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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Single and crazy about a married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright, well here is my problem. About 7 months ago, i met this young man.When he and I met he told me he had been married twice. Appox. two months go by and then one day he calls and tells me that he is actually still married, but they are seperated ( i have been to his home... (347 words)

Will sexual experience help my anxiety with the opposite sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and wondering if having sex will reduce anxiety towards the opposite sex and if yes how effective is it. Thank you.... (27 words)

I like him but I don't like him... should I call it a day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi people, I go out with this boy right know and he likes me and I kind of but don't like him but my friends are making me go out with him. Do you think I should break up with him? I want but I don't want to hurt his feelings because one of my best friends likes him, she says ... (69 words)

I feel I was used as a booty call and now I feel so used...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out the man I really liked and had feelings for was just using me as a booty call. He didn't tell me this, though. He promised me the world. He told me I was his girl. This went on for months. But it turned out he had a girlfriend already! He didn't even have any ... (244 words)

I'm losing all the people I love...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I seriously need to vent here.. I'm losing all the people I love, well, two. My best friend of many years is moving to the other side of the world, Australia, in a couple of months time, I only found this out yesterday, she and her family had been on about it for a year or ... (143 words)

How do I know if I'm REALLY pleasing her in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old male, and I want very much to please my girlfriend with oral sex. However, she is very stoic and reserved in bed, so I can't tell if I am doing a good job or not pleasing her, I've asked her straight up, and she always just says it feels good, but her face is ... (68 words)

How do you know if it's really true love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you know if it's really true love, or just a thought or image, or being desperate? How do you know the difference?... (25 words)

I am really worried he has been to a prostitute!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my boyfriend stayed in Hong Kong for less than 2 days and in that time he took out two lots of £125. He is now is Australia and says he didn't do any shopping while he was there - just went to an Irish bar. I am really worried he has used a prostitute (twice) - it's a l... (122 words)

Did YOU bleed your first time???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I know this probably just sounds like I'm being a nosy bitch, but I've started going out with this guy, only been with him 11 weeks! I'm 17 in 3 weeks and I'm still a virgin, he's 20 and he's also still a virgin, and although I'm not jumping into bed with him, I know 'its' ... (99 words)

Is it normal for long term long distance relationship to go through periods like this, or are we just not suited to each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am hoping to get some advice. I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years now. We have discussed marriage and the future a lot recently, which has got me thinking about whether this is really me for life. I moved cities 3 months after I met my boyfriend, ... (369 words)

Is he just nervous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and he is a virgin and I am not. We have discussed having sex and have even tried a few times with protection but whenever we are about to he stops and doesn't want to try any more... Why is he doing this? I think he's ... (78 words)

I really like him but all he talks about is HER!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy but he already has a girlfriend. I want him so badly! When I talk to him all he really cares about is her! I know that makes him sound like a jerk but he's really nice guy. I want to go out with him but I don't want to break him and his girlfriend up ... (73 words)

Once I graduate I'll never see her any more... what will I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know there are a lot of questions on being in love with teachers, but I wanted to create one of my own and see the kind of answers/help I can get. ok so I think I'm in love with my teacher, or madly like her? It's crazy, I never had a thing for teachers and look I never... (250 words)

So what else can I do in place of giving him oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I posted a question yesterday evening, but only recieved one response. And, well to be quite honest it didn't really answer my problem. So I'm reposting in hopes that someone can help out. Here is the question in it's original form. "My boyfriend says that he doesn't ... (260 words)

She knows I love her, why does she keep going on about her ex to me all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - About 2 weeks ago this girl told me she loved me and it felt genuine. We have been talking for a while and been talkig on the phone every night and hanging out and we still talk on the phone every night, but she went out with her ex, and she's still not over him. I can ... (264 words)

Popped cherry questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 15,I recently did it with my boyfriend and it was my first time and it was his2nd time.I really like him a lot and I wanted to loose my virginity to him cus I really like him and he really likes me 2,I think I won't regret it because I am really in love with him.when he ... (159 words)

Going out with someone else but still have feelings for my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 and im going out with a 17 year old (ik its a bit of an age difference but idc bout that) named Beth and shes great. she smart, athletic, pretty and a bunch more things. i love her and all but we started going out um about 5 or 6 days after my ex (Sedona) and i broke ... (263 words)

I don't trust him and everytime he goes out I wonder where he is, and who he's with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a 3 year relationship, have one child and am 8 months pregnant for my second. My partner and i used to have a real good relationship but since october its been different. in october i found some txts on his phone and found out tht he had met some one behind my back. i ... (126 words)

Ending a friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - SO me and this girl [well call her maria] became friends in 6th grade and we got close right away because he had a lot of stuff in common. then by 8th grade [last year] she started being really clingy and controlling to me and whenever i didnt want to do something that she ... (307 words)

Should I email the ex back and be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello! my ex emailed me today. it took me completely by surprise! it is friendly. he told me he is so busy at the moment so he would like to just remain friends and then he gave me an update on his life. he broke up with me about 2 months ago but we finally got closure 3wee... (196 words)

I like him but he moved away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys!! Okay here it goes I'm like in love with this guy who is totaly awsome!!! His name is skiler! And he is like my best friend but he moved away!! And I can't get him off of my mind! It's eating me away in side and here's my other problem he told me he liked me the way I ... (107 words)

I hate having stretch marks!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i hate having stretch marks... i'm a little overweight and have always had these stretch marks, i've lost quite a lot of weight now but i've still got them, they are all over my tummy, hips and my arms... does anyone have any suggestions about how to get rid of them or anything ... (72 words)

What should I do about my friends pressuring and harrassing me about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really need help. My last attempt at getting my first girlfriend failed in a really odd and stressful way that has yet to end fully and conclusively because she keeps telling a few of my friends random messages to me saying that she still likes me even tho she wont talk to... (437 words)

Why did I only get suspended if she started it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone!!! I have a problem you see my best friend in the whole world and I got in a fight last month and it got very physical. And she slapped me first cause she said that people said that I was talking bout her behind her back but I wasn't!! And it was a huge fight the ... (113 words)

Does he or does he not like me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and the guy is 20, so I'm getting pretty annoyed by his 'high school-like' behavior. Anyways, I'm really into him and the problem is that I have no idea if he likes me back or not. We can be all flirty one day: touching each other's arms, hugging, him sayi... (228 words)

My partner has been viewing porn sites and I'm not happy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have found out that my partner has been viewing porn sites and Im not happy. Should I confront him...again. I have told him i dont like him doing this and he promised not to do it again. Some of these sites have teenagers in them and we have teenage daughters so it makes me... (78 words)

I have never felt very confident in my body

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently starting seeing this bloke and he is always very touchy feely and wanting more than just a kiss. My problem is that I have never felt very confident in my body and I don't mind touching with clothes on but I hate it when he touches my actual body. I don't want... (121 words)

26 and I haven't been with anyone :-(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help/advice. I am 26 years of age and have never had a boyfriend or intimate with a guy if you catch my drift. I have kissed one guy recently and I kinda liked it but I ended up pulling away because he made me feel how excited he was, which kinda freaked me out. ... (195 words)

Does my teacher like me or is it me??? :D

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in high school and i think my algebra teacher likes me. he is not married and he told the class that he does not have a girl friend. he always stares at me and flirts with me. i think he is like 46 and i am 17. one time i was sitting next 2 my friend mike and i was tryi... (280 words)

How do I know that he loves gay sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hiya,, I've got a problem mates.Any help plz. I love such a handsome guy older than me 4 years. I love love love him so much. I'm in doubt that he loves me. He is chatting only with me in class.having coffee time 2gather.He sometimes put his hand on my hand and starts mass... (89 words)

Complete Ridiculousness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is completely and utterly ridiculous- trust me I know that. But after about 18 months of the single life I've completely surprised myself and developed feelings for someone. Only problem being he's not remotely interested! I met him last week and we had a kiss. We swapp... (276 words)

I can't bear all this waiting around!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm feeling very sad and low at the moment and can't shake out of it. This man I have been seeing (who has always been quite unreliable) hasn't contacted me for a week. He does go through phases where he contacts me a lot and then disappears but it is the not knowing that hur... (141 words)

I don't want to give up on him but he is pushing me away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with this guy for 5 months now: 2 months ago he's lost his job. I've been trying to keep him happy doing all he has ask(like sex, money, cooking 4 him, washing his clothes, etc.). We don't live together but he stays 2 blocks from my house. I help him pay his rent this ... (474 words)

Should I continue to "take" from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Oh this is so strange, the guy that I have been dating, now every couple of weeks for 2 years is in the hospital with a clogged stent in his plumbing?.. I mean those were the words he used and honestly I am not in love with him and well I don't know why I continue to date him ... (331 words)

Give up... or keep going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started seeing this guy about 6 months ago who now my boyfriend of 5 months. I have had seriously 2 and 3 year relationships but I have never felt this way about anyone before. I truly believe that even after going out with him for only 5 months, he is the love of my life. ... (362 words)

Boyfriend doesn't like to be touched and doesn't talk to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - are there guys out there that don't like to be touched snuggling? and what do you do when you have a boyfriend that is quiet and don't like to be touched and really does not talk to you... (38 words)

Should I move on? She lied numerous times ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am so confused. My ex and I dated for a year, but have known each other for 4 and dated a time or two in that period. An ex boyfriend came back into the picture a few weeks ago. I found her lying to me about where she was, and she was actually with him. I don't know if she e... (286 words)

What do I do? Should I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriends co-worker told me that he is planning on braking up with me in july and moving in august and that he stopped caring about me 4 months ago, he told me no to everything and that him and his co-worker had words almost fighting. my boyfriend is quiet but he's not chea... (64 words)

Is there anything I can do? I really like him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do about a man who is absolutely perfect in every way; kind, attentive, romantic, intelligent, everything really, but who says he doesn't do relationships because he is selfish and loves himself too much? I get the impression he's had bad experiences possibly with... (75 words)

How to maintain at least the possibility?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have known this girl a few months, and after long and careful thinking I have decided that I do not know is SHE specifically is the one I want, but she definitely matches the type of person I want to be with. We have been out three times as friends (we are in university to... (351 words)

I'm not a guy, so I just don't get this killer exercise to get in shape I guess.:)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a queestion for everyone out there! Ok, so my boyfriend started this new exercise program. It's for 90 days, but a killer!! You have to do certain exercises every day. He has only done this (3) days and the soreness just gets worse every day. These exercises are ... (245 words)

Am I 'obsessing' a little too much about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys its another love related issue, well hardly an issue but i'd appreciate some advice. Okay here goes, i think i'm falling in love with one of my friends, i've known him since i was born but we lost contact for a couple of years. we recently met up after talking ever... (181 words)

I don't know what to do or say to tell him I love him too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya! My best friend, my really, really good friend just told me a couple of months ago that he's in love with me. But it's like nothing I've ever seen before, the way he acts around me. He always has his arms around me, always wants to keep me close to him, and he almost re... (107 words)

Can casual sex between friends work or is our friendship heading for disaster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My best friend and I hang out together alot. She's always over at my house at the weekends, she stays over on Friday and Saturday nights. Last Saturday, she was over as usual. We were watching a film on the settee. At the end of the film, we were talking when the conv... (249 words)

I know he loves me the way I am, but I really want to lose some weight

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Thank you in advance for anyone taking the time to read this! I suppose this is a more health-related question, but I could really do with some advice. I'm going away with my boyfriend at the beginning of July to Spain. I know he loves me the way I am, but I really want to lose... (152 words)

I wonder if we are just married as a habit now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age - I am 46 and have been married to my husband for 22 years. We met when we were both 17 and we are the only partners each of us have had. Our relationship has changed over the years but and is now at the stage that I still love my husband but I am not in love with him. I car... (208 words)

Proper grammar please!!!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - this is not to do with relationships or anything like that but i just had to point it out: why doesn't anybody use grammar properly on this website or anywhere else! nobody seems to know the difference between to and too or between there, they're and their! it really annoys me, ... (65 words)

Why has she left it this long to tell me that? Could she be lying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm having the time of my life romancing an older woman. I'm 26 and she's 46. You have to see her to believe her. She's gorgeous and got a great personality. We met at a party, she's a friend's friend's friend's friend's Mum or something like that. She kept commenting on my bu... (371 words)

I want to heal and to trust him. Am I mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi im 41 and the guy i have been seeing is 52. We have been together on and off for just under a year. In feb of this year, after staying at his house I found very explicit photographs of him and another woman taken over the past few months. I was devastated, when i ques... (344 words)

I truly love him so why am I having these doubts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here goes. I am in a little situation here I have been dating my bf for 2 yrs now and seriously he is not motivated or anything.He is faithful and is a nice guy but I dont think i want to marry him anymore. Ever heard of the saying small things counts well he lies for simp... (428 words)

Have I been stupid in trying to help her conceive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a crazy situation. One of my friends, a girl my age, has asked me to do something for her. Let me say that I have always been attracted to her, she is quite the beautiful lady, but it could never go further than friendship. She's one of these people who are very set in t... (515 words)

"I am a good man without money" What does it mean???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been dating this man for 8 months now , He first told me when we met that he dated other women and even got engaged but broke up because of money issues he said he just leaves when any women makes any money demands he said he always tells them i dont have m... (204 words)

He is really pushing for us to be together 24/7 !!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice on how to approach my boyfriend so as not to hurt him. We met about 8 months ago; I am having a few doubts about us. I own my own place and he has gradually spent more and more time with me until it has now got to the point that he is unofficially living with... (342 words)

Yeast infection ruining sex for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem. i have this yeast infection that wont go away and it driving me crazy. i have been to the doctor several times about it but none of the medications worked! this is crushing my sex life. i told my boyfriend about this. we still have sex but we use a condom.... (86 words)

Is he using me for a fun time at the weekend only?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year - we both work hard and only see each other of a weekend (but all weekend). It took him a long time to say 'I love you' (said it for the first time last month, and even now I can see that when he says it is never... (241 words)

Lost interest in marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - am a lady and married for seven years. my husband has had a tendency of not communicating in marriage when something annoys him. he just changes his mood and do not talk that much. at first i would try to start a conversation, but it was only being cut short, showing no inte... (322 words)

The woman I get along great with has commitment issues.... Thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I 'reconnected' with a girl I knew a while back through friends of mine at a wedding last month. Had a great time with her at the wedding, asked my friend for her number, and for the last month we've been hanging out alot and just this weekend we became intimate (no sex). ... (483 words)

Secret rendezvous with my ex's mum, is that OK?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - It was my birthday yesterday and my ex-girlfriend's Mum called me to wish me happy birthday. We have always got on so it's not unusual for her to call me. During the call, she said that she was preparing a surprise for me and would send it to my phone. I thought it was going to ... (225 words)

Am I JEALOUS of the dog?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I hope there are some pet lovers out there that can help me with this. As a disclaimer, I LOVE animals, I've just never liked them indoors. All right, on with the show: My fiancée is pure magic. She's everything I've ever wanted, and the feeling is reciprocated without ... (507 words)

I have never been unfaithful but he is constantly assuming I am!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll just lay it all out on the table. He and I have been together for over one year. I have never been unfaithful to ANYone in my past, I know the pain of infidelity and I would never do that to someone else. For eight months now, I have had to put up a battle and defen... (334 words)

Convict? or cop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 38 yo single woman with high IQ and very practical. Here is my issue. I broke up with Ryan a few months ago because he was living with another woman and didn't seem ready to make that step. He is the perfect image of responsiblity, lawful, doesn't drink, always the ... (206 words)

Too shy to express himself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well here goes, I've know this lad for 3 years lets call him Mike. When i first started hanging round with him we didnt really know each other becuase i was mates with his mate who he'd known for like 10 years lets call him Fred. Well Fred went travelling for 10 weeks last su... (315 words)

He keeps coming back. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Although i haven't seen the man i used to date last year, for nearly 2 months, i can't stop thinking of him. He is always in my mind and i wonder what he is doing. I have decided not to call him any more but he calls me some times, not often. Sometimes he says to me to go out ... (196 words)

My boyfriend doesn't approve of me hanging out with one of my guy friends. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, lately I've really been missing all my friends and this weekend there is a huge party happening which is really exciting because i'll get to see all of my friends there. the problem is i know that this boy (let's call him Shaun) is going who my boyfriend has a huge problem ... (199 words)

I keep dreaming of my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I always see my ex in my dreams and I do not know why. Apparently he was holding me tight close to him and then we started kissing. I really want to stop dreaming about him since it is always delaying me from moving on completely with my life.. do you think it is advisable ... (177 words)

Serious wife issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife had a male best friend prior to our marriage. While dating, she had me meet her at her work in order to actually meet him. As an introduction, she stated, "I'd like you to meet AA, he's my life." This upset me some, as we were planning on marriage, and I took myself to ... (425 words)

Will he come back for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Backgrounder: My ex boyfriend and I had been together since my birthday three years ago. We met at my b-day party, and hit it off really quickly. Before that point, we did not know each other. My ex moved in about a week later after that party, and we lived together ... (1014 words)

We get along perfectly but I don't know if he's the one

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if my bf and I are working anymore. Our long-distance relationship has drug on for a year and a half now and we've broken up more times than I can count. He loves me so much and he treats me so well. He always says he doesn't think he can go on without me and he ... (384 words)

I want to have plastic surgery on my breasts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a very random question.... Lately i have been thinking how uncomfortable with my boobs..i want to go and have plastic surgery (stupid idea..i know) on the nipple area..so tonight i took some pictures of them to see if they are normal looking from another vie... (123 words)

Is it okay if I will meet him personally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone!!! Im here to give me advices...Im already 18 yr old and Im inlove with a 49 yr old guy he is a japanese guy...we never meet this guy..I've only known this guy thru here in net..I never had a boyfriend since birth its my first time to inlove with a guy...were now in ... (815 words)

Are these symptoms of OCD?

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im constantly biting my nails and the skin surrounding it.. also im constantly checking my face for any bumbs, pimples, blackheads.. and i do my boyfriends face too! Are this signs of OCD?... (33 words)

In love with older woman but we kinda screwed things up

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this woman who about 11 years older than me for about 15 months now. She been divorced for a year now. When started are relationship everything was great. On weekends when she didn't have her kids she would stay about the whole weekend with me and even spend ... (488 words)

Fingering & virginity!

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - After my boyfriend finger me, i had been pleasuring me with my fingers and i had introduced them to my vagina, i had never had sex before so i am wondering if i am still a virgen or if when i decide to have sex my bf would be able to notice it?... (53 words)

I'm a 41 year old virgin

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - OK here we go... I have NEVER talked about this with ANYONE. I have to get some feedback on this one. I am a 41yo male. I had many girlfriends when I was a teenager but never had sex with any of them due to religious reasons. (I tried to have sex with one gf but she said no ... (351 words)

She does not want anal sex but I like it a lot

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I live in the USA with my fiancée. We got engaged last year but the problem is that she does not want to engage in anal sex but I like it a lot. How can I convince her?... (38 words)

He gets a lot of pleasure but I get nothing

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, and I have a question about sex. My boyfriend and I haven't had sex, but we do other things and while he gets a lot of pleasure out of everything I get nothing. He tries and it upsets him that he can't please me. I suppose I'm being selfish, but I get angry that he can ... (97 words)

I want to tell him my feelings, but don't know how

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I met this boy, Brad, a couple of years ago and over the past several months we've become really great friends. We talk on instant messenger for at least 2 hours a day, some times as much as 7 hours. A good amount of the time our conversations revolve around music, vi... (595 words)

Never had sex and my period is late

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old. I have never had sex before. My period is late. What do you think?... (19 words)

I don't want to move with him

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for about three months now. I love him very much and things are going well. The only big problem is that he swears I'm going to move out of state with him when I get done with school. I have a daughter so that would mean moving her away also. I ... (104 words)

Being hit on is flattering and disgusting at the same time

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 21 and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm not socially awkward, I actually have a lot of friends. I just keep my male friends at a safe distance. The way I was raised, combined with some bad experiences in the past, taught me that men are sexual beings. Although I'm ... (211 words)

Possibility she's pregnant even though the condom did not break?

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend where having sex for the first time today. I wore a condom and shes not on the pill. After we done it I pulled out and I cant remember how but I found cum on my hand (not sure if it was mine or hers). Anyway I checked the condom for breakage. Nothing ... (152 words)

Should I continue with him?

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex, which i think we're back together already, is using me for intimacy, and even though this really good guy is dieing for me, i don't want him, i want my ex. i keep on going back to him cuz i feel that with out him i will die. he is older and i love him, but we r really i... (155 words)

Am I gay because I watch lesbian porn?

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So I posted a question before, but I am still feeling very uncomfortable and frustrated with myself. Here's the whole story. I am 18 years old and go to an all women's college. I chose to come here because I knew I would never have to worry about what I look like, excellen... (408 words)

I want to be able to pleasure him as much as he does for me

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend says that he doesn't like oral sex because it hurts. Mostly just the head of the penis. I thought at first that he was telling me it hurts specifically when I do it but apparently hes always been this way and its not me. I'm wondering two things here. One is why w... (157 words)

Does masturbation makes a penis smaller?

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello good people! does masturbation makes a penis smaller? and does weight play a role in as far as the penis size is concerned?... (24 words)

What kind of girl blows your mind?

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys what's up ii just have a quick for all of the guys!! What are you looking for in a girl? What kind of girl blows your mind?... (29 words)

I took back my husband after he cheated on me twice

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, It's me. You know, my husband cheated a 2nd time. Well I went with my heart and took him back. I know that it's crazy but that's where my heart is and I know that I have to live with that decision. We have agreed to go to see a counselor and also we have agreed to have the ... (133 words)

Why do women in abusive relationship return to the guy?

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do women in abusive relationship return to the guy? i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, which im 15 and hes 18, and even though i break up with him when he leaves brozes on me, i ALWAYS go back. my mom was in a domestic violence relationship with my father and it w... (69 words)

She wants me to be happy, but I don't want to be with anyone else

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This can definitely fall under the age difference section. I am currently dating a lady twice my age and at 24 that would make her 48. She is absolutely gorgeous, but I understand that will slowly decline in the not so distant future. Thats not a problem. I am not a superfic... (242 words)

I was told that I have camel toe!

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One day I was at shool I notice people looking between my legs and I ask my friend what was going on with people looking between my legs and she said I have a camel toe I bein tring to hide it but I dont know how to please help.... (50 words)

1 of 2 guys could be the daddy

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im 15 years old im goin to be 16 in november. My boyfriend is 24 whom will be 25 in october. Come to find out im pregnant. The thing is, is that im not so sure who the father is...It can be one out of two people.... my boyfriend that i have been with for a year and 2 months ... (119 words)

Done the right thing or am I pushing him right to her?

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just been married for ten years. We have been having some problems. Nothing I did not think we could not work through. I just found out he has been talking to an old girlfriend from 20 years ago. He hid it from me. Of course I live in a somewhat small town and found out ... (169 words)

He loves and cares about me but just wants to be friends

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently entered into a relationship 3 months ago with a really great guy, and he told me that he felt a lot towards me, the time we spent together was just heaven and I was convinced that he was in love with me so I allowed my guard down. He broke up with me on sunday 2... (139 words)

What would a guy do that would make a girl think he's sweet?

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi well I'm just curious but girls what does and guy have to do for you to consider him sweet or nice or whatever is the best adjective out there. thanks bye.... (32 words)

Can I make it not so sensitive?

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 22 years old and the tip of my penis is really sensitive. and around the bottom of the tip. like the bottom ring part of a mushroom. :). but i was just wanting to know if there is anyway to make it not so sensitive. ... (48 words)

He's using our friends to shoot arrows into my heart

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26 March 2009 (F)

- Hoping people can help out here and would appeciate it if they did. I broke up with my ex about six months ago. He kind of hurt me and so I have gone the no contact route and have avoided going places where I think I might run into him. Likewise he has been avoiding me but he ... (156 words)

Meeting my boyfriends father

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone, I'm 18, and I'm meeting my boyfriends Dad for the first time in a few days. (my boyfriend is my age too) I'm actually staying with them for 2 weeks, so I just wondered whether anyone could give me some advice on how to act, whether I should buy a "Thank yo... (80 words)

He proposed too soon!

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a bit long and I apologize, but I do need some help. My boyfriend and I have been together since I was a junior and he was a senior in high school. I'm now a junior in college and he's a senior in college (we go to the same university); so we have been together fo... (789 words)

I love him but he's fat!

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi :) well i have a bf and i really love him but he is fat nd i am too but not big he little bigger than me nd like i dnt date fat boyz nd sometimes i think to myself should i even be with him but i love him! or do i just love him beacuse he said he loves me ? cause we went to ... (93 words)

I like my long distance friend but I still have feelings for my ex!

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok my current boyfriend is my long distance relationship, and my ex lives right down the street. I like both of them a lot and my ex was my first love. We still have a lot of feelings for each other after so long and it's hard because I miss him a lot. And my current boyfriend ... (91 words)

Any advice on how to get over him once and for all?

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've dated a guy on and off since the beginning of the school year and I really love him. He's the guy that I lost my virginity to, that's how involved I was with him. We usually break up and get back together a few weeks later, but we broke up about a month and a half ago and ... (239 words)

So what possible things could I be doing wrong? I just don't understand why I always have to be number two.

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26 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I always seem to like a guy and he'll like me... at first... till he meets someone else and then they always say they'd like me if something happened between them and the other girl. It kind of hurts always being the second choice ya know? I don't really understand what's w... (134 words)

I don't understand his reasoning on a 3-some???

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Not sure why I can't get this off my mind or why it bothers me! My husband and I have been together for 3 years; married for 1 year. A few months ago the topic of threesomes came up. At which time he said he had one with both of his ex's (g/f and wife). Both were serious ... (283 words)

She deleted messages to other guys "by mistake!!!" Hmmmmmm...

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am getting married in a few months, I have been with her for over 4 years and love her with all of my heart but the other day I was on her computer and found some messages that she had sent to other guys and I decided to read what they had talked about. I found things that ... (188 words)

Opinions please... Should I go for it and ask her out when I see her tomorrow?

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I met this girl today in an outdoor extra credit thing for my environmental studies class. We were talking for a little while and worked together on a few things we had to do, and I felt she was showing a bit of interest but can't be positive... When it came time to leave, ... (135 words)

Should I ask him out? What should I do?

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26 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm sixteen years old and I've never met this guy but we talk constantly and he calls me lovely, and love and amazing and he says I make him laugh. He asks me randomly about guys I talk to - to see if I like them. He says that he likes... might even love me. And I really ... (69 words)

Having kittens here!

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26 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My cat has just had a kitten about 4 hours ago. Now I'm new at this and dont quite know what's all going on. Will she have more kittens? or since she had one 4 hours ago that will be it? ... (44 words)

I want the old Hali back!

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26 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and my friend Hali and I decided not to be friends any more cause well it's a really long story so let's just say she liked me more than a friend and I didn't like her that way (cause I had a gf at the time) and I mean she's really pretty and smart and nice but I ... (248 words)