ... (66 words)

Is this a good gift idea?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 15 anf my gf is 14. Next week will be our six month anniversary, and i wanted to get her somethin special. We recently took some pictures together and i really like this one where we were passionately kissing, it looks so romantic. So i decided i wanted to frame it and ... (103 words)

How can I get this trust back?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i get my boyfriends trust back? I have messed up and messed with 2 guys, But when i did that it was during the break ups...we been off and on for about 6 months now. the first guy was before we started dating but i was still talkin to both of them. i started dating my ... (218 words)

I kissed my female friend, am I bi?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, about a week ago I spent the night with a really good friend who i've known is a lesbian...we kissed, and I broke it as soon as it happened. I told her I didn't want to, we agreed it was an accident, we put it behind us..but I did want to. I actually wanted to kiss her. And ... (118 words)

Why can't I stop thinking about him?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I don't know why but I can't stop thinking about this guy. He is a very nice guy and all but I'm desperately in love with this other guy in my class. Why can't I stop thinking about him?... (40 words)

Is it safe to be nude at a tanning salon?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - well this doesn't really relate to sex or much of what this site goes over but i was wanting to know if tanning in a place with tanning beds is safe? As in is there camera's or anything like that. and with my penis is it safe to use a tanning be nude. will it hurt my penis? ... (72 words)

Stop taking so long in the bathroom!

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been living with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 yrs for about 9 months. We live in a super tiny apartment - so privacy is tough to get. In the morning he takes about 2 hours to get ready before he goes into work! It drives me up a wall because I need to get into the bathroom ... (321 words)

Is she using him till I get older?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex gf is showing me signs that she loves me but dosent want to say it.she shows me her brest and underwear after she dumped me.she was going to but on a sexy maid outfit,give me a lap dance and kiss me on her b day in her room.she told some of her friends y she dumped me ... (97 words)

Stay with the boyfriend, go back to the fling, or move on from both of them?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a very difficult situation. I have been with an amazing guy for the past four years. We met online through a friend and clicked very well. We can talk about everything, he is supportive, dependible and faithful. But he is also very different than me. Everything from ... (455 words)

Could taking a break save our marriage?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First off you should know, we're young, very young. I am 20 he is 21. We met when i was 17 and he was 18 and we married 1 1/2 years later when I was 18 and he was 19. Things are not easy, we never expected them to be. We love each other, though, and it felt like the right thing ... (203 words)

My ex was hurt pretty badly in an accident..what should I do?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age - Dear Cupid Its been over a year since i had anything you could even call a relationship, my previous girl friend tore me up pretty bad by cheating and basically compromiseing my morality and self image. I recently learned that my ex-girlfriend was involved in an acident and w... (104 words)

Is what he's doing to me ...abuse??

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this abuse? We were being intimate and I was enjoying being close with him (boyfriend of just over one year) and I have been doing kegels a lot because he tells me almost every other day that I'm 'too big' for him and that it must mean that I'm a wh*re. I have explained h... (331 words)

I've been sneaking around having sex with him and now I want his baby

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having sex with this guy, who has a kid who I believe is around the age of 4 or 5 with a woman and he is an excellent father, the kid likes him better than the mother. He is not married to her but still lives with her he has been living with her for over a year, is ... (270 words)

Even though we had really bad times we had wonderful times, too. I miss her! Help!

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hows it going, could use some advice here. I have been in a relationship on and off for 6 yrs now and it has recently ended.Im not sure what happened and i know sometimes when you are heartbroken you tend to not be able to see whats going on.It started off great the girl moved ... (463 words)

We are both history professors and I hate to ask but I need tips on how to pusue this beautiful, intelligent woman!

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have never been the most confident or the most attractive male and at this point in time. I actually hate to admit that. I am 32 years old, single, have only had three girlfriends in the past, and only had sex with two of them. Now, I know my profession does not exactly ... (248 words)

Do I still try to make this friendship work?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is pretty much a best friend issue. Me and my best friend used to be so close. We used to hang out and talk ALL the time. This year we began to become less close and it really sucks. We barely talk and we never hang out anymore! He doesn't really understand how i feel ... (139 words)

I want to make it work with her, without sounding needy or desperate! How can I do that?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend and I split on January 10th. We had been together for a little over a year. We lived together 5 months of this period but both moved back in with our parents temporarily to get our finances back on track, then I was going to buy us a home this coming summer. I ... (554 words)

First kiss dilemma...

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating since January 17th and we want to kiss but we're both too nervous to. What should I do and can you get kicked out of the library for kissing? (we're only 17)... (40 words)

I just want someone to share good times with and to go travelling with.

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and I have never had a proper boyfriend. I just want someone to share good times with and to go travelling with. I'm a bit overweight and I'm not that confident with people I don't know but I am clever, funny and positive. I love life and I would be really caring a... (85 words)

Help! Wife saw porn, I think I might lose her and my son!

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a big problem. My wife looked through the history of my laptop and saw some porn sites I had went to. I'm living a few hours away from home because of my job, and get home on the weekends. She had seen that I had searched for MILFs and a certain actress. She is already ... (399 words)

I just want her to be direct. How can I get her to talk?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I told her that since she lives a few states away from me, when I move, I'm not going to see her until I'm out of school and have a car. She took this as I'm breaking up with her. We've been talking still, but I can't get a word out of her. I can't call her, because we got rid ... (139 words)

He says he feels a bit smothered by me yet he is still showing a lot of interest...

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - In December I stated dating a great guy who I fell in love with very quickly. When we would chat, we had the same things in common and the comment 'where have you been' was not only said but felt by both of us. The other remarkable thing I felt we had in common was the way ... (272 words)

Should I tell my mum I want to lose my virginity?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - should i tell my mom that i want to loose my virginity?... (12 words)

My ex is interested in me again. Why is he all words and no action?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been trying to get together with my ex. I've written him several times to express that I would like to hook-up. When he did call he talked about all the troubles and drama he was having with his girlfriend but that he still wanted to get together that weekend, Saturday to ... (100 words)

If you knew the girl you were dating had a few one night stands would it put you off her?

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys, if your dating someone, is it a turn off to know the girl has had a few one night stands? and a 'friends with benefits' relationship? or is it not that a big of a deal?... (37 words)

Last week I was cleaning and I found women's underwear and a huge stash of condoms which weren't ours.

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just recently moved across country with my boyfriend of 2 years. Everything seemed perfect and I can't picture my life with out him. Last week I was cleaning and I found women's underwear and a huge stash of condoms which weren't ours. I felt so betrayed, when I confronted ... (108 words)

My ex and I are friends now but I still love and want to be with her

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well heres my situation. I've known this girl since the fourth grade but we didn't become friends until our freshman year in high school. Since then we've basically become best friends. We were always there for each other no matter was going on in life whether it be her ... (381 words)

WHEN do you think I should call her?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, This weekend I exchanged numbers with this girl that I work with. We have exchanged interest in each other and both find each other attractive. I am only 17 and I was wondering how long I should wait to call her? I really like her and she talks to my co-workers all the time ... (114 words)

Is my marriage doomed after my wife cheated on me?

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24 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I hope that by canvasing the globe for opinions I might find consensus and a clear path ahead. 3 months after I got married last year my wife tells me that she's cheated on me since we got married. Her reasons were the things were a bit mundane, not that I'd done an... (264 words)

I was tricked and I'm hurt .

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24 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Oh my god I can't even begin to tell you. The love of my life is NOT what I thought he was. I thought he moved away, at least that's what I was told, cried myself to sleep that night when he comes back. I thought we had broken up but you know that can't change my feelings. Then ... (108 words)