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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am not turned on any more at all!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have been together for almost six months.... and our sex life is so boring no. Do you think that we should have waited instead of having sex so soon?? It's not her it's really me, I am not turned on any more at all!!!... (53 words)

What do you think? Did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I just broke up wit my boyfriend yesterday and needed to know if I did the right thing or if I just over reacted. Me and my ex dated for a year which in that year I cheated on him twice but later on told him bout it, and he forgave me. We then broke up cause I ... (315 words)

What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being a stupid guy and thinking... (195 words)

I feel like I'm losing the one person I care most about.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know what to do... me and my best male friend had an argument last Wednesday. Now we've done nothing but argue over little things. Tonight I found out a close friend of mine has turned back to drugs, but my male best friend knew about it and didn't think to tell me. He ... (122 words)

Why does he seem to be avoiding me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked out my crush a month ago. He told me he wouldn't go out as a couple but he would as friends. For about 2 weeks he avoided me. And all of a sudden he stares at me whenever I'm with my best guy friend. And he's starting to look at me every once in a while. And yesterday, ... (265 words)

Guilt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should you let things you have done with other guys when you thought you were in love make you feel guilty when you're with the person you really love?... (29 words)

Should I leave my husband and follow my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was 16 I met one of my best friends Joey, I wasn't interested in dating anyone that summer so we just hung out even though he expressed feeling for me. We hung out all the time and our friend would just say "would you guys just admit your dating", During senior ... (292 words)

How I can overcome this problem and avoid masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a habit of masturbation. At times I do it some 3 to 4 times in a week. I cannot control it. In daily life when I see sexy girls or scene full of sexual content ... then when I am alone ... these scenes go through my mind then slow and steadily I PUT my attention tow... (138 words)

My girlfriend won't come on to me for fear I'll reject her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for quite some time now and we have a good sex life. The only problem is that when she is horny she won't make a move on me in case I don't want to have sex. If we're both horny then it's fine and if just I'm horny usually I just start pawing at her ... (133 words)

Should I be worried about him? Do I have reason to doubt, or is it just because of the things that have been thrown at me?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me, I have been very confused with what I feel and hear. I have known a boy for a little over a year, he never really talked to me in that year of time, but early this year, he started wanting to talk to me, and he sort of helped me sort through my emotions on s... (624 words)

I'm in love with someone I've never even spoken to!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, well basically I'm here becausee I'm totally in love with a boy I've never even spooken to and I think he likes me too! It's so weird I know! Well it goes like this: I work near him, he works in a shop and I always go in on the way to work but he always looks at me and s... (202 words)

What the hell is a married man doing in gay bars anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and have just broken up with my boyfriend of 6-months (he's 34 years old). I broke up with him after finding out he was married with two children; I feel disgusted and sick and have self-loathing. We met in a gay bar that's popular locally; his wit and charm, as w... (288 words)

Wait for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean if a guy (whose a close friend) says he will "wait" as long as I want for sex? Do you think that he cares more about "just sex" and he actually has feelings/and cares about me?... or does he just want sex only? :S I'm still a virgin... but sometimes ... (135 words)

I need opinions here... Is it true...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it true that egg whites are safe to use as lube for sex and can they help you to get pregnant?... (22 words)

Do guys need breathing space in a relationship every now and again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is healthy in a relationship, right? My boyfriend wants to hang out with his guy friends I'd say it comes up about... once or twice a month. He text me this morning saying,'my buddy has an extra ticket for an event.' So, we'll go out on Friday and hang out with our fri... (150 words)

I don't want to say something again and come off as desperate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a pretty good guy friend I've been crushing on for some time now. Back in October I told him how I felt, and he told me he didn't feel the same way about me, but lately he's been coming off as extremely flirtatious to me. I'm wondering if he might have changed his mind, ... (351 words)

Does it sound like she likes me or not and any tips to tell if they do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright I like a girl I and well i have been talking to her for about 2 weeks and I feel like things are going nicely. I actually found out we have a lot more in common then I previously imagined. I had someone I know say that she was talking about me during a class and he d... (241 words)

Any way to make my penis grow faster?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay i know you guys get frustrated hearing this type of question but...it's a world wide problem and issue that most guys face in there lives..." ihave a small penis" and it really sucks...i know your going to say im still going through puberty but when is this puberty ... (263 words)

Boyfriend is terrible with money!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Background: I am 29. My boyfriend is 39. We have been together for 4 years. A year ago, we sold our house, moved cities, and are renting an apartment so that my boyfriend could go back to school. I am paying all of the bills (rent, utilities, car payment, insuranc... (387 words)

I'm so tired of being a faithful good girl when no one else is!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age - I have fallen for my boss. He is young, funny, beautiful and very sexy. The problem is that he is married and I already have someone. Recently, I find out that my someone else is seeing somebody too. He has been seeing her for a year.I am so tired of doing the right thing, ... (77 words)

Leaving marriage for affair partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone regret leaving there marriage for a person they had an affair with?... (14 words)

I've been having a relationship with my dad's business partner

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, first off Im 25 and very close to my dad. He is 45 and I consider him one of my best friend. But for the last 5 months I have been having a relationsip with his business partener. We were afraid to tell my dad. Yes I know I am an adult and it is legal but it just seemed w... (105 words)

I humiliated her in front of all these people..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have had a crush on one of my best freids for many years. She knew my feels but was in a relationship for most of that time, (or many relationships I should say). She is very insecure and feels she always needs a man in her life, and has had many partners. We messed around ... (172 words)

After 12 year of marriage, children..I cheated! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so confused been with my husband for 12 years have kids, but i think i am in love with someone else. I never thought i would cheat, but i did and now he wants to be with me. I have not been gettig along with my husband for about a year. Please help me, guide me ... (62 words)

Boyfriend & drinking..if he doesn't stop does it mean he doesn't love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. we have had a past confrontation about his drinking. he cut down for awhile but after about a month he slowly started drinking excessively again. i am ready to talk to him about it again. ive put up with it for several ... (80 words)

How soon will I notice effects of the workout?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all! I'm just looking for some advice about weight and excercise... basically I'm not fat,I'm not even really that chubby but I just want to tone up a bit recently I have been cycling four miles every other day ...11 on a sunday (I also play badminton for two and a hal... (125 words)

We had dry sex, he had boxers on, I had none.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile and were planning on gettin married but were waiting on the whole sex thing. but we have dry humpted more then 10 times he has had shorts and boxers on but i havent and yes he has came but from what i know not in me so is it... (64 words)

Drifting apart & I don't want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. hes so special to me and he means soo much to me. were so good togeather and we have soo much fun when were in eachothers company. i do really love him but over the past 2weeks he and i have had alot on and havnt spent much time ... (77 words)

Small red dots all under skin on legs

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little scared because idk what's wrong with my skin. I have been getting this small red dots all over the lower halves of my legs they're under the skin and are freckle-like but like really red. they don't itch but sometimes an area of my leg will itch like crazy and it ... (172 words)

My friends think this guy is ugly but I think I'm ugly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello everyone today i am asking for help i am a 14yr girl and i like this boy his 17 he goes to my italian school the problem is my friends think he is ugly and i am overweight so i always think i look ugly and i dont know what to do please help me... (61 words)

My boyfriend doesn't turn me on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 years doesnt turn me on! We are both virgins and want to wait until we are married to have sex.We do other things like oral sex and masturbation but the problem is i cant "come" when we fool around together through masturbation. I have no problem masturbating ... (179 words)

I seem to get bored with him, should I continue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Im glad i stumbled across this site. I really need some advice. I've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now.My BF is wonderful,he treats me like a princess and over the last 5 years his love has grown for me...My feelings for him on the other ha... (293 words)

Should I be losing this much hair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i have noticed that when brushing and washing my hair, alot of it has been falling out, before a bit did, but now its alot, im just wondering if its something i shoulld be worrying about or what the cause may bee :/ thankss :) xx... (55 words)

I like my female, married co-worker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Thanks all, for taking the time to read and help. Im 35 divorced (happy n giving person) I met somone she is a female married. This is my coworker, and I am really new too bisexual scene.( I have only kissed a girl 4 yrs ago) Why so long -well , I want it to mean somthing... (660 words)

My ex-husband wants to be bed partners with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently divorced after 13 years of marriage. My ex-husband was seeing someone, according to him they broke up. He tells me he is still in love with me, and has asked if we could be bed partners since he was not seeing anyone. He called me today asked me a bunchof ... (123 words)

She wants to get married, but I want to wait!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my Girlfriend for years now and we live together and have been doing well. I love her very much and want to be with her for a very long time. She wants to get married but I don't really want to. She thinks I don't want to because I want to be with other girls ... (153 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend that has babymama drama?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My current boyfriend of 5 months has an ex who is also the mother of his child of 7months. They talk or text almost everyday "about their son" sure. I asked him did he still love her and he says he do but he is not in love with her. She gets angry if he dont reply to her text ... (130 words)

Can a man have sex and not feel anything for the woman?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Can a man have sex with a woman if he feels nothing for her or will he always have some sort of attraction? When men have affairs they tend to say its "just sex" - but surely it must be "just sex" with some sort of attraction?... (49 words)

Bump after unprotected sex 3 weeks ago..pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 15 and 3 week ago i had sex for the first time, and we didnt use protection, i know it was stupid not to, but now ive started putting on weight, to form a sort of bump on my stomach, and people have started asking if im pregnant, and i keep getting a sort of twinge in my ... (113 words)

What compliments do guys like to receive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy who lives on the other side of the world, i think i'm falling in love with him... he's falled in love with me, when we are at uni we plan to meet up, i think he could be 'the one', i'm not being silly and immature, but he makes me feel like i'm the ... (154 words)

Is this mean or am Itaking this too hard?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so there is this girl, we met about 2 months ago and the way we met i thought we was supposed to be together, we started seeing each other and it was all good. just recently ive started to feel so comfortable in holding her hand and kissing her, and i could tell her ... (332 words)

I love a chinese man but my family wants me to marry an Indonesian!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have a boyfriend,his name is J. I love him so much that I dont want to be away from him, problem is he's Chinese and I'm Indonesian. I'm worried about my family,they're so old fashioned and they want me to marry Indonesian guy as well. I'm now 22 year old ... (104 words)

Lumps on my neck & tattoo a few months ago..related?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, Recently I have been noticing little lumps on my neck around the sides, just below my ear and back of nect etc. I've noticed them for about 2 wks now and was getting a bit concerned. Today a big lump come up on my neck and it was filled with puss and blood I... (141 words)

Is she pregnant? Cum on my finger was inside her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay..so i was fingering my girl and she was giving me a handjob..i cummed on her stomach..i touched the cum with one of my fingers..and then after that..i toook lots of tissues and cleaned it up..i think this took like 2-3 minutes..and after sme time we started making out and ... (102 words)

Should I avoid my so-called "friends"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello today i had a bad day at school a boy who i thought was my mate was nasty to me for no reason it got so bad i creid he kept calling me mean and untrue names. my freind who sits next to me ( who got a fight and was kinda under the weather)dint stick up for me at all s... (184 words)

Girlfriend's behavior finally put me over the edge!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf's behavior on Saturday night has finally put me over the edge. I was invited to a Paddy's Day party. I immediately asked her to come with me. She first refused because she didn't like the people that were going to be there. Particularly the girls that would be there. ... (846 words)

My boyfriend has become really boring!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello my boyfriend is getting really boring and i dont what is wrong with him . we used to be all happy and he always wanted to go out and take me places but now all he wants to do is sit in what shall i do xxx thxz love stacie... (51 words)

After a year of sex, I've never had an orgasm..how do I tell my b/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think all of us girls (and most of the guys out there) are perfectly aware that it is not only normal but common for a woman to only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. But, I think my boyfriend doesn't know that this is the case. Because I am loud in bed, I think he just as... (706 words)

Stay with the girlfriend or just keep moving on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with her officially for 3 months now and I was seeing her for 4 months before we actually got together. The thing is, things were alot better before we actually got into a relationship. Things weren't complicated, we got along sooo so well, we clicked in every single ... (313 words)

My sister wanted me to spy on her fiance..do I tell her what I found?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my sister sent ne on a mission to spy on her fiance. their wedding wud take place in three weeks. well, i got to find out he has an affair wt his coleague at work and when i caught him red handed in an eatery, hugging her, saying bye see u later , he got startled and i ... (235 words)

I had the flu and now I have unusually large amount of discharge

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really like some help. Lately I've had an unusually large amount of discharge. And I mean A LOT of discharge. It has started soaking through my jeans and I've never had it this bad. It looks like normal discharge and doesn't have a bad smell. It started when I had a ... (72 words)

If he knew it was wrong, why did he cheat twice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age - My husband cheated on me he says he is sorry and it will never happen again.When i asked him if you had never got caught would you still be going behind my back his reply was can,t really answer that but proberly.This is not the first time he has cheated I then asked him what... (138 words)

Good gift? I don't want to be boring & thoughtless

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, the girl I like (or at least think I do - still unsure)has her birthday on friday, and we should be meeting Saturday (I suggested we meet for a coffee, but she asked if I would go for a walk with her - cannot really refuse) Anyway, I'd like to get her a gift even some... (142 words)

Should I ask her out? Flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that I like. She's one of the nicest person you can meet; she's a little shy, but once you warm up to her, fun to be around. Another thing is she had been extremely sheltered through out her life, so at times she seems a bit innocent. Somehow, I got close ... (523 words)

Would she get by without me?She's too dependent on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - From the age of 16 my dream was to have a business where I could earn money from my computer and travel the world. No one believed that was realistic but I worked hard over the last 9 years at it and now I am almost in the position to live like that. The only thing holdi... (327 words)

I had an affair and now my 15 year old daughter doesn't trust me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age - About 2 years ago my marriage broke up, essentially I left my wife for another woman. It was a really bad situation where I felt deeply unhappy in my marriage, but instead of just leaving I started an affair, was found out and this bought everything to an head. although my wife ... (208 words)

She says its painful and too much friction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Whenever me and my girlfriend have sex it feels really good for her except for right after she climaxes. Right after that point she says that it hurts and has a "friction feeling" and we are forced to stop with or without me cumming. We try to start again after a few minu... (83 words)

Says he's not in the right state of mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been speaking to this guy for a week and a half now.. he's 23 and im 18, we are both interested in each other but he has just came out of a 2 year relationship, 3 months ago, bringing with him alot of money problems. i asked him the other day are you still intere... (139 words)

My boyfriend wants her & me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age - I am in a dilemna and could really use your help! Where to start. I started dating my bf in February 2005, we had some problems later that year and he turned to someone else. We worked out our problems and everything was great until recently. He says he loves me very mu... (264 words)

G/f depressed because she's obese

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is depressed because she’s obese. She’s tried quite a lot of diets but nothing seems to work as she gives up after a couple of weeks. Generally I’d say she eats about the same amount that I do and if anything I’m underweight. What can I do?... (49 words)

She's so up herself at times!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i got this friend, she can get any guy she wants like but when she does she treats them badly, recently she had a guy he was lovely although he was in a relationship before her and he is expecting a child and she got with him but then they had silly arguments because his ex ... (281 words)

Pain free & free of charge way to make penis bigger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey iam 17 and I have a smal penis and I was jst basicly asking if anyone knows a pain free and free of charge way to enlarge a penis because I have no confidence iam afraid to show my gf and we have been dating for a year So pls someone help... (54 words)

He's shorter than me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We like each other very much he worries all the time that i dnt like him cause hes shorter than me... M 5"10 hes 5"8. By him worrying he makes me self conscious about my height. Any idea guys please... And also girls too... Help me... (47 words)

I like my daughter's coach!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mum who has a nine year old daughter. my daughter has recently started tennis lessons and her male coach is very nice very good looking..and single!! Is it wrong to ask him out as he is my daughters coach and how are some ways i can flirt with him a little with ... (71 words)

I don't think my relationship with family will be the same now

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

17 March 2009 (?) age 36-40 - We were open and honest with our families about our relationsip and now I fear they will hate me forever. My mom cried and told me she thought she raised me better, my dad well he will just say he was pissed. Before leaving their house everything got very heated and Im afraid ... (121 words)

Am I going to bleed or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was molested when I was really small and I'm about to get married in a months time..... and now I'm just worried if I am going to bleed on my wedding night when I have sex? Am I going to bleed or not? And will the guy be able to tell whether I bleed or not during sex o... (75 words)

His friend is such a bad influence on him and I have fears he could wreck our marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, We have been married for almost 5 years and we have a 20 months darling boy. I love my husband very much and I am sure that he loves me. However, recently I have been facing two major problems: 1. When my husband drinks a little too much, he can get verbally abu... (637 words)

We broke up, then he said he wants me back..is it me he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is quite a long story,hope u can help! i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, i thought everything was going quite well, we didn't argue that much and had good times together. however,about 2 weeks ago he asked for a break because he wanted time to himself..i was upset ... (276 words)

He's already got a g/fbut I like him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi well i am 20 years old and single i've been through alot with guys alot of them treat me badly and tell me things that in the end turn out not to be true. But i work full time at a solicitors office and there is a guy who often comes in he is our electrician he is soo hott... (185 words)

How do I break this insane jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with a guy for 9 months!! its been amazing the first 2 months.. but then weve started fighting over the stupidest things. the past!! we both had a really hard time getting over the drug use(his more then mine) and sexually past(mine more then his) Im a really really j... (92 words)

She's very stubborn and doesn't know what she wants, meanwhile I am in so much pain!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone. I'm not in a good place right now, and could really do with some help and advice. Basically, I met my girlfriend about one year ago and we fell in love so fast, we were practically inseparable. All was perfect throughout the summer months, I mean we had our ... (1160 words)

I'm losing feelings for him and don't know what to do!

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im dating a guy i have been since just after christmas he says he loves me and all n i am pretty sure i love him but im losing feelings for him and i have no clue what to do i told him bout it once he stopped talking to me for a few days and i guess it would be upsetting but i ... (113 words)

Want ex back badly but he has someone else

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me an my ex broke up 5 months ago. i told him i want him i want him back, he has someone else in his life now but he told me he loves and wants to be with me but he feels he has to give her a chance he told me they are not serious about the relationship but he does not want to ... (105 words)

I want a boyfriend, he wants sex... how do I make him change?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just some advice needed really. There's a lad I really like and he likes me, we are very attracted to each other but neither of us are in the right place to have a relationship with each other. We went to Paris a few weeks back with each other to watch some football and to ... (229 words)

Do I need a Physiotherapist?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age - hey i am 14 years old. i have been having some shoulder and back pain, mainly on the left side. it might be due to a heavy schoolbag or something, but ive been noticing a sharp pain i get sometimes near my neck/shoulder. its always in the same place, and it stings when i pick ... (73 words)

I don't want to cheat, jsut use her to see if I have potntial to be Bi...

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm a straight female in a relationship with a guy, but I have a crush on a another girl. But the problem is I have a close relative who I call my sis but she really isn't. We'll call her Jen. Ok now Jen's sister is the girl I'm crushing on. We'll call her April. April is ... (245 words)

Abusive Husband, how do I change him?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my husbund is always making nasty comments about me for no reason and then tells me to learn to move on in live if i'm still mad at him 5 minutes later but he never appologises. How can i make him realize what he's doing to me without being rude or getting him mad again?... (59 words)

How long should I wait for this 16 year old girl to grow up?

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17 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have fallen in love with a 16 year old girl.I love her very much.Yet I is it correct for me to think of settling down with her after say 6 years.... (32 words)

Now he's going to crash on her couch for 10 days and I don't feel good about it

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have some "ex-factor" issues that just don't seem to go away. My boyfriend and I have had quite a few heart-to-heart talks over this and I honestly feel it's all in my head. I don't want to bring it up with him anymore because he has done everything he co... (559 words)

Should I dump this friend to look for potentials?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a guy mate who I get on with and try to see on a regular basis. He already has a girlfriend, but lives away from him and I'm 23 and still single. Every time Mum knows that I arrange to meet up with him, she complains that I am 'wasting my time' and that I should focus ... (123 words)

How do I help my insecure girlfriend?

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17 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm new at this, but here goes... I have been dating my girlfriend for six months now and I am loving it. It is safe to say that we are in love and I am head over heels for her. What I need advise with is this, she is insecure. Normally this wouldn't bother me at all, ... (203 words)

Doggy style hurting

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a long term relationship for 5 years and I greatly enjoy sex from the back (doggy style) but for some reason when I do sometimes its painful. What does anybody suggest I should do? Will be greatly appreciated!... (41 words)

How can you make anal sex less painful for first timers?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old. I have been longing for anal sex with my long term partner of 5 years. Only because I am curious about the sensation and also wanting to please him. But, I am scared also that it will be very painful. Does anybody have any suggestions it will be very helpful ... (58 words)

I'm jealous of my girlfriend's previous friend with benefits

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17 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I am a divorced male and have been dating this girl for about 5 months. She is truly great and I think the world of her. I am taking things slow because I've been married and don't want to rush into anything. Recently, while drinking at my apartment, we got into the ... (184 words)

Period was 6 days late but two days long?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well hello I was wondering if I could be pregnant because my period was six days late and I only bled for two days. I usually have regular periods and I thought that maybe my period didn't come because February only has 28 days and mine come every 8th day. When my period ... (79 words)

My boyfriend seems to like porn more than me.

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been together with my boyfriend for 2 years. When we first started dating, everything felt magical. Now, we live together for about a year and a half. In the beginning, we used to have a lot of sex. However, he started watching porn on the net and even became a... (208 words)

We've lied to each other, but he holds this one against me.

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok... So I come on here regularly and give advice every once in a while, but now, I really need to hear others opinions. Ok. My boyfriend and I went on a "break" in early november. He stayed where we lived together, and I moved home with my daughter. Shortly after be... (1191 words)

Its not intentional but I'm doing sexual things to my girlfriend while I'm asleep and its upsetting her!

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17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay this is really embarrassing but i have no idea where to go. I have a girlfriend, we have been going out for 1 year 4 months. Everything has been great. Had a probblem couple of months ago but since then everything has been sorted. So anyway, as with all relationship... (421 words)

Do I have a chance to get my ex back?

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17 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a sort of complicated situation. I was in a relationship with my ex for 3 years and we've known each other for 12 years through the internet. She left me for one of my "friends" about 2 months ago. Her and I still own a house together and she still comes home to me ... (351 words)

Told love of my life didn't have feelings..its not true, but our relationship has never worked out in the past

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated the love of my life for two and a half years; we were really in love, but we were both sort of damaged and couldn't get it to work right. We tried to break it off a few times during the 2.5 yrs but it never really took, until we moved apart and finally really ended it ... (421 words)

I think I love two men

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I love two men. My current b/f is wonderful her treats me great. But he seems to have no plans for the future. He wants to marry me but he seems to have no stability. We dont live together or share finances)We have been together for almost 3 years. I have ran into my... (137 words)

I need tips for new sex positions and ideas

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have sex a lot, but it's usually in the same methods, either he spoons me or i'm on top. That's it. He has a small penis and has trouble with keeping erections, so I try not to vary too much because I'm afraid any changes will make it hard for him. Does an... (86 words)

My friends with benefits relationship is confusing me!

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have dated a guy for two months, but we decided to just be friends with benefits because he has too much going on in his life right now and so do I. He said he doesn't feel that "spark" anymore. We meet up for sex about once or twice a week, and he is very sweet and r... (160 words)

Dumped suddenly by my boyfriend..don't know why

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys need some sound advice here..going mad - thanks First - have had no period am 3 days late - 3 negative pee tests, went to doctor today got her to take my blood so playing the waiting game on that one. Doc also got a negative on the pee sample. I have pregnancy sympto... (532 words)

Painful sex I keep hoping it will get better..but it doesn't!

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 32 years old. Recently married my boyfriend of 7 years. We have had differences of opinion even before marriage. Its been just 5 months since we got married. I feel something is wrong in my marriage. He has something to say in everything I do or don't or say. The worst ... (313 words)

I have feelings for my best friend

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17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have feelings for my best friend. We have gone out to eat together a couple of times, but she pays for herself. We do the same things together after school and spend time together during the school day. I catch myself flirting with her often and at times she flirts back, or ... (305 words)

Why can't she let go of him?

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17 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to be with this girl who has a boyfriend for about 4 years. she says she is unhappy and wants out. she says i make her happy and she feels complete with me. She told me i want to leave him but CANT. If she is unhappy why is she staying. She says i make her happy. I don't ... (123 words)

I really don't want a relationship like what we had!

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello... Don't really know where to start but here goes. I was with someone 4 nearly a year. When we first met i was sooo mad about him and he didnt seem that interested in me.. infact he wasnt nice at all. after months of chasing he i finally got him and was with him. i was so... (713 words)

How to make pleasuring myself better?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I dnt masterbate alot but I find it quite pleasurable Lol but when I do. it the only thing that gives me pleasure is rubbing my clit. and when I do the pleasure comes and goes very quickly but it's very intense.i've never had sex so I don't know for sure if it's an orgasm ... (92 words)

Hormonal wife seeks answers to mystery extra period.

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is more of a question for a medical forum but I thought I might get your guys views as you always seem to give some good advice... I am married, 2 years, happily. I never was on the pill, then recently decided to take it because were weren't sure more children would b... (306 words)

Do you think he's just trying to be friendly and have a laugh,or should I be concerned?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm not sure whether to be flattered or scared. I recently got talking to a man who I haven't seen for a long time. I met him once when I was younger and we recently got talking again as we found each other online. He said he was flattered because I remembered who he was ... (162 words)

Should I have kept contact or did I do the right thing?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. I'm going through a painful trial at the moment and I want opinions as to whether I made the right choice or not. I'm 28, he's 21. I'm originally from NY and just recently moved to San Diego, leaving him behind. Long story short-he pursued me. I took it as an ... (200 words)

I'm wondering what kind of person my boyfriend is.

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this man for the past 4 months. He's a professional, intelligent, funny and very caring. It was supposed to be a casual meeting which turned into a one night stand which turned into a relationship. i met him through the internet a week after my last on-off r... (958 words)

IS he a player like my friends say?

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17 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In January I started a new job and fell in love with it immediately. A couple of weeks into the job I was introduced to a Polish man who normally worked night shifts and he was very friendly if not a little flirty and sleazy, but I just shrugged it off as I was told he was like ... (252 words)