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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He wants me to smoke weed with him before we have sex... what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but he also wants me to smoke WEED with him before we do it so I can get high. I don't know if I should because I'm worried that if he gets high he'll forget to put a condom on and I might get pregnent. What should I do? ... (58 words)

Are there no decent men out there any more???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone help me why is it so difficult to meet somebody that is serious? I have had failed relationship after relationship and it normally involves the guy being full of it or a cheater! Is it me? Am I doing something wrong, the way I present myself? Do all African American ... (89 words)

Is he close to saying "I love you"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend said, "I think I'm falling for you." Now, he says "I like you A LOT!" We've been together for a little over a month now. And known each other since the end of last year. My question is could he be getting close to saying, "I love you?" maybe with time...? A few ... (106 words)

Putting the lust back into the marriage so I don't fantasize about other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Before we got married I was always attracted to my wife and would often fantasize about her. We never managed to have a very successful sex life primarily because my mind would always wander and I wasn't therefore able to achieve orgasm. Then I started becoming attract... (111 words)

A question strictly for the men aunts!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay guys, would you want a straight girl that would have sex with you or a bi girl that would let you have sex with her and her girlfriend?... (29 words)

Should I give up my friendship with my ex for my new guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago. I have no feelings for him anymore whatsoever. However, we still talk frequently (usually every day) as friends, checking up on each other's day and just basic chitchat. I have been seeing someone new, and this person has ... (198 words)

Abuse and infidelity...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Confused been with my boyfriend of 4 years through abuse, infidility.. I went through his phone and noticed a naked picture of himself who he sent as a message to a girl.. I've been feeling funny ever since he cheated 2x's with the same girl 2 years ago. I questioned him and ... (156 words)

Pimples on my "lips"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have sort of a personal question. Right now I have a couple of small pimple like bumps on the lips of my vagina, towards the top, there's maybe 4 or so, a couple on each side. And I have noticed these popping up occasioanly before, and I'm really curious as to what they ... (135 words)

I don't know what to do... I'm not sure how I feel about my boyfriend any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't know what to do... I'm not sure how I feel about my boyfriend any more. We have been together 7 months and get along great. I love spending time with him but recently a lot of things have begun to annoy me. His confidence is one, dont get me wrong, I like confidence ... (289 words)

My ex boyfriend is stalking me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - About 4 months ago I broke up with an ex boyfriend and then a got together with another boy... me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and I think my Ex is stalking me because he always calls me follows me, emails me and when he calls me we always fight cause he'll ... (142 words)

Is it true that you can catch sexual infections/illnesses from having sex a lot?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Is it true that you can catch sexual infections/illnesses from having sex a lot?... (14 words)

My boyfriend wants to have sex for the 1st time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now and he thinks we should have sex but I'm a little scared because it's my 1st time and I'm also a little scared that I might get Pregnant, I mean I do love my boyfriend but I don't know what I should do????... (54 words)

Interested in an older woman... how can I find out more about her past sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) age 18-21 - I have been friends with an older woman for a while now. I am interested in moving out of the friendship zone and become lovers with her. How should I let her know this? Any tips for telling her this? She is what I call a “beautiful” woman. She works out and her body looks h... (130 words)

I recently found out that my little sister slept with my boyfriend a few weeks ago.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 years, we have a five year old daughter together. I've known him about 8 years. I recently found out that my little sister slept with him a few weeks ago. But What I didn't know is that this has been going on for years. But they claim they ... (104 words)

What do I do to get some passion into my relationship and thin out the arguing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My relationship is failing... we are lacking passion in our relationship... we are always arguing..... but we love each other.... what do I do to get some passion into my relationship and thin out the arguing?... (36 words)

I have bad results from masturbating too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey so I'm only 15 and I've masturbated since like fifth or sixth grade. I think I may have over done it cuz it just doesn't... look the same down there. Does anyone else have this problem or is it just me? And if so, is it reversable?... (48 words)

I wish I could meet her in a few years time as I'm so sexually inexperienced...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm in a very interesting situation. I'm with my gf and I love her very much. I could see this going somewhere but there have been some minor problems. Basically I wish that I had met her in a few years. I have incredibly poor experience with women. I've only been with o... (668 words)

This guy is really speical to me, I don't want to lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My situation is kind of crazy, there's this guy that I love so much. We met last year in April and we started out he wanted to be with me but I didn't want a relationship and we didn't talk for about a month and he started coming back around and now I want to be with him and he ... (280 words)

Is it really true that all good things come to those who wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I been dating a guy for 4 months. We're not technically a couple, but he's the only guy I'm seeing and want to be with. I maybe see him one time a week or so, I've never been to his house, but I talk to him many times a day. At first, I thought maybe it was that he had ... (294 words)

Even although he's my ex now, I feel guilty about seeing his best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I dated a guy for 4 years, we were so in love but in the end grew apart. It didn't end well and we no longer talk to each other. It has been 15 months since the break up and we both seem to have moved on with our lives, he is seeing someone else and has been for a while, ... (434 words)

"A roll in the hay!!!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) age 18-21 - We sometime use the term “a roll in the hay” when referring to sex. Has anyone every had sex in a barn? Was it a good location? In what parts of the barn did you do it in? Did you actually have sex in the hay? What positions did you use? ... (55 words)

Went on a date, he told me he fancied me but wants to take thing slow... how do I read this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I recently went on a date and it went really well and I felt like we really connected. When the date was over he told me that he really fancied me and really liked me etc but wanted to take it slow.... how do I read this? and how should I act? I've been trying my best not to ... (101 words)

Should I try to repair our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everybody! Sorry if my English isn't that good. Here is a problem. I have been dating this girl for about 4,5 years from which we lived together some 2 years (when I was working in the same city where she is living). It was a year from that and we have been in a distant ... (300 words)

I think my girlfriend's 19 year old sister is getting in over her head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - So me and my girlfriend have a great relationship and have been together for awhile and are even considering marriage but are waiting till we are more financially secure. This is regarding her sister and some of the foolish decisions she makes. So my GF's siter's previous... (425 words)

I don't love or even like b/f of 5 years..but how to break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am 25 years old and I have a 2 year old son. I have been with the son's father for 5 years, although I am not in love with him anymore and I really don't like him at all. He has cheated on me multiple times, he used to abuse me while we lived together and yes... (358 words)

Do guys always think of girls they like in a sexual way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Just wondering lol If a guy finds a girl attractive, does he fantasize about her or picture her naked?... (19 words)

Dad has a new "ready made family" and I'm feeling left out..how do I talk to him about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend is “dad” to his ex-girlfriend’s daughter, but he is not her biological father. He is 34, his ex-girlfriend is 30, the daughter is 11 and I am 23. I am very glad he is a good guy who stepped up and did a great thing, but the fact that he has almost a whole other ... (264 words)

Very few opportunities to have sex, and she usually doesn't take advantage of them!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - So heres the stuation. Both my girlfriend and I live at home with our parents so we don't get to have sex often. Its not a big deal to me, but I do have a problem with when we have the chance we don't take advantage of it. Not because of me, but because of her. Its very ... (174 words)

I love him, but he left me when I needed him the most..how do I know he won't do it again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Just over a year ago my husband left me, not because he cheated on me but beacuse he felt that he wasn't good enough for me. He said that he felt i deserved somebody better. Most of this started after he found out that his father cheated on his mother, and had a child with ... (172 words)

4 month relationship has caused pregnancy..I don't know how to tell him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for 4 months. We both have gone through terrible relationships and we have so many things in common. He's an awesome guy and there's no doubt about that. We've been having sex, however, he uses the withdrawal method but it failed. I'm pregnant. I do ... (67 words)

We keep getting interupted before sex...karma? A sign not to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) age 16-17 - This has to do with my boyfriend and myself. We are in love. We often make out. When we are both into it we try to advance toward sex. Every time we try to move on to sex we seem to be interrupted. Last time I was starting to remove my boyfriend’s pants and we were interrupted. ... (162 words)

I'm worried he might be a paedo!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained he does not want any sexual ... (94 words)

Why does it feel like he only wants to know behind closed doors away from everyone else as if I'm some kind of freak?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I just don't understand this. Me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago now and he begged me to be mates with him.. he messed it up and we didnt talk.. then 2 weeks later he asked if we could meet up so I did just for a chat and what not and he begged me again to give him ... (324 words)

My husband wants a divorce, said he'd prefer to be my "bloke" than my husband!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Tonight my husband said to me he wanted a divorce. I felt shocked when he said it, as our relationship's been good in the 7 years we've been together (we've been married for 5 weeks now!) I asked him why, and he said, there's no-one else involved, it's just he'd rather go b... (163 words)

Darn those haunting eyes! What to do ? HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - All advice would be great! I like this woman and I am a woman. I have never been in a sexual relationship with the same sex.. I have 4 years ago had a friend that I kissed, we parted paths I was too scared and not ready for more. NOW TO MY PROBLEM AT HAND. I like a woman cow... (745 words)

How can I let her know that I would like to see her naked? How can I warm her up to the idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) age 13-15 - My girlfriend and I started off just as friends. Now we are boyfriend and girlfriend. We kiss sometimes. We are entering our teen age years. We are learning about human sexuality. It seems important to us and our relationship. I think an important step in learning about ... (247 words)

When do you draw a line when it comes to cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What constitues cheating? Some friends of ours got into a heated argument with my wife and I about what is cheating. Besides the obvious physical sexual contact, or emotional attachment to someone other than your spouse, what is cheating? 2 examples: I occasionally go o... (199 words)

How can I get his parents to understand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm in a horrible situation. It involves the same guy as my last question. Everything was going okay then he told me he couldn't see me because his parents didn't like the sound of it because of the age gap. I didn't hear from him in about a week then we spoke and he's very ... (78 words)

My sister in law doesn't like me - would you completely distance yourself and cut them off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I never been close with my sister in law. My brother and her married in September 2005. I backed out of being a brides maid but I did a reading at the ceremony for them. When you go to their home it's very cold and they do not make you feel comfortable. I never hung out with ... (795 words)

How do I convince him to give it a go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay, so I started liking this guy for about a year now, since I joined track last year. He responded back, and we flirted a lot. Then he got kicked out of the team, and we didn't see each other much. Now, when we start a new school year and I see him every once in a while in ... (300 words)

Am I wrong to wish that my g/f would simply banish her ex from her life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help to stop being an idiot, and would appreciate any insight. I am in love with whom I believe to be (despite a lifetime of DISbelief in the concept) my soulmate. I've been in relationships before, was married for ten years, and through all of that have never felt ... (433 words)

What happens if you have the cervical cancer jab and you have already had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - What happens if you have the cervical cancer jab and you have already had sex? I am not asking because I am in the situation, I am just wondering because people have said lots about them.... (39 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me, but I know we love each other. Please help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello everyone- I really need some advice. My boyfriend of 5 months just cheated on me. I dont know what to think or how to act. I know he loves me and i love him. He is my soulmate. He admitted everything. I found the condoms in his car, and we dont use them. He texts m... (122 words)

I returned to my hubby but I still miss the man I had an affair with and feel trapped, help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 40 year old woman, I have been in a relationship and living with my partner for nearly 9 years and I have a 12 year old son with asperger syndrome who is not my partners. My problem is I am feeling confused, emotional and panicky and I have been for a few months, I don't ... (280 words)

Is my ex a racist ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - This is a story about me and My ex, She's a european girl My ex-girlfriend just broke me up a month ago. Well i'm not over it yet but that's not the point. She said many reasons to be saperated like I want to kiss her, I'm too nice, I'm not very funny like I was,I had time... (343 words)

Is it normal that I'm 17 and wanting a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been with my boyfriend a while now, and we've never used protection whilst having sex. We did to start with, then on two occasions neither of us had any, so we decided to do it without. Now this has become a regular thing, and protection doesn't even get mentioned, we just ... (186 words)

What's this lump on my face and how to get rid of it fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hi all, This is kind of embarrassing but bear with me. I have this kind of spot that keeps appearing beside my nose. It's rather large and easily visible. Sometimes when I squeeze it, it goes like a normal spot would but other times it doesn't and just shows as a larg... (183 words)

If we have sex more than once at a time, I have stomach cramps for at least a day afterwards. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Recently i've started sleeping with my boyfriend, and i've noticed something strange. If we have sex more than once at a time, I have stomach cramps for at least a day afterwards. What confuses me is that i've had sex previously, again more than once at a time, and I have never ... (164 words)

My husband confessed he cheated while I was pregnant, I still find this hard to deal with after 8 months, help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - So, I have a situation. My husband of 3 years told me 8 months ago that he cheated on me. The girl is a close friend of us both. Actually, she is the sister of his best friend. He cheated on me about 8 months after we were married and I was 3 months pregnant at the time. He ... (279 words)

I neglected him and now my husband refuses to help me solve our problems!...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 25 years. We were the couple every one wanted to be like. We have always been in love, a deep passionate love to the core of our souls. As the kids got older and their behavior as teenagers got out of control, we began to focus on the kids and their ... (193 words)

Love or just friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - There's this boy that I am REALLY good friends with him. I have been fancing him really badly since ages, and I know that he knows that, but he also knows that I am not allowed 2 have a boyfriend so I don't know how he thinks about me. Everyone that sees us together says we're ... (108 words)

Should I meet her? Can I postpone it a while? How do I approach this meeting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - For some reason (dunno if it was a good idea or not) I registered on match.com a few months ago. Anyways, I got a message from someone on there saying they were interested, and she gave her email address. It was 12 days after she'd sent that I replied - had been quite a whi... (266 words)

Should I still go and see him? I'm so confused now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex moved away and that's why we broke up. I went down to see him in January (first time in 2 years, since the break-up) and he: asked me if I'd like to go out for a drink with him, hugged me goodbye, it was just like old times, friend said she thought he was still 'fond'... (343 words)

I want this crazy sex addiction to stop now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi guys 'n gals. I'm a 19 year old dude who is CRAZY about sex. I can't go even 2 days without getting some and I always use a condom but I just don't wanna go on like any more. It's like I'm dependent on sex. I have 3 girlfriends currently. If I want to sleep with maybe one of ... (104 words)

Is this just a wind up or does she genuinely like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - There's a girl at work and I think she likes me but I'm just not sure. I won't deny that she's absolutley gorgeous. She's always smiling at me, winking at me and giving me little waves. When she's hanging around with other girls at work and I walk by, they start giggling. It's ... (79 words)

I don't know if I could ever trust her again...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of a year. I caught her in several lies involving an ex boyfriend. She felt the need to hang out with him behind my back and tell me she was going elsewhere. Each time she told me she lied to me because she didn't want to hurt me. I ... (151 words)

I didn't know she was married... what's more, she's my bosses wife!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I recently started seeing a woman I met while I was out and about. It has developed in to a sexual relationship and I discovered yesterday that she is my bosses wife! I didn't know she was married let alone my bosses wife! I've called it off but I'm worried that my boss will ... (76 words)

How can I make this weekend special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my bf have been going out just over a month (was a month on monday) :). I've always had a little thing for him aswell. Anyways... We spend the weekends round each others houses (he lives an hours bus ride away, but we both go to the same college) and he's coming to m... (212 words)

Can anyone help me out with this psp game please???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Sorry this is not a relationship question. But I knew heaps of people go on this site daily, please can you post my question. I'm playing gangs of london on psp and need to know what street names are the marble arch, buckingham palace, wellington arch and london planetarium oh ... (57 words)

My ex has got back in touch saying he wants to be really good friends with me... Why???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend never did care about me. He lied, went behind my back seeing other girls, complained to his friends about me - about how he did't want to be with me. After more than one year of not being in a relationship and treating me rather badly for the two and a half ... (153 words)

I have recently got myself into such a mess, and it's making me feel even worse than I did before, I just want your take on this guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have recently got myself into such a mess, and it's making me feel even worse than I did before. Admittedly, I have very low self esteem and do not value myself as highly as I should do - which causes a lot of problems when it involves the opposite sex. My ex boyfriend... (324 words)

He's hiding that he's doing drugs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years now and I love my partner very much. I knew that he was taking coccaine probably twice a week which wasn't a problem to me, however a few times now he has been taking it in secret without telling me, once again I have found ... (130 words)

Evil? or confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've had a bf for 1 year 8 months. We are now on along break due to university work, stress and the relationship becoming more like a friendship. One of my closest friends who i have known for 5 years and spend much of my time doing uni work with got tipsy a few months ago. The ... (369 words)

I think he wants to keep it just as friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, for five years now i have been having an on off thing with a guy i care alot about. I have told him i care for him and he says he cares for me. However i dont feel he cares in the same way.We did not call one another boyfriend and girlfriend but we had been sleeping ... (197 words)

Why older men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - what a life... good day to you, readers.. i just wanted to ask you a question. what do you think is the reason for me having crushes to older men than me, especially teachers, like 10 years older? is having a broken famliy a factor of this prpblem? yes. i know it's nor... (151 words)

I love my g/f but have a crush on another girl, can this happen in long term relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi I am in love with a woman, but lately I have had feelings that can only be described for lack of a better term as a crush for another woman. I love my girlfriend of 3 years, but I cannot deny the feelings I get from this woman whom I have just met and have been gradually ... (101 words)

Torn between my now and my then

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ugh im 18 and seem to think the grass is greener on the other side... Im totally stuck and i would love some advice... Im gonna tell you the WHOLE story so its gonna take a while so make sure you have time before you start reading lol... Well my best friend of 6 yrs and i were ... (1274 words)

Break up...I'm really not feeling much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i just went through a breakup last night, i didn't cry until this morning and i didnt cry for long, its not like i didnt care i really love this person, but now alls i feel is hate. is this normal?... (41 words)

Do men have a forgiving nature?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - do guys have forgiven nature or not.guy said i was rotten to him years ago and he still mad me for it.and i said sorry and i didn,t mean to hurt his feelings.but i really didn,t .but i though he was making fun of me,i didn,t even know he liked me . but he did ask out a lot go... (83 words)

I've fallen off the wagon and I'm hiding it from my girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

4 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A few years ago i was treated for alcoholism and for that period off time i stopped drinking for a complete year then only having a few beers with friends on a friday night. Everything was fine until last october when with pressures of work and my relationship with my ... (242 words)

Anyone out there, who has been married over twenty years, lost the hornyness, and has some ideas on how to rekindle the fire?

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4 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - And especially for the over 40s who are 20+ years in a marriage. So we’ve spent a bunch of years raising kids, putting them first. Now they’re teenagers, and giving us the grief that we gave our parents. And the end is in sight – the kids are, God willing, going to strike ... (129 words)

I was told, after asking a question, that I was not pretty, it deflated my self-esteem, please help?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have always had a very good outlook on life and have had a fairly high self esteem up until this year. It is my junior year in high school and I am 16. It was not until this year that I noticed that no guys pay any attention to me and that all of my friends are taken where as ... (182 words)

What is your opinion of people who cannot look you in the eye?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a person can't stand to look you in the eyes for more than two seconds? My brother-in-law is like that and also this guy at church. There's no attraction whatsoever between any of us. My brother in law is like my own brother and I would never see him ... (304 words)

My masturbation technique is not as effective as it used to be, what happened?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - This is a little awkward but here goes. I have been masturbating a lot lately but recently I have noticed a "change". Before when I was masturbating, my clit became somewhat umm "hard" if that makes any sense. But now, its soft all the time and it takes me way longer to orgasm. ... (72 words)

My girl is skinny, I am big, how do we manage intercourse, more so how do I approach her to do it?

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - How do i pop the question on my hot and skinny GF? She's pretty small and i've done everything except intercourse with her, but how should we do it? we already talked about it and were ready but should i do it? where though? I know about condoms, but feel free to tell ,me to ... (75 words)

Would like opinions on shaving the "area"?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it more sanitary for a women to shave "down there"?... (11 words)

Where should we watch a movie together, if I want us to be closer?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What's the best way to watch a movie with two people that obviously have feelings towards one another but nobody's made a move yet: in a theater or at the guy's house? I'm thinking the guy's house because we'd have a chance to talk and watch the movie. Unfortunately t... (87 words)

Need to hear from people who have broken up with their first love and re-connected after many years?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Has anyone broken up with their first real love only to get back together for good later on in life? I love him with all my heart and Im finding it possible that my heart keeps breaking more and more every day he's not here. its been seven months and im still crying myself to ... (357 words)

Are we ever going to be more than friends?

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Ok so me and this girl like eachother but I haven't been talking to her and she wants to move it down a notch and just be friends the problem is I still like her too much to let this happen I wish she would let me talk to her like in a more privite setting but she won't what ... (94 words)

Not gaining any weight with my pregnancy, anyone know why not?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm almost 19 weeks pregnant and just started exercising three weeks ago. Within the first few days I lost 2 pounds and I haven't gained a pound since. I'm almost 5 months and haven't gained any weight since my 4th month check-up. I haven't been eating less, actually I think ... (109 words)

I am 16, going to have sex for the first time, how can we make it special?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 16. My boyfriend is 18. We've been dating for almost a year now and we had a long talk and I decided that I was ready to give up my virginity to him. He's done it before and I want it to be special for the both of us. Does anyone have any suggestions for places where it'll ... (83 words)

Having a very hard time getting over this broken relationship. any tips for healing?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I broke up and we had a pretty good relationship, but a pretty bad break up.. its been a month and some any tips or stories of how anybody else got over there break ups.. and moved on would be appreciated im hurting really bad right now... (56 words)

Why is she sending me mixed messages, I'm confused?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - What are the signs that someone is not sexually attracted to you anymore? i've been in talking to this girl in a different state for a couple of months. i can't see her for a long time so we decided to keep the relationship open. she knows that i have only had sex with on... (389 words)

Will this work??

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid: I met a great guy after a long relationship finally ended (messily) and we started a fast relationship. From the beginning, he didn't trust me; he had been hurt in the past and I tried to be understanding and confident about it. But over the months it wore m... (116 words)

We have not had sex for 4 months, what is wrong with him?

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4 March 2009 (F) age 26-29 - My partner and i had no sex for four months it is unlikely of him to go without sex, what is wrong with him?... (24 words)

There's definitely something between us, but we're both spoken for already. What should I do?

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Here is the problem i have. About 6 months ago i met a girl. Well i didnt meet here then i met her about 2 years ago but i met her again 6 months ago. I started talking to her online. We realised that we didnt live so far away from each other as we used to infact she i... (490 words)

I don't know if I have the patience to show her how relationships work outside of the bedroom. What should I do?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i am a bisexual female who currently has a gf . we have been dating on and off for almost a year now. i have cheated on her twice and i felt terrible about it , fortunately for me she took me back. i vowed to change my ways and i have no intention of cheating on her ever ... (296 words)

I'm a hopeless romantic...but I feel like I'm being used.

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Is there a difference from being "in love" with someone, and "loving" someone? i ask this bc I'm in a very difficult relationship. My best friend and I have been dating for a little more than a month and she is now back living with her ex bf. She and i had a looooong talk ... (271 words)

How can I explain my reasons for not wanting to associate with my sister-in-law's brother?

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My sister-in-law’s brother is 15 years old and I am 24 years old. Because of his age and his behavior, I try not to do anything with him. He tries to drink alcoholic beverage (he tries to get me to buy it a few times which I don’t but he has been known to steal it from ... (180 words)

I'm questioning moving on from him now. What should I do?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am currently getting over a guy and need opinions to see if Im on the right track. My problem is, when Im in his spotlight, he showers me with attention/texts/flirting and Im happy. When he ignores me, which is most of the time, including right now, Im depressed. He ha... (191 words)

My friends think I'm sick for having a crush on my 56 year old teacher!

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - So...I'm a sixteen year old girl who is MADLY in love with her 56 year old World History teacher (who just so happens to be married with kids who are older than me!). All of my friends are so disgusted and think I'm sick! I don't know what to do! When I'm around him all I do is ... (389 words)

He broke up w/his g/f, says he's bi-curious, but nothing is happening

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - okay, so heres the deal: there is this guy, he says hes straight, had a girlfriend, and I really like him. He knows it, he told me that if he was gay he would be interested in being with me. Were really good friends and I've heard rumors that he's "gay" or "bi" or whatever... (248 words)

I need to tell my parents that I may have schitzophrenia

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - This can really change my life and the people around me. I am ready to tell my parents that I may have schizophrenia, I am ready, I am not that afraid, I am, but I can take it, I just don't know how to tell, my mom, someone help, this can really change my life.... (55 words)

Parents tell me they love my b/f tell everyone else that they hate him?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok so here is the deal, I am twenty years old i have been dating my boyfrinend for four years we are perfect together. We were sixteen when we started dating and i am now twenty he is also, He is very shy my parents lie to me and tell me that they love him and than they turn ... (183 words)

Did I realize that I don't want a world without him in it?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - So me and this guy have been dating off and on since may 08. We have dated a total of three times: once from may-june, once from september-october and then december to now. Both times i was the one to break things off. Each time the reason given was different but all had a si... (611 words)

Haven't had sex in 6 years!

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I haven't had sex in over six years. What can I do to better myself for the next time I have sex and also to give a A+ blow job?... (30 words)

Too big for anal

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - first off I'm gay. me and my boyfriend have dated for half a year. we try to have sex but we can't. the main problem is his size. when he starts it hurts and when he tries to go deeper I can't bear the pain. is there a way to help him get in? we tried several types of... (78 words)

Questions about vaginas

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Do smaller skinnier girls have smaller/tigher vaginas compared to big girls? And does your vagina get smaller when you lose weight? Thanks.... (22 words)

My boyfriend took me back after I cheated, but he deserves better, what do I do?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I cheated on my boyfriend and decided to break up with him but I couldn't handle the thought of being without him so that very night I begged him to take me back and he did and I don't know if this was the right thing to do. I feel as though I don't deserve him back and we ... (86 words)

I told her I'm bi and now she's telling everyone. What is up with this girl?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I've explained this so many times, but hey another time won't kill me. So there is this girl I have or thought I had fallen in love with. Everything's confusing right now. I am a girl also. I have known her for about 7 months. I told her I was bi, then I told her liked her and ... (254 words)

Why can I not rise to the occasion?

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I am 23 years old and I was sexually active kind of a year ago. Recently I hooked up with a lady but I simply can't rise to occasion as much as I try and by any chance it wouldn't last to the extent of penetration. What is wrong with me?... (53 words)

I need ideas... What can I do to show her that I really do love her?

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Can someone please help me? My girlfriend says that I don't love her but I do and she said she'll forgive me if I show that I cared abt her.. how can I show her that I care? I really need help, I'm a clueless person and this is my first relationship, also I really really love ... (77 words)

How do I tell him I just want to be friends but nothing more than that?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - There is this guy that I am almost sure likes me, I have no interest in him besides friendship. Right now I'm sensing that he will tell me that he likes me or to be his girlfriend, I don't know how to tell someone you still wanna be friends and nothing more without hurting his ... (61 words)

26 year old virgin needs help!

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 26 year old male... and I'm a virgin. Not only have I not had sex, I've only kissed a girl once. I've never had a girlfriend. I'm the guy that always got caught up with liking girls that just want to be "friends." But, I was a moron and just stayed friends with them, ... (206 words)

He seems to be ignoring me online... how can I get him to come back and chat with me?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm an IDIOT! I'm really not sure how to handle this situation, so I really need help! I've been trying to flirt up this one guy that I just so happen to find extremely hot and amazing and all this other crap and then I go on MySpace and find out he took me off his friend's ... (134 words)

How to tell a guy you like them without sounding like a moron?

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4 March 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - How do you tell a guy you like them? There's this guy, he's flirty with me, we get on really well, he thinks I'm beautiful, etc etc. We've been speaking for about two half half months (gosh, time flies). We went to the cinema together, he said he had a great time and w... (224 words)

I would love to have sex with her but I don't want to lose my virginity just yet.

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4 March 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi aunts, I need some advice. I have a girlfriend and I absolutely adore her, she feels the same way about me, and I'll never do anything to pressure her or hurt her. See I'm a pretty nice guy (14), really sensitive and caring, I'm not like those jerks out there who just want ... (165 words)