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writes:hi met this gut on line dating been out over past 5 weeks chemistry is there he said hed fallen in love with me from the moment he saw me now he says it wont work hes a lovely guy and id like it to work what advice can you give i miss him Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): Both people have to want a relationship for it to work. There must be someone out there who is better for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): You have to admit that it's pretty silly to even believe a guy that tells you they are in love with you over the internet when you barely know them. I would put down your romance novels, get out there and date guys and get to know them slowly. This one isn't interested.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 It's sad, but sometimes we like a person initially, and then we find things we don't like and can't live with. Maybe this is what happened?
In any case, if he says it won't work, don't push it. Accepting such things is a hard thing, but the right thing.
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reader, Cateyes  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 I wish you could have went into this a bit more...but it almost sounds like a dating scenrio I had last fall. I met a man online, we went out, hit it off...dated for 7 weeks. I knew something wasn't right in the 3rd week, just couldn't put my finger on it. Long story short....he was a player. Never in my life had I ever dated one, new or even thought about the "signs", etc...Sounds to me this guy said everything right to you, everything you wanted to hear and more. I bet in your eyes, he was the perfect "catch". Once it gets a bit to deep - even though he told you he loved you...there gone after they get all what they want. There on to there next victim.
I was so pissed when I found out about my "friend", and thats a nice way of saying it, I MADE him spill the beans with me. I am one tough cookie...and believe me, if he didn't spill the truth to me...Lord knows what I would have done. I don't believe a person should ever lie to another...but there are plenty out there and that's the sad part. I believe in the do unto others as you would do unto them....however and unfortunatley, there are plenty of men and women who just like to play games for there own self gratification.
Chemistry might have been there...but believe me, that's not all you want in a man. Best bet, move forward...there IS someone else out there for you who will have more then just chemistry for you!! Best of luck to you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): Not enough information. Did he say WHY it won't work? 5 weeks sounds like really fast to fall in love. Be careful he's not just a smooth talker.
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reader, Jason means Healer +, writes (23 March 2009):
He's hiding a secret.
Confront him and caress out of him the truth.
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