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writes:Should I transfer schools,leave my family and friends (birthplace) just to live with my boyfriend that is in the Navy?
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reader, Hemans +, writes (29 April 2009):
 Yes - no doubt about it - YES. Honey, if you love him, you will follow him wherever he may go. Only if you intend on spending the rest of your life with him. Are you really IN love with this man? Does he feel the same, or have the same intentions as you do? If this is the man that you want to spend the rest of your life with, than by All means, GO - be with him.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 March 2009):
And if it all goes horribly wrong, could you move home again, re-transfer yourself in work and at uni? In a hurry?
Would 2 changes in college really have no effect on your degree?
If it's love then you'll cope with the distance. You just have to get on with it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe've talked about what it would be like if I moved out there.
I'd transfer schools...I checked the universities out there and they're real close to where we would be living.They also have my major.
I'd transfer my job too.I work for starbucks therefore i can transfer to any store in the nation.
We've talked about marriage and he's thrown a little hints of proposing but hasn't yet.I'm very comfortable to what my new lifestyle would be like but it's just that I don't think my parents(at least my dad)would agree with this..He's told me since my boyfriend and i began this relationship that sooner or later my boyfriend would ask me to move out there with him.I always said no because i'm determined on finishing school..It's just getting real hard with the distance and all.We just feel that moving together would help.I don't think moving and leaving my friends and family would affect me at all..I've already done that by leaving my hometown to pursue my college education.I love my boyfriend very much and i just need help!thank you,
everything said is very much appreciated.
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (23 March 2009):
 Oh, and don't do anything until you finish school.
(I really wish there was an edit button, haha)
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (23 March 2009):
Ultimately it's your decision. My story: I almost transferred across seas to be with my girlfriend. Yes, we questioned what would happen if we had broken up, but my thought to that was always: "It was right at the moment, so I have no regret in making the decision to move over."Sadly it didn't happen because the economies turned to crap and we are still doing our very long distance relationship.However, there is a very distinct difference between the two of us, it sounds like. I have moved around my whole life and am currently living in my 10th city. Making the move and, yes leaving friends behind, would be something I have done before and am use to, if you can say that. You, however, sound like you have lived in the same city all your life. Leaving all that behind would be extremely difficult for you, I'm sure, and I think you could actually get very depressed about the move.I'm not gonna say don't do it, but just realize the full implications of what the move would entail. What you'd be leaving behind, where it is you'd be moving to, what kind of career/schooling can you get where you'd move to, etc.Hope that helps.MM
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reader, ms.incredible +, writes (23 March 2009):
no. unless he makes the first move which is asking you to marry him, i dont think you should move.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (23 March 2009):
Nope.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): no not a good idea what happen if he breaks off with you,where will you be then.
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