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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We lost our virginity together but now she's terrified she's pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, me and my girlfriend lost our virginties recently and now she's scared of being pregnant. I'm scared that she's mad or something, I need help. PLEASE I dont want to lose her. How can we stay the same like we used to be? We usually spend some time together at my house, ... (187 words)

Are they just making a fool of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this boy in my English class, he is cute and all that but the thing is on the second day of class he was sitting with his friend and he said to me that his friend thinks that I am cute, I said ok thanks but then noticed him looking at me. I thought maybe he is just ... (111 words)

What can I do to woo my girlfriend and get these feelings back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend says she is losing feelings for me. What are ways to get the feelings back so she don't dump me when I really love her?... (29 words)

My pregnant girlfriend left me

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a previous relationship. Who ... (947 words)

How do I move on properly but without trying to find someone new too quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 18 months have just split up, about a week ago. It was a really messy end to a fantastic relationship and obviously I'm so upset over it. I keep trying to tell myself that I can move on and get over the break up but then when I'm sat on my own I can't ... (222 words)

What things will turn him on in the bedroom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my guy have this on going joke about being dominant with each other in the bedroom and I want to know what things you think will turn him on that I can do?? I'm not talking about bondage, just the two of us together. Also, what do you think he should do, becuase ... (116 words)

My friends are becoming very friendly with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My so called friends have started hanging out with my ex boyfriend! I can't exactly tell them who to hang with but I know I'm a much better friend to them.. you can't really trust him. I don't know what to do.. I feel awkward around him as he left me for my best friend of 1... (158 words)

Please tell if what I did was wrong or right...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was in love with a girl for the last 3 years. It was totally from my side. It was unconditional, unadulterated and pure [typical Taurean me]. We were really good and close friends. Actually we met on net. We were classmates for a short period when we were young but 3 ... (893 words)

Her past doesn't add up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys, I have been seeing this girl a lot and we recently became boyfriend and girlfriend. We are realy comfortable around each other and can talk about anything. She is a great girl and has been through a lot especially with her dad dying on her 18th birthday last April. ... (266 words)

What do I do about this woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age - I'm heartbroken..! I've been dating the love of my life for over two years (on and off!), she knows I love her, but has never been able to tell me the same, though her actions (she always does the running after causing a rift). She has blamed her childhood, her 2nd husband ... (192 words)

Does he like me? Or just enjoy bothering me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know whether this guy friend at school likes me or just likes to bother me/entertaining himself. I even hesitate on the idea of whether he treats me as a friend.. From Sept 2008, he begins doing stuff like making fun of my height, poking me, calling me names... (256 words)

Do women actually enjoy being "fingered"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've never really liked the word "fingering"... but is being fingered something that women actually enjoy, or is there a special way to do it other than just shoving your fingers in...? I'm just curious really... ... (42 words)

My girlfriend is 12 weeks pregnant and says she needs a break from me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is 12weeks pregnant, out of nowhere she tells me she needs a break from me. Just needed some advice on how to deal with this. Thanks... (28 words)

If I take the pill while pregnant will it affect the unborn child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently started to use the contraceptive pill so im not entirely sure if its the one for me, therefore i have the chance of being pregnant but not knowing it right now, if i carry on taking my pill and i am pregnant, will it affect the unborn or not??... (52 words)

Is going on the pill at 16 normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - ive been married to my wife for over 20 yrs. She was engaged to a guy before she met me, she also went on the pill for him at the age of 16. This is crucifying me after all these yrs. Can someone help me? Is this a normal age to go on the pill? I fel so stupid, but I cant help ... (77 words)

How can I turn on my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Plz help am with my bf but how can i turn him on? i really want him.... (17 words)

Have I created the impression I am available and easy??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age - I met this guy at his families hairdressers. I could tell he liked me by the way he looked at me and the questions he was asking. He and his family know my current boyfriend but I am not happy. this guy has brought up twins on his own with the help of his family. I would l... (197 words)

We talk fine online, but how can I talk to him face to face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I really like this guy in the year above me. I'm in year eight he's year nine... He's a lot older then me though. 2 years almost. But that's not the point. I really like him, and I know he likes me back. He goes to my school. I say hi whenever I see him and everything ... (123 words)

I want a relationship but am unsure if she is serious about me. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i met this girl in school and iv knowen her from year 7 and im in year 10 now and we have started to go out like with other freinds and stuff and swimming and we talk alot and if im on my own she will come and talk to me and we hold hands but thats reli as far as it goes and we ... (152 words)

We had a heated argument and she said to let it go. Should we?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing a lady for several months now. We recently got into an heated argument, very rare for us. We didn't talk for several days and when we did we ended up starting a conversation that to me seemed like it was long overdue and very personal. But I was called away ... (231 words)

I feel like my friend has chosen her other friend over me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok a different type of relationship problem... I haven't seen my friend in a number of weeks and i'd organised to go out with her tonight, thing is another friend of hers came home from france as a "surprise" (my friend last seen her friend 1 week before she last seen me so its ... (164 words)

I started birth control and my period stopped then came back. Why did this happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im on the contraceptive pill at the minute which i have just recently started using, i finished my period the other day but then the next day, it started again for about 6-8 hours. it was quite heavy and i was just wundering why this has happened? ... (47 words)

I'm finding my male friend attractive. Am I gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am male, thing is i like girls and have had some relationships, but recently my best friend (male), has been looking very attractive to me, but i fear he wont open up, cos i think he is homophobic, i am confused am i gay or what?... (47 words)

She wants to end the affair, do I end the gifts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been having an affair with my personnel assistant (PA) for the last 3 years. I gave her preferential treatment in terms of promotion, gifts, conference trips and salary. At the start of the relationship I thought she was going with me for advantage but we did fall deeply ... (124 words)

I'm looking for the anonymous poster from yesterday who answered my question "Sick feeling of texting betrayal".

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7 March 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I posted on 6th March about my husband texting a younger woman but because I was anon and so were you, can't get in touch (just realised my anon post had my wrong age group on by the way). Anyway, if you want to talk more about it, would you like to reply to this post not ... (143 words)

We've been together for 13 years but I want to seperate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How to tell to my husband that I want to separate? We are together for 13 years and 2 years married. I really feel that I need to split, but I feel guilty about leaving him. Please, advise. ... (38 words)

Should I go over and visit him in Sweden at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, 2 years ago I went out with a wonderful man for over a month. I ended it because he always was asking when the relationship was going to become a sexual one and so I felt that maybe this was all he was after. Also I felt things were getting a bit serious beca... (365 words)

He thinks my body BELONGS to him!!!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2798 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 4 months says I'm his... therefore so is my body, supposedly we love each other. He says he does, his hands are always all over me, alone or not! Once we are in a private place and he wouldn't stop! I don't mind that but I do mind him sticking his hand down my ... (121 words)

What a boring sex life!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend and we have been having sex quite a lot within these 18 months. The problem is, every time we have sex, we are just simply kissing and caressing each other's genitals. Then, my boyfriend will be on top of me and poopps! He comes when I haven't felt the ... (154 words)

Should I tell my friend about his girlfriend or wait and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my name is Janie and I've been seeing this amazing guy and we really got along and his family get on well with me, his sister's and I are practically best friends but last week he said he wants to break up and accused me of cheating! To be honest I think he now knows I ... (236 words)

Would you say this guy really likes me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and I have known each other for five years and have been good friends for about three, ever since I graduated from college, and have been flirting quite a bit since last summer. He was a prof in my college major so I saw him often. There was one instance that st... (530 words)

Why is my daughter-in-law jealous of the bond I have with my grandson.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age - Why is my daughter-in-law jealous of the bond I have with my grandson. I have brought him up since he was 3 month old. I had him every day while she works, he's nearly 3 now. Because I am very close to him she has put him in full time nursery.... (52 words)

I keep dreaming I'm sleeping with Present Bush!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't exactly a relationship question, but I'm in desperate need of help here! This is going to sound really weird and borderline gross, but please bear with me. I am a young, female, Liberal Democrat of nineteen (voted for Obama and supported Clinton, Gore, and Kerry ... (253 words)

I am worried that my new husband is a verbal and emotional abuser.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am worried that my new husband (of 3 months!) is a verbal and emotional abuser. He seems to go through a calm cycle and then will get tense and run me down, it seems as though he has nothing positive to say about what I do. He is only like this behind closed doors. We have a ... (175 words)

Should I just wait until he texts me and if he doesn't don't bother?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. Please bear with me as this is really long. Sorry in advance. :-( There is this guy that keeps calling me and asking me to date him. He seemed nice at first and was really interested in what I was doing and reaching for in my future. I met him online while... (868 words)

Neighbour trouble!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My neighbour is 10 years younger than me and I fancy her like mad. We are both married with kids. I told her how I felt last week and we have chatted since. She was surprised but didn't turn me down, I'd say she is shocked and confused. I cannot get her out of my head and she ... (87 words)

Is this is normal behavior to retreat and not see me or do you think he is telling me to grow up and stop acting ridiculous?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age - He got mad at me for somehting I did. When he gets mad he likes to be alone so not to think about it. I like to resolve things - I guess it is a girl/guy thing. Of course I went on a text messaging rage which drove him crazy. Well anyway we just talked and he was very nice ... (197 words)

Husband wants me to be abusive in public!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Thank you for the help given at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/husband-wants-me-to-use-very-abusive-language.html Regarding the abusive language, my husband actually wants me to be abusive to him in public but I find it odd. He wants it full-scale in public wherever ... (292 words)

How do I deal with "I wish you were older"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have met a women at work she is 28 and i am 21, we started talking frequently and it has turned daily during lunch breaks etc i have got to know her alot and begun to have feelings for her, she is very beautiful so i did not tell her how i felt, (i thought she was out of my ... (201 words)

In love with someone I will never see again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey yall I will start from when I met her I was in the 11th grade and we had a foreign exchange student from Germany I really liked her so I got the nerv to ask her to prom and then we started talking more and the more I like her and then she told me she had a boyfriend in ... (279 words)

Under British law, anything I can do to get my money back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Rightio, I was with his guy for a few months, met over the net, he was lovely, but in the end it didn't work out, one of the main reasons being that he was just in it for my money, like, we'd go into town for a look about and he's be like "I need this, I need that, I have to ... (195 words)

I think my little brother is gay!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my little brother is gay. For some time, I think I was subconsciously worried about this ever since I saw him listen to Britney Spears songs on my ipod. I'm not saying that's an automatic signal for homosexuality, but my reaction to that might have made him withdrawn ... (253 words)

Should I call and invite him as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age - We had this terrible big blow out fight. I kept calling me and pushing him. I pushed too far and we broke up this was 5 days agao. I really love him and I know he loves me. He is just very old fashioned. i know time will heal his anger. 5 days have passed should I try to ... (117 words)

A little boring...need advice without spending a fortune

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all I have become a little borining in my relationship and I wonder if there is somthing I can do to be less boring or hum drum without going wild and spending a fortune what will my wife enjoy. Thanks in advance.... (45 words)

Issues with partner's past, and current sex life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been having issues with my partners past sex life, sex attitude,and current sex life for a couple of years now. We have been together about 5yrs,mid 30s, and at first she was quiet about her past but after 6 months or so she seemed to enjoy telling me about her past sex ... (615 words)

I love my cousin's sister

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I need ur urgent help very urgent, ok here's the problem I love my cousin's sister a lot (maternal uncle's daughter) but I don't see her much, I only see her once in a year or 2 but I'm crazy about jet she is damn damn hot, she is only 19 but I just wanna have sex ... (158 words)

Should I let them be or push through with how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys please I need help... My partner and I are doing well with our relationship, including sex. But lately, he has gone cold and rarely makes love with me any more... no more sweet messages or he rarely checks on how I am doing (unlike before). I am not sure if he is taken ... (162 words)

Where can I meet guys that don't focus on looks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I appreciate any help you can give! I've been finding it hard to get over an ex from years ago because I haven't dated anyone since (5 years) I barely get a kiss when I'm out because I'm quite big, I'd be about 250lb but am quite tall too but anyway how will I ever ... (92 words)

Husband wants me to use very abusive language on him during our romantic weekend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 34-year-old businesswoman, my husband's 36, and our son's 11 years old and in High school. Last night me and my husband were talking about ideas for making our sex life hotter and having a romantic week together as we haven't had one for so long. All the usual things... (287 words)

Guy knows all these things about me and I don't know who he is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A month ago i received a call from this guy i assumed was they guy i used to fancy when we worked together. He didn't call me for a month an this morning at 4 o'clock i got a call from the same guy. He said he wanted to meet up with me and that he liked me. He knew some stuff ... (153 words)

How do I make her understand my problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i make her understand my problem? help ......? hi, im going to get married next year and the wedding date is fixed after talks with my and my bf's parents.im doing a day job and he is doing a night job. my parents are BUYING me a house near my home. it is near the cit... (345 words)

He is "out of order"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After asking my partner a simple question (a faulty kettle) last week we ended up having a big argument about our relationship and how he wants to be on his own, how i grind him to the ground (i can assure you i do nothing of the sort- really!) swearing at me and telling me to ... (181 words)

His comments really pissed me off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What would you say to this? On getting up this morning i put on my lovely black silk dressing gown over my gorgeous black lace cami and matching knickers. Granted some cleavage was showing (so what!). My other half turned around and after he took a long glance at my cleavage... (131 words)

Husband has no fashion sense and doesn't care

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 and my husband's 29, and we've got a 5-year-old son who's in primary school now. We've been together for 4 years and married for 2 years. My husband used to dress well but now he puts no effort into getting dressed. I'm not saying he can't dress himself - he can... (321 words)

Best friend and I have fallen out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

- me and my best friend have fallen out. He has fell out with me. Ill explain the story.. He always annoys me and like punches me and stuff.. prods me and just gets on my nerves and I said to him.. one day you'll get what you deserve. and he was like who off your brother? ... (264 words)

I'm not desperate, but I would like to be more proactive in the dating world!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know what i'm doing wrong in the dating game! i'm 19, and i can honestly say i've never had a proper boyfriend! on the plus size: i'm clever, fun, honest, caring with a good sense of humour. and my issues are: i'm a bit overweight (but i've started to sort thi... (170 words)

Jealous all the time and need help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going out with this girl who I like a lot. However I seem to get jealous a lot when she talks about guys she goes to school with or when it seems like she is flriting. Like the other day my friend was texting her and I got mad cuz i thought they were flirting. And the ... (126 words)

Would a plaser cast put you guys off a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - one for the men... i (have been lead to) beleive that i am a fairly attractive woman and men get on with men really well, i'm currently single though :-( ,in a couple of months i am going to have to have a couple of operations to stabilise my knee after a car accident left it ... (104 words)

Am I wasting my time with all these trust issues or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So Im not sure what to do. I am a lesbian in a relationship with a girl whom I love very much. However I just cant seem to trust her. We start dating in April of 2008 and afer about two months I started getting the feeling that she was cheating on me. She constantly reassured ... (459 words)

Terrifying nightmares about the male friend I love. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep having dreams about my best friend, who I am in love with. I don't think he is romantically attracted to me and it may be why I am so deeply troubled by this, since every night I have a different nightmare about him. In my dreams he's always either dead or on the v... (147 words)

Married, had an emotional affair, and a kiss, gave him up but missing him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - About a year 18 months ago i met this guy online and just started talking to him . This went on for a few months and he told me he was going through a divorce so at the time i think i was just someone who he could talk to. After abit he started to say how he really liked ... (535 words)

Do I have to chose between b/f & Best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been dating my boyfriend for just over seven months, and i definatly love him. And he definatly loves me back. Although, one of my best guy friends was recently rejected, so i was trying to make him happy, and i knew he liked me before, but he kinda loves me now too.. but ... (196 words)

Why no oral sex from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years and he's only given me oral sex 2 times. The first time wasnt until 2 years into our relationship and he finally said he wanted to do it. Before that he used to think it was gross, maybe something he had heard from ... (505 words)

Is my ex testing me? Or is it all a joke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, my ex broke up with me 5 months ago. He said that 'love' was a strong word and what not. He kept tabs on me for the first 2 months, but then he completely stopped talking to me. Yesterday I was talking to my friend( who happens to be his friend too) and he told me he was t... (204 words)

Like me? or just trying to get into my pants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, So I like one of my guy friends. He supposedly likes me back..but i don't believe him. Well we've been making out for almost 2 months now.. this week we went a little too far. He showed me his penis and he touched my boobs. The touching happens a lot and I must add that he ... (255 words)

Saving ourselves for marriage but want to spice up things

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so ive been with this amazing guy for almost three years now and i love him to death. the thing is, we're always together but dont have much alone time so when we do, we want to make it count. we're both saving ourselves for marriage but we need to spice things up a little ... (68 words)

My mother is smothering me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im a college student, never gotten into no trouble at all, my friends arent criminals or anything exept for one person who i dont hang out with anymore. yet when i go out my mother calls me like every 10 min to check out what im doing with who and so on. if i wanna go out she ... (132 words)

He's moved on and I thought we'd get back together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend split a few weeks ago...And Now he has a new girlfriend. I literally feel like im dying...I can't breathe, and my heart is breaking! He told me he still loved me! and I thought we were going to get back together! I desperately need some advice on how to le... (65 words)

As soon as we start going out then I no longer want the girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Well, i have a problem. Im 15 years old and kinda have the nack to get alot of girls.I can talk to them for a day and theyre whipped on me. The girls that are my past call me slut but thats not the point of this question. So i go out with them a few times adn we kiss an... (305 words)

I like my pregnant friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay well im 15...i am kind of an outgoing guy with the girls but idk how to ask one out. I have one friend that i like and i feel she likes me too...but im not sure because today i saw her with another guy flirting and it hurt me alot! also she is pregnant and im the only one ... (67 words)

Fix things with us? Or just fix me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend will have been together two years in september. We have gotten in our fair share of fights over him drinking, getting a job, that kinda stuff. Well recently he did get a job and his very first car and i am so very proud of him.. But hes becoming a jerk ... (208 words)

Desperate to have a baby and willing to have sex with anyone to get one

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7 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I have a problem, and would love to get some advice/help with it. Thanks!! Okay! I'm single and want a baby so badly that I'm willing to have sex with anyone and then be a single parent. The only problem is, I don't want'a deal with the pain and discomfort of se... (91 words)

Attraction to history professor

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very much attracted to my history professor, I don't believe he's married b/c he doesn't wear a ring on his finger, not sure if he has children or not, but I find myself interested in him more than what he is teaching (dont get me wrong I like history as well), and I know ... (214 words)

Why wasn't he willing to change for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my bf. we were only together for 2 months. but i had (and still have) really strong feelings for him. basically, even though i loved him as a person (and he was so perfect: funny, attractive, clever, caring..), i broke up with him because it wasn't workin... (140 words)

Why is it more of a turn on if the girl swallows?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I supose this is a question for the guys/men - Why is it better for a girl to swallow? I was told its very sexy and if the girl that does that for you is amazing. Why? Is it sort of an 'acceptance' thing? And if she spits, is it a 'rejection' thing? thanks. ... (72 words)

So if I start to like normal weight guys, does that make me shallow?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this might be a bit confusing, but I'll explain it to the best of my ability: I've always been a petite girl. I'm 19 and I am 5'5" and 110 lbs and I used to be what people call a "chubby chaser". During my teenage years, I only ever dated bigger guys; I even lost my ... (282 words)

Am I overreacting? For him getting fired?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and im having an issue. alot of people think im over reacting but i dont think i am. My school hasnt been doing back round checks on hall monitors and janitors because it takes to long and it is to expensive. One of the hall monitors that works there i am really good ... (231 words)

What should a man see in a woman before saying yes to her proposal?

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7 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - what all should a (Indian, family oriented) man see in a woman before saying yes to her proposal?... (18 words)

Ladies poll - number, size, one night stands...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Ladies Poll -- (1) How many men have you slept with? (2) Of that nimber, how many men would you say were well endowed, meaning say more than 8 inches and/or wide? (3) How many were one (or two night) stands? Thanks for your participation.... (48 words)

Where can we doit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a pretty weird situation I guess, well getting too it, i've got a boyfriend, been with him a while, had sex 3 times over a weekend away, now we're kinda stuck for where to have sex, and we're going to go to shit if we don't keep the sex life up. Basically, when he's ... (89 words)

How to cope and get past this?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this may not seem like that big of a deal to some of you... but I still feel very ashamed. Me and my boyfriend have had an on and off long-distance relationship for 2 years. So, since I was 15, I'm 17 now. He's came to see me for a month once, we are like best friend... (428 words)

How do you know that you aren't just "some girl"

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you tell if you aren't just some girl to your boyfriend? I am just asking in general, do not give me the we need more information I am just wondering what a guy would do for a girl that meant something to him and what he would do for a girl that is just a side stop for ... (63 words)

Confused & in love with the boss

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently just started talking to a guy at work, at first it was flirting via email and then he had offered me a position within the company, I accepted and now he is my boss. Nobody at work has a clue and everything is kept very confidential between us. We tell each other how ... (149 words)

Why hasn't he asked me out yet?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there's this guy that i like, and we just started talking again lately. over the summer, i always thought he liked me, and so did my friends, but then he went out this his ex AGAIN, so i gave up and was confused because i thought he liked me. but anyway, i've been talkin... (310 words)

How to be a woman player

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7 March 2009 (F)

age - I need to know how to be a woman "player" - you know, just like some men are players. Does it mean that the woman does the same thing back to him that he does to her? For example, there's this guy at work who has a g/f but he gets jealous when he sees me with a guy. Then ... (171 words)

An ex, then not an ex..I don't know what the heck I am!

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and m (I hardly know what to call him anymore, lets go with ex) have been friends for 4 years or so, then me and him were friends with benefits for a year, then became official for a month before we called it off. It was then I realized why he had never wanted the ... (317 words)

How do I know if she's hurting just as much as I am?

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7 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 and just got out of a two year relationship that has had its ups and downs but i guess it was the final straw. heres the story one night my ex and i were at a basketball game and we werent sitting by each other cause i was sitting by my other friends and we were just ... (304 words)

Why won't he sleep with me?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - 4 years ago, I met 2 men on the same day: I was interested in both of them, but only one of them very assertively pursued me and I ended up in a realtionship with him for 2 years, and friends with the other "romantic associate"/man during that time. After I broke up with the ... (241 words)

I am really struggling with how to deal with rejection or sexual disinterest from the one I love.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

7 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am really struggling with how to deal with rejection or sexual disinterest from the one I love. I've never liked it (who does!) but lately am finding it more and more difficult. It just shatters me and I almost fall to pieces. I feel like I'm not going to cope. What sh... (89 words)

I've fallen in love with my bestfriend and I don't think she feels the same

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7 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I think i have fallen in love with my best friend. I know I am only 15 years old and you are probably thinking that I'm joking around or that I'm not in love with this girl but i am positive that I am. I really cannot stop thinking about her, she's the last thought w... (282 words)

Having an affair...

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7 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - If you have an affair, and then she goes cold, is it guilt on her part of just trying to protect her feelings from becoming deep love that will force her to decide on quitting her relationship?... (37 words)

I need your input here... could I be bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 17 and I've only ever dated or hooked up with guys but since I was young I always had a suspicion that I might be bi because I've had crushes on girls but I've never acted on them. And I do get turned on by girls but somehow I can't see myself being with one or kissing ... (68 words)

Is it normal to not want to see him 24/7?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to not want to see him 24/7? I went out with my boyfriend last night... I worked, headed off to class, and then quickly freshened up to go see him. I came home a little past 3:30a.m. Then, I woke up and back to work. Now, I'm tired and just want to be lazy. Also, ... (80 words)

Stuck in an awkward platonic relationship. Is there hope for us becoming more than friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I am having some problems with a male friend. It is a platonic relationship, but there is definitely chemistry... The way this began... I moved to a new neighborhood in NY in August and, within a couple of weeks, became friendly with a neighbor. I don... (342 words)

Why would my boyfriend let me know that some other girl liked him too?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and I like him but I like him more as a friend. He just told me he liked another girl but he likes too, I wanna know why in the world would he tell me this?? I didn't get mad at him though so he thinks I think it's no big deal. Was he warning me that he ... (128 words)

Should I get my mum something really special for mothers day...?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Mothers day is this month and I'm a little stuck for as to what to do. My mum's mum (so my gran) died just before Christmas, as did my mum's dad (my grandad). He died literally two weeks after my gran did, so it was really sad and hard for my mum. I don't know what to ... (157 words)

Should I wash my hands after someone very poor touches me?

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm from the Philippines and I have a moral issue... I like to help the poor, give them alms and stuff they need... but am I being a bad person if I immediately wash my hands after they touch me? I'm very confused.... (45 words)

I am interested in learning more about men! Why do they act certain ways and what you should do about it.

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am interested in learning more about men! Why do they act certain ways and what you should do about it, like if we got into a fight and he ignored me for 2/3 days, why do they cheat? What do they like in women? Why all of a sudden does he act differently towards me ... (89 words)

Cheating sucks!

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7 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl he works with. She kept offering him to fool around even though she knew he had a girlfriend and a family. He caved in but has never cheated before. We've always had a great loving relationship! He cheated like 3 months ago, I knew he ... (171 words)