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writes:Before I left for to Mexico for spring break I was kind of seeing a girl. We weren't officially dating but we told each other that over break we can look but not touch. So I went to Mexico and she went back home and I got blacked out drunk one night. My friends tell me this girl from the bar made out with me but I don't remember. Now I am afraid that someone might tell the girl I was seeing that I made out with another girl. Should I tell the girl I'm dating, what happened? and was I out of line?
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reader, worried09 +, writes (25 March 2009):
worried09 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for your help..i told her and she is really pissed and said she wants her space so i guess we will see wat happens but at least i did it right
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): it depends. Is there a chance she would find out from someone else? Because if so, then you should definitely tell her before she hears it from someone else. But if there really isn't any way for her to find out, I'd keep it to yourself, but only if this was a one time biiiiig mistake kind of thing. If you tell her, she'll be hurt and never really trust you again. Just keep it to yourself and live with the guilt
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (24 March 2009):
 yeah i totally agree with "crazymind"
you should defenitely tell her yourself, it's gonna be even worse for you if she here's it from somebody else....
talk to her about, it's better that way
gudd luck
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reader, CrazyMind  +, writes (24 March 2009):
 "Should I tell the girl I'm dating, what happened?"
Despite saying to eachother 'look but don't touch,' something may have happened; and I believe telling the girl you are seeing that there's a possibility that something did happen should build up trust between you - it's better for her to hear it from you, than for her to find out from someone else and then having to confront you about it.
Let her know that you regret that something may have happened, and that you hope it doesn't have a negative impact on your relationship.
"and was I out of line?"
I'd say that the only way you could have been 'out of line' was by allowing yourself to get so drunk as to not remember what you did at all.
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