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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can handle him dating other girls, but not the lies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So there is this guy I have been talking to for about 8 months now, 3 months into our "relationship" I found out he had a gf and lied about a lot of things. I was okay with that becausde she lives in another state and I want his friendship more than anything. So I talked to him ... (251 words)

B/f wants to know some of my b/f tricks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have givin blow jobs before, but not to my new boyfriend. He wants to know some of my tricks. What should i tell him... (25 words)

Is it really "space" or just an "out"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my bf for a yr and recently his dad's been diagnosed with leukimia, he was in the hospital for about a month and he's home now. our relationship has always been very well handled but just recently my bf said he needed space, he said he still loved me but couldnt ... (157 words)

Should I flirt with him? Is he interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm comfused because first robert liked me and we were close then he started not talking at all to me and keeping his distance. Now hes all almost the same again but he keeps telling a girl that nobody likes him and he wants someone. Duh why won't he ask me he is so stupid ... (101 words)

This really hot looking girl has asked for my phone number... but I have a girlfriend albeit I'm not crazy on her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a girl surveying our building at work and I guess she is there for a week or so. The last few days she has been making eyes at me and smiling and I have been reciprocating. I've never had this sort of instant attraction feeling with a girl - she's unbelievably gorgeous ... (281 words)

He won't go out with me because I'm "flat chested" Grrrrr

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well basically, I am 14 and I am not fully 'developed' yet. Like I haven't started my period and my boobs are basically like mosquito bites. This is because my mum developed really late. She didn't start her period til she was 16 but the annoying thing is.. I think that this ... (145 words)

Problems with son and college.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was recently told by my 17-year-old son's college lecturer that he's been getting poor grades. I asked why, and all he said was "your son's more interested in pursuing a vendetta than his grades". I confronted my son, and asked him what this was all about but he refused t... (150 words)

I have developed a huge crush on him, the thing is I am getting mixed messages

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in my class and when we first met we got along really well. We still do now 7 months down the line and I have developed a huge crush on him. The thing is I am getting mixed messages from him. Sometimes he is really flirtatious and then others he doesn't seem ... (130 words)

I don't understand what's going on, was he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I meet this lad a few month's ago on a night out, we exchanged numbers and that was it, He was texting me for a while after but I started to back off as I had just come out of a realationship and he was getting a little too serious for me, telling me I was the one, bearing in ... (281 words)

Live my life... or stay with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years,(I'm 26, she's 23) we have bought a house together and are set up for the rest of our lives really. We also work at the same place so therefore see each other for dinner etc through the day. The thing is, since we have li... (259 words)

Still a virgin at 33...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 33 year old virgin. I have never had a boyfriend, only dated casually. The reasons for this are several... the most important one is that I am overweight so I feel too self conscious to get close with a man. I have had several men try and date me but I always cut it off ... (121 words)

I want to leave him but keep thinking that he's going to change, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and have a 3 year old little boy, and I am in an abusive relationship. We have been together for 5 years and he's the father of our child. I want to leave him but keep thinking that he's going to change, what should I do?... (53 words)

I panicked when we had sex and he couldn't get it in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I sent a question recently and well me and my boyfriend have been together along time. The other night we finally came to the point where sex was an option so everything was prepared y'know, but last minute I panicked (being my first time) yeah I sound like a wuss. But yeah I ... (138 words)

He loves me as a mate but doesn't treat me like he does others

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you please help me try to figure out whats goings on its tearing me apart!! Well theres this lad in my class(we are a class of 10 very nice group) The thing is i don't understand whats going on hes so different with me and will hardly talk to me. I can't really explain i... (693 words)

He says he is not a good place right now and can't be with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is my dilemma. I've known this guy for about a year and a half now. We're both pretty young. We just started talking in September. Then we started dating in November. Ive been in other relatonships before, and well he is the nicest guy ive met, honest, good lucking, and ... (362 words)

He goes hot and cold

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for 5 years. We've gotten into this pattern where we spend 1 or 2 days of the weekend together and then I don't hear from him during the weekdays. If I call him during the week, he will answer and talk just fine. If I don't call he won't call me nor ... (310 words)

He lied..he still checks girls out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok.....so in the beginning of me and my boyfriends relationship I said that I dont like when he checks girls out because I find it to be disrespectful to me...and he said "ok, but iv been doing it my whole life, but if you give me some time I can change it" and i said "okay ... (153 words)

What should I do I am really into him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, There Please could I have more Answers to my question thanks so much :)? I’m 16Yrs Old and The boy I Like is 17Yrsold we both don’t know each other but he comes around my house (His my brothers Mate)Lately I been getting signals from him like e.g. he noticed my hair ... (370 words)

Teen moms

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, if any of you are young teen moms; I just wanted to ask what it's like and your experience and if it's planned or not and how you feel?... (30 words)

Is it ok to want some space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend of two years that I love with all my heart. We are two hours apart (me being at school, her being a hairdresser) and are constantly on the phone. Little bits here and there and longer conversations during the night that can last two hours. While I do love ... (195 words)

What do boys like for presents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriends birthday and our year anniversary is coming up next month, and he's the most annoying person to but for, i usually end up getting him clothes or jewelry and i'm guessing he's getting bored of it all, what do boys actually like for presents? something that means ... (108 words)

I want my original girl back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was with a manic-depressant girl for two years and I know she loved me because she stayed with me even when I physically and emotionally abused her on a daily basis. I really hate to admit this, but I have put her in the hospital twice during our relationship and called her ... (154 words)

I'm so confused about my ex's actions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up a couple months ago, He dumped me because he said he wasn't over an ex and needed time to recover, so he could come back to me when he was ready. I thought I was going to be okay, But I ended up feeling so desperate for him and at first I thought I coul... (219 words)

I'm worried about my husband being an older father

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, i hope someone out there can help me. i am almost 30 and my husband of three years is 12 years older than me. the age difference was never an issue because i loved him and i still do, but now i find that i worry about his age. this is mainly because we've been trying... (107 words)

Virginity is nothing to play around with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i have a girlfriend that i am truly in love with anyway we were talking and sex thing came up..i am 16 and shes 14 it even might be illegal but anyway we dont live in usa and i never heard any law that says that here anyway.. My girl asked me if i wanted to do it with h... (164 words)

Child porn located on his computer! Now what?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i recently found numerous videos of child pornography (VERY VERY GRAPHIC TITLES AND HORRIBLE FREEZE FRAMES, NEVER WATCHED BY ME I CAN ONLY STARE AT THE SAVED FILES)on both my boyfriends computers, both of which the children use and his profiles on these are easy to access, ... (180 words)

How do ask someone to be in a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I want to have a threesome with another guy but don't know how to ask. How do I ask a gorgeous guy to join my boyfriend and I for a threesome?... (34 words)

I'm an alcoholic and I fight it everyday!. Please..I need some help to cope!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A few years ago i was told by doctors that i was an Alcoholic. I recieved treatment and for a period of a year i never drank at all. I did start drinking again but only at social events and nothing to heavy. Last october i completely fell of the wagon and have been drinking ... (350 words)

Write a poem for me...that I can give to my bf?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, as some of you may know I ran into problems with my boyfriend. Well ive been startled when he gave me a reason as to why he was not talking to me....he was writing me a poem. Now since I love the poem I think I should write one back. But i cant come up with anything. So ... (152 words)

She wants to end this as she thinks I will end up hating her! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I've been going out with this girl for about 7 days. Now she's all like, 'you shouldnt go out with me', and she says that its bcuz she will probably do something wrong, and i will end up hating her. What does this mean? I'm confused. please help, as i dont want to... (64 words)

I'd rather give my baby up for adoption than to let him have it

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 7 months pregnant my boyfriend and I have since split up it live in the same apt I'm trying to find a new place. He has a daughter from a previous relationship. I want to give the child up for adoption I just think he would have a better life. My ex said he would fight me ... (98 words)

I want a date night with my husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 28 years and I've been married almost 2.. Have a son whose 1. The thing is my husband and I have known eachother for 12 years and we've been together on and off. He's a good person and we love eachother very much. But when we got married and I ahd my son we started h... (286 words)

Should I just delete the message before he gets it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age - Help, urgent advice needed. You are probably sick of my saga. My husband had a 'text affair' with a work colleague and although it's over he still has to liaise with her and attend work related committee meetings (he doesn't see her on a daily basis as they work at different ... (340 words)

Pregnant in a foreign country..what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm pregnant in a foeign country. (exchange student) What do I do? I don't want to tell my parents neither the guy.. is there a way I can abort withut them knowing? and after the abortion., do you need to like stay in bed? ..please. someone help...... (51 words)

Why is my period late and should I take another test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Please! I am almost crying of panic! I am like a week and so late in my period. but i have not had unprotected sex, ever! what should I do? I had a pregancy tst done two days ago, and it came out negative.. so why is my period late and when should I take another test??... (59 words)

He texts me but wont call me! Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I lost about my next move. What do I do, my relationship of only a few months recently ended, not sure why, but, it did. We did a lot of things with our homes together and some of his stuff is at my place and vise-versa. Within the last two weeks he has been texting me good ... (301 words)

He's had a chance to chose between me & g/f why is holding on to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello...i know you all are going to chew me out...but im still messing with this guy who has a gf...the only thing different is she knows about us now because i told her...hoping this would push him against a wall to make a decision... well it didn't he's still with her..... (428 words)

Wanted to get something for easter present but it'll cost about 40.00!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for two months now.:) I thought about getting a little something for his younger brother (9 yrs. old) For Easter! Should I just go for it? But it turns out after searching and searching I would end up spending more or less about $40.00. I ... (125 words)

I think he's a committment phobia kind of man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age - I love my boyfriend alot and I know he loves me but...I think he might be one of those commitment phobic guys. He gets really close to me and then does something or says I do something that enables him to pull away for days or even weeks. He says he tries that he gives me his ... (146 words)

Questions for pregnant or formerly pregnant women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm a little over 5 months along and and I have a lot of questions. Even if you only answer a few, I'd really appreciate it. 1- my breasts are pretty large now, will they stay that way? or be bigger after I'm done breastfeeding? I used to be a 34C now I'm betw... (536 words)

My dad doesn't really know how to treat me like a young woman..treats me like little girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I guess I really do not have a question but I want to discuss and tell about myself. I recently registered after posting questions ananomonously. I feel like we are friends already. I am 14 and my Mom died five years ago so now I live alone with my dad. I have no brothers or ... (403 words)

Can I go on like this for another 20 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) age - My husband is driving me crazy. I don't know what is wrong with him. He says he loves me, but I don't feel it. He is not looking at me with desire, and he never wants sex. He is impotent, but not medically. He can have night erections, but not able to get one with me. He says ... (204 words)

Would lubrication help till we can be more regular?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating almost a year, and we have been sexually active, beginning with us losing our virginities together, a great deal of that time with no problems. However, during the course of the relationship I have noticed in myself a somewhat ... (206 words)

He thinks I'm a gold digger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I had a great 4 month relationship, he wanted me to move in, even talked marriage. But then this happened.. 1 year before I met him, I had great trauma - bad abusive bf (left after 3 months) but a man from a different state befriended me - just friends - then ... (364 words)

I really just want him to grow up and behave like an adult instead of a child running away and sulking and hiding.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - When my boyfriend gets angry over something I did he does not show his anger he internalizes it. A few days after he makes more out of it and says he needs space to get over it. He makes mountains out of molehills. His friends all say he is a great guy but is very emotional. ... (258 words)

I would love to please him but I can't What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for more than 10 years like 2 years ago I started going to topless bars with my husband we even had one of the girls do a dance for us, actually she was all over me more than him (which he loved) After that we also made his fantasy true of being with 2 ... (135 words)

I always feel so frustrated because I come too soon

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm aged 27 years and I have a problem, whenever I have a sexual intercourse with my wife, I always feel so frustrated because I come too soon in the first round and it's low in quantity and even after trying the second round I don't ejaculate any although I get to my orgasm ... (111 words)

Should I worry that is contemplating cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend started a website for dating. He was clueless on how to set it up. He said he wanted to do it to make extra money. He told me that he did a free profile on himself to see what the questions and fees were. He is not a paid member so he can't contact any women ... (71 words)

Should I have a baby by this guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and he asked me recently do I want to have a baby with him. He already has 2 kids already and I told him if we do decide to kids and if we're still together maybe within the next 1-2 years. The mother of their children really ... (142 words)

Is he just a big baby searching for a mother when he is hurt...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We live in a very wealthy seasonal place. I am beginning to think my boyfriend is a walker. In case you don't know a walker is someone who escorts ladies to events, dinners, etc. My bf of 9 months said he was angry with me so he did not come to an event I was hosting. ... (364 words)

Why can't I get him out of my head? What's up with that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why can't I get him out of my head? I've been browsing the archive of 'teacher - pupil' topics, and none of the posts described a situation quite like mine. I first met the teacher in question when I was 11 years old, the first year of secondary school, when he taught... (1557 words)

Should I move back home if I'm jobless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I moved to a city to get a job and now in my third month of living here and have no hope left. I am qualified and have not had problems getting a job in the past but in the current climate its not looking good. Im about to go through a break up and dont know if I can cope ... (123 words)

Webcam ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is away on buisness, any ideas of sexy things to do via webcam...... (15 words)

Cheated on ex, he found out, made out with one of my friends

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, and have just broken up with my boyfriend of 2 years. I've had a history of cheating on him, but he always forgave me. Lately I had been having different feelings about him and havnt been feeling the same about him. There was no spark anymore and i never wanted to do ... (217 words)

I think my boyfriend is ashamed of me, is he!? Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year now. At the start of the relationship keeping me a secret didn’t bother me much, I really didn’t care. You see, I am 30 years old and I am also a trans-female or transsexual woman, meaning I was born male and have ... (573 words)

Teen mums!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd just like to know your opinions on "teen mums". If the legal age to have sex (in the UK) is 16, why do parents age 16-20 get frowned upon? Also what age do you think is appropriate to be a grandparent? ... (44 words)

Why is he punishing me in this way? Is he just scared of commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have taken a 2 week break which I really need to sort out my thinking. First I love him and do want to be with him but here is the dilemma... He is very emotional and when he gets angry he runs away and goes into his man cave which can sometimes last for ... (311 words)

Seeing 2 women at the moment but find it difficult to choose.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am in my late thirties and have never really had a proper girlfriend or an intimate relationship. I've been on dates and had a series of short relationships, which never went beyond going out together on dates and kissing. The reason is that my job consumes all of my ... (482 words)

Sex in an elevator????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is about 10 years older than me. I really like sex a lot and the fact that I'm young he loves the fact that I love to have sex all the time. I want to try having sex with him in an elevator but I think he's too scared to do it, how do I get him into it?... (61 words)

Is she simply using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am now in a very complicated situation that's why I am here. I hope I will get some help and good advice here. Thanks a lot in advance. I am after this girl and have been for more that two years now. Have been taking her out for dinner, movies, late nights quite often. I a... (390 words)

My ex has asked me out again, I still love him but don't know if it's wise to say yes.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me but I still love him... We started dating in the 7th grade and we made it all the way till the 9th grade. He was the one for me. The problem was our friends. His friends didn't like me and my friends didn't like him. Everyone was always trying t... (137 words)

Do you think this will ever go anywhere?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am gay and my mate always knew it. My mate is a big strong Fence Builder who drives a work van and has 2 teenagers from his first marraige and one more kid he's seen only once from a second marriage. We were in a church together for years until I came out and left, and he l... (976 words)

Is it me he loves or this other girl? I need to know for sure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my husband are having problems. He was having an affair ad now I can't trust him. I love him, he is from Morocco and I'm from Ireland. Is it me he loves or this other girl? I need to know to end this marriage. I still love him too much. Please help.... (60 words)

Questions I need answered before I try anal sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, me and my partner are going to be having anal sex for the first time and I'd like to know if this is true - If you have anal sex regulary, every couple of months, does the women's hips and bum get bigger? Also when I'm 60 I won't be able to control my anal area? aka w... (74 words)

Should I broach the subject with him or just "let sleeping dogs lie?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I like this man but am not sure how he feels. He is always friendly and says hi and smiles at me whenever we see each other. We have had some good conversations about each other and our lives, but I get the feeling there is something more there. I tend to feel a bit anxious ... (104 words)

Dazed and really confused. Really need to figure out what I'm going to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a very interesting and complicated relationship. I have been dating a guy for about 6 months and we both love each other very much. Now here comes the complications. He's 32 and I'm 21. He has 2 very young kids (A 1 year old and an 8 month old) and he lives with the ... (488 words)

15 years later he appears... what does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone ever called out an individuals name (that you've never had a crush on) while having sex, and then 15 years later end up hooking up with that person? This is really driving me crazy... now I've known this particular person most of my life, but have never thought of... (162 words)

He doesn't satisfy me like I do him... How can I tell him to try harder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I have sex with my man, I always give him oral but he only touches me down there and never gives me oral. I don't want to ask for it, because he might not want to do it, and I don't want him to do anything he's not comfortable with but it does bother me. He is a bit self... (107 words)

She is unsatisfied in sex with her husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age - how do I know a woman i am looking for sexual relationship is also interested because she is unsatisfied in sex with her husband... (24 words)

What's causing my unhappiness and how can I change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i just need a bit of advice so if anyone can offer some that would be great? Been with my boyfriend 3 years, love him, thing is we had history we went together for 6 months, broke up for a year then got back together been back together three years now. The thing is in ... (388 words)

Really need some help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 7 years, I was 16 when we got together, now I'm 23, and I am starting to feel that I want to go and explore life. I think I still love him, but I feel I've missed out on a whole part of my life. We seem to have less and less in common, we bo... (158 words)

PMT or just plain emotional?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys, this isnt really a relationship question but since you all give really good advise i thought it was worth a try. My doctor advised me to take 3 months of my contraceptive pill without a break due to antibiotics intefearing with it to get it back in control of my ho... (105 words)

Did I ruin this relationship on my own?

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25 March 2009 (F)

age - I've had this wonderful connection with a man I met a year ago and I fell in love with him.. we had so much in common in our outlook on life. Though at times my common sense said he might be a player, and has a serial history of 3 marriages, two not even making it a year. ... (1137 words)

What does pookie mean?

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What does pookie mean? Seems like a fun pet name but I would wish to know the meaning before I use it.... (23 words)

Please help! I want to make a step ahead

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boy friend broke up with me a week and days ago.. the thing is he asked me when i was going to the north that means he wanted to see me i told him i moved on with a guy from an other country he is now jellousy that he does not even wan to hall... (380 words)

She thinks that she's the tops of tops and I only a miserable being.

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello dear friends, This question I am asking is not really a love, dating or sex question but rather a matter that is troubling me a lot. I have a big sister and we were never in good terms. Today we share no relationship at all. She has always wished that evil things hap... (275 words)

Crush, infatuation or love?

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a crush on this guy who is 3 years older and me. I think he is hot and really really cute. He's always on my mind, I smile whenever I hear his name and I could smile through my tears if I see him. I'm pretty sure this is just a crush and I'm not claiming this as love as ... (121 words)

I love my teacher and I think she loves me back :)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and shes 27.lets call her lizzy. shes my chef course teacher. lizzy calls me pretty and she gave me a flower 2day :) she touches my thigh and my shoulders. winks at me all the time and smirks a lot at me and shes always offering to help me but she really dislikes help... (114 words)

Should I cut him off now or wait until I the abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I was with my ex boyfriend for over two years. It was my first real relationship and I loved him very much, we did everything together. Well two weeks ago, we were arguing and he had told me he cheated on me out of anger. The next day he tells me it's true, he didn't mean... (308 words)

Is it okay to meet him and show the real me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'am female just call me simplegal. I'm already 18,but I never had experience relationship with a guy since birth... Now I'm here, because I want you to give me some advices and your help this serious problem with my feelings to this men. this was the story begins. we only mee... (840 words)

Have I just made a total fool of myself? :-(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just made a total fool of myself. I wanted to play it cool with a guy I was really starting to like and I just blurted out that I wanted to get to know him better and he actually responded that he felt sorry for me! I was so shocked that I asked if that was true and he start... (140 words)

Is it normal for guys to keep adding girls on their facebook list?

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i am sort of worried about my boyfriend of 1 year.is it normal for guys to keep adding girls (they don't even know at all) on their facebook list? is it like one of those "cool" wannabe things or what?its really getting on my nerves now,and I don't want to confront... (154 words)

Can't keep erection while entering her...please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have a unique problem. I was a virgin until I got married. However, I used to masturbate a lot and am theoretically educated about sex and protection etc. Now the problem is, during foreplay which both of us enjoy a lot, I could keep an erection fo... (234 words)

Can you tell me why she would be acting like this?

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Well my best friend has a boyfriend that she's been with for awhile. When we met everything was fine. But lately it just seems like she finds something wrong with every person i date or have feelings for. And it doesn't seem like she's even interested to hear about my relation... (92 words)

Please help me show a way out of this self-caused misery.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am giving her time, what should I do now? My long distance girl friend says that she is super busy with her program and full time job. She was previously married but got divorced last year and we met during her divorce. I used to date her about 9 years ago when we separated... (620 words)

I like her only as a friend as she is a real sweetheart to be with

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25 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am scared of something friends ....i have been committed to my girlfriend since a year but i dont love her !! i really dont know what i found in her but i like her only as a friend as she is a real sweetheart to be with. probably the eagerness to be with some... (446 words)

Why does my friend have 2 boyfriends when I cant even get 1??

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has had 2 boyfriends for over a year now and its really not fair because I cant even get one. I've been told that I'm really attractive but guys just want to sleep with me and nothing else. And I dont sleep around, I make the guy wait a while but usually, he gets bore... (155 words)

Can you get pregnant if a guy touches your vagina with his erect penis?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've looked everywhere but I cannot find the answer to this question. Can you get pregnant if a guy does not get an erection but touches your vagina with his penis? ... (34 words)

Should I sit down and talk to him?

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well tonight he said "we need to stop this because I am starting to get to attached to you, and I'm afraid what will happen if I actually do get attached." SO now what I think I need to sit down and talk to him, what do you think? To all those who have helped me before I... (82 words)

Am I ready to let go? Or do I want it all back again?

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - it's been 3 months since i left him, i couldn't take it and i already left nc to start my life in texas when that happened the feelings were "i can do better and better". he came down in december for my birthday, and we got engaged [we were together 2 years], i dont know if ... (252 words)

How can I relax and enjoy myself??

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25 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been single for 4 years and now I have a special someone i have met. We want to have sex but its been so long since ive been intimate with somebody its like I'm starting all over again. i don't know what to do , say, how to act. my mind races and I fall apart. It mak... (82 words)

I've fallen in love with a friends' wife

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25 March 2009 (M)

age - I have fallen in love with a friends wife. The problem is she has fallen in love with me. From the very beginning we both knew the attraction was ther. After 8 months of nothing but talking we finally got together for passionate love. This relationship has been going on for ... (309 words)

Do I just like sloppy seconds or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just found out my girlfriend lost her virginity to a player, and this same guy has had sex with all 3 girlfriends I've ever had. I don't care that she has a past, thats her business. What is bothering me is that this guy, A.J. had had de-virginized every single one of my ... (118 words)

He has a g/f but still contacted me..the ex g/f

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have an ex with a girlfriend and a child.but even before i knew this i had contacted him through a couple of letters that were very illict about what i wanted to do with him. i gave him my cell number to contact me if he was interested. well he did call and left a voicemail ... (250 words)

Why can't I get away from him and get over him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start off that i am 20 and this guy in my life is about 25. I have known him about a year and a half and I fell completely in love with him. I belived he felt the same. He started doing heroin again when i moved outta state for a couple months. We still talked everyday ... (463 words)

Girlfriend always makes me jealous

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend is always making me jealous..and she knows it. I hate that feeling i get, she knows i don't like it, yet she keeps doing it..i don't want to keep feeling this... And i've never made her jealous before.. What can i do? If anything..or should i accept it... (53 words)

I want my best friend

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25 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, basically the whole thing is: I'm fall in love with my best friend, but he moved out to another town, it's not that far, but, it's a metropolis, you know, it takes time and it haves a lot of " rush hour ". but let's talk more about it. first of all, I'm male, and he's ... (255 words)

What's after the 'honey-moon' stage?

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What is a relationship suppose to feel like after the initial "honeymoon" stage?... (13 words)

How can I find out more about his rehabilitation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. Only until recently, approximately 2 months ago, my boyfriend sobered up. He use to drink and smoke marijuana. He is currently checking into rehab this week. He realizes he has a problem and I am 100% supportive of his ... (192 words)

He wants to take it easy and go with the flow

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a man since last Nov. He lives 1 1/2 hours north of me. I knew him for about 2 years prior but we only saw each other every 6-8 weeks and never got involved, timing was wrong. So Nov things were different. We were great together, have alot of the same ... (685 words)

Why push for a ring and then back out?

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25 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why would she push for an engagement and then break it off? I have been dating this girl for over three years living together for over two. She really pushed for a ring. We went to jewelry stores and looked for awhile then I purchased one. She basically set up a meeting ... (478 words)

What made him have a change his heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I never left myself fully heal from my previous relationship. We had a good relationship, and a bad break up, our fights were endless, and lasting months even after the break up, but eventually we worked it out, and still remain to talk, though I'm still pretty worn out from ... (444 words)

Is she flirting or being really nice?

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25 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My teacher is gorgeous. What she normally conceals in the way she might talk in private, she now reveals it to me. She is very open with me and jokes, comments and talks about things with me comfortably. I have a crush on her the moment I laid my eyes on her. Is this f... (68 words)

Should my baby have my last name?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a baby with my boyfriend he doesn't plan on getting married to me. In fact he's already married to another woman. Their relationship is rocky and he wants a child to have his last name even though we're not married. Should my baby have my last name? (Mod note: please u... (61 words)

To wait or not to wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been on and off dating this guy for about a year. When we started dating I was not 100% on board-- hence we were off and on. I was the reason we did not ever end up staying together long before because I could not decide what I want. Truth be told, it was a hard decision ... (223 words)

My LDR is crumbling and I think neither of us wants to hurt the other.

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25 March 2009 (?) age - Hello Friends! I need some advice. My LDR is crumbling and I think neither of us wants to hurt the other. We have decided to talk to eachother less. Instead of every night, we will talk every other night, but I was really suggesting a longer break then that. We both agree ... (251 words)

Why does my ex want to see me for a catch-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, About little over a year ago a long term relationship I was in ended. We were together for 4 years and 3 and 1/2 years in she went overseas to pursue studies. She was only going to be gone for roughly 12 months and we were very very much in love and promised each ... (281 words)

Is he trying to hint something to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a team-mate I've worked with in college. Known him about 3 months already. As far as college groups go, people just meet to talk about schoolwork, or joke about random stuff. And mostly people aren't very close cause there's no time. We just get together for work and ... (238 words)

I'm a young female adult who has become wary about my pubic mound!

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a young female adult who has become wary about my pubic mound. I never thought about it too much but became paranoid once my mum pointed out that it sticks out, after that I've noticed that it's different to others and is noticable. Is it normal for it too look like that? ... (107 words)

What do you think I should do about what this guy (jerk) said about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy I work with is very nice and friendly to me when I visit him at his office (I am a contractor to his company). He treats me like he likes me as a friend. I encountered him last Friday at the mall and he was making a move on a girl in a counter. I passed to say Hi... (194 words)

He doesn't show me as much attention when we're with friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now (officially). The first couple months were good, great in fact.. We have the same friends and are in the same "circle" of friends.. In this group, there more single guys than couples. I'm friends with the girls and ... (255 words)

I am extremely controlling.. can someone help me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

25 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and I am extremely controlling! I tell him that he cannot talk to girls and that he can't look at girls and that he can't be friends with girls! We fight all the time about this but I don't know how to change... ... (119 words)

How do you get tested for HIV/AIDS? Is it a urine test? or what?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is probably going to be a long one but I'm worried! Recently I've been thinking about getting a HIV test but I'm too scared to do it and to tell anyone, I'm not sure if I'm positive or not, I've had sexual intercourse with about 7 people unprotected and last time I had ... (334 words)

Do I keep pushing until I break through to him... and if so how can I break his concerns about it being wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

25 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who I've been close with since the start of secondary school, we were both split up from our old friends from school and we clicked instantly and since then we have been really close. But during secondary school there was a lot of rumours about me and him being ... (538 words)

He is going to ask me out tomorrow but I don't know if I like him... Help!

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25 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay there is this boy that is on my bus and he likes me but I don't know if I like him back. What do I do? Tomorrow he is going to ask me out but what do I tell him? I have no clue what to do??? Help! ... (53 words)