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writes:I’m a 16 year old girl, people always say that I have a beautiful face and generally boys are attracted to me… but there is this one guy, he’s 2 years older than me, we go to the same high school but we don’t talk that much; I know that may sound crazy, but the first time I saw him, the first time we looked in the eyes of one another I got this weird feeling that I couldn’t explain it was just like magic if you know what I mean? I am not certain, is it possible for a girl like me, my age to fall in love? I mean have these strong feelings for someone I bearely know but that’s not even the question. The question is: how could she even tell if that someone feels the same about me, if he is attracted to me and if he feels the same magic when he looks at me in the eyes.. I do feel there is something going on between us and I do feel like he really likes me, on the other hand the fact that we don’t talk that much and that he’s always trying to avoid me, to not let me know how he feels about me; you know I never believed in love from the first look but there's just that thing inside of me that keeps telling me how amazing it would be if we were together. I know he looks at me deep in the eyes but I also know that’s not enough to know if he had feeling for me, so I just would like to have some advice to know for sure if he loves me or not, I don’t wanna stay head over clouds… Reply to this Question
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reader, dreamy girl +, writes (23 March 2009):
dreamy girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay , thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): Just ask him questions and be friendly and smile a lot. That will make him more comfortable to approach you more often. you can compliment him or laugh at his jokes without being too pushy, you know?
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reader, dreamy girl +, writes (23 March 2009):
dreamy girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice , i’ll try that one but it’s just that i’m scared a bit to be honest because boys used to flirt with me all the time not the opposite , so it’s kind a hard to try especially when I don’t know what I am suppose to do , I mean he really means a lot to me and I don’t want to miss things up ^^
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): Just because he doesn't love you right now doesn't mean that he won't!! Talk to him more and get to know him. Flirt with him and see where it goes. you can't predict the future or know what's in his head yet.
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reader, dreamy girl +, writes (23 March 2009):
dreamy girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thanks but when i said that he doesn’t know me , I meant not good enough I mean we say hi when ever we see each other , we some times talk but just some times and that’s the problem and he’s always staring at me but that’s it , I know than it’s hard to be in love with some one you don’t know inside out , but I did and I’m falling in love with him, if I am suppose to follow my hart I’d say that he loves me too but I guess things don’t work out that way that’s why I just wanted to be sure…thank u any way because I know it’s very likely that he’s not …
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): He can't love you if he doesn't even know you! You will know when a boy likes you if he wants to be around you and finds excuses to talk to you and be with you. He'll want to know more about you and ask you lots of questions. If he's trying to avoid you, I wouldn't place thoughts in his head like you are, that's projecting your feelings onto him!
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