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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you knwo what's going on in his head? I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Right I don't get this, what do you make of it...? There's a lad I like but quite some time ago when my mate questioned him about what he thought of me in general he said he didn't have feelings for me... a bit like he assumed my mate was gonna ask that. Ok this lad has a ... (207 words)

Trust issues. Please please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have just had an argument. It was about trust. She says I don't trust her... and she's right. We've been together for 18 months now but for about 4 months I have become suspicious of her. Without going into detail I accused her of lying about her m... (167 words)

Wedding disaster???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Huge problem with my wedding!!!!! I come from a very conservative family and they are paying for my wedding. They have invited many of their high profile friends and I feel like it is about showing off their money and not about my guy and I. My guy and his friends are huge ... (104 words)

Why is my mom so strict all of a sudden?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy (Yeah, really original). Any ways, he's ten years older than me, he's 26. His parents are really good friends with mine. The biggest secret I have kept from my parents was not telling them I had started dating him when I was 14. But I told them a couple mo... (127 words)

8 years and STILL not engaged... tells me "not to worry about it"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 8 years. We met and began dating in high school and stayed together through college and beyond. We moved in together about 6 months ago and both absolutely love living together. Everything about our relationship is great, except ... (229 words)

Did she cheat? Was I wrong to stay with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my current gf a few years now, and about a year into the relationship, I went out of town on a trip with my family for a few weeks. While I was gone she met a guy, and started flirting with him. I found this out much later into the relationship, when she ... (308 words)

I seem to fall in love with everyone I sleep with. Has my childhood got something to do with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old girl. I had a pretty bad childhood, my dad was a herion addict and I rarely saw/see him. This doesn't bare much of a burden on my life, I don't mind my past. To me it's fine, but some people say it's why I have this problem: I have had a string of 2 years re... (176 words)

How can I explain to him I love him but slow down without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in a relationship with an older man who I love but I think things are moving too fast. How can I explain to him I love him but slow down without hurting him. I'm 23 he is 42.... (39 words)

My boyfriend is driving me nuts!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have been with my lad for a bout 9 months now, my longest relationship ever. I pratically lost my virginity to my current I have little experience. I've suggested things, would like to try things but it never works out. He comes too quickly exercises don't work from what he ... (718 words)

Should I continue the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice on the next step in my relationship... First of all I have been living with my boyfriend for 6 months together for a year and a half. He really wants to get married and have a baby. Problem is I don't know if I am able to have children, I am 37 with ferti... (192 words)

How do I forgive my mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I will make it short as i can. I grew up with the family who I can called DISFUNCTIONAL family. I cant blame much my father due to his condition, he is disabled and so He also needs to rely on my mother's command. To make it short I can say that my Mother is the h... (199 words)

I want to work in a strip club!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a bartender and I want to work in a strip club (as a bartender). I'm afraid to apply though. I'm 5'5 115 pounds, am in great shape however, My breast size is a 34 c and my butt isn't the biggest. I won't find a job in a strip club. Do you think this will prevent me ... (64 words)

I just wanna know what the gushy sticky stuff was.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my girl a lot of times, she just got off her period and I had sex with her. The last time we had sex was yesterday and while we was doing it it was good but when I pulled out I notice that it was gushy sticky stuff on the outside of the condom . I checked the ... (83 words)

Do good guys come last when you are choosing who you want to go out with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a question for the women of all ages cos I want to know what each generation of women think. I am a kind, considerate guy. I always treat girls like they deserve. I don't want you to think I'm big headed or perfect cos I know I'm not. Once you get to know me I am abl... (163 words)

Is the age difference too much here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 well 14 but going be 15 in a couple of months or so. Anyway I really like this girl, her name is Bethand, she's my best friend's sister but he wouldn't care if we went out. A lot of other people would: my ex would start rumours about her, my parents wouldn't like it ... (207 words)

Weirded out with ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We are going out for dinner, birthday party for a friend. My boyfriend of six years is friends with the birthday celebrant. The celebrant is friends with my boyfriend's ex girlfriend so I know she'll be there as well and this isn't the first time encountering the ex, this is ... (197 words)

I love them both, but I love her more, so why can't I get over these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was in 6th grade, I fell in love with my best friend.. she was so sweet and cute, I loved her so much; I still do, but I feel it fading..I promised her that I would love her forever.. but she's changing. I have complicated feelings, because at the right moment I know I ... (192 words)

What kind of woman/girl would you go for?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For a while now, every guy that I have seemed to like is interested in that stick thin, big boobed, blonde haired type, and seeing as I am a size 10/12 [in UK sizes] brunette, I just wondered.... this is one for the guys, but women feel free to leave comments =] 1] What c... (129 words)

Am I in the "friend zone" now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am sorry to rattle on but I am desperately in need of advice on topics that I have never experienced or seen someone go through. It would be helpful for advice from females and males. I met this girl who is three years younger than me. we dated for a short time. things wer... (474 words)

I need help to decide... Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Long question... I've been with my current boyfriend just over 3 years, and things have been amazing. He's nearly everything I could ask for in a boyfriend, we've even called each other "soul mates". However, during the past few months, I'd been thinking that perhaps we ... (483 words)

Opinions needed! How can I put the spark back into our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - How do I get the spark back in our relationship? We have been together for 9 years and my wife has said she is missing that spark between us. What should I do? Any suggestions?... (37 words)

Should we move in with his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I just found out we are expecting a little one (due nov 3). We were doing great but I had to quit my one job because if not it couldve hurt the baby so now we are kinda in a lil financial bind. His parents offered us their upstairs, which woulld include a room 4 ... (183 words)

I feel as if I'm in a prison hell and don't know how to get out of it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is a bit complicated but I'll try to explain. One year and 3 months ago my ex split up from me, I'd been with him for 7 years and was obviously devastated at the time. We have 2 children together as well. Anyway 6 months after this happened I met another guy and due to ... (527 words)

I've been asked out by one guy but am close to being more than just friends with another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do - Me and this guy at work have been flirting since he arrived - after several missed opportunties and we finally kissed (about a year of flirting) he just wants friends with benefits I really want more because I like him so much. However, this other gu... (120 words)

What would YOU do? Should I meet him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, some advice needed please! Met a man in the bar last week and he gave me his number/email. We arranged to meet tomorrow lunchtime but tonight, he called just to confirm but he was drunk on the phone. He seemed really different and didn't stop swearing in general. He ... (140 words)

How can I get my family to forgive him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and have been with my fiance for 2 years. We are getting married on May 1. Three weeks ago he went out to an all guys weekend and got really drunk and cheated on me. He called me the next day and told me we had to talk as soon as he came home. When he came home he tol... (178 words)

In love with soldier and a sailor..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm in the worst situation I have ever been my whole entire life, so far. I cannot go by a day without thinking of this troubling situation. My story goes like this: When I was 13 I met a guy trough my brother( his friend)he was 3 years older than i was. When i... (795 words)

I'm not getting pleasure from masturbating any more. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've had no problem masturbating in the past but lately I've noticed I'm not getting intense orgasms. This has been happening about 6 months now and I get nowhere. I'm basically not getting any pleasure from it whatsoever. I have went on one site a few weeks ago which ... (120 words)

How can I reassure my b/f while he is on vacation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Me and my new boyfriend have been going out for about five-six weeks now and hes originally from greece and goes there every summer. he sent me a text today saying how much he will miss me when he goes and will I come with him. I know for a fact i can't however ... (99 words)

After I ask her out, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I posted on here a few days ago about a girl that i thought liked me that i liked as well, but i was unsure if i was reading her right. Well its confirmed that she likes me. She talked to one of my best friends about me and basically confessed to him that she has a huge crush ... (327 words)

I'm gagging when I brush my teeth..pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, for the past month, i gag when i brush my teeth, its so bad i have 2 spit out then start again, its begining to bother me, Ive looked it up,and says signs of pregnency, but ive not had sex since jan, and ive had periods since then, does anyone else have this pro... (95 words)

Should we get back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so blah blah blah this is nothing original, my boyfriend cheated on me last year and I'd always kinda kept my emotions wrapped up and stayed strong through it all. However on Saturday i was at a party and he was sayin how sorry he was and it all just came out anyway we hugged ... (96 words)

Do guys enjoy dry humping?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - do guys enjoy dry humping ? i know i do cause of the clit preassure stimulation thing but how do guys enjoy it ? if they do at all ... (29 words)

I have a very overprotective father!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I 19 years old, and a daddys girl. My mom died when I was 6 years old and my dad became very over protective. He acts lile Im a child, He calls my cell a million times a day and if I dont answer is will just keep calling. HE literally gets my uncle to do crimnal record checks ... (106 words)

Sexual Intimacy - help, any suggestions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for a while, and we were not virgins when we got together. I had a 2 year borrowing sex life - only 2 positions, occational sex, she would cum in 5-10 min then be board while I finished - no real deep connection. My new girl gave a couple forced ... (205 words)

He's with me yet he has a dating profile and a lot more besides going on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for about a year and a half and then we broke up. However, we still talked every day, saw each other and did basically everything people in a relationship do. I never thought for a second that he was looking for other people. I looked at his phone and there ... (271 words)

Mixed messages from my sex buddie!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy (sexually) but he seems to send me mixed messages. Is there anything I can do to make him like me in a romantic way?... (29 words)

We have only ever had dry sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have "dry sex". I think that is what it is called anyways. I never seen him like -cum... I don't know is that normal? or does he not on purpose - you know for me - or what! He just like stops all of a sudden and then nothing, either he has his pants on, no ... (74 words)

I need help to stop being so insecure and crazy. Why am I so off balance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age - I have had quite a few relationships but never found the one. I am an attractive, intelligent and successful, with men constantly wanting to be in a serious relationship with me. Finally I have met a guy and have fallen in love with him and he with me. But I am acting like ... (283 words)

Did I make a mistake thinking that he had changed his mind and wanted more than just a quickie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. I am 26 female (virgin), I work with a bunch of Army guys, I have never really bothered with any of them until a couple of years ago, when this corporal started, we started talking and flirted all the time, we arranged to go out and he cancelled on me at ... (243 words)

Pregnancy and having sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 weeks pregnant. I know that as long as you are told it's okay to have sex by your doctor you are in the clear. The only thing that I was wondering, and quite embarrassed to ask my doc, is does it matter how rough you do it? My husband and I tend to get a little carried ... (75 words)

His ex's anniversary is coming up and I don't know how to handle it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for like four months. I know he was in a 4 year relationship a year ago or so, his and his ex's anniversary is coming up and I don't know how to handle it, like do what, take him out or leave him alone or what? Any advice would be great.... (60 words)

I must wait a year for him... so he says. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy in my life who after 4 years has re-entered my life, I met him when I was 17 and he was 18 we were seeing each other, our family knew about us and everything was well. I stopped seeing him as in those days he was very immature and what you would call a typical ... (932 words)

Would you be jealous if your partner was going out to dinner with other pretty girls? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years but for two years we were on and off quite a lot. He is over ten years older than me and lives about 100 miles away. I see him every fortnight. He is a lawyer and has lots of female friends, some single some who are not. Because ... (183 words)

Years ago she made a penis mold of an ex! I caught my wife using it recently, now I don't know what to think!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife hasn't really been 'around the block' much. She had 2 bf's before me (well serious bf's, not counting guys with a few dates and no action). Problem is, my wife, way before she met me, made one of those penis molds of her one boyfriend. I never heard of this before, ... (294 words)

The sisters are in the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm dating a guy who is the older brother one of one of so-called best friends - she was against the idea from the start but it's now close to two years and she still can't/won't deal with it. Was friends with her over 30 years. He has been separated from his wife over 6 ... (597 words)

An aspiring drama actor in an awkward scene

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello aunty,I am an aspiring drama actor,recently I have done some good plays and an upcoming actor..last week I was offered a lead role in a drama,which has a romantic story..but this time I have been paired against my sister -in-law,(my 2nd cousins wife)..who happens to be my ... (162 words)

Masturbation and carrots!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 13. I went to my friends house to sleep over and I got a bit drunk. Ok a lot drunk. Her brother who is 16 was with us the whole time. I remember me and my friend masturbating, with carrots, but recently I've been itchy and I think I had sex with her brother... What do I ... (61 words)

I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, the short end of the story is that I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female. I didn't realise she was 14 when I met her, I honestly thought she was 18 because she could easily have passed for a university student. I've never been attra... (1062 words)

Has anyone ever felt that they can never get over their ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Has anyone ever felt that they can never get over their ex.My ex was the love of my life. I am in a relationship right now.I compare every guy to him. Every one else always falls short.I know I am wrong.What can I do?I know there are still feelings at least on my side.Nothing... (78 words)

Where Did I Go Wrong With My Boyfriend In This Situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We’ve had our ups and downs which involved him cheating and me finding out, but we worked things out. Things have been going well until he suddenly began to distance himself from me. The communication began sliding down. I’ll call him,... (494 words)

Advice on Las Vegas Trip Please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Advice on Las Vegas Trip Please. My wife and I have been marrid 10 years and have always worked together as a team. With children we agreed to go down to 1 income so she could stay at home. . . now being on 1 income money is tight. Last fall we discussed taking a trip ... (369 words)

It still haunts me, because I am very insecure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Lets start my story with a brief history of my problem; My girlfriend cheated on me about two months ago, i was devestated, but she claimed it was a big mistake (she made out with somebody at a party.) Anyway she is never in touch with that guy anymore. But ... (145 words)

Part of me says this is good for him and he needs it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend has been under stress for quite some time from all different angles - work, sick older friend. He is a great guy but can not handle any emotional stress which causes so much DRAMA. (we've been together approx 1 year) We split up got back together but I got mad ... (302 words)

Small red spots on penis?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have like small red spot like sores on the head of my penis. anyone have any idea what it is? i'm confuse and dont want to have to go to the doctor because i'm so embarased. thanks... (41 words)

I'm scared his sister will succeed in this petty cunning attempt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I've been scratching my head and pacing back and forth over this situation all day as I've never really had this problem before (and ive had a few dramas in my life). I've been with my bf for over 10 months now and we have recently been fighting as he has ... (540 words)

My married lover wants me but will not leave his family

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age - He was my first boyfriend when i was age 16 and I was his first girlfriend. We knew each other from age 7 from the same primary school. We were together for about two years. I avoided him suddenly after he brought me to his home where i saw many idols which his grandmother was ... (442 words)

I'm embarrassed about the size of my breasts

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, im 14 years old and have just started high school. I look mature for my age so people usually don't believe me that im 14. I have really big boobs im a DD 36 even though i dont wear revealing clothes guys still notice them and comment which makes me extremely uncomfor... (58 words)

Is it ok for boyfriend to dance with his female friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a quick question, What are the boundaries for when your boyfriend goes out to the bars with his friends that are mainly girls? He's in a female profession so like 90% of his friends are girls, which I can deal with. I am somewhat of a jealous person...but as long as ... (344 words)

Is this relationship is worth salvaging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend and I had a huge row tuesday and yesterday that started off over something really small. it was saint patricks day on tuesday and I was going to meet my friend in town.later on we my boyfriend texted me saying that he was going for a walk in ... (500 words)

Kitchen a good place for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Is the kitchen a good location for sex? Did you do it on the floor, counter, table, chairs, or other places? What positions did you use and enjoy? Was it a fun location for sex? I think it would be fun to make human sundaes with my boyfriend. Using sauces and whipping cream. ... (64 words)

He is a very convincing actor and he likes to play tricks on me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, I've been going out with this beautiful, lovely guy for a little over 3 months now. I really feel strongly for him but there are 2 big obstacles that I need help with. Firstly, his past. To be frank he doesn't have one. I've asked him a few times now and... something... (258 words)

Question protected sex with person with HIV

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, here's the thing and it's a pretty big thing. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We dated for about four months before we got more intimate. First it was 'making out', then she would give me a 'hand job' for want of a better phrase and then it progr... (323 words)

How many times can someone break your heart before you move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I hope i dont come accross as some sad case here. I need to know how to move on from an ex, this has been going on for near enough 2 years now. I love him with all my heart and i do think he has strong feelings for me back but too much water has gone under the bridge. We... (552 words)

Does he love me? I don't know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - God i am so paranoid bout my boyfriend its driving me mad. My boyfriend has always been quite honest with me.but for some reason i always see the bad in him and never believes what he says.always think he has a motive for everything. Hes got a past womeniser is how id put it. ... (284 words)

I've never taken a girl virginity before

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about two years now and I recently asked her to marry me. She's the same age as me (25) but she's still a virgin. She said that she has always wanted to wait for the right guy. I've been with her for two years and I love her so much that it i... (147 words)

Mum and I have different views on how to enjoy the lovely warm sunshine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Mum and I have different views on how to enjoy the lovely warm sunshine. I prefer to spend it outdoors, like going to the nearby park or sports such as cycling or walking, whilst she prefers to go shopping or eat out. Our varied opinions/choices don't really bother me as we ar... (192 words)

I don't know what to do about this boy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i've been havinga a dilemma lately. There's a boy that I really like at my school, and i can never get him out of my head. Well, lately i've been feeling like just giving up on him, because I THINK, (about 95 percent sure) that he knows i like him, yet he won't talk to m... (415 words)

Broke up now wants to marry me...Should I consider it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a female of 24 years old. I have 2 lovely childen by my ex boyfriend. Reason i broke it off with him was because he made another woman pregnant. It has been 2 yrs some months since we called it quitz. Now he has been aproaching me wanting us to try again and be toge... (125 words)

Husband seems unattracted to me only after 1 1/2 years of marriage. :(

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help with my marriage. I've only been married for 1 1/2 years and I feel like my marriage is already getting stale. My biggest problem is my insecurity with my body. I've always had high self esteem until I got married. My husband LOVES big breasts. I am always seei... (395 words)

I just want to forgive myself and my x .and move ahead in life

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - SOMETIMES I FEEL VERY LOW N DEPRESSED COZ OF MY PAST PLZ HELP ME!! Well , i had a relationship with a guy for around two and half years years, the thing in the begening of the relationship only he asked me to have sex ,which i was not ready at all,but he told if i don he will ... (276 words)

Why did she suddenly admit that she loves me after all these years?

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been friends with this girl since we were teenagers and I've been in love with her since we became friends. It must be thirteen years all in all. She's the most beautiful woman I have ever laid my eyes on, we share the same interests, she is just perfect inside and ... (338 words)

Reminiscing about the ex...

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19 March 2009 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things.. I wish my ex would come back but I have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years I was with him. I wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a cycle that i guess i couldnt b... (1555 words)

I want to split from him but can't get him out of my head!

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with a guy I don't love. The thing is I already confessed I loved him but now I wanna get out! What should I do to avoid hatred between the two of us? Will he feel betrayed when I tell him I don't really feel anything for him? The other thing is that ... (110 words)

Am I imagining the whole thing?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am very confused. I've been with my husband for 20 years and we're very happy. Over the last 12 months or so I have become quite friendly with a married man - our kids are friends. We see each other about twice a week at school, just to say hi or small chit chat, but we ... (139 words)

HELP! What should I do? I really, really, really like him a lot.

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well ... There's this guy at my school and I kinda like him and I think that maybe .. maybe ... There's still feelings between us. We were never together, but my friends and his friends assumed that we were because of the way we acted. We never kissed or did anything like th... (371 words)

HELP ME! This girl is driving me crazy

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I of two years broke up about 2 weeks ago. We started dated pretty early in sobriety I had a year at 23 and she had 6mnths at 20. I know it was early. Anyway we had a really good relationship for a long time, we kept our programs as seperate as possible... (660 words)

How can I change him? or am I over-reacting.

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am 23yrs old and have been married for nearly 2 years. I moved away from my home town 5 years ago and met my husband soon after. He is a lovely man, but i never imagined my life to be like this. I love him very much, he is my strength. but we have had our problems... (357 words)

I want to make this man fall out of limerence with me without realising it!

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - As a sometimes sufferer of Limerence (although not severe) I believe I have become the LO of another person! In fact I think I am caught in a limerence triangle! I am a female, who a couple of months ago was whisked away on a "top performers" trip with my employer. Inter... (700 words)

I've changed from a fun person into a paranoid needy person!

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 27, and scared. I have been in a very fast and intense relationship for 6 months now. I love them more than I thought possible, and now I am terrified things are changing and I will end up being hurt. I need to know how mentally or medically, I can stop feelin these fears, a... (572 words)

I want to know whats going on inside her head

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - well here we go again! i wrote to this column almost 1 year ago to the date. my girl and i did get back together. i received some great advice but unfortunately ive found myself back in a situation again. it may help you to search my previous question "i know what i did is bad ... (1578 words)

Nervous Nora

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I want to talk to my new boyfriend more about sex but we’re both a bit embarrassed and I can never think what to say. We’ve been together for nearly three weeks and are getting a bit more adventurous in the bedroom. We’ve had full sex a few times now, mostly... (140 words)

When she came out of the bath she said that her bits were hurting.

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. The problem is this. My daughter is three and the other week I bathed her before bed. When she came out of the bath she said that her bits were hurting. I looked and her hymen was gone. I had been with her for two whole days so don't know how this happened. Has someon... (83 words)

Ready to leave my wife for my 1st love

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am looking for some perspective on my situation. From age 19-27, I was together with someone but due to our religious upbringings, age difference, etc., and the fact that both of us didn't believe in premarital sex, we never had sex with each other. We always had fun t... (796 words)

Can you please give a few ideas on how can I tell this man about my feelings

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, There is a guy at my workplace who really pleases me a lot. I think I have a big crush on him. The problem is that I don't know how to express my feelings for him, he is a difficult person to approach, he is a distant person. Everytime I go home after work, I say it wil... (131 words)

I feel so down and sad and confused please help me.

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm so confused and dont know what to do at the moment. I met a Swedish girl 4 months ago when I was visiting my parents in Malaysia, I'm based in the UK, now I'm still in Malaysia, on working holiday thing. I met J on the beach, she was supposed to stay for only 4 days but... (711 words)

Well endowed and anal sex help...

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, i have had anal sex with a previous b/f, maybe, twice. he was average in size. it was ok and there were no dramas with mess from me or anything. i am now with another b/f, who is very well endowed. we are wanting to have anal sex but i am abit apprehensive coz of ... (96 words)

I feel so unworthy and pathetic. What should I do?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Currently all my friends have boyfriends and I've never had a boyfriend and desperately wanted to have one. Now I've become so down on the fact that it will never happen I've given up caring and looking for that special someone. Does this mean I'll be alone for the rest of m... (187 words)

Orgasm and climax are they the same?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - whats the difference between climax and orgasm? i cant really understand!... (18 words)

Angry with girlfriend

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been with my girlfriend for quite sometime. i was happy her at the begining bt for the past few weeks i dont feel like loving her anymore. she flirt with other guys, having bets with other guy that if they gt the thing, she will give them a kiss. by that, it made me feel ... (149 words)

She always wants something new!

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i satisfy my girlfriend in bed? i am a lesbian! because everytime my gf and i having sex she always wanted me to do something new to her pussy to make cum.....??????? ... (44 words)

Is he cheating on me with my sister? Should I leave?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is he cheating on me? Lately my fiance has been selfish. I was sick for example; this entire week and couldn't even get off the couch. I asked if he could please take our daughter with him to the gym. He said "it was too much of a hassle" when I was super sick. He's been... (441 words)

I want to belp my friend get a girl!

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I would love to find some one for my friend. One of my best friends is turning 30 this year, and I would love to help him find some one special. He keeps waiting and it seems like he just wants some one to just show up, he won't put any effort into finding some one. I have ... (197 words)

He thinks I am bad luck

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a man for the past 12 months... 9 month ago his business went down, he also lost a lot of money on stock market. Now he got this crazy idea that all of this bad things happened to him because of me....because I'm a bad luck to him and I brought a negative ... (230 words)

Caught b/f masturbating..wonder if he does it all the time?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, hopefully I can get some advice. Last week I caught my boyfriend masterbating. I had always assumed that he did it because pretty much everyone does, but I was really offended that he would do it when I was right in the other room. I tried talking to him about it but I ... (203 words)

I am afraid of meeting him in person

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy I met on the internet. It was kind of a dating site. He is a sweetheart but I am afraid of meeting him in person. I am afraid because my parents are racists and I know they would not be happy with me dating him. He told me he wanted to meet my parents. He i... (190 words)

Afraid he'll cheat on me again after easily forgiving him

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me after we had a huge fight a few months ago. He told me right away and I forgave him. A week ago he asked me to marry him and I said yes, but now Im afraid that since I forgave him so easily he will do it again. Now I dont know what to ... (71 words)

I lied that I had sex and now she doesn't trust me

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, the other day I did the dumbest thing ever. My girlfriend and I both 18 want to have sex with eachother and we are both virgins. But she asked me if I have been with any other girls and I wanted to seem like a player so I told her ive actually been with 4 girls. I ... (189 words)

I'm embarrassed that I haven't had sex yet

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well to start things off, I am a 22 year old virgin. It is very hard living in a day and age where all your friends talk about sex and their recent conquests and you have no idea what it is about. I have been told that I am a pretty attractive guy by a number of my female ... (473 words)

His kids treat me poorly and ignore me

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, im 23 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years, he is 42 years old. my situation is that my boyfriend has been married twice and has 2 kids who are 16 and 18 years old. of course my parents do not approve for starters. my second problem is that my ... (281 words)

He turned to religion and now wants to completely avoid sex

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - MY boyfriend of six months wants to stop having sex with me... when we started dating our relationship was about sex.. The first thing that we both had in common was that we were very inmate with each other... now he wants to stop having sex because of God and how it's a sin ... (158 words)

Spending more time with our kid but not enough with me

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - its been 5yr we were been married and now i have a 1 yr old kid. he spends lot of time with my kid but nowadays he don't spend much time with me. so we had lot of talk regarding this matter he normally says that he loves me a lot. if he loves me he have to show me that from the ... (113 words)

Should I still be her friend and his secret lover?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I liked this one guy who will be named 1 well me and 1 hit it off when we would talk. He liked me and I liked him but we never really told each other we just knew we did BUT than my supposed friend who we will call 2 just started liking him because 1 just thought that she was ... (214 words)

Stuck between 2 crushes

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid... i am stuck between two crushes... the first guy is a jerk who is only nice when were alone i guess its coz hes got that cool image an his friends hate me but i can really open up to him an talk to him an he always tells me it will get better an to relax an he... (272 words)

I'm feeling sad about conditions that I can't help..what can I do?

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19 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - This isn't properly a relationship question, but I figured aunts and uncles may be able to help me. These last few weeks, I've been not miserable, but yes a bit sad. It's not depression, I've been depressed before, and I'm not sad all the time, but often I think about people ... (311 words)

Why won't he take my clothes off or touch me?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i like this guy, ihave been the one to ask him to have sex when we do it he won't tkake my cloth off, he will alwys do it from the back and won't evene take my underwear off. he won't touch my body, he loves me doing him oral sex ... (104 words)

I like him, but he treats me the same as all the other girls..

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i like this guy and i have liked him for almost one year and me and him are kinda friends and i think that he knows that i like him but im not sure but all my freinds are tell him that i like him even tho i told them not to but ya i just dont really know if he knows that ... (133 words)

Its getting harder and harder to stop something from happening outside my marriage

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 10 years now. I used to get sex every night if not every other night. Lately, I barely get it once a week and I am so horney. I have a very high sex drive. I keep telling my husband, but it doesn't seem to help. I even send him notes to play ... (155 words)

Worried about my "taste"

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello DearCupid. :) Well, I've found that I care about my current lover very much, and we're starting to move a bit further in our sexual relationship. He's told me that he enjoys performing oral sex, specifically. I'm a bit worried, however, about what he might thi... (139 words)

Could use a shoulder to lean on

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - First of all..... Holy shit. Where to begin... I left my job for another in another overseas. My fiancee ( almost 6 years together) had wanted us to end up there eventually... Sacrifices had to be made in order to achieve this. Let me be clear, I wasn't just going t... (608 words)

Lots of sexual questions

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19 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I think I have an abnormally large clitoris. First question: is that okay? It doesn't look all that healthy... Second, it's extremely sensitive. So much so that every month or so my pubic hair starts to cause me significant physical pain. Other than routine shaving,... (84 words)

He's saying our son isn't his..I don't have time for his bullshit

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My kids dad and I aren't seeing eye to eye. We were suppose to get married unfortunately, it didn't happen. We are in and out of a relationship. I recently gave birth to our son on February 26. He wasn't around during my pregnancy. He didn't call, he didn't email, he... (458 words)

Am I crazy for thinking his behavior is not normal?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know if it is just me but my gut is really telling me differently. My husband of 10 years works in an all woman environment. It really didn't bother me at first till one of the women started calling him uncontrollably. I spoke with him about this and he became crazy. ... (185 words)

Its really bothering me that she doesn't want to talk to me

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So the past few days, umm monday tues and tonight, have been awkward, she usually calls me at night, we usually tlak every night, but the past few nights i text her yo su should callme, and she ask why? and for what? and idk why shes being liek this, even tho , during the day ... (233 words)

I don't know what to consider this? Sexual assault?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm trying to figure out what happened. There is a bar that i frequently go to and yesterday, St. Patrick's Day I met one of my friends up there for a little celebration. We began bar hopping on the strip and i we both ended back up at the bar we started at. She left when i ... (199 words)

Now that we have a child... what do I do for the best?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner have been together for 2 years just over, when we first got together we did the usual go out get drunk like young people do, I did notice on a few of these occasions that he could be very nasty in the names that he called me but he would always laugh it off ... (443 words)

He thinks I'm only out to scam him!!!

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Let's say you were in a relationship where your partner had an issue with trust. To the point were they actually believed that you were responsible for something that went missing. 4 years have gone by and I swear he still thinks everything is just a big cover up and I'm just ... (115 words)

5 years and counting

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have a three year old child together. We fight constantly because I feel that by now I should have a engagemet ring and he says he's not ready for that. He says he loves me and doesn't want anyone else but I'm not getting any ... (68 words)

I'm going to leave a note for him saying "dump her and I'll dump him"!

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19 March 2009 (F)

age - So - I wonder what's gonna happen next! He and I have other sex partners but we have professed our love for each other. We are both jealous because our partners aren't each other. Why is it happening this way - doesn't make any sense, does it? (We are both shy to talk ... (144 words)

I snooped and found messages I shouldn't have seen, now it's causing all sorts of problems!

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom and my step dad have been together ever since I was in kindergarten. I am fifteen now. They have been on and off basically my whole life. Separating then getting back together, etc. I have never really had a problem with it. A couple of days ago, my mom went out of ... (205 words)

Why has he not got back to me?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this guy for about 4 months. We have been calling each other more and more often now. We even discussed on going out, but we have never been on a date. He called me last friday while I was over a friend's house and I answered. We talked for like half an ... (248 words)

Even although he tried to choke me to death I'm wondering... should I take him back?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently my boyfriend was charged with assault and uttering death threats. Both charges I was the victim. He choked me and when I told him I couldn't breathe he said "thats what I'm trying to do". Sometimes I wonder if someone coming to the front door didn't startle him.. would ... (94 words)

My mother is dating my ex-boyfriend...what do I do?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My mother is dating my ex-boyfriend, who I was on and off with for five years. I am still in love with him and she knows it... well I'm not any more. They are actually trying to have a relationship. My kids loved him. She was never a great mother.. and I don't want my ki... (67 words)

Second thoughts about marriage...

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 37, he is 38. We have been together for a little over a year, living together for 7 months. We are discussing getting engaged, and I am currently at a point where I am not sure about that. I have had a difficult time with this relationship on and off, and my confusion ... (232 words)

Dating tips for being in a backwards town

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19 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently attending a small boarding school with a rigorous curriculum that consumes most of my life. Coming from a class just shy of 50 students there is not much of a dating pool. I am about to graduate and go home for the summer before I start college, but I do not know ... (181 words)

Any tips for insecurity and what to do?

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. I would really like to do something special and sexy for him in the bedroom (besides basic tipss.) But I am kind of insecure and chicken out. Plus, I don't know really what to do, and am shy when it comes to talking to my ... (83 words)

He doesn't like me the way that I like him!

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19 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... so i really like this guy and we dated twice... we have made out, kissed, held hands, hugged, he has lifted me up, and i have sorta given him a hand job... he wanted me to give him a blow job... well he went and told my friends that he didnt really like me that muc... (160 words)