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writes:I'm 14, my sister is 15. She's dating a 16 year old who has a 14 year old sister, 24 year old brother and a 26 year old step brother. My sister's bf had a massive birthday party for his 16th and I was invited as I'm friends with his younger her sister. There was alcohol at his party and I had some. I got chatting to his step brother and He insisted On me having another beer. I did. And I was pretty out of my mind after that. I do remember, I think, that I had a sloppy kiss with this step brother. And I think I remember going upstairs to a bedroom with him. The next thing I know it's 3 in the morning and I'm lying in a bed with my sister's boyfriend's brother and step brother with a pounding head and only a top on. I walked home and the next day I saw my sister's boyfriend. He wasn't very talkative and was really annoyed with me, and he wouldn't tell me why. His brother came to pick him up and I answered the door - he winked at me and when I turned round to call for my sister's bf he slapped my bum! What did I do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): I dont want to scare you but yot really must talk to adult, you need the morning after pill and realy should go to get tested for sti or std ie hiv. these guys have broken the law and if they can do to you they will others. without being condscending you are stil a child that they have possibly sexualy abused. please talk to someone about this you must act on it
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reader, Kirstyteenauntireland  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 I think you should talk to The Brother and ask him what really happened. And if not talk to your sisters boyfriend If he wasnt talking to you he must know something.
Then i think you should talk to your mum and dad
Good Luck! :) xx
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reader, tux  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 This is why one should not drink alcohol until they are in a drunken stupor because when they wake up they will find themselves in bad place.. You should have not consumed any alcohol or should have said no when they kept on offering you more.
However, this does not justify their actions. They took advantage of you illegally. Such great brothers that your sister's boyfriend has.. and he should be more annoyed with his brothers than you.
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (23 March 2009):
 Go talk to your parents. Just be forward and tell them what had happened in detail. They will be supportive of you. They will also help press charges against these two sleazebags!! And you'll need them to get the morning after pill as you have to be over 18 to buy it (just make sure they don't say it's for you/their underage daughter).
I'm terribly sorry that this has happened to you. I wish the best for you.
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reader, InterCntlCHmp  +, writes (23 March 2009):
You got date raped. I don't know the sitch in the UK but in Canada if you didn't consent to anything and they took advantage of you (A MINOR)by feeding you alcohol until they had their way with you.
Don't expect men who behave like this to be honest and forthcoming about what happened. They're obviously BIG douche bags.
Go get the morning after pill in case you where impregnated.
Don't be hard on yourself. It's not your fault. But remember going forward that you need to be smarter, and more aware of your surroundings and also in more control of your sobriety.
Good luck and hang out with boys your own age.
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