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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should I do when I'm not interested in the guy I've been flirting with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Alright, so we all know that it's fun to flirt, right? Well I have a friend that has been flirting with me hardcore lately. I thought it was all fun and games because the group we're in is flirty in general. I play along and have fun with it but I'm really not interested in him ... (112 words)

She made out with another guy, should I forgive her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi, well my dilemma is with my girlfriend. We've going out for a year. She's 15 and I'm 14 turning 15 this year... and yes we've been intamate once and decided to wait until we started doing it casually.. we love each other very much. The thing is, we always promised... (204 words)

My Husband cheated on me. I do not know what to do !!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am going to describe my problem in two phases. Thank you for taking time to read this : Phase I I have been married to my husband for 5 years. we met on the internet on a chat site. We decided that we like each other and decided to meet. meeting each other was t... (1094 words)

Am I stupid to feel down about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'd like some advice (hopefully including guys' views) about a stupid argument I've had with my bf. We've been dating for 5 years. It's his birthday soon, so I got some tickets for us to see a band he loves as a surprise. So I asked him if he would be free on the day of ... (172 words)

I feel so insecure about my body.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) age 18-21 - I feel so insecure about my body. And this makes me feel weak and abnormal... I see so many women being ok with who they are, and I just can't seem to accept these issues. But here it goes. My boyfriend watches porn, and the other day he told me he and his friend were at w... (811 words)

Did my girlfriend orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Me and my girlfirend were doing a lot of foreplay on each other today when out of the blue her back arches, eyes close very tightly and she makes a bit of a grunting scream. She claims it was an orgasm but I was wandering is this an orgasm or is she just trying to make me think ... (86 words)

Am I being overly sensitive...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey All, SOME CONTEXT: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and a half now. We have been long distance almost all of that time, the worst was when we were both in different countries for five months and temporarily opened our relationship (now closed). ... (388 words)

How can I be more supportive but still keep the fun times going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Is this normal? Why is it bugging me?!? My boyfriend started this new exercise program.. it's a 90 day program and you work out for six to seven days a week. He just started this week and our conversations go on and on about how many carbs and calories for each meal. I sp... (118 words)

I need advice... I have feelings for my best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My problem is quite cliche, I have feelings for my best friend. We've been close for over 3 years now and if anyone spoke of us having feelings for eachother we both just laugh it off. At that point I thought it'd be insane of me to see him as more than a friend. But things ... (338 words)

Should I dump her, try and get over my feelings towards him, or stay in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My last question didn't have enough detail so here's my dilemma. I'm 15, 16 in october. You're probably thinking, "What? You don't know love! So young!", but please hear me out! When I was in 7th grade, I fell for my female friend; She was charming, funny, and we had a lot... (346 words)

Can someone explain what circumcised is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - What does circumcised mean? Please explain to me because you gave no clue. ... (13 words)

Is he interested in me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 236 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been seeing my ex again for around six weeks. We broke up around 3 years ago because he had to train for two years for his job and it would be hard to keep in contact. Then I decided to contact him in September of last year on the net. We e-mailed on and off and then ... (333 words)

Both our sex lives seem to have diminished!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) age 18-21 - I've been in a very loving relationship for 8 months now. My boyfriend is so caring, understanding, lovely... everything I could ask for and we very rarely argue. When we first together we had sex basically every day. This is how I was with my ex boyfriend too, I've always h... (176 words)

I'm cheating on my husband and feeling guilty about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm posting this from a friend's computer for the sake of anonymity. I'll try to do any followups from here, but I cannot make promises that I will be able to get back. I'm a black woman, and I've been cheating on my husband with a white coworker for the last 5 months. I feel... (351 words)

Relationship in a rut...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I know these questions are supposed to be... short, but there's just too much going on to leave anything out and give the wrong idea to people. I've been dating a guy over the internet. Sounds like a bad idea, right? You're half-right, in this situation. We met just before ... (384 words)

She won't tell her family and has commitment issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a situation that I realize is somewhat unusual. My partner and I have been together for a decade now and she still has not told her family or friends that we are a couple. We work together and everyone, including her family, knows us as "close friends". The only ... (413 words)

I think about sex all the time. What is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I find myself constantly thinking about having sex with guys in my year but everytime it has become serious i don't want them anymore and i don't like them as much as i thought i did whats wrong with me? ... (40 words)

Help, can I still get pregnant?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i just wanted to ask if the sperm drops out as soon as the partner pulls out, can i still get pregnant or does it prevent it ?... (29 words)

Girlfriend gets upset over minor things...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey guys! Well a little info before I start. I am a bit of a joker but not immature or anything, I just like to make people feel good and make them more comfortable. Well Me and my girlfriend were talking and she said "You and me will have a nice romantic time" to which I said ... (244 words)

It feels nearly impossible to gain her trust back now.. what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone. I just want to know everyone's opinion on this situation I'm in... I recently lost my g/f due to a mistake, on my half, and to an extent I don't understand why I did it.. seriously... Well what happened was I was with my g/f for about 1 full year (if not a little... (476 words)

Is it a possibility my girlfriend is seeing someone on the side?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey everyone I'm 17 years old and I'm very depressed well here's the story... Me and my gf have been going out for 11 months and well my parents and my whole family know her .. I take her to family events everything! She doesn't even live it at her nome any more she lives wi... (362 words)

Drifting away and always in a bad mood..why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

- I started talking to this really great guy a few weeks back. He goes to the same school as me but I don't really see him around much so we mostly talked through IM and texting. We seemed to really hit it off- we have the same interests, same personality and I really enjoyed... (297 words)

Negative pg test and you turned out to be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - So I havent had my "normal" period since the first week in December. In January I had alittle bit of bleeding for 2 days but then it stopped and I havent had anything since then. I have taken 3 urine test and 1 blood test recently and they all came back negative. My doctors ... (90 words)

Lost interest in guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am going on 30+ years old.i have never had a first boyfreind never got my first kiss and still virgin. because guys always treated me badly even a guy who i though like me said i was total bitch to him.now i have lost interest in guys completely.i have no interest... (85 words)

I want my math teacher to be my dad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hello everyone today i am asking for your help well i am my maths teacher but i love him as a dad i want him to be my dad i just dont know what to do well my dad left when i was only 5 and for some unknown reason i love my maths teacher like i would love my dad ... (135 words)

I want to force him to chose between me and the wife!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all new to this site. Look I know how most of you feel about affairs. Sohere it goes. I am in love with this man he says his relationship with his wife is gone. They have been married for 30±yrs. No I don't feel bad. He spends most of his time with me. I've never ... (153 words)

Married a month, already unhappy husband can't talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am currently in a difficult position I got married about a month ago and now I don't know what to do. Two days ago I told my husband that I was still uncomfortable around him and that we should talk we had a two conversations on the phone that day about our relationship, he ... (554 words)

Phone records show my wife having an affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I found out by phone records that my wife was having an affair. she says it was not at all sexual. But she was in contact with this guy while I was out of the house, during work and other times. She even texted with him 26 times in one day after being out late, she forgot to ... (133 words)

I'm unhappy when single and can't accept it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello, I recently posted a question on this website. I only received a couple of answers one of which basically said "Just start dating again. Simple." I don't understand why that is so simple, or easy! If it were simple then I'd have a girlfriend and I wouldn't have the ... (267 words)

Would you consider this cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi people, this morning I was walking down the hall of my school with my friends and then I meet up with my best friend. We were walking down the hall and we go past my boyfriend and all my friends say that they saw him hug and kiss a different girl on the cheek. Would you ... (69 words)

Why would he be so paranoid calling me a cheater for not answering my phone...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I love my boyfriend very much. We are very serious and are planning to get married in like a year. I am very trustworthy and not capable of cheating in any sort of way. We've become so attached to each other, However, lately he is being paranoid lately he keeps freaking out if ... (281 words)

How long do I have to wait before having sex AFTER A SMEAR

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I had a smear done today and i bled a little. How long do i have to wait until i can have sex again? Thanks... (25 words)

Did he send that message just to fob me off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK read this:- "Love you too honey, take it easy, see you soon!" - These are the words from a guy I have been seeing. He is not very reliable, still sees his ex from time to time and I haven't heard from him in over a week! - Do you think he will be back or is that message ... (67 words)

What does going down taste like to you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I've gone down on a woman before, and it's fun =) I don't mind the taste and there wasn't really a smell but it felt really warm down there. Started at her neck and played with her a breasts to get her going a little bit then kissed every inch of her stomach down to her =X. L... (128 words)

Is he keeping me sweet in case it doesn't work between them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hiya everyone i have 2 questions really about an ex of mine, we split up in September last year, and have still been having sex until a couple of weeks ago until he got this new gf and my questions are is there a possibility that he still likes me as we talk on the phone in... (120 words)

How long do you stay in a sex position before changing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey everyone...I'm just interested to see what answers I get from this. How long do you people stay in a sex position before changing to another one?... (34 words)

Is he slowly coming around again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I just wanted an opinion here. I have been with my boyfriend for four months. Two weeks ago he broke up with me because he was stressed out over things that were going on in his life. At that time he had told me that he wanted to still be friends and to treat him like any othe... (198 words)

What can I do for my mum to accept my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - im seeking for help don't know what to do. i have a boyfriend who really love me and i also love him but my mum don't want to accept.i don't know what to do, he invite me on the beach with him but i don't know how i will tell my mum about it because i know she might not accept.i... (111 words)

I feel like there is just one thing missing in my life, a baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) age 22-25 - Hi I am 21 years old and i feel like there is just one thing missing in my life, a baby! I have a long term boyfriend who I love very much and who loves me too. Recently i had a scare when I thought I was pregnant I was so scared to tell my boyfriend about it but he was ... (169 words)

He doesn't make fun of me but it's awkward being around him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I like this boy at school and I think he also liked me but today he found out that I like him and now things are pretty awkward between us. One of my friends asked him 'what would he do if I asked him out' and he didn't answer at first but in the end he said that he would say ... (84 words)

Is he hiding his real feelings and covering it with work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Why workaholics always find an exuse to work? My husband works 14 hours a day 7 dasys a week. No vacations, no weekends, no any other activities. He won't do anything around the house. he just goes to work. He works at home from his office, but he is never coming out for ther... (239 words)

I cant give her what the poor girl expects as I don't feel that way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) age 22-25 - hello dear uncles and aunts ....its a bit lengthy stuff but please bear with me ...i have foolishly messed up my life ....im 21 and my girlfriend is 18...i kinda have a strange problem....before i come to it i would like to tel u that my girlfriend is very sweet and caring. she ... (533 words)

How can I ask for some space without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating a really good man since about November. I had decided I was ready for a "real" boyfriend and he is definitely a good on paper guy - trustworthy, super smart and sweet. I get the feeling he is more into it than I am, but after some serious heartbreak in my past, ... (169 words)

Should I leave her alone on keep on trying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello guys and girls. On Mon i finally asked out this girl whom I've been having a crush on. She requested time to think about it. i let Tues pass n talked to her on wed. she told me to come back on Fri. on Thurs she had told my friend that her friends will think shes weak if s... (102 words)

Needing forgiveness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Im 22yrs old, I was separated from my son's father A year ago because of his infidelity. Since then my friend (guy) of three years have been there for me. We started dating but he saw a couple of emails where i was talking to my ex boyfriend from high school(when i was 15Yr... (235 words)

Help! Boyfriend troubles

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hi , 'im just wondering if i can get some advice me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now ,, but recently i've noticed him staring at other girls practically all the time and he keeps giving my girl as friends and other girls over the top hugs if you ... (146 words)

Do I keep talking too him or leave him alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I don't know what to do. I dated this guy for 6 months and I love him very much but when high school started we didn't see each other much and ended up breaking up. A month or so later he started dating a new girl and they dated for 6 months but unlike us they had sex and ... (250 words)

40 something year old woman said to me "Kiss me" - why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - The other night I was sitting on the couch next to an older woman (in her 40's) who I've been seeing and she randomly said to me (I'm 22) in a hot voice "kiss me". When I did kiss her (snog) she started french kissing me, this went on for ages. Can I ask what her reason... (79 words)

Follow up: I'm not sure if I'll ever be able to be ok with things the way they are right now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Well I basically would like this to be a follow up on a previous question of mine. You can read it here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-thought-about-breaking-up-with-her-but-i-still-love-her.html But for those of you that don't feel like the long read I'll try... (385 words)

Will Kegel exercises benefit the both of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 19 and I'm not a virgin. I've only ever had one partner and I have a feeling that number will stay the same for quite some time; I'm not exactly the most confident or most assertive person out there. For now, I'm okay with that, but later on, I'm going to want to find... (121 words)

What do I do? I just got my first period!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Please help i'm at home with just my dad and little sister and i just started my PERIOD for the first time what do i do? I don't have any pads or any of that here and i don't feel right going to tell my dad! and my mom is at work... (53 words)

Should I continue with my application for the military?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. I need some advice and hope someone is able to help. I am engaged to a wonderful man and we have been together for nearly 5 years. However because im still young and in a dead end job, ive applied to join the Military. I am always thinking about my fiance and feel that... (199 words)

Is there any other form of contraception I can take, while being on the pill???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey I was just wondering , me and my boyfriend realy want to try sex without a condom, im already on the pill and am always extra safe when it comes to sex. However i dont like just using one from of contraception mainly because i know you can still get pregnant whilst bein... (102 words)

He is married. I am married. BUT, we love each other!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i have been seeing this married man for a year! I know that he loves me and i love him! He spends so much more time with me than he does at home, i understand why he can't leave though rihgt now! He has a lot he has three businesses and lots of property we didn't mean for feel... (201 words)

I picture my future with him, but not my present.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have been together since we were 16. Throughout our relationship we have both gone travelling separately and I have gone to Uni and am now in my 2nd year. A few times in my relationship I have felt the need to go on a break. I... (328 words)

What can I do to help him overcome his insecurity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is this really great guy - successful, intelligent, funny, good looking, erc. However when it comes to relationships he is very insecure and very immature. I think he has only had 2 serious relatonships in his life. One in in 20's and one in his 30's. I am not ... (171 words)

I cannot get to terms with the way my father lived.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My father died last year. We were never close, I grew up with my mum (they were separated). We had an on o.k. adult relationship (or so I thought). As a child I was often scared of him because he liked to use physical intimidation as a method of getting his way and at that time ... (1011 words)

A rushed wedding? Advice please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend is in the Canadian army and we have been dating for a year and three months now. He recently was told by one his advisers that during his leave in august he should get married because in October he has to move to another base and he wants me to go with him. He was ... (102 words)

Do you feel this happy about going to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend seems over happy, like over dramatic happy about going to work, he never seems that happy when hes with me.. ever, hes over happy when he leaves me and is going home also we've been together for 2 years, and we stay 13 mile apart so he'll live with me all weekend ... (105 words)

I need to feel loved and in a secure relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heres the situation. My ex boyfriend and i broke up 6 months ago cos basically we didnt spend enough time together and i felt that he didnt love me as i loved him. And i was gonna get hurt! Even though he tells me he does. I have thought bout him everyday since then hoping he w... (410 words)

Husband's homecoming from Iraq

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My husband is in the army and has been in Iraq for the last 10 months, he is due home in less then 3 weeks. This is his first tour and it has been very emotional for the both of us. (we were only married 6 months when he left) He is a huge momma's boy and she is very exci... (162 words)

Is there a good reason for people to find out you've had sex?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - is there a good reason that people have to find out u've had sex? because i want to have sex with my bf, he wants to have sex with me, but we r concerned about getting caught and him going to jail since he is 18 and im 15. but i thinks its impossible to get caught cuz where we... (90 words)

Porn issues: He totally ignores me or tells me "not right now"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I need advice!!!!! me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 years and we have been living together for about a year. I dnt know what to do anymore, sometimes I try to have sex with him and he always tells me that he's tired. and he always goes in the bathroom... (150 words)

It feels like he hangs with me just because he has to.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I was in love and after two years he broke up w me without giving me any reasons. After two month he told me he loves me but I couldnt answer with the same because I still loved my ex, so now 1 year passed and I love my bf but lately more and more he acts like he doesnt give... (145 words)

I have not had a sexual partner for 20 years. Advice please

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, im an older women who lives by her self and have not had a male partner in 20 years, i have recently been texting and calling a guy who i think is my perfect match and think i am falling head over heals for him, but he lives a fair distance away, but since i have not had ... (89 words)

Should you always tell people how you are feeling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - If you still love someone and lost them, do you tell them? I have always thought that if I felt that I loved someone then I should share that with them (although I do understand that there are situations where you shouldn't!) This situation is hurting me so much. Bascially... (141 words)

Does hypnosis work? He says he will do anything to know why he cheats.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Could you answer some of my questions please. My husband had been having an affairs though out our marriage 3 that i know off,but he keeps changing his mind as to why he did cheat how can he not know the reasons? We are going to relate next week would they be able to ... (242 words)

I found out that my LDR boyfriend flirted with other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in contact with a man over the internet for over a year, he has just seperated from his wife and we have got very close emotionally. We used to ring each other and chat on the pc every night but we live quite far away from each other, but we want to meet 1 day.... (192 words)

I can't forget him but want to..........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - am still in love with my ex and i really want to forget him in a short period of time.......... what should i do? i tried ignoring my feelings for him but i just can't take it anymore. some times i think of going back to him but other times i think of leaving things t... (107 words)

He makes me feel like sex is all he wants me for sometimes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. We are both in our 3rd year of college and busy. He is very much a prototypical 21 yr. old male who wants more sex (right now it's about twice/week). The problem is that I'm very busy and make a long commute to get to our ... (200 words)

I'm afraid if I kissed her wrong she'll think I'm a bad kisser

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Help im really nervous im going out with this girl tommorow and shes really nice :) her sister and her friend where talking to me and said "are you going to kiss her?" i am really scared because i want to and its my first time. She already has and i kind of said that i alre... (96 words)

Can you trusta serial cheater?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Can you trust a serial cheater (woman)? I am dating an woman in her late 30's early 40's who is a serial cheater. She has been married twice and has cheated on both husbands. Her reasons and method of cheating are particularly disturbing: She cheated out of se... (343 words)

9th wedding anniversary approaching and I have no interest in sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please, somebody give me some advice! I am a 29 yr old married female. I am coming up on my 9th wedding anniversary in less than a month. I have completely lost interest in sex with my husband. We used to have a great sex life, but over time I have just lost interest. On ... (190 words)

It was like a daydream come to life

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i liked this guy his in my modeling and acting class when i first saw him i was like dayumm..i gave him my number at night we would talk and he would sing some songs on his piano and his voice wasnt that great but him singing to me was beautiful cuz i never had a guy sing for ... (103 words)

Told his friends we were moving too fast and now he won't talk to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i dont know wat to do i feel like this is my only solution..theres this guy i went on a date wit we're really diffrent he comes from a veryy rich family and i come from a middle class.his used to the glamm new cars,big houe,a maide kinda thing and i'm used to 2003 cars,normal ... (212 words)

I like him and now my friend does!

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - theres this guy at the begining of the year he was a totall nerd he had short nerd hair and glasses the more i talked to him the more i kinda liked him..noww he changed complettelly he switched to contacts,he has mohakk hair and his soo cutee to me his always been cute..but now ... (283 words)

Let it go or keep chasing it?

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i like this guy the problem is i never talked to him in my life..freshman year my friend tried to hook us up but i didnt likie him now i'm head over heals for him..my friend now says i missed my chance and i'm trying to figure out wat shes talking about..everytime i walk by him ... (107 words)

Where else can you get love bites

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Can you get Hickeys/Love Bites, anywhere on your body besides your neck? If so, where all on your body can you get them at? ... (24 words)

Tired of being made out to be a whore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi there, i really love my man and he's really an amazing, rare kinda guy. he always buys me flowers and massages my back and rubs my feet and looks after me really well if i've had a hard day or i'm sick. only one problem, he's reeeally jelous and protective, and i'm a lot ... (292 words)

6 years and I'm still thinking of him

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay well,My brother has this friend,and they have been best friends since I was like 8. Well,there was a 5 year difference. when I was 8,I HATED him with a deep passion,but as i grew older I realized,how attractive he was.He had always joked around and would say silly things ... (281 words)

We argue over stupid stuff

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - im 13 and so is my boyfriend.we have been going out for 5 months and we have our ups and downs.the affinity I have for him is sooo strong I just can let him go.WE argue but he says its just disagreeing with each other but is this really worth it ?p.s we also argue over stupid ... (58 words)

I want to break up and she's so emotionally attached

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27 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - ok so i have been dating this girl since a year and i wana get rid of her now because of some reason and i dont think this relationship can go ahead. our relationship faced many ups and downs in this year and has got so strongly rooted that even i dont think its gonna be so ... (286 words)

Stretch make agony

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello! =) I've gradually have been gaining weight, i hadn't noticed for the longest time but then one day in November-December-ish, i noticed i was starting to get stretch marks on my tummy and tighs n stuff, ever since then i've been freaking out and stressing about ... (221 words)

Could all of them be cheaters?

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, I mean this question with all respect, and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but I really need to know something and would like to hear other people's opinions. I'm so afraid I will offend someone but I swear I don't mean to. I'm a USA-ian (I like ... (620 words)

This just doesn't sound right..

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I got some texts to my cell phone one night from an anonymous person claiming she had been sleeping with my boyfriend, they are together and he was leaving me for her. She claims to have read texts I sent him and that she saw my pics in his phone. She even knew some personal ... (83 words)

I'm so ready for sex..but..

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I've never done anything with a guy but make-out. I'm soooo ready to do stuff!!! But i'm scared i'll screw it up, or do something wrong. ughh help pleasee! And I want to finger myself but i dont know how to do that either ha. It's embarrasing.... (47 words)

I just found out that my dad died!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi everyone I need help right now!! I just found out that my my best friend died today my dad! And I was crying all through school and my mom wouldn't come get me so I was walking around all day with red puffy eyesand I tryed to wash my makup off but it wouldn't come off so my ... (128 words)

From a one night stand to a relationship to a booty call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - One night stand to a relationship to a booty call? Is that what it is? Ok so I really like this guy, hes 22 im 24 i slept with him right away a drunken mess really but we both think the sex we have is awesome. Neway back in June 08 it started off every other weekend cuz I have ... (477 words)

He's misunderstanding my reasons..

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been in my current relationship for a few months now. It has its ups and downs. But here comes the low. My bf has 2 kids and I have 1. We talked about having kids and first he said he wanted another kid by the time he's 30. He's 25 now. Then he says he wants one by the ... (215 words)

I care about him alot but don't think I want to be with him

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm stuck in a real predicament. I have been dating this boy for nearly 8 months but I'm starting to fall out of love after quite a few incidents where he has been overly protective and possessive of me. I don't know what to do, he has a great side to him that I love but its ... (113 words)

I don't know if I love her I just like being around her

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27 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Ok Here is how it is.I like this girl I dont know why I just met her and now im you might say im in love.She feels the same about me, she always hugging me and stuff but I dont know why I like her Im always thinking about her.Sometimes I can't sleep thinking about her and I ... (135 words)

My g/f says she doesn't want to have sex anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

27 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and I am very much in love with her. The other day we were lying in my bed and she started talking about how she doesn't want to have sex anymore until she loses weight. I keep telling her that she is perfect the way she is. (she ... (149 words)

Will it hurt for both of us if it's our first time?

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27 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I am a virgin and i was just wondering, if my first time with a women that is also a virgin, will it be painful for her or me, or both of us at the same time and how painful is it if it is painful? And i know that a woman bleeds after her first time and i just wondered really ... (67 words)

Thoughts about first time sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi everyone! Okay I'm not saying that I'm going to have sex or anything I'm just very curious what is it like the first time you have sex? Does it hurt? Does it feel good? Is it amazing or what? I need to know!!:) it would really help me out for the future!!;)... (54 words)

Does my apparently flirty teacher like me?

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my teacher is sort of freaking me out. i posted a question like this today but no one really answered it so i am going 2 try again:) any ways my teacher in my school is really confusing me. i don't like him other then a teacher and that is it. but him i am really not so sure. ... (220 words)

Need suggestions for extremely difficult work situation

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I desperately need as many opinions and thoughts as possible as this is quite an important decision I need to make with in the next few hours - the more help I get the better. The economy in the UK right now is extremely bad - the value of our money is at its lowest, many... (630 words)

My friend's dad beats her and I don't know what to do to help her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - today my friend came over and started crying it took me 15 minutes to get her to tell me wats wrong...she told me that if she gets in trobule her dad will beat her mom and sometimes her..i'm soo scared for her i didnt know how to react when she started crying..how do i help or ... (65 words)

He can't love me fully because of her

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - me and my bf have been dating on and off for 3 yrs now, and im 20 and he is 30. he is recently divorced with a 7 yr old daughter.these past yrs have been the best and worst of my life. he never buys me anything or take upon the men duties such as keep up the matience on my ... (251 words)

He doesn't want to put a label on our relationship..and I'm tired of this attitude

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i need seriouse advise. i have been dating this guy for 1 year now and it has trully been an emotional roller coaster, he foudn me at my weakest point and some how i feel in love with him, which surprised me. im tired of not being able to be "official" we haven made our ... (161 words)

I'm shy and don't want to lose my girlfriend!

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27 March 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Am madly in love wit my girlfriend,and we have been goin out for one year but anytime i see her,am usually shy of expressin my love to her,how relationship is getting bored day by day,pls advice me i dont want to be shy any more and am afraid of loosin her ... (51 words)

Should I tell him? Or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Just recently I was informed that my brother is getting married.Im extaticly proud for him but something is nagging at me.in the past i never really saw my brother because we had differnet moms and his mom and my dad are divorced.sometime after in his early 20s he joined the ... (221 words)

I'm interested in my music instructor

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27 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, so here's my dilemma. I'm a seventeen year old girl, but I turn 18 in about a month, by the way, and I take private music lessons. The problem is, I really like my teacher, and I would like to have a relationship with him... he's an adult, but not super old, and he's not a ... (118 words)

My g/f now calls this guy her "best friend"...should I worry?

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27 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ive been away from my girlfriend off and on because of my job, with me only staying about a month here and there before i am forced to leave again. Recently she has become very close to one of her guy friends, and now refers to him as her best friend. I dont think she has ... (90 words)

Best friend becomes girlfriend but then things go sour!

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27 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - In a bit of a pickle. Around 18 months ago I met a girl at college - let's call her A - and we became really good pals. In fact we became best friends, there was a real connection between us. I never really knew if I genuinely liked her, or whether it just looked like I was ... (598 words)