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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Texted me but doesn't have the balls to call me after what he did

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all I met a guy and we have been seeing each other for about 5 wks. He lives about a hour away so we dont get to see each other as often as I like. We get on great and theres alot of chemistry. He kept phoning last weeking saying he couldnt wait to see me (we were mee... (164 words)

I'm not going to be stupid when I'm this young!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel that my boyfriend is coming on a little too strong. I'm 13 and he's already talking about getting married!! We have been dating for 7 amazing months, and I love him so much. But I mean really, should we be thinking about marriage quite yet? Of course, I've made it clear ... (118 words)

Good or bad? I want to have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My gf is 15 and im 14..we've known eachother for a long time and have been going out for over a year, so we have great chemistry, and we simply love eachother.... so lately we've been tlking about having sex for the first time...we want to loose it to eachothe... (193 words)

Why does he tell me he can't stand me and yet the internet says something different?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello ' Im a 16 year old Girl That has alredy been trough alot with Relationships for my age, My ex is Confussing me , we just broke up and we been together for a little over a year, He is telling me that he hates me and never whants to speek with me angan, He tells me off, ... (164 words)

Kissing someone else considered cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Everytime i asked him if he found someone else he told me i was crazy. when really he was spending alot of time with this girl behind my back. When he found out that i knew he confessed that he kissed her and im thinking he obviously liked her because he spent alot of time ... (65 words)

Troubles in the bedroom...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years. We are always together. I have been staying at her house more. Well if we fall asleep together and she wakes up I could be twitching and she will think I am masterbating. I have no way of proving it to her that I am not. Then ... (120 words)

How on earth will I be able to fit a penis in there???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's a bit of an embarrassing question really, I just don't know who else I could ask... well I frequently masturbate (clitoral stimulation, sounds a bit clinical) and bring myself to an orgasm... but, whenever I try to actually get something inside of me I can't, I seem too ... (87 words)

If we break up he's worried about how it will affect his friendship with my brother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have liked my brother's best friend for 5 years I just recently found out he likes me too. We have become friends with benefits but I want it to be more. But he is afraid to finalize our relationship because he's worried about if we break up what will happen to his friendship ... (69 words)

Six months pregnant due to a one night stand

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recetntly found out that I am 6 weeks pregnant due to a one night stand. I have no idea how to break the news to everyone, especially the Daddy to be and my parents. I'm terrified because I have no idea how they will handle the news, my parents are expecting me to return to ... (98 words)

We went from friends with benefits to boyfriend/girlfriend I guess...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a one night stand with this guy. I'd never had casual sex before and I thought that's all it would be, but we developed into fuck buddies, then friends with benefits and the more I see him, the more I'm becoming emotionally attached. We now share everything that's going ... (171 words)

My fault she's pregnant...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently found out my bf of 1 year has gotten another girl pregnant while seeing me. The child is 2 months old, I do not know what to do, he said that he was drunk. My bf is 15 and I am 14. This is my fault, I said that I wouldn't have sex with him while I was not 16, now ... (190 words)

What exactly is it that girls look for in a guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and I was wondering what do most girls look for in a guy??? So this is mainly for girls but guys can answer too I guess and I'm not asking this so I can get a girl but I just want to know.... (47 words)

Do my friends see something wrong with me and is there anyway I can get on that holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - First off, I know this is not about relationships, but it's still about friendship. Sorry about the fact that this is long, it's just a complicated story. I have 3 friends (I have more by the way, they're just the ones in the story, haha)lets call them A, B and C for now,an... (444 words)

Confused... should I break it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - SHOULD I BREAK IT OFF? This girl and myself have been seeing each other now for 7 months on and off. She is an old flame, we were boyfriend and girlfriend 2 years ago and got back in contact with each other a year ago. Seeing each other everyday, texting and phoning each oth... (747 words)

Her friends say she's cheating on me, she says she isn't. Who do I believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been going out for this girl for five months now. I really like her and she says she really likes me. Her friends say she's been cheating on me but she says she hasn't. I don't know who to believe. I tried to kiss her last week but she told me to go away. What shall I do?... (59 words)

How can I explain to my boyfriend that me and Ty are JUST friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So here goes, I have been best friends with this guy Ty since we were around 2 years old. His mom and my mom are BFF we spend thanksgiving and vacations together stay at each others homes blah blah blah you get it right? Anyhow I had a huge party at my parents beach ho... (188 words)

Fisting while being a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 and I love masturbating. Before, I used to not be able to finger myself, but now I can. But I wanted to go deeper, so I used my hairbrush which felt amazing. I'm wondering if I can fist myself while being a virgin? Also, how can I pleasure myself more?... (53 words)

Do I really deserve to be treated this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Five years ago my boyfriend found out that I was keeping a secret from him. I held the fact that I was doing drugs from him. The hard drugs. It wasn't even 4 months into me using when he found out. He was mad and I don't blame him. It is now 5 years later and my past still ... (132 words)

Gay guy/bi guy flirts with straight girls - should I finish friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a straight girl who has a crush on her gay guy friend from college who seems to enjoy flirting with stright girls. Me and him are best friends, but his flirting with straight girls is driving me nuts - enough for me to finish our entire close and strong friendship which ... (947 words)

My wife's past...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

18 March 2009 (?) age 51-59 - During the 8 years of my marriage my wife filtered out all sorts of sexual things that she did or happened to her. After years of dealing with them (nightmares and flashbacks) I finally seemed to come to terms with them. I had real problems because she told me she had a 3 some ... (173 words)

What's the best way to get him back???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has finished with me a couple of times and we have gotten back together, I know he loves me, it took him over a year to tell me and he always said he would tell me when he did fall in love with me, but he is so stubborn and finds it hard to talk. I would love to ... (294 words)

Hidden porn on my laptop from boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just found hidden porographic videos on our joint laptop that we collected from his mum's on saturday evening. LO and behold i opened up the browser history and he's been masturbating to these videos everyday since saturday... it's now wednesday and i'm getting sick of ... (162 words)

I don't even know how but I'm screwing up my dream relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in love with my best friend for about a 2 years. i finally told her how i felt and after about 2 months she broke up with her boy friend and made it pretty clear she wanted be with me. so i was stoked and for about 6 weeks it was really great. then all the sudden it go... (171 words)

I am uncomfortable about physical and really don't want strange to see me naked

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay i know this is not a relation ship problem..but need t ask this. o kay i need to get a physical to play sports right....butwhat do the doctors really do in physicals???? i've heard that they ask you to take your pants off, and ask you to cough...what's the point of... (106 words)

Horny..don't want to cheat but phone sex/photos aren't working for me in this LDR

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I find that I have plenty of opportunities to cheat but I just can't get myself to do it. I moved to cali 3 months ago and well to put it nicely I LOVE sex...I have a boyfriend though and it makes it hard since he still lives in my old town. I have tried the whole Phone sex ... (124 words)

I can't tell him my feelings and yet I can't get closure either

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy for about 3 years now. hes my best friend and we have such a good relationship. we both had times where he liked me and i liked him, but never got the chance to tell eachother. now he is with this girl and have been dating for a while now. eventhough he is ... (113 words)

Unhappy with or without her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - alrite so im with this girl and like her alot and we've been going out for like 2 years and im kinda getting over it but i think we broke up i would really jelouse and unhappy more so than i already am but at the same i really am unhappy with her and im not sure what to do... (61 words)

How can I get my parents to give me a little more freedom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - POSTER AGE INCORRECT: 13 I believe I have found the love of my life. But, a few weeks ago, I found out we might be moving. I'm only 13 but I couldn't stand having to be away from my boyfriend. And, my parents are being bitches about it. My dad is the assistant principa... (176 words)

Confused! First time sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so yesterday i had sex. it was great but i was in pain for 6 or mre mins but i didnt bleed i wanted to know if this is normal?? and also after we were done i was so sore and tired i didnt want to move i also had to pee alot is this normal also?? ... (67 words)

I change prices in the changing room!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is not a relationship based query, but I have a habit of swapping price tags in the changing room, so things cost a lot less then they actually do. How do I stop my greedy and dishonest ways?... (39 words)

Why would he say hurtful things that he doesn't mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have found the love of my life! I imagine us growing old together and still crazy about each other. The ONLY thing that worries me is that when he is upset at me, he doesn't want to talk to me and says things like he is not so sure about us. But then he says that when he ... (198 words)

I don't know if I'll ever trust him now..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months and he lied to me about something he did two years ago with a girl. he just told me a couple of days ago. i dont know if i should break up with him or not. he really hurt me. hes said hes sorry a million times, but i ... (179 words)

He grabs me and calls me his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have a problem non of the lads in my school like me except on i saw him the other day and he grabbed me and calleddme his girlfriend since then every time he sees he he grabs me and tries to touch me the weird thing is it makes me feel good about myself is this sad or w... (70 words)

Could my husband be tempted again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age - If you have read my previous postings you will know that my husband of 32 years had a text affair with a colleague who works at different premises. It has definately stopped but he still has to see her at meetings and tonight is the AGM. I am sitting here in a cold sweat ... (139 words)

My mother is cheating on my dad and its killing my sister & I!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My mum is having an affair - I dont know what to do. I'm 18 - Not a wee girl anymore, I love my parents truely and when my mum actually admitted wht was happening when i confronted her about it on the phone, I burst into tears, I got myself in such a panick that I co... (668 words)

No text back..not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - calling GUYS... If a guy doesn't reply to your text does that always mean he is not interested? ... (21 words)

Hysterectomy questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - if you have a hysterectomy can you still have a period and can you still go through menopause?... (19 words)

Living without him? What if this doesn't work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and the love of my life and supposibly getting married he says he wants to marry me and i love him.. but sometimes i wonder if i could make it without him. what if he doesnt want to marry me ? what if this doesnt work?... (47 words)

My b/f & best friend have become increasingly close & its starting to unnerve me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past couple of weeks my boyfriend and my best friend have been becoming increasingly friendly. At first I was really happy about it. I mean, my best friend and my bf were getting along but now they constantly text, email and talk to each other online. Its even getting ... (139 words)

Why does he wear sunglasses and say "I don't want you to see what is in my eyes?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just recently met a man who had approached me innocently, and i embraced him as a friend. The sucky part is, initially i was ok with being his friend, but im slowly starting to develop feelings, the part that is even worse, is that he is in a relationship. Now he's been ... (218 words)

She still doesn't really want to perform oral sex on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my Fiance over 2 years now and about 6 months into our relationship I posted a question about how to get her to enjoy going down on me more. She was borderline forced to preform oral in her previous relationship. Your responses told me to keep giving and she ... (160 words)

LDR--breakup..does a month no contact work? Is it natural to have waning feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my long distance girlfriend of 5 years broke up last week and and while i miss her i'm suprisingly not overly torn up about it yet. For those who have been in a LDR you'll know that it has to be preety intense for it to work and this ontop of final year stress was too ... (407 words)

I slept with him, and his mate..now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - basicaly... i met a guy on a train we got talking and he asked for my number... then 2 months later he called mme asking if i wanted to go to a house he was at as he and his mate were housittin and bored... i got very drunk and slept with him... the next night 2 more girls came ... (249 words)

He says he needs time to miss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating the my boyfriend for more the 5 yrs. 4 1/2 of them we have lived together. Our biggest problem over the years has been the fact that he is more interested in having fun money then money for bills. I own my own house and make more then him so we didn't split ... (280 words)

I can't get him off my mind but heard from my friends that he's dating someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - So im 15 and hes 18, his name is Danny and i met him a few months ago on msn. i know it doesnt seem a long time but i have now fell for him. a week or two ago he told me he loved me but i have not got the courage yet to go and see him allthough he one day waits and asks for me ... (154 words)

I can't tell her to her face how I feel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there readers!!! my problem is clear, I am in love with a girl and we have any knowledge between us, my problem is I can not find a way to tell her my feelings and I can not say it face to face, because I am not confident in my self.and my second problem is when I see her ... (146 words)

25 and have never been in a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am a 25 year old female who has never been in a relationship. I have not had sex of any kind or been naked in front of a guy. The furthest I’ve made it is a bit of clothes on grabbing while kissing. I tend to run from intimacy, and cannot get to a point where I am... (213 words)

We broke up so he can figure himself out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I recently broke up. We have only been together 4 months. We didn’t break up due to being unhappy or unfaithful. It wasn’t anything like that. Before we met, we both were not looking for a relationship, but we so happened to run into each other and we hit it ... (280 words)

I've had sex now with my cousin twice - I need help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, my last post didn't exactly help for several reasons such as not many people posted and some of those who did post clearly didn't understand that it isn't illegal to have sex with your cousin, get them pregnant or even marry them and yet it is still considered ... (404 words)

Was he just trying to let me down easy by saying "take a break"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright so my bf and I are "on a break" kind of, as in we used to hang out 24/7 and were driving each other crazy. He suggested that we just spend a lot less time together, maybe hang out once/week, but still talk online and on the phone. Well see we went on a break 2 1/2 ye... (475 words)

He's like my best friend and I know I'll probably never see him again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey this is a response to this question and thanks for the help you gave me! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-says-he-loves-me-as-a-mate.html anyway i can't remember who wrote the reply but yea on some level i think he does have feelings for me and yes i like him he know... (218 words)

To play the game or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 44 years old and recently divorced after 22 years. I have a bf I've been dating for 3 months. He seems into me yet always waits till the last minute to ask me to do anything and it seems like I'm making more of an effort than he is. I'm thinking he is taking me for ... (178 words)

What should I say to her and can she legally try to keep my baby????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and 7 months pregnant, my bf is 18 and both of our parents were shocked yet understanding when they heard the news. My mom and step dad have offered to help us in any wya they can. But last night I over heard my mom talking to a friend of hers saying that she was ... (130 words)

Who do I believe???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and been dating my girl friend as long as I can remember (LOL - we started dating in middle school). We are engaged to be married and last weekend we were at a party and she said that one of my friends (who is supposed to be in our wedding) came on to her and tried to ... (84 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want to be sweet to me any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there readers!!! I've been having a serious problem with my boyfriend these past few days and I was wondering if you can give me any good advice to what I should do? Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and been living with each other for awhile now ... (358 words)

I want a baby but the man I love is sterile...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm ready for a baby, physically anyway. Don't give me the "you're too you and financially unstable to support a child".. I don't want a baby right now. That would not be responsible of me. I know I want children... but my fiancee is sterile. You may be thinking.. well ... (160 words)

Should I leave him and wait for someone to come along that is going to give me what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having problems with this guy!! I'm 19. He is 26. We met 3 months ago. It turned out we lived a street from each other and I started to go round his in the evenings to chill. He never came to mine because I live with my family and they're a bit strict on boys. Anyway, we ... (544 words)

How can I help my brother? He was only trying to protect me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and most people think I live a very privileged life. I have a twin brother and people call us spoiled, bratty and out of control. I will admit that we have pushed our limited with family, school and the law. But now we both are paying for it. About 6 months ago we bo... (253 words)

Should I get tested or am I being paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age - I have been reading posts on this site about cheating and one of the answers said about getting tested for aids. My husband cheated on me between 1992 up until February 2008 with different women(3) I never thought of getting tested but it's got me worried now, surely I wi... (66 words)

Questions the doctor will ask me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 16 and I'm going to have the contraceptive implant today, my mum suggested this but she thinks I'm a virgin. I know my doctor will ask if I'm sexually active and I was wondering will I get into trouble with the law if I tell my doctor I had sex once at 15, or is my ... (71 words)

Last night I cheated on my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I cheated on my boyfriend and right after, I told my boyfriend what happened and now were having a talk today, and I don't even know what to say other than I'm sorry. We've been dating for two years and I don't want to stay away from him, I realise that he can no l... (87 words)

I lost my baby at 30 weeks and don't know how to restart my life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I would appreciate any advice anyone has for me. Six months ago I lost my baby boy through miscarrage at 30 weeks, it was completely unexpected as most of the pregnancy had been fine. I had already bought all of the things for his nursery and some toys and ... (166 words)

Is it all in my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do I begin? I know my problem will probably seem childish and maybe even overdone. The logical answer is to simply choose but sometimes it's just not that easy you know? So I've had this friend whom I love, cherish, trust and respect. He's an amazing person. We dated back ... (270 words)

Does he want to date me, or not??!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have liked this guy for quite a few months and I have been told by our mutual friends that he has an interest in me. He suggested in the past to my friend that we should go on a double date together, but it never actually happened. I have been getting strong vibes from him, ... (241 words)

I fear making a clean break from him... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

- I finally found the strength to break up with my abusive bf last week. And I stood my ground. He got really angry because of that. I don't think he ever expected me to stand up to him - he couldn't handle it at all, he got so out of control, I had never seen him like that ... (379 words)

"We can be together... just not right now"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend of 1 year separated yesterday. Here's the situation... both of us know that we're the one for each other and we are very much in love. The reason for our separation is that she has constant family problems. Her Mother and Father continuously argue, and her ... (228 words)

How can I ask her out without risking our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have this great female friend. We've met up twice, text and phone each other a lot etc. Ever since I can remember I've had feelings for her and all my friends say that I should ask her out. She has also asked me what would I do if she fancied me and I said I would probably... (131 words)

Obsessed boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bfriend and I have only been together a few months. The first two months were very serious (talks of marriage) but now I have just about had enough. He got really drunk one night and sent me abusive text messages because I was at work and couldn't talk to him. He's suffered ... (167 words)

What is wrong with him? Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He never makes the first move to kiss me, I always go up to him and start kissing him not even when he have sex he say 'baby show me some love or 'are you gonna show me some love and I find this really weird cos it's never happened before with none of my exs, they would just ... (258 words)

Baby blues...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After having a baby 5 months ago me and my husband are not getting along and we dont have sex? What can we do to save the marriage? ... (28 words)

I didn't enjoy kissing/snogging... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am not a very confident person and have never had a relationship before but have now met somebody through a dating website and met them for the first time last night. I had a lovely lovely time, and I really really like him, he is just so lovely!! This is going to sou... (230 words)

Chasing pavements...

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone know or got their own meanings on what "chasing pavements" means? I would like to know others views on this thanks.... (24 words)

He was just playing me and I took it serious...

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my long distance relationship boyfriend last night but the course was caused by me, I do not want him back but I feel guilty. What should I do to let him know I am really sorry for what happened? I mean... how should I approach him and what should I do to ... (80 words)

Was it my fault?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi well a couple of weeks ago I met up with this guy he kept pestering me to meet him saying he really liked me and stuff and he kept putting pressure on me to meet him and I don't like that but anyways I agreed to meet him, I met him the one night and I bumped into my friend ... (469 words)

I don't know how to handle this situation and could really use some advice.

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a girl for two months. From the start, she has pursued me quite aggressively -- a fact that I initially found flattering. Unfortunately, as time goes by, I realize that I am simply not in love with her. She, on the other hand, seems to be totally infatuated ... (296 words)

Yes or no... Should I tell him how I feel?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I went to a prty a few weeks ago and took my best friend along for some moral support coz I like the guy who's party it was. So she got quite tipsy and was all over him, I just put it down to the drink, but the next week I caught the 2 of them red handed. All they'd done ... (212 words)

For my daughters sake.., should I settle?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met someone new. My husband and I were having problems. I was 8 months pregnant and he decided it was best for me to go live with my parents out of state. I don't want to get into the specifics of the problems but it did not involve cheating in any way and my husband was righ... (323 words)

Do I reply after all this time if he is still married?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I started seeing a man just before he got married. I know, bad move... I stopped seeing him as he needed time to figure out his life and what he really wants. I told him if it is me that will make him happy then I will be here for him. If it is his wife, then I won... (221 words)

I'm really worried, could I be pregnant?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm 15 and about a week ago me and my boyfriend had sex.. I'm not a virgin.. Well we did it and he wasn't fully inside and then he cummed in his hand and maybe a little on me but I didn't see or feel anything on me. so I wasn't worried. well the next day he was over agai... (99 words)

Sometimes I feel like quitting the relationship but I like her as a person

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend has got a very polite way of humiliating people and I don’t like it, I have spoken to her about this several times but she is a “take it or leave it” kind of a person. She does it to me as well sometimes and it hurts my feelings. But most of all, she makes me feel... (103 words)

What do I do to make him change his mind?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... its pretty difficult but i was already pregnant when i first met my fiance. we were together 3 months and he had left for pre deployment training. we had a really good friend and he told me while my fiance was away that he was sleeping with this chick he had been frie... (278 words)

I like the same guy my friend likes... Help!

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have these friends let's call one S and H. S introduced me to her friend who was also friends with H's crush and we all hung out and had fun and I treated him no different from how I treat them... then we hung out again an H told me before that she had a crush on the guy S ... (322 words)

Can I enjoy love without infatuation?

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to start off by saying, in the past I've always dated or pursued a girl that I've been infatuated with. Usually it goes fine except for the "simple" fact that none of them loved me, or they weren't infatuated enough to wish to continue. After a few of these I met some... (350 words)

Should I or shouldn't I trust him?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last weekend, I went to a dance with my boyfriend at his school(I'm homeschooled). He's in 9th grade and I'm in 7th. I'm 13 and He's turning 15. Anyway, everytime I Met one of his friends, they looked at me in a funny way, like they didn't like me or I was a slut. Then o... (334 words)

What do I do to save our relationship?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my fiance for almost 3 years ( since 17) and for the first almost 2 years it was a long distance relationship. We got engaged while still living in different states and planned on one of us moving. Due to some family problems i was the one to move with him. Ive... (186 words)

Pregnancy mabye?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think im pregnant but im not sure. I started my period today. I thought it was strange because me and my boyfriend have been going at it everyday for the last two weeks. (I know there is only a 25% chance of getting pregnant without using a condom.) So I looked it up on the ... (116 words)

Is he right in thinking I owe him?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have a 2 year old together. At the time we both had great jobs. I took a year off for maturnity leave. Now, my boyfriend thinks that because he had to help support me when i was on maternity leave...he thinks i owe him this huge sum of money. He is refusing... (109 words)

Am I in any way to be blamed for whatever is happening to her?

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone....i am scared please help !! me and my girlfriend have had many phone sex chats and masturbate on phone. she rubs her clit with a pen refill. recently she has got irregular periods and strange sensations near her clit area which she said are painful some... (132 words)

What can I do to make my husband understand that this is my problem and happened before I met him?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am going to make this short as possible about 20 yrs ago I made the biggest mistake of my life I slept with my sisters boyfriend who later became her husband. I didnt tell anyone, but he did he told her and she confronted me and I denied it to her and everyone eles im ... (300 words)

He says he loves me but I'm doubting and he's still wife the wife

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man online. He said he was separated and would be getting a divorce, but soon after we started to get to know each other, he admitted that he was still with her, just wanting a divorce. We continued to talk and he told her that he wanted a divorce and moved to the ... (310 words)

Even his sister calls him a jerk,but I'm confused about what to do!

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I just need some advice as im in a tough confusing situation right now. Okay so I posted a lil while ago about my ex that went crazy when he lost his good paying job and left me the same week when I found out I was pregnant. Gave me $ to abort and told me to leave ... (339 words)

He likes porn because "they look better than you"

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18 March 2009 (F)

age - i am with a lovely man who is kind and gentle. He likes his porn and one day i asked him why. His response was that "they are better looking than me". Well, I was devastated. Since then I have forgiven him but I find intimacy with him very difficult now and feel so much les... (78 words)

Teacher fliriting..checking out my butt?

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay well lets start off by saying that im a bi guy. Okay i'm a freshmen in highschool, and during the orientation over summer, a teacher would be glancing at me and smiling once in a while. Okay i didnt really consider anything that day but last week, i was waiting for my f... (269 words)

I'm gay and don't want to be!

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm 19 years old. I have had a tough, tough life. My Mother had me at 14, she was a drug addict and and alcoholic. So therefore I was adopted by a single woman I lived with her for pretty much all of my childhood during that childhood I was molested and pretty much raped by ... (195 words)

I'm 15, he's 19..what will happen if we have sex?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 15 years old and my man is 19 years old. if we have sex could he get into legal isus and go to jail? can me and him get legally maried in oklhoma at the a of 15 and 19? ... (41 words)

Please just pray for his safe return to me

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need you prayers, PLEASE! Two months ago I lived a simi-normal life. I had a family, a home and a job. I have been on here before about my husbands abuse, but I finaly got the nearve to leave him. This required me to quit my job and I sent my children back home ahead of me. ... (314 words)

I don't know what is stopping us from being together

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this guy for 6 months. We both want to be with each other but I don't know whats stopping us from being together. We talk everyday and I see him atleast 3 times a week. I dont know what to do ... (46 words)

I want to ask her to move in with me, is it too soon?

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl in line at the grocery store and she literally just drew me in. We ended up talking and that was that. About a week later we ran into each at a local restraunt and for about a month everywhere I went I would see. Some how during one of our run ins we accidently ... (248 words)

This girl is always trying to hang out with my boyfriend!

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am just wondering how to approach this situation... there is this girl that likes my boyfriend... and i am constantly annoyed by her because she is always trying to hang out with him, even though he doesn't want to and pretty much tries not to talk to her. Anyways the... (202 words)

Can our relationship ever go back to the way it was?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Im 23 and really need some advice on the biggest mistake I have ever made. My boyfriend and I have been dating since I was in high school and is the greatest guy in the world. We live to together and know that someday we will be married. A few months ago we got into a hu... (239 words)

Scared of being rejected and his friends don't like me!

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have to warn you this is major complicated, well for me it is... When I first met this guy he annoyed me so much. Him and his friends drove me crazy but they were all kinda sweet sometimes and they made me laugh when I really needed it... This guy used to tease me and say ... (480 words)

Extreme difficulty moving on

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone.Thanks for taking the time to read/respong to my problem.I will try to make this as short as possible to get my story across. Ok,well..I met this man on yahoo chat,around May of 2005.It was innocent in the beginning,but we eventually started talking more and more... (400 words)

My husband is always jealous!

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been married for 13 years. My husband and i have always fought in our relationship. Once we fought so bad, while we were dating, that his sister came down into his bedroom crying(who is my age). The next morning I broke it up with him on the phone, while i was on ... (388 words)

Is he innocent? Or a nut?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! My husband has been texting/calling a lady for over a month and says I shouldn't mind this. At first I thought it was just innocent friendly, keeping in touch chat. He supposedly meet her on the road (he is a otr truck driver) and breifly talked and been keeping intouch ... (305 words)

Is my ex doing this to make me jealous?

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 my gf (ex) broke up um about a week or so ago and im tryin to not be sad and i guess im kinda doin okay now. anyway we broke up cause well i dont really know i guess cause of her drinkin and smokin habits and mainly cause she is startin to have feelings for her ex (he ... (182 words)

I used the Plan B pill and denied it! Now he accuses me of lying when he has told me so many, himself! Is this fair?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok... So I come on here regularly and give advice every once in a while, but now, I really need to hear others opinions. I posted this question last night, but didn't get much responce. So, can anyone help? Ok. My boyfriend and I went on a "break" in early November. He st... (1201 words)

I don't get it..did I do something wrong when we met for our first date! Help me understand!

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry about the length but please do read it all. Thanks! I met this guy online and he was so excited at the prospect of meeting me. He asked me out and planned dinner at the beach. The night we met up something wasn’t right. He seemed distracted, said he was tired, d... (507 words)

What are some signs that ladies give off to show you that their interested?

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Thx for reading this... here goes. Lately I have been having a lot of problems relationship-wise. I can never tell when the right time is, to ask a girl out. I don't know if maybe I'm always out of my leaque or something but I ne... (138 words)

Upset that I recieved a letter from a Debt Collections company and don't know why? Help!

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts, I am actually a long time aunt from DC, but left the site and now need some input on my current situation. I received a strange looking letter in the mail today claiming that it is from a debt collections company named: Capital Collections, LLC. Whats really o... (188 words)

My gf is threatening to end our relationship due to my ex's interference!

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I need someone.s help! My girlfriend broke my heart and she doesn't see why. Well, my ex keeps trying to message me and my girlfriend .(They were friends for a long time ago) This ex has lately have been causing problems and I try to ignore her (my ex) and I only reply to he... (281 words)

Does she just want to teach me a lesson? Help me out here!

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've got a long distance relationship with a girl. She has problems and is stressed so I asked if we could just be friends until I got stuff together to come down and be with her. But I made it clear that I wasn't going to cheat on her and she told me later that she just got a ... (96 words)

A month after the break up coffee date: First step to winning her back????

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18 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So, my girlfriend broke up with me about thirty days ago. After the break things were cool until about a week later when we were hanging out and she was blatantly flirting with another guy. The next morning I explained that I thought it was rude and uncalled for of her to do ... (177 words)

I desperately need your advice aunts! Where do I go from here?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently posted a question about my fiance and I having problems with him betraying my trust, but I didnt mention that 2 years ago I did something awful as well... Our relationship back then was pretty awful. He was always nasty to me, we fought a lot, he would break up w... (873 words)

What would a genuine man be looking for in a good friendship with a woman?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Any advice about forming a beautiful friendship with a decent man? What would a genuine man be looking for in a good friendship with a woman?... (27 words)

My personal life is mixing with my private life.

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18 March 2009 (F)

age - I have been with the same man since 2000 although we have known each other for nearly 24 years and had a previous relationship. We both got other children and one between us. My 17 year old has caused me a lot of problems and my boyfriend has been quite active in helping. ... (265 words)

I'm finding the distance a struggle... any ideas?

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18 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. I love him dearly, but it seems like we have had nothing but struggles since we began dating. We have been in a long distance relationship from the very beginning. He lives about 3 hours away and we see each other ... (183 words)