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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

A gay guy hitting on a lesbian??? Really?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big problem. I'm gay for one. My best friend is a boy (J). Well, I thought he was gay as well. I mean, he told me he was bi when we first met. But I just assumed that he was gay because he never stopped talking about this one boy. Well... The other day he texts me and ... (115 words)

How do I get her to have sex or should I just move on??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have asked all of my friends so I guess I will ask and wait for a random person to give me the answer. I'm still in high school and my gf is older than me but she is a virgin and I want sex but I don't want to cheat on her.... she avoids the question when I refer to it. How ... (79 words)

Does "sleeping over" bring a couple closer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so what is behind the whole reason why my boyfriend wanted me to sleep over on Saturday night.. He gave me a tight hug and didn't want to let me go. Jokingly of course but kept insisting it was late and I should just spend the night.. I didn't though. But not sure what a ... (90 words)

Mild depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sure I'm being melodramtic but I feel as though I'm suffering with mild symtoms of depression but I am too scared to go talk to a doctor about this as I wouldn't know what to say and I'd just feel a bit silly, if you understand me? I live away from home at uni and latel... (291 words)

Me on top?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend a couple of weeks now and we've had sex a few times. I really want to try going on top, it's something that I fantasise about often and he's said he wants me to but I've never tried it. I can usually get on top but then I kinda get stuck as to ... (138 words)

French kissing and oral sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age - If a man french kisses does that mean that he will be receptive to oral sex for both female and male. Or does one have anything to do with the other. Also, why would a man want oral sex but doesn't want to give it? If he is born in 1938 would that have something to do ... (72 words)

Does anyone have any advice or even experience of having a baby while with someone in a long distance relationship???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 2 years and I are in a distance relationship. I am 34 and she 32 years old. We see each other every weekend and are very close. We would both far prefer living together but despite hard efforts I am not doing well in getting a job where she lives and for ... (244 words)

What exactly is the Atkins diet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm a little confused. I'm wanting to try the Atkins diet, but the thing is I am not quite sure what it is or what it involves, I've just heard that you can lose a lot of weight from it. Would you recommend it? And what is it exactly? Thanks x... (53 words)

The Cymbalta drug.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Anyone on here been on Cymbalta before? Did it help with anxiety, depression, etc?... (14 words)

Suggestion on stopping this from happening so fast??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advice, wen I'm having sex with my girlfreind on top I can last a good amount of time, but when I'm on top I just seem to cum after a few minuites any suggestion on stopping this from happening so fast??... (44 words)

Failed marriages...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Anyone out there who has had a failed marriage? Why didn't it work? Did you try to make it work, but then get to a point where you just gave up? I feel like I'm about to shut down and stop trying.... (46 words)

He's going out with me but flirts with her. Why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and this guy are going out and theres this one girl that he does the whole tap your right should then jump to the left side while she looks the wrong way thing and he'll be talking to her then just reach in her pocket right outta nowhere and grab her phone and lo... (140 words)

Lying so no one gets hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like people's opinions on whether i am doing right by lying to a friend to ensure she doesn't get hurt. My friend and i were very close at one point but we don't really speak as much anymore, not as much as we used to anyway. Anyway, she started going out with my best ... (309 words)

Can you really just be friends? Opinions on crushes, the attraction zone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Your opinion on crushes, attraction and the friend zone. This question is mainly directed at guys, but women can answer too. So if you were once attracted to/ interested in someone but then became good friends, does that feeling of attraction ever really go away? I mean, ... (92 words)

Too eager? Sent text nothing back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I met a girl on Friday and we exchanged numbers (she suggested it). I decided against texting her over the weekend so I don't come across as too keen. This evening I decided to drop her a quick text message just to see how she was doing (I asked how she was and if she had a ... (191 words)

What's it like swallowing for 1st time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - what is swallowing semen like for the first time? i want to swallow my boyfriends but im nervous ill gag. ive heard a lot of people dont like the taste and gag from it. i just want to know what its like because i want to swallow i just dont want to gag from it. please help! ... (59 words)

Too early?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was due for my period on the 14th. Is it too early to take a pregnancy test?... (18 words)

Guy's completely shaved pubic hair..opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, pls How do girls feels when a guy completly shaved his purbic hair. Is it attractive to girls and i have been with 4girls now and each time we are about to have sex , they will ask me if i love them. So i want to know if it is a common talk with girls.... (62 words)

Do teachers ever have crushes on their students?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, all! I'm looking to hear from any teachers out there (especially young and/ or male ones) on the subject of student/ teacher relationships. I've noticed that there are countless posts on this website of students (especially females) declaring their love for teacher... (158 words)

Women's intuition tells them they are pregnant before taking test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it true that women have this strong intuition that let's them know they're pregnant even before taking a pregancy test?!?... (21 words)

He's so shy he runs away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age - he acts like he likes me and has for years however he so shy i dont know. he wants to be around me because he always is i know we're best freinds but i think he wants maby more he has kissed me. he just so shy he run away what do i do?... (54 words)

Is this a sign of an STD?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey like 3 weeks ago i was having lots of sex with my GF once a day at least but like recently ive found red spots that arent bumpy they go if i dont have sex/BJ for awhile but come back when i do, me and my GF where both virgins. is this a serious STI somehow or is it... (66 words)

My ex wife has left for the 4th time but I know I'd take her back again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my ex wife has left me 4 times in 16 years , but always come back to me , usually when i started seeing someone else,6 weeks ago she left me again,but this time she has moved 40 miles away and taken my daughter with her , but has left my son for me to look after,i just cant ... (97 words)

We broke up, I still love her and people are saying really mean things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 and i was in a 2 year relationship. it had its ups and downs but we made it this far untill a couple nights ago. heres the story ill make it short. my gf and i were textin one night and all the sudden she asked why i hated her ex. i said: cause of the things he does ... (260 words)

How do you keep him interested when others like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - we both like each other, i probably like him more but i know he does actaully like me to some point. he speaks to me online for hours sometimes and says really sweet things. we hardly see each other in person as we dont have any mutal friends but weve been out before and it w... (163 words)

I was cruel to him and we broke up. What is he thinking now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been nasty and cruel to my ex boyfriend who broke up with me 4 weeks ago but we have continued seeing other and it felt like we were still a couple but he kept stressing it was over even though he went out of his way to see me. it all came to a blow yesterday, i spent sat ... (206 words)

She's emotionally taking advantage of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - OK, i love my girlfriend. but i have an ongoing source of frustration. background: we've been dating for 2 years, she moved to my state to be with me, we talk about marriage maybe next year....issue: if i express a need, it becomes a "complex" for her, and the need is even ... (476 words)

It hurts when I masturbate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody! I'm almost 23 years old and STILL a virgin! Anyway my problem is that I do enjoy masturbating a lot, and I only give myself clitoral orgasms. However, whenever I try fingering myself it just hurts so i have to stop. I was just wondering what I could do to make ... (75 words)

Has he changed or will he hurt me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to know if my ex has/can change or will he hurt me again! without going into too much detail (would be an essay otherwise). we went out for a year he broke my heart and went out with someone else for 6 months ( he had cheated on me with her).6 months ago he broke up ... (320 words)

He bought me a diamond ring but I still want to have the abortion

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am completely torn about whether or not to have an abortion. I could really use some adivce because I haven't told many people I am pregnant.I am 21 years old, and my boyfriend is 25. He has a good job and could support a baby, and has lots of family that would help us. I am ... (512 words)

Is he asking me to prom as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night, me and the boy I am madly in love with were talking over the internet. We'd been talking about my recent illness, and he was being so understanding, more so than some of my closest friends, who don't seem to understand my illness at all. He was asking me questi... (195 words)

Serious all consuming jealousy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this girl that always wrote on my bf's friendster wall..i asked him bout it bfore and he said he never met her before,she is just sumone he knew from friendster..i think he knew her before he met me..anyway,what really really annoys me is that they have this pet name ... (111 words)

Cheating on my wife of 27 years..is it lust? Or love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age - I am 50 year old man self employed married to a beautiful lady since 27 year father of 3 daughters doing MBA in my orginization a 25 year young beautiful lady made advances towards me and made friendship with me on mobile and SMS this was 3 years back finely. I also responde... (130 words)

I'm 14, want to date an 18 year old. How to tell my mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys. thing is there is this guy I like, he's 18 and I'm 14, he sed he likes me and I like him too and he asked me if i'd go out with him. I said yes, he also said that he would push me into anything and would respect me, (I would let him push me into anything I wasn'... (96 words)

I will only ever love my ex yet he doesn't want me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

- I need to know, once and for all, what to do about the man that I love and who I have only ever loved. I met him 5 years ago and fell for him instantly. We got together but he left me for someone else after 6 months. I stil loved him and to this day I dont know why but I do. We ... (358 words)

I miss my girlfriend so much but I'm still with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I miss my girlfriend so much. The trouble is, we're still together. We've been together for 18 months now. For the first 12 months, things could not have been better. We were so close. We trusted each other with everything, we could talk about anything. We did so much together... (590 words)

Crazy about a guy but don't know how he feels any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my bf nearly 4 months now. I'm young, but I am crazy about this guy... Now knowing my age I have high school exams so I can't contact him a lot. I love him LOADS, he's my world, I don't know what to do because when I get in contact now I tell him how I feel b... (151 words)

Sperm filled fingers!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am just wondering this is really weird for me to even have to ask.. I started my period on the 1st of March yesterday was the 15th.. me and the boyfriend where having sex and well I ended up with quite a bit of sperm on my fingers. Instead of being smart and wiping them off.. ... (75 words)

I confront him and he just lies to me more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of almost 8 years is lying to me about were he met this girl on his myspace. We have had our problems in the past yet I have stayed with him. I feel like this is the last draw I don't know what to do I confront him and he just lies to me more. I am starting to t... (101 words)

I'm four months pregnant and I feel so not sexy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm four months pregnant and I feel so not sexy. The worst is that I feel like my husband does not want to have sex with me anymore. I've put on 8-9 lb and I feel like he does not like the way I look now. He still tells me I'm beautiful when I say I feel fat, but he never ju... (132 words)

Does anyone think fetishes can be 'cured' or diminished?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. My main problem is excessive masturbation.i seem to put more effort into it than any other area. I have a steady girlfriend and things are generally ok in that area, guess could be improved a bit but thats cos we dont always see a lot of eachother due to various... (429 words)

Why would a guy ask a girl to call him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would a guy ask a girl to call him? Ok so i am seeing this guy and whenever he calls me before he gets off the phone (if at night) he will say "call me tomorrow". When i call him all i say is I'll talk to you tomorrow - pretty much meaning either one of us will call. ... (103 words)

Why do things have to be so complicated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi! I need help here! I met a girl this weekend through a friend of my brother. It appears this guy was under the impression that she liked him. Anyway, later on she told me that she didn't fancy him at all, and felt awful about it. She wanted to know how best to let him ... (350 words)

I just wish we were both less jealous and co-dependent

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I'm extremely jealous/insecure. I don't know where it stems from, but let's try and see. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and a half. He's my first boyfriend ever. In the beginning of the relationship I wasn't this jealous, and I was more independent from him. But it c... (526 words)

I have never expressed once that I could or would support her in this way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - since I've been with my girlfriend she has had maybe 5 or 6 different jobs, most last less than a month. the longest was at Macy's and that was 3 months working only weekends. she's not in school, she's not disabled, although she doesn't have any special skills, most jobs don't ... (218 words)

What is she thinking? What should I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and me have recently fallen out and I'm in such a state. The reason for the falling out is not important so I won't go into that. My problem is the way I'm reacting to this. She said she wanted space and I have done my best to give that to her. Its been 4 days. ... (446 words)

I have way too much going on right now to think about a baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i am prego! someone please help! i feel like my period is coming but it doesnt. i dont cramp or anything. but i just feel it i have been spottin a little bit of blood but it is not a lot. i am 19 years old. i work a full time job and a part time job i am also in co... (107 words)

Problem is he is my superior at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy at work and I am not sure if he likes me in that way. i think he does but i don't want to make a fool of myself. He's been texting at night and been so supportive during a very difficult time for me. Problem is he is my superior... (56 words)

My ex hs started to flirt with me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am with my ex boyfriends friend, it did not mean to happen but he treats me better than my ex, my ex was cheating on me with two other girls and he finished me. but now my ex hs started to flirt with me again and asking to come to my house, now i have feelings for him agai... (73 words)

I do not think he is cheating on me but I am not sure he is done with that relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age - I have been in a relationship with my current partner for two years. He has an ex g/f from a few years ago. He stays in contact with her and recently let it slip out that he has not told his ex g/f that we are seeing each other. He sometimes tells me that they talk for a fe... (134 words)

It got completely out of control and the lie got so big, we couldn't back out of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I've been friends with a girl named Natalie for about 6 months now. She lives 40 minutes away from me. My friends that live close to me and I decided that it would be funny to lie to Natalie and tell her that I had this huge complicated relationship wit... (241 words)

My friend's wife is very jealous of me

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends wife is very jealous of me. She thinks there is something going on when there's not, and doesn't want him anywhere near me. I've discussed this and she is very sweet to me, but talks about me behind my back to all my friends. There relationship is crumbling becuase ... (61 words)

My husband cheated on me for eight years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hope you can help...... My husband cheated on me for eight years, it took him 5 years to be done with her completely always begging me not to divorce him and take the kids. I stayed but I think she ended it more then he did. He has become a real drinker and has turned the ... (149 words)

Help me save my friend!

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's the story. I've been friends with a guy for four years now -- hes my best friend. We moved in together almost 2 years ago now and we have a great relationship. Just this past November, he dumped his girlfriend of 3 years because he wanted to be single for a while. ... (343 words)

A love triangle thing and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok im in the middle of a very messy situation at the moment! kind of a love triangle thing and i dont know what to do. From the outside looking in im probably going to look quite bad (i know i feel it) but any knid of advice on what to do here would really be a big help. I... (508 words)

I need to trust him, could I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a question that I really need some help with. I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now and we have had an amazing time. We had a split about a year into the relationship as we were both un-happy and needed a break. About 3 months later we were back tog... (462 words)

What do you think is his purpose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there, me and my ex boyfriend broke up last october 13, 2008. i really cried hard because i really love him, even though he hurt me for several times, i still love him. now, i wanted to befriend him, when we talked via im, he told me that he regret those things that he said... (79 words)

Miserable and a Newlywed...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I got married in October of 2008. We are both young—in our mid twenties. 2008 was a whirlwind year for us. We both switched jobs, bought a house, and were on very different schedules, limiting our time together. When we did get together, we would fight and generally be ... (725 words)

I really don't know what to do. He's in my dreams, I really miss him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused about this guy I know,I've known him since I was 5,we barely see each other now.. We were never really close,but there was has always been this strange umm.bond like an electrical current that flows between us.It was like him and I were always on the same... (263 words)

We are both with others, but there seems to be an attraction

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf and I have a mutual friend, but I have known her for a little longer than my gf. We will name her Julie. My gf is Elizabeth. They have become decet friends since I started dating Elizabeth. Before I started dating Elizabeht, I suspected that Julie had attract... (158 words)

My gay b/f says he has always seen his future as being with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I have a problem and I really need help. I have a boyfriend that is Bi.(I am gay by the way.) We have been together for little over one year. We are having a little issue with commitment. He tells me that he loves me, but he isn't sure if he can see himself with a man in ... (141 words)

Is it ok to stay home alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help, I have got myself into a rut since my good friend went to uni in september. I have become a loner I don't like going anywhere alone so I stay in my house all day(on my days of from college) I feel so sad because I want to do things but I can't seem to build up any ... (102 words)

I'm 15, she's 22 and I'm wondering what she feels for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there, i'm a 16 year old lad and i feel as though i'm in love with my friend. she somehow makes me feel alive and more happy, something that i've never felt like for other girls i've got to know. but the thing is she's coming up for 22 and i have no idea how she feels for me ... (110 words)

Is it normal to be curious at 14?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel so dirty. I find myself looking at porn or toys and playing with myself. Is it normal to be curious at 14? How do I stop myself doing it again? I want to stop cos I know it's wrong but when I'm feeling down or horny I find myself doing it again help!?... (56 words)

Help needed!!! Do I tell him how I feel... or do I just remain friends with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14, I go to church and have met a really nice guy there, he is 16. We have been good friends for a few months and have become really close, it may sound stupid but I think I'm in love with him. We hang around a lot and always just goof around and muck around and tease ... (255 words)

He keeps me hidden from all of his family...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I live with a man named Bill and we are having a baby due in April. He says he loves me but I am thinking he is playing mind games with me. He keeps me hidden from his friends and family. He hardly ever wants to take me out. He tells people he is just using me. We don't have ... (151 words)

I have text him but he hasn't text back, now I'm so confused, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age - I met a guy and we were seeing each other for not quite 3 months, things were going extremely well until BAM! I was hospitalized, nothing life threatening but still hospitalized, he called when I was in the hospital but never came to visit me, (we live over an hour from each ... (361 words)

I have started developing feelings for a married man and feel guilty about it, please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i've been happily married for 16yrs but about 18mths ago i started developing feelings for a married man. He is often shy around me and will totally ignore me, and yet other times i can see him wanting to come and talk to me and we will laugh and joke. His daughter is friends ... (216 words)

Is my partner too friendly with his ex-wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm divorced and have been in a relationship with a divorced man 12 years my senior for about 5 years. We don't live together as both us enjoy our privacy and independence, but we live close to each other so we see each other almost every day. The problem is his ex-wife. The... (212 words)

How can you stay with someone for 18 months and then BANG, go back to the ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, ive got it, hes gone bak to the ex, hes rebounded but 1 thing that plays on my mind is how could u be with some1 for at least 18 months and pretend that u r happy and in love with this other person and stay within the relationship knowing that there r still feelings for the ... (117 words)

My affair with a married man ended but I still love him, what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married women last year i had an affair with a man i work with his wife found and he told me that it was over between us,how can he say this when he told me he was going to leave her and he loved me all the time we spent together he was telling me how much he wanted to ... (342 words)

We've been friends for a while, should I tell him that I like him?

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - we've been friends for a while, and I really wanna tell him that I like him, but I'm too scared that things will get awkward afterwards, or it's not mutual. My friends think that he likes me... Like he often teases me (is that a sign?) and does stuff that I want to do, even if ... (114 words)

He says he loves me as a mate

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im so confused. Theres a lad whos a mate of mine that seems to have some sort of problem in talking to me... i don't know why its so weird. Like if we are alone at college in a morning before other people will get there he'll probably talk for a while like ask what i've bee... (476 words)

I am not sure how to turn him down nicely!!

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been serving this male customer for about a year now, and he has finally asked me out. We have good brief chats whenever he drops by. Unfortunately I don't fancy him at all but am not sure how to turn him down nicely!! Please help.... (49 words)

I am very confused

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16 March 2009 (F)

age - I am very confused my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years moved out and moved straight in with another girl who has a child of 6 yrs old and we were due to go to st lucia for christmas. he is giving half the money so gave me a bit in jan a bit in feb and t... (441 words)

How do I convince her to forgive me and just move on?

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so here is the story.. my 2 best friends were dating and one day me and the guy went out and something happend. i was going to tell the girl but one of my "friends" went and told her before me. so now she doesnt trust me. she doesnt even talk to me. and i really miss ... (76 words)

Should I accept to see him if he suggests this?

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - After some time that the man i used to date last year did't call me ;as i have decided not to call him again, suddenly he called me. He was polite and i talked to him kindly without denying to go out with him again, although i don't intent to do so. I don't intend to start ... (181 words)

Guilt about sexual attraction

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16 March 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Dear Friends, I'm in a very bad state of guilt, 10 years ago when I was 13 years I had a sexual attraction towards my mom and I ended up acting on it like smelling panties, peeping at her and once tried to grope her when I was sleeping next to her in the bed... But I soon ... (256 words)

Dont know what to do!!!

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old. My bestfriend and I dated for about 6 months, but we've known each other for about 3 years. Well we broke up, but now were just bestfriends again. Well anyways, her ex that she dated for a year, and lost her virginity to is still in love with her, and they... (182 words)

My online guy is all giddy about seeing his ex and seems to care less about me, is this strange?

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I've met a wonderful guy over the net during July of last year, we haven't met yet. Everything was fine and good, then his ex came into the picture saying she's visiting. She says she wants to hook up with him, and doesn't care what position he and I are in. :/ (She ... (111 words)

My wife of 3 years told me she had a crush on my best friend. Should I be worried?

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 3 years recently told me she had a crush on my best friend. I told her how could happen if I'm the only man in your life. She told me not to look into it to much, that it had been only a small crush, and then it passed. Should I be worried?... (56 words)

Is this a good idea?

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weev bin goin out for five months now, and in a few days itll be our sixth month, this one's gonna b special cuz its also my bday! I need to kno if this is a good present idea, im gonna buy her a meaningful ring, not too xpensiv, $10 tops, and afte... (114 words)

I seriously have no idea what my heart wants

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I seriously have no idea what my heart wants. Its confusing for me. I know this guy who i'm currently really close with. Or maybe, I was really close to him. He's my senior in school and is one year older then i am. He asked me to be his sworn sister, and i agreed. Howe... (241 words)

My boyfriend is balding and I don't like it

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need help please. I love my bf as a person. I think he's great but recently he's been losing his hair and its really starting to look bad. He's tried many different hairstyles but they don't really suit him. Recently he shaved his head bald, however I have found tha... (124 words)

My husband is addicted to porn and pics of really young girls

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband is addicted to porn and he also looks at pics of really young girls, how can I help him? hi every one, for most people, I have a perfect relationship, and to some extent i believe it. me and my husband are in our 28-29s and been together for 3 years. he watche... (298 words)

Should I tell her parents my intent to marry her?

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi this is my first time to this site and I need some insight on my relationship. I have been dating my younder girl friend for 9 months now (she is 24) I am 39, I am a divorced father of 1. I started dating her before my divorce was final , although I was separtered from... (147 words)

I am so insecure about this I don't even want to have sex anymore!

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always been a little unconfortable about "down there" but now Im really ashamed. I have a really big labia on the right side and its kind of umm "loose" I had a boyfriend a while back and he is the only one I have ever been with. He was giving me oral one time and he s... (125 words)

I need advice on stressful family situation.

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have been married for 13 years and have to cildren ages 4 and 12. I am amrried to a man who was previously married and we live with 2 of his sons 18 and 26. My problem is with his children. They hate me. The older one who is the adult is deliberatley rude and disr... (326 words)

Should we keep our TWINS a surprise?

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are pregnant with twins, this is our third pregnancy and it will be our last. We were thinking about keeping the TWIN part a surprise until they are born. We will be having a planned c section and were thinking that the he could take one baby out and hand it ... (97 words)

How can we surprise my family about me falling pregnant???

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are pregnant and want to tell our family in a unique way during a family gathering. My niece who is 16 has been asking when we were going to have a baby so we wanted to somehow have her involved any ideas?... (47 words)

Why do guys turn into womanizers?

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this guy and we made out a couple of times. He wanted to have sex but I said no. I like him but it turns out he is a big manwhore who sleeps around. I heard that he was in a 3 year relationship not too long ago. I dont know the exact details of it but Im guessing it ... (95 words)

Did I find my soulmate?

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So... a few things... I am an attractive guy, one night stands never did it for me so after the few that I had, I stopped them. I can't stand girls who do have them a lot. I met this girl.. and she is the sweetest thing on earth, we are madly attracted to each other and we hit ... (277 words)

Should I wait for the right time or just dive in?

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13. Me and my girlfriend have kissed already. But she doesn't seem to want to makeout with me. I know not to rush her. And I'm not. But we have a strong realationship and we love each other. Should I wait for the right time or just dive in?... (51 words)

Problems with husband with wandering eye...

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I married last year. I have no child yet. I seriously love my husband. I want to make the perfect family. Now I am feeling so painful in my heart because I found out that he interests other girls also. He is doing the online sex something like chatting sex ... (101 words)

What should I do about my ex???

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to break up with him and saying ... (423 words)

Please help me! Should I get back with my ex ?

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I honestly don't know what to do! My ex boyfriend who I dated for a year and broke up with because he cheated on me with one of my close friends and one of his ex's. Also because I found out he would flirt with a bunch of girls and his exgirlfriends. When I broke up with him ... (361 words)

Girls do not like bi guys

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16 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend made me bisexual. Now when I tell a female I am bi they are grossed out even if they are bi. Should I let them know?... (29 words)

He loved anal stimulation but won't do it again for fear it's 'gay'. What should I say to calm his fears?

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I enjoy taking turns masturbating ourselves while the other stimulates elsewhere. We were doing that a couple of nights ago, he was masturbating while I was massaging his testicles. I started lowering my fingers slightly to his perineum, to test the water as it ... (175 words)

Being led on hurts so much!

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and was with a girl for two years. I was getting kind of bored and wasn't sure what I wanted. I met this other girl and started getting feelings so I left my girlfriend because I didn't want to cheat. This girl had a bf for 4 years and he lived like an hour away and she ... (203 words)

Romeo and Juliet situation

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what my heart wants. For some background information I dated a smart boy with the sam beliefs as me and who over time became my best friend in the whole world. My world revolved around us and our relationship. Because of this, we got to know every detail about each ... (373 words)

Hypnotherapy to help cure vaginismus?

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm desperate to get over my vaginismus, but using dialators hasn't helped at all after a fair bit of trying. Nothing has worked for me at all. I'm 23, I started having sex when I was 17 and not once in the time since then has it not been painful. I'm at the end of my tether. I ... (170 words)

Please respond if you know of any recovery stories and explain how it was done.

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16 March 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Have you or anyone you know had recovery success in a relationship with: 1. A compulsive liar 2. A partner who flirted behind the other's back 3. An emotionally, verbally, mentally abusive partner Please respond if you know of any recovery stories, and explai... (68 words)

Problems with my Xbox friend...

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl on Xbox right before valentines day. We started talking as friends then started getting more serious after we found out we were almost the same person now what I'm gunna say will make her sound like a psycho bitch but I love her so much, she told me she likes ... (671 words)

I'm not in love with him, but what do you think of this situation?

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16 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy who's a boyfriend of my colleague started coming on to me on a job training (he's one of the trainers) he was shy didn't talk much, until the next day we found ourselves in an elevator together(i know what are the odds?!) so he asked me a lot of friendly questions and ... (296 words)

Other than waiting for therapy to give results does anyone have any ideas for how to liven things up or does the dark cloud loom?

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend would be the perfect candidate for someone with a necrophelia fetish. Unfortunately, that's not me. As I think back over the past year I can recall times of better sex and some of the worst encounters possible (the train keeps running with no final destination in ... (394 words)

I need your help here! How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me? Do I have to open up first?

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16 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm having trouble opening up to my girlfriend to get her to open up. I always imagine just being totally romantic to her and kissing her passionately but I'm afraid of the out come is what scares me and if I screw up. I feel like such an idiot like when the right time to ... (142 words)