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writes: Hi, I;m really looking foreword,to see your take on my situation... This is about my husband. So we live together 25 years ago, and a few years ago ,my husband went limp suddenly in a middle of an intercourse. It never happened before. We just stopped it, and didn't pay too much attention to it. But next time, he couldn't even get it up, and since than ,he never got a normal erection..So ,he went for medical visit.. EVERYTHING WAS FINE.So ,after that we didn't know what to think,...They said ,it is on his mind,... but he has no clue he says ,what is this..So , our sex life is gone, he can't maintaine an erection in any time...And he is cold with me. I really don't know what to do.. What should I think? I don't have any idea what is wrong with him, and I 'm so afraid, I gonna get hurt, if I don't try to look for the real cause. I don't want to destroy our marriage, but I don't want to be a victim.Do any of you have any thoughts on this? Thanks
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reader, barco  +, writes (24 March 2009):
He's getting older in the 50's. He just needs some viagra or cialis. Tell him to go back to the doctor and ask for a prescription for some drugs.
Why would you get hurt? Your not going to get hurt by his penis being limp...nor would you be a victim. That part of your question doesn't make sense.
He is cold because he has a problem and is embarrassed...maybe you need to help him with it and be more understanding.
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reader, tux +, writes (23 March 2009):
 I would see a different doctor.. losing erection mid-coitus and not being able to get it back up is not good. There has to be a reason for it whether it is just mental or physical. If it's physical than it means something is wrong with the blood system. He definitely should get it checked out and make sure they rule out everything physical.. Especially bloodclots..
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 March 2009):
 I think the doctor made a bad call. Erectile dysfunction is not easy to diagnose. Ask the doctor to prescribe Viagra or Cialis and see if that helps. He may be acting cold because he's embarrassed about all this. If you guys are upfront and relaxed with each other then I think the problem will be solved with a little pharmaceutical help.
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