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Can using a vibrator ruin your vagina?

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Question - (23 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2009)
A female Australia age 18-21, anonymous writes:

would using a vibrator ruin my vagina? would it give me BV or would the vibrating make it look different than a regular vigina?

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A female reader, desirewhitefire Austria + , writes (23 March 2009):

desirewhitefire agony auntYou can desensitize your nerve endings from using a vibrator too much, but if you stop using the vibrator for a while, you should be able to get feeling back. WHen my husband and I first bought a vibrator, we used it a lot, and when he would try to give me oral, I wouldn't feel anything. And it can also give you unreal expectations of pleasure when you start to have sex.

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A female reader, carmen rae United States +, writes (23 March 2009):

This is very normal ? For a younger person to ask. this site has a lot of explicit questions for our younger generation. In my opion using a vibrator is better than giving yourself to someone who will probably hurt you. But please be careful you can still get infections from those things. Don't rush you sex life. I'm 41 no kids. Thought of sexual things at your age, experimented a lot when I turned 16 first second base (basically let the boys touch or finger whatever) lost my virginity all the way when I was 18 was kinda forced to then but I thought he loved me. wrong... Anyway when I got married yrs later wanted kids, doc told me after trying for years I couldn't when I asked why he told me. My ovaries and tubes were so scared probly from infections. Not stds. Infection like vaginal that wasn't takin care of. That can cause adhesion in the cervix falliopion tubes and ovaries. Which can turn into cancer stage 2 now . Sorry I go too deep. Just take care of your body now. Don't just give youself to someone who says they love u. Anyone can say that all boys want is to get what ever u give them. Don't be a tease respect youself and the boys will respect you in the long run. Your so young to be so curious about this topic mybe you can talk to a parent or aunt anyway don't. Rush the sex. Hope I didn't get to deep or sound to stupid. Hey what's bv?

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (23 March 2009):

birdynumnums agony auntEvery single woman can give birth vaginally, pass a 5 to 10 pound baby out of her vagina, and then still successfully use tampons to control her monthly flow. If a woman can still use a tampon, her vagina must be relatively normal! I hardly think a vibrator could alter what giving birth could not!

The only thing that it could alter is whether or not your hymen is intact. This is a thin, crescent shaped membrane that most virgins have (although, not necessarily). You could break your own hymen by using a vibrator. If having a hymen or being a virgin is important to your cultural or religious upbringing, you may have a cause to reconsider whether or not you want to use one. This could change how others in your religion (say a future husband) view your virginity status and proving otherwise would be up to you. (Not that I agree with this practice, but it could be a problem.) I hope this answers your question.

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A male reader, Jason means Healer United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2009):

When I was young, this guy with seven children told me that after 7 kids, his member flopped around like a loose cannon ball.

I was horrified.

After having five children of my own I was still very much enjoying the blisses of married life, though admitedely, my wife took steps to get herself back in shape after each birth.

The truth is, that with use, age, weight gain etc. a lady can lose her former nubile form but it depends on various factors.

Whether a vibrator would cause this would depend on it's size and frequency of use but it shouldn't be any worse than the effect from sex unless your real greedy.

But, generally; it shouldn't be a problem.

Nor something you should be ashamed of, it's perfectly natural.

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