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He says he didnt write that email. Could the computer have a virus, or is he lying?

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Question - (23 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Just a couple of hrs ago I was mailing out an Invoice for my partener of 8yrs and opened up his contacts which opened up an old email account of his that was rarely used. I found an email in the drafts folder addressed to Sexy Men Directory. The email said "your a hottie". WOW I had NO IDEA ! I just called him and told him we needed to talk about this and told him I wasn't angry but that we do need to talk. He said he didn't type that email. I sooo want to believe him but in a way it explains our lack of a healthy sex life or is the lack of sex because we have an 8yr old relationship. Im wondering could the pc have some sort of virus and maybe he didnt send it.I expect him home in a couple of hours and would love to know how to deal or feel about this. Any advice would be Greatly apreciated!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

You just don't want to believe it. This is our response when we are shocked.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (23 March 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntHey my darling,

As Eyes said, no computer can magically write an e-mail. They can send endless amounts of 'em, but they can't sneak into someones private e-mail and compose one themselves.

It was a draft, at least he rethought his decision to send it, but who knows how many e-mails he HAS sent? While I don't want to get you too riled up, I would definitely take this find as a major flag for you guys to really have a serious heart to heart.

Good luck!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 March 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntA virus does not COMPOSE an email they may be attached to an email but they don't write them, people do. The fact that it was in a drafts folder makes it likely that he never sent it out. It's definitely time to sit down and have a long chat. Good luck.

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