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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend KNEW I liked him and now she's with him! I feel betrayed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going throuh some stuff, ok here it goes, my best friend let's call her hannah, well a while ago I told hannah that I was crushing on this guy, well she understood and we became good friends with him. A couple of days I heard that he liked hannah, I told her and she said ... (139 words)

How can I ask my parents for birth control?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old and I want birth control. I'm not a virgin but I'm not having sex regulary, I just want it just in case something ever comes up. Also, to help regulate my period. The problem is I don't know how to ask my parents for them because my parents especially my mom ... (125 words)

My vagina always smells like fish!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My vagina always smells like fish, especially after athletic activities. Is there something that will help get rid of it without going to a doctor for help and if im under 18? ... (34 words)

I'm heartbroken...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with a boy for almost 3 months and fell in love with him. He broke my heart and about 3 days later had another girl on his arm. I am still in love but they have now been going out for 5 months or a little longer. I want him back! What do I do?????? I thought about ... (78 words)

Is she getting bored with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I feel like shit... I'm 15 and my girlfrend is 16. When we started going out it was perfect but now I'm really mad... I'm a nice sweet guy, totally not a jerk and a really good and caring boyfriend... I love her and I thought she did tooo... but ever since last week she's been ... (168 words)

I feel I deserve better...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for almost two and a half years. I am with a guy who truly loves me and will do anything for me. But I am going for an accounting degree and he does not even have a high school diploma. I just feel like I should deserve better but I'm torn ... (67 words)

Should I tell Adam what I did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys, I need some help... and I dont know what to do. I did something really bad and I'm ashamed. Well me and my buddy Adam are like two peas in a pod... we're the best of friends we're really close and nothing could tear us apart, we get along so well and do everything ... (245 words)

I need your help aunts!!! How can I find out for sure if my boyfriend has cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my boyfriend cheated before and I am really trying to forget it but it is so hard, I just cannot seem to get it out of my head. There are no definite facts but I think he's up to something, I think he's hiding a a second sim card that he could be using to contact her. He... (150 words)

Do you think she likes me or is she just enticed by my body???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey aunts, I really like this girl but I don't know if she really likes me back. Today I was walking in the hallway and caught her looking around my crotch area, our eyes met she gave me a smile and quickly turned around. Do you think she likes me or is she just enticed ... (60 words)

How can I slow things down a bit with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - She's too fast for me. Hi I'm 15 and am in a relationship with an amazing girl that I love. She loves me too, she's very caring and kind. We've been going out for 3 months but she's got a really high sex drive, I don't think I'm really ready for all that yet. She's really t... (137 words)

I kissed my friend's boyfriend when I was drunk and she's found out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I kissed my friend's boyfriend about a month ago, I was drunk. I told another friend and asked her to keep it a secret as I decided not to tell her as it seemed the best thing to do at the time. Since then me and her have got really close and not long ago her bf ended it with ... (104 words)

Possible to be pregnant even though I had period the last 2 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont really know how to start so im going to just say it: On december 31st and january 1st i had sex [using a condom both times] then i got my period a few days later because i always get it around the 9th. In febuary i got it the 6th which was a few days earlier then regular ... (141 words)

We broke up because he didn't believe me but now he wants us to be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I work in a fruit shop and my employers friend from school is my ex boy friend of five weeks, the reason that we broke up is that one day when i was feeling low after working another day in the fruit shop, we met up for a drink and my ex boyfriend asked me what was wron... (258 words)

My family freaked out when they found out my guy is bi!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im 22 years old and I am bi sexually. When I was 19 I told my parents and they were totally fine with it. Last year I started dating a guy "Josh" my parents LOVED him. But they didnt know that "Josh" was also bi. We have experimented in our relationship and tried having 3 ... (315 words)

Any way to find out his sexual preferences?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel really awkward asking for advice about this; I'm 22 for goodness sake! I should know how to handle this!! Okay, so here's the thing: There's this guy that I like. Really, really like! But even though I get to see him most days, I never have the chance to talk to... (273 words)

How to make out and use my tongue

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi aunts im a 14 year old guy and i've never had a girlfriend before and i feel so pathetic right now.....never kissed or anything like that.. but now i do have a relationship with this wonderful girl..she's awesome and every thing is great we started going out a week ago... (147 words)

Are we drifting apart even though we meet up often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got a pretty good friend from my final years of high school whom I have gotten on well with since we met. We live near each other and hang out quite often. However, lately, she hasn't messaged me back as often as she used to and often refuses to take me home sometimes (as ... (111 words)

She wants to move on..how can I change her decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have loved this girl with everything i've got for years, we've been through hard times and she wants to move on after all our time together. any suggestions on what i can say to make her change her decision? because now she acts like she hates me and we've said and done ... (76 words)

Could sex be a gift for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have a great girlfriend who is about 15+ years older but looks hot. We enjoy spending time together and doing fun things. She likes to shop and often buys me things. I feel kind of embarrassed when I don't have anything to give her. I might buy her things but I doubt ... (253 words)

He's still with his g/f but he's flriting with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ive been good frends with this guy for a while, but recently w've got alot closer and hes been flirting alot. hes a bit of a player and he and his gf split up for a few days apparently because he was always flirting with me. all of our friends think he rly lieks me but he w... (189 words)

What does "slow down"mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33. I have been dating a 27 year old guy for about two months. We have gotten along wonderfully untill yesturday. I was in a funk and I started trying to break up with him. and he instantly started ignoring my phone calls, and blowing me off. When he did talk to me he said ... (208 words)

Why am I attracted to the "alpha dog"..powerful, often bad men all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why am i attracted to 'alpha dog' males all the time? All my life I have gone for the same sort of men:Criminals, gangsters, policemen, bikers, bouncers, prison oficers...etc, they even have a similar look- muscles, shaven head, tattoos...etc. I only seem to be attracte... (110 words)

I don't know what to believe from her anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been in a serious relationship with this really amazing girl for almost an year now. when i started this relationship with her we made our respective past lives as transparent to each other as possible. i assured her that i had no problems with her past relationships or ... (377 words)

Why can't I be a sissy in public

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age - Well I'm a Sissy Transvestite and I've been going out in public dressed as a normal female since I was 13, I'm 50 now and I've been expressing a very deep part of my personality for the last 10 years. I love dressing up like a 4 or 5 year old little girl including wearing real ... (216 words)

I can't keep living in the past but I don't like the present either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - 18 years ago, I fell in love hard with someone I graduated with in High School. I was so afraid that he was going to hurt me that I cheated on him...and broke it off with him after 5 years of relationship. He then would call me to tell me about who he was dating. Then I go... (313 words)

Ladies: Exciting adventuresome places to have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Ladies what are some adventurous , exciting, fun places to have sex? What makes these locations adventurous , exciting, or fun for you? What are some locations that you would like to try? ... (33 words)

Got drunk..don't know if I had sex or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a party last night, and there was my crush- drunk. I had a few drinks and then I just woke up. I was at my friends house, she had a bit of a hangover too. I couldn't remember what happened. But I've been geting texts like- you had sex with ***? and I was like... ... (72 words)

I need some sort of action plan!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Before anything, I'd like to clarify my real age which is 13, not 18+ I currently have a crush on this guy. Let's call him Tom. I used to love this guy, let's call him Sam. Well basically, Sam was perfect, he was hot, cute, nice and sweet. I would say, the perfect boyfrie... (243 words)

Making out for the first time..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy there. me and my boyfriend have been together for a month and half and he wants to make out except...i've never made out before. i just dont know what im suppose to do with my tongue and everything. advice please? ... (41 words)

I want him, but then I want to push him away and make him suffer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i sorta in a way kinda like this guy i am like 100% sure he likes me but.. ive been feeling weird lately and confused like i want him to suffer and wanna push him away forever but then i wanna hug him and see his right happy smile why do i feel like this? i... (93 words)

Walking away from someone I love so much..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. Ok here I go I lovge my boyfriend we are both Libras crazy. we havee been together three crazy... (286 words)

Boyfriend is depressed and won't see anyone about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what should i do to help my boyfriend i think he is depressed and he wont see a shrink he says he hates himself in everyway and one time he left a party early and walk home which was miles away because (and this is what he sed) everyone else was so happy and look so good i ... (105 words)

He used to hug me and stuff and now he doesn't even acknowledge that I'm alive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so sad right now, and I always regret EVERYTHING I do. Well, there's this boy. I liked him for a long time, but he didn't even know I existed, well, that's what I thought. Until one day he started flirting with me. (He has a girlfriend) Then when I got home, he messaged me ... (148 words)

G/f smokes weed and I'm worried about her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - last night my girlfriend and i were talking and she randomly asked if i like people who smoke and my answer was it depends but more importantly why did you just ask me that. she said cause i smoke. i was in complete shock and worried about her but at the same time mad cause she ... (97 words)

I just want to know whats going through his head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i seriously need help as i dont know what to do. its a very long story and complicated story but im going to try and keep it short, 2years ago i really liked this guy, i never knew him properly infact we hardly spoke i dont exactly know how it got so strong but it went on f... (445 words)

Can a girl get back their virginity back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - can a girl get back their virgin after she stop having sex for 3 yr? i had sex my ex bf, and i about to marry with other man after 3 yr. can he know that i am not virgin?... (40 words)

I want to no if I lost my virginity please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 15 year old teenage girl. about 3 weeks ago i had a experince with a 17 year old boy why i was drunk.I cant remember much but when i woke up the next morning i had throbbing pains in my vigina and i felt really sore.i keep having to go to the toliet frequently and i... (154 words)

What are the things I should look for to know if I should stay in a relationship or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if he's in to me? What are the things I should look for to know if I should stay in a relationship of end it?... (29 words)

I'm so confused. what sort of game is he playing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

Does asking someone out too soon damage things permanently if they don't accept?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - If you ask someone who you like out too soon and don't accept, does that always damage the prospects of anything in the future? In my case, it was a really hard choice to ask her. She never actually refused, she just never replied to the email I sent her. Anyway, I had b... (94 words)

I'm having trouble reading what he's trying to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy and I have had a rather bumpy road. We've both been immature and acted hot and cold towards each other and gotten 3rd parties involved in our relationship. Really stupid. But now we are on break and we decided to start over and i decided to stop over-sharing with ... (347 words)

How do I put my daughter on birth control without looking as if I'm OK with underage sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age - I am I single father of a 16 year old daughter. Last week she had her "boy"friend over and they were watching a movie, she calls him her boyfriend but I never seen them as a couple because she is so young. I left to do some work outside and when I came in they were making o... (165 words)

Is she just being kind and not ending it bluntly, or do you think she just needs some time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been together with my friend for 6 weeks, quite soon after she came out of a longish term relationship. We spent the first few weeks taking things really slowly as she was worried I was just a rebound, but got closer and closer. She has said to her ex that she doesn't want ... (277 words)

Should I give up on trying to find a b/f because I have been unlucky in love so far?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi after all my rejection in the last 10 years i think i should give up on getting a boyfriend its too much of pain.there is too much competion out there .the guys i like somebody else so i don,t think is much point, any boys perfer tall,gorgeous,slim,busty... (131 words)

Can't fit in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Some may think I’m exaggerating but I’m being totally honest I’m 14 and I’ve been very confused cause I feel a little out of place at my age. I have lots of friends but that’s exactly why I can’t fit in any social group. Everybody thinks I’m 17 since I was like 11 because of m... (299 words)

She wont open up and tell me whats going on in her life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i am with the most wonderful girl ever and I love her and she loves me. Here lately she been living eith her grandma due to some issues with her dad, and she has been totally different and she blames it on being home sick. Well at christmas she didn't get me anything ... (285 words)

He's been caught red handed!! - What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - HELP! - c I have been seeing this guy - who I know had an ex partner who he sees from time because of his child! Anyway, the other day, he accidently sent me a text intended for his ex girlfriend saying how much he loves her etc etc! - After the initial shock and confusion I ... (128 words)

I worry my wife has gone back to her slutty ways, have I married the wrong person?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my wife is a s___/w____ or whatever, I'm not trusting her at all. She was 'around' a lot before we dated. We're both only 23, we met when we were 21, but I know she's had sexual contact with at least 20 or more men before me. And that was before age 21. Well, that d... (228 words)

I don't want to fall out with them. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's my problem... me and my best friend have been best friends for eight years now and we've never had a fall out. then this gy got involved and it nearly split us up but we made it through it and we fell out with this guy. we bitched about him behind and our b... (459 words)

I don't want him to know that I am not virgin.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend and we are in sexual relationship for last 4-5 years. But now i am getting married with someone else next month and i don't want him to know that i am not virgin. Is it possible ? If yes, how ?... (46 words)

How much space and time should I give her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ill try explain fully, i met my girlfriend 2 years ago, we got on and was love at first sight we went on holiday after 3 weeks had amazing times never argue have done loads of amazing things, in 2 years we have been on 5 holidays moved in together, after one month she was ... (602 words)

I cant take him out of my mind.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi to all readers, I'm 29 years old, married to a 70 year old man, and we have a son but Im falling to my driving instructor.He is 39 year old and single.Sometimes he calls me sweeheart,honey,etc during my lessons and tease me in a flirtend way.We avoid to have eye on eye cont... (100 words)

My son has become obsessed with McDonald's food, I am worried, what can be done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My 14-year-old son has recently started becoming obsessed with McDonald's and Burger King. He just won't eat anywhere else, let alone do anything else, and it's putting a huge strain on our wallets, not to mention his waistline. His older brother, who's 21, says that it'... (338 words)

My FWB says he loves me now that I lost weight. Reality check?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here is the story I have been fwb with this man for almost a year now. Well I'm losing weight and he is starting to really respond to this. He tells me how beautiful I am and how much he wants me and how he can't keep his hands off of me. He has been saying now how he w... (300 words)

How do I stop putting all my happiness into a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i stop putting my happiness into guys? Theres this guy and i know he likes me, we always text and speak online and we went cinema a while ago. , its not offical or anything. Its one of those things were you like each other but nothings really happening because .. hes k... (252 words)

Accept or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how to accept or move on? my boyfriend of 12 years insist on us seeing each other every other weekend since he and i have lived apart for 2 years . i have had a very hard time dealing with this along with his drug abuse . he is also in a new band and i went to one practice... (91 words)

I would like some advice about what to do, I really like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles, I need some advice about my ex. You might have read some of my earlier posts, if not I’ll try and sum it up real’ quick; My ex and I met at school almost 3 years ago, we liked each other from the beginning, and after half a year he asked me out, since th... (341 words)

Everytime I pee after an orgasm It stung a litle. Is this puberty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Im 18 and since I can remember, Everytime I pee after an orgasm It stung a lil, Is this just puberty? Or do you think I should go see a doctor?... (33 words)

No intimacy anymore! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok...So I broke up with a girlfriend of 3 years back in June. She was staying at my house and a girl I knew from the pool room I worked in, invited me to stay at her place. I was kind excited because she was roomies with a girl i worked with and she was going through a ... (220 words)

I really need help with losing weight and toning up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone please help me... I have been trying to tone up and maybe lose a bit of weight for so long now, but nothing is happening. I'm currently a size 12 [in the UK] but incredibly untoned. I run everyday, don't eat a lot of junk food, and don't tend to snack either. I do m... (151 words)

I had sex with my cousin - what should I do next?!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay basically I'm 19 and havn't seen any of my cousins since I was really little, but 2 out of the 3 of them are identical twin sisters and for the first time in years I saw them at newyears. It was their 19th recently and I drove down to where they live, got absolutely o... (314 words)

I felt for him more than a FWB. Any ideas how to cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi me and my FWB have today decided to stop, and just be friends. ive been feeling for a while that he didnt want to carry on and that something was wrong becuase he was making excuses, so i asked him and he told me he didnt know becuase he doesnt want to lose me and doesnt w... (151 words)

My man wants me to talk "dirty" in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all. I'd like to get feedback from the guys on this one! My man wants me to talk "dirty" to him in bed. What does he want me to say? Can you guys give me some tips, examples of what you like to hear and what makes you extra hot? I'd really appreciate it as I'm kind... (99 words)

How can I become more than just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what do you do when you really like your friend but he not atrracted to you in a sexully way... (20 words)

Is it normal for fiancee to look for nude pics on craigslist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I thought I was hot but fiancee is bringing me down! seems like he likes to look for random (and free) places to view naked pics of chicks. seems to happen daily to some degree and I also thinks he looks on his phone at work. he seems to especially like naked pics of real gir... (120 words)

I Like this guy, alot. but I'm not sure if he likes me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I Like this guy, alot. but im not sure if he likes me. we've been best mates for a long time and we do flirt a little bit. My best friend told me that she also likes him but i havnt told her how i feel. he told me he doesnt like her and recently a girl who he'd been rly gd f... (164 words)

Intercourse is fine but never had orgam by hand or oral. Why is that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - No woman has been able to make me orgasm when giving a blow job? Don't get me wrong I have had some real real good ones but not the orgasm. Women get really frustrated when they cannot make me orgasm. The funny thing is I have now met a woman who has the same issue. ... (103 words)

How to talk with respect

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me n my husband been together for 2 years and were living with his parnets till we finsh working on our house, but here latly all we do is fight about anything little, we constly think eachother are mad and that were giving eachother an attuide. And we can't talk to each... (77 words)

I wish I knew what he was thinking. Have I blown it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so i met this boy months ago in a bar, we started talking (as you do) he added me on facebbok and that. Anyway we started texting eachother for a while but then i kinda got bored, had a lot on so i kinda faded away from texting him. I bumped into him in a different club... (203 words)

I am starting to have physical attraction to a female friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past few months i've developed a rather strong physical attraction to one of my female friends. I've never ever been attracted to a girl or even thought about it and always simply liked guys. I was freaked out by my feelings at first but i guess i've just learnt to ... (220 words)

I've put my name down for a charitable game... But I'm nervous. Is it a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, My university is holding an event for Comic Relief tomorrow. This event requires some volunteers who will then stand in line while people place bids to go on a date with them, with the funds going to charity. I thought it would be fun so I put my name down! Now I'm ju... (143 words)

Update: Father and son unhealthy drinking and eating habits

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - An update on my question posted here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-take.html Well, I spoke to my husband and son, and they insist that nothing will stop them. I even tried reminiscing to my husband with old photos but he said to me "Those... (209 words)

How normal is it for a girl to enjoy watching gay sex?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, basically what i want to ask is how normal is it for a girl to enjoy watching gay sex? I started off just enjoying gay films, like nothing explicit or anything just normal films. But then it kinda started getting more than that, i really don't know what it is, howe... (84 words)

I have been hiding my relationship from my parents

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have to hide my relationship with my boyfriend of a year from my parents, just because of his families relgion and it's cause me to become so depressed. His family are muslim but are not as strict as many are protrayed. I really love my boyfriend, he's prefect in my eyes. I ... (182 words)

Is it because he left me years ago, the reason why I have such a fear of confrontation?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have wrote several times. the issues i have wrote about do bother me alot. i know that out of avoiding confrontation i wont say anything to him. my question is because he left me years ago so close to our wedding is that why i have such a fear of the confrontation? i am so ... (91 words)

My boyfriend now has an obsession with ropes!

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice regarding my sex life with my boyfriend. We live together and have decent jobs. Our sex life is usually very good, and he does whatever I want, and I do whatever he wants (within limits, as long as it's safe!) However, for the past few weeks, our sex ... (186 words)

What can I do to help him change his controlling behavior

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12 March 2009 (F)

age - Question of love is not the issue. My bf seems controlling. If u dont see things the way he does even politics he gets upset, he doesnt yell he just hides for weeks. If he does something wrong (usually not intentional) and it hurts you - he turns it around like he was hurt... (195 words)

Is it the truth? Or one of his famous lies?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age - I am an older person and should know this but I want to get it verified. I have been seeing this man on and off for 20 years and just back together afte being separated for over 5 years. Everything was going ok until a couple of weeks ago. He has not been with me the last... (178 words)

He's too nice and its annoying me!!

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, this sounds sooo stupid but its been really bugging me for so long. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 yrs and he really is the nicest person...i swear he is a saint! Nothing is never any trouble for him and he never has anything bad to say about anyone or anyth... (213 words)

Is not letting yourself fall in love a selfish act?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Is not letting yourself fall in love a selfish act? Not sure if I an scared because I know love pushes the boundaries of our heart and makes us experience more. If I resist love and it happens anyway I think that might make it more real and true. classic mind and heart... (76 words)

Since we are housemates now, does that mean he is off limits?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So here's the deal... I met this guy through mutual friends about 2 years ago. He's a relatively shy guy when hes around people he doesnt know and hasnt really had a girlfriend. We all hang out go out for dinners, parties etc and we always got along really well. When we we... (396 words)

How can I maintain a balance between my husband and my family?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, we had a court marriage against wishes of my parents then we didnt talk for 1 yr. then it was my sisters marriage where one of my relative insulted me n my dad was of the view that i will have to bear it. at that time we had arguments and then after some days everything was ... (92 words)

He flirts like crazy on line, but I don't think he would really cheat. Do you think this is ok behaviour?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting married in 2 months. My fiance and I have a great relationship, however, sometimes I find it hard to trust him. I have found a few emails he has had with other girls, flirting and asking them to come over. We have had open discussions about them and I know he is ... (161 words)

I am dating my best friends ex-fiancee. Should I tell her?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys and gals. I moved down to London around six months ago because I found a good job. I left my best friend up in Manchester. About three months ago, I ran in to my best friend's fiance here in London. I knew that they had broken up since my moving but it was an amicable ... (362 words)

Should I wait and see what happens or be clear about my expectations up front?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Would love some advice on this. My bf of 18 months and I broke up for a couple of weeks as he said he didn’t love me, just likes me alot. Having been apart for 2 weeks he says he has a lot more feelings for me than he thought and he wants me back. He says things will be ... (285 words)

He says he can only be with me from 6-10 to celebrate my birthday. Am I being unreasonable in wanting more?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I reminded my boyfriend about my birthday just in case he forgot (it's my second birthday with him) and I know he has his son that day so I suggested we "party it in". This is a German tradition that involves celebrating the night before until at least midnight and ... (446 words)

It's about time I gave up on a boyfriend,; it's not for me

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12 March 2009 (F)

I saw him kissing his ex. Should I speak to him?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. In December I met a guy and since we were both fresh out of relationships, we agreed to see eachother non exclusively. We've been fine until the last month or so. He began ignoring me for days, while we were at the same club if I went to over to say ... (180 words)

Unintentional kiss with actor threatening to ruin my relationship with my boyfriend

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, far fetched though this may sound, I swear to god it's for real. I really, really need help with this, and I can't turn to anyone I know for advice. I have, completely unintentionally got myself into a relationship of sorts with a man 27 years older than mysel... (374 words)

I'm still a virgin and afraid I won't know what to do

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 21. We both want to have sex but im still a virgin and im scared he wont like it or i wont know what to do or it will really hurt and i am completely in love with him and we are engaged what do i do... (56 words)

How can I change my life to be happy again

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im at the point where i cant take anything no more and i want to know how i can stop from feeling like this. Well i have been through a lot of stuff mostly just being abused by men sexually physically and mentally and i have had enough. I live with my father and my boyfrien... (243 words)

My gf wasnt a virgin but I was, and it bothers me

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok. Ive been with my gf for over 4 years and we have a 1 year old baby. Ok my problem is that I was a virgin till I meant my gf and she was my first and only. But come to find out i wasnt for her. its kinda hard to explain but the guy who had sex with her was kind of a frie... (214 words)

Please help. I am dying to talk to to my b/f's friends

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has friends that goes to my school........... i never talked to them before but now i want to make friends with them , how can i approach them.? and what if they reject me or maybe ask me out ? i want to tell my boyfriend about it but am scared he might think my i... (108 words)

Should I start practicing to like girls?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - another big problem with me is that almost those that are attracted to me are seems to be straight guys, i like sexy straight guys so much but i don't like female guys and i don't wish to move with them infact i hate their way of behaving as am a muscle guy and looks straight ... (149 words)

Is it just pretend or in my mind?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - cutting it short i met a guy through the net. he was sweet and into me. we had some rough patch at beginning when going out. now we're good. but our only form of contact is msn or the phone. now he never has credit and doesn't come online only on weekends. he saving mone... (141 words)

I feel cheated when my wife discovered anal sex from porn channel

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - For the past couple of months, my wife and I have been having a lot of sex. I mean a lot! I'm taking five or six nights a week. I'm not complaining about it by any means. I'm happy that the spark is still there but I did wonder where she had got the sudden high sex drive from. ... (307 words)

I thought I would be free of his abuse, but I'm not. Help!

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12 March 2009 (F)

- 20 years old and I just broke up with my bf because he was abusive. I thought I would be free of his abuse, but I'm not. His abuse has escalted!!! It has got so bad, I am constatnly shaking, feeling faint and dizzy, out of anxiety and fear. I never thought he could get thi... (502 words)

What can I do to have her in my life again?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - On Xmas day my Girlfriend of 2 years left me. We where living with her parents while we saved for our own place. The reasons she gave me was because it had become difficult with her family. The relationship was a good one many happy times together we laughed so much. We planned ... (393 words)

Am I being selfish that I want something?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. the problem i have is about my girlfriend and me. we have alot in common but its like we completely have different humor and were usually silent when we walk home together. shes really shy about letting her feelings out but i know there cuz through emails and text... (197 words)

He was hiding his relationship with these other women

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm married for 7 years when I got back with a former acquaintance. We met again when I was feeling bored in my marriage while his relationship with his ex was on the rocks. So an affair was developed, he sent me to law school, so that we can go away after I have my ... (352 words)

Its gotten violent..then its better..why?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Things have taken a turn for the worse since my first posting; "I feel a break up coming on and am trying to determine exactly why?"" and my second; "She's lying to my face about things going on!" That night I posted my second question things got really heated, she w... (276 words)

Could she be waiting for me to say something?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi folks, I've been racking my brain over this and I can't make my mind up so hopefully some of you may be able to help me. My best friend is a woman, she is the same age as me (27). We are always going out for drinks, the cinema, something to eat, she stays over at my house... (605 words)

I don't know where this going and neither does she

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am trying to get back together with my ex. We were together for four years, engaged for two, and have been broken up for about two. We are talking again but I told her up front I wanted a relationship and nothing else. She SEEMS to be good with this but says she doesn't know ... (197 words)

Seductive day on the boat with my wife & her boss

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll start off by saying my wife is very sexy and knows it she always tells me that she catches her boss checking her out all the time. She makes about twice the money I do so I really don't say a whole lot about the outfits she wears to work.Well last weekend we took her boss ... (426 words)

I always call him...he never calls me first

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12 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: Poster age says 27, but poster says they are 13. Well im 13 and im dating a 13 year old boy. Every night i have to call him and every time i do he always says ill call you back later. 3 or 2 hours later he calls me back. He never calls me unless i ask him too. We ... (122 words)

I love him, why doesn't he love me?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I love a guy call Law I never called him but sms him cos I know that he is always very busy at work I know that he dont even have the time to answer my call he just treat me as a friend only I wanted to be by his side I know that he will not love me because I am fat and ugly ... (158 words)

I cheated and he broke up with me does that mean he never loved me?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I cheated with my ex when my boyfriend an I were broken up. He broke up with me 2 weeks after christmas with no explanation, he wouldnt talk to me at all. Now 3 months later I built up the courage to tell him because i cant keep things from him.. And he broke up with me. My ... (94 words)

G/f invites me over and less than an hour later tells me to leave?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is being really weird to me lately. She invited me over to her house the other night and I was there for about 40 mins and she told me I needed to leave. We weren't fighting or anything.I usually stay for two to three hours but this time it was different. This ... (103 words)

Do relationships where people are young work out?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over five months now. We're both first year college students, and we met pretty coincidentally. We realized that we liked each other from the very start and started going out. Although we had some problems in the start stemming from ... (311 words)

I'm a nymphomaniac

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im 17 yrs old and i just recently found out that im a nymphomaniac and in this serious relationship but dont really know how to tell my partner that i have it ive known for about a week 1/2 now and im pretty scared on the reaction ill get what should i do? plez help ... (58 words)

Do I act like I have moved on?Or let her know that I still care?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So, my girlfriend left me back in January. We talked here and there for about 5 weeks afterwards. It was killing me inside that we were no longer together and talking at her convenience so I gave her a letter saying I had to walk away from the situation because it was killing ... (340 words)

He's the only boy I can't get out of my head

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There was a guy I kinda dated in the beginning of college. We hung out a few times, but I was way too busy then and we kinda went our separate ways. I was told that he really liked me though and his actions showed it. Throughout the last couple of years, I haven't been able to ... (690 words)

Talking to my husband about being abusive

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how can i ask my boyfriend to seek some help, regarding his being abusive?i want to help him, but he already hitted me twice, at first i forgive him but again he repeated thesame, or else i dont have any option just to leave him. ... (45 words)

Confuse feelings for a teacher

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just very confused right now about my feelings towards one of my teachers. At the start of the year I didn't pay much attention to him, and didn't really like him that much, but now as the school year is going by, I'm starting to develop some strong feelings for him. ... (265 words)

I don't want her to get the wrong idea

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok i have been friends with this girl for some time now, we hang out rather it be with others or just us, i like her to more than i have ever felt for someone, im 24, i enjoy the time we are spending with one another, an i just dont know if i see anything to show me if she ... (146 words)

His porn viewing has made me feel insecure! Help!

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my fiance I don't want him to look at porn and I found out he did twice. He finally confessed one day out of the blue when I was talking bout porn. That's been almost a month ago.(When he confessed.) I thought it was because I just had a baby. But, he did this when I was ... (177 words)

After a year and a half...he cheated on me!!

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half. in the beginning of our relationship, when we had been going out for about two months, i kissed another boy when i was super drunk around new years eve. he forgave me and ive never done anything like that since and would ... (292 words)

I need some advice on how to be a success with the ladies!

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Another week, another night where I see people getting off with people in clubs, while I sit idly by unable to meet anyone myself. I'm starting to feel completely useless. I seem to be the only sad f**ker in the world who doesn't know how to communicate with women in clubs. ... (174 words)

We haven't talked in days! Doesn't he like me?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i met one of my brother's friends about 2 weeks ago. we like each other straight away. we were perfect, we'd flirt and i could tell he likes me, he use to follow me around to get my attention. he told me he isn't straight forward with girls he likes. once i told him i lik... (150 words)

How do I stop looking at female bodys?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm 13 and was wondering if it was normal to stare at a girls body parts every time they been over or aren't bending. I'm not trying to be perverted but I can't help it. Could someone please tell me why I do this or how I can prevent myself from not looking... (54 words)

If I marry, will he accept I lost my virginity?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am not American but i had committed myself as an american by having sex before married. i feel insult and afraid that one day when i married to another man he can not accept what i have done coz i lost my virgin to another guys. can any body help? or i am an asian girl, asian ... (64 words)

Creative ideas for asking him out?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some creative date ideas for asking someone out, sounds easy right? One problem, he works 12 hours a day, 7 days a week. I mean yes I admire the dedication and all but it makes stealing a couple hours of his time a little more difficult. I really, really like this ... (60 words)

How to cope with breakup when living together?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am going through a very rough time dealing with a break up. I've been with this girl for 3 years. She is the love of my life. I could imagine being with her forever. There is something so special about her that I can't imagine finding in another person. Now that you can tell ... (586 words)

Can trust be prepared in a short time?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance has lied to me before. The first time, I went away out of town on business and she secretly met up with her Ex after midnight near her house. I was texting her throughout that night and wondering why she didn't reply. So when I came back to town, I asked her and she ... (247 words)

Fiance slept with other guy during break

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Quick background: I am 29 years old, my fiancee has just turned 30 and we have been together for 3.5 years. I proposed to her after 2 years, and it's only in the last year that things have gone wrong. For various reasons that we have now discussed at length, we drifted apart ... (381 words)

How to make him feel more secure about sex life

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of almost 4 years proposed to me last Christmas and we have been planning the wedding which will be happening this summer. Everything has been great, but we are both Christian and well, I havent really expressed myself sexually. He is a very passionate guy, a ... (167 words)

I'm a stay at hom mom and feel trapped

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 26 years old and I met my husband when I was just 16, We were high school sweethearts that moved in with each other right after graduation and got married when I was 21, had our first son when I was 23 and second at 25. I love him but at the same time we fight daily and I ... (155 words)

What does this mean? Does he still like me?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy at school and i thought he liked me because he would sit with me, look at me and make comments in my direction. now he hasn't been sitting with me at lunch, but he looks at me more!!!!! plus i am finding it hard to get his attention!plus i REALLY like him... (73 words)

Jealous of my best friends boyfriend

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - now, there is this girl that i met last year and we really connected. we tell each other everything and are together all of the time, and we have both admitted to liking each other. but.. she has boyfriend. she tells me everything about their relationship and she wants out but ... (89 words)

Want her to want me more than just a friend

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i met my best friend 7 yrs ago when I was just 16 . The moment I saw her was all over her. Every day since we have hung out. We have went on several dates over the years that amount to nothing. I am totally in love with her and she know its. I don't try to hide my feelings for ... (228 words)

My dad just saw us have sex and is obviously upset.

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and very close to my dad, Hes been a single father since I was 3 and has made it a point to be close to my brother and I. I am a complete daddy's girl and do no wrong in his eyes. Until now!!! I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now (he is 19) and we a... (240 words)

Found condom in my boyfriend's laundry

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, All my life I've been unlucky with love until my current boyfriend and I started dating. Everything was going great and he helped me improve my sels-esteem. I was very depressed before him and I've been really happy for the past basically 2 years I've been with him... (217 words)

What is wrong with me that all guys cheats on me?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me. Ever since i started to have boyfriends...all my boyfriends cheats on me for some other girls. When i was in high school my boyfriend left me and started to date my friend. My second boyfriend left me and went back to his ex. So i tried LDR. This also didn't ... (219 words)

How do I gain more sexual stamina?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend says it takes me too long to orgasm. The problem is I orgasm when I feel her tightening around me when she is about to orgasm. Thus, I think I need to last a little bit longer. How do I do this?... (45 words)

I'm insecure about her new male friend?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is at college about 3hours away and we talk everyday and we plan on getting married, but lately ive been kinda worried about another man. Shes tried to make friends there because is true that its hard to get through school with no friends but her closest frie... (339 words)

How do I make this natural when we have sex?

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12 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've only ever had sex once, it was a while ago now and i was fairly drunk so it wasn't a great experience. Anyway now im seeing a guy i really like and we're going to have sex, however this time i will be sober and feeling very self conscious about my lack of experience. H... (97 words)

Stay for money or leave for love?

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12 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I just want to say Im a good man off the bat! I NEED some serious HELP! OK so Im 33 married for 4 years been with wife for 15 years. When I met her she always was messy. Never cleaning her room or her car. Ive always been some]what easy going and relaxed and seem to ... (560 words)