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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, everyone :) Here goes...For a while now, I have had feelings for a male member of staff at my school. He's not a teacher, but a trainee teacher who takes classes as a supply teacher from time to time. He looks to me in his early twenties.It would be any normal teenage crush, and I hate to be a cliche, but the thing is, I'm pretty sure he likes me too. I'm not deluding myself--I've had plenty others of these crushes and I've never felt it was recipitated. He catches my eye a lot and there's just this buzzing kind of tension between us.It doesn't feel icky - it feels right. I've never been much good at the role of a teenager, always preferred the company of adults. I'm quite mature for my age. Thus, I can't be attracted to people my own age--they're such kids. This man is in his early twenties. Is it that taboo for him to like me? Should I be repulsed by it? I don't think so, because he's less than ten years older than me. All the boundaries seem so ridiculous when I'm older inside and we both appear to have sexual attractions to one another.Any thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): how old are you?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 Off limits. Other wise he can kiss his teaching career goodbye and I'm sure you would want to be the reason now would you?!
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