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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend was beaten and raped 8 months ago. Now can can't bear me to come near her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my curent girlfriend for just over 2 years. 8 months ago she was beaten and raped. I have stood by her and tried to help any way I could. I love this girl and can honestly see her as the one. But after 8 months she still isn't comfortable with a physical ... (99 words)

Why did she jump and tell me to stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Well I'm not that experienced in this so I came to this site to see if I could get some help. I have just started going down on my girlfriend and as I was doing it at one point she kind of got jumpy and told me to stop. She described it as a weird feeling but she ... (90 words)

Tips on how to end my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. It's the usual story, relationship started off wonderful and then gradually it's began to become unbearable. I have had a long think about what to do and have decided it's time to end it. My problem is that he loves me to bits ... (161 words)

Unusual bleeding...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Wow, I'm pretty glad I found this site. This is really embarrassing, sorry but I'm not sure what to do. I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for about a month now; we always use condoms and I am also on the pill. But for the past few days my bum, well anus really, has ... (184 words)

He sneaks downstairs to watch porn when he thinks I'm asleep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having several problems with my fiance. Distance lying and now porn. When we first got together we would watch it every now and then as a couple and we have done that for almost 4 years. Well in the last 2 weeks since I have discovered all the other problems instead of ... (83 words)

My friend lied about her age!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend is 14 she acts grown up. She told an 18 year old she was 17. Now the guy is calling her. She is afraid to tell him her real age. She said her mom knows but... What can I do to help her? Why does she act grown up?... (55 words)

I was raped by my brothers best friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help I'm 12 i was raped by my brothers best friend now I'm pregnant please any advice ... (19 words)

Do you think that taking a step back is a good thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just want to start out by letting you know my background. I am an American Army contractor working and living away from home here in Kuwait. I did 6 years in the U.S. Navy. I was in a technical job in the Navy and thats how I got the Job with my current company and now ... (912 words)

Could someone help me interpret a recurring dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really curious about a recurring dream that I have and I was wondering if there is anyone on this site who knows how to analyze dreams? It involves me and a friend from college (whom I'll call Fulano) This is a strange dream, I know. I keep dreaming that I'm a beauti... (578 words)

My vagina is really red and itchy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 13. I had sex with my boyfriend of 5 months for the first time last week. He's 14. This is a little embarasing but, my vagina is really red and itchy. I've been having headaches and stomach aches, frequently. I get a bit of a burning sensation when I pee. Itchy spots are ... (66 words)

A friend confessed that he has feelings for me, and I'm not sure what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend told me that he liked me more than just a friend and I didn't quite know what to say. I do like him back but i dont know if i want to take it anywhere becasue im scared. Ive never kissed a guy and hes going to want to do that but i know that when he makes the move im ... (85 words)

Am I being silly to want my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've recently met up with one of my best friends after not seeing him for 5 years, i had such an amazing time with him and it felt really natural to spend time with him and his family. he lived on the otherside of the country and has gone back now, but i'd love something t... (129 words)

I worry loads

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together a while now, and he has always understood that i am a worrier so when it came close to use having sex i said i wasn't sure if i wanted to, the main reason for this is, is that i know after sex some may bleed and some may be in pain (un... (95 words)

Ranting about my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just stressed out. Need no advice just a matter of waiting. I am one of they unemployed Rhode Islanders awaiting my unemployment benefits. Going back to school in the meantime..to finish. I am at my width end. I feel like since I got divorced.I have had nothing but bad luck... (1071 words)

All my friends have boyfriends and there is no one for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my ex around 3 months ago, he hurt me severely and left me messed up emotionally for a long time. Then i found someone ( his friend) who i genuinely had strong feelings for. We had a thing,he acted as though he really liked me, then one day he just clicked and ... (181 words)

My partner wants us to have sex with other people.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner wants us to have sex with other people. I like the idea for myself, but my skin crawls at the thought of him doing it. It scares me he won't come back and I would not be able to contain my jealosy. I know this is selfish, but has anyone over-come this?... (56 words)

How can get over my ex girfriend after she dumped me for some other boy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 16 my gf is 14 and it al kicked of on wednesday afternoon me and my gf were sat in my room kissin and stuff and she got my name wrong i was hurt and upset and after a while of her talkin she told me she liked this outher boy who she had been workin with in her lessons and ... (216 words)

I havent had my period for about 6 weeks

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I havent had my period for about 6 weeks and im a virgin and never been with a boy more than a pull whats wrong with me ? (im only 15) and had my periods for about 18months... (40 words)

How do I deal with a girl who was hurt by several ex boyfriends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i deal with a girl who was hurt by several ex boyfriends. I really like her but part of the reason she just wants to be friends even tho she likes me more, is because she is afraid ill do the same thing in time. How can i prove to her that i wont just get up and leave, ... (138 words)

I really like him and think about him everyday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i really like this boy but he is older then me some people may say to old and others say its fine. he has a girl friend and i am friends with her but have known him longer even though she is my friend i get on better with him an i really like him i think that im fall... (297 words)

I look at and scrutinize everything she has done from then to now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a live in girlfriend that I have been with for over a year now and I love her with all that I have. My problem is that 2 months into our relationship we were out having drinks and she drank too much and does not remember the events of that night but I do. We seen ... (216 words)

Do women have a preference on a man being uncircumcised or circumcised?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a 22 year old male and circumcised and i am just wanting to know if women have a preference on a man being uncircumcised or circumcised? do women really care about this?... (34 words)

In 6 months I have only been with him alone once

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for six months and we are seemingly the 'perfect couple'. We both come from good backgrounds(private schools etc) and our parents have doing alot to keep us from being alone. In 6 months i have only been with him alone once.I have tried talking ... (89 words)

I need to heal now but I don't know how

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this man for over a year during which we broke up many times because he never made me feel special,etc but i kept taking him back because it felt good to be wanted. I must add that during that whole time i thought he was single, we talked lots and i asked him many... (175 words)

Why does he get mad at me for saying think other guys are cute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I asked my boyfriend if he thinks any girls are hot or cute and he said one is cute. He asked the same to Me for guys and I said yes but he get's all mad about the fact that I think someone else is attractive, also. As opposed to when I just say ok knowing that he won't ... (88 words)

How do you become a 'posh totty"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive al ways wanted to have a love life like a posh totty... weird i know. Does anyone have any idea how to become one?... (29 words)

I told her that he was cheating on her with me! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Did i do the right thing in telling her? I found out my 'boyfriend' has been seeing someone else. I obviously never want to see him again! He kept me a secret from everyone important in his life and he didn't with this other girl. So i guess I was the 'one on the side'. W... (179 words)

He wants time and space but I'm scared he'll forget about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Before anything, i would like to clarify that i am 20 y/o. I broke up with my bf 1 month ago and it was tough at first- fighting, crying and swearing (typical breakup). He says he still has feelings for me and we broke up just because of some (manageable) differences. So ... (172 words)

He says he doesn't love me! What is going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been married for 1 and a half years. We're both young, very young. In the beginning he always pursued me and I was very cold. After we got married, though, things changed. He was still more loving and warm than me, just not as much as previously. Little by little... (185 words)

Why does my husband think I'm wonder woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and I have 2 boys and we are expecting our 3rd child in a couple of months. We are definitely busy between work, kids, and keeping up with our daily chores around the house. My husband travels for work which started when I was pregnant with our 2nd child. I was v... (735 words)

I can't decide.. I really need opinions! please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right I have a boyfriend who really likes me, and i don;t really know why i said yes to seeing him, i don't think I've ever had strong feelings for him, but we've been with each other for 3 months, we don't live near each other and maybe see each other on weekends. but rece... (168 words)

Is my manager interested in me?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently started a new job and I had my first one-on-one with my manager this week. We go over my numbers, performance, etc. During the one-on-one he was really nervous. His leg was shaking, he kept calling himself an idiot, and he wouldn't really make eye contact with me. At... (189 words)

I still cant forgot him

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met someone while i was with someone.he use to phone me telling me how much he wanted to be with me. i gave up in the end it was the way he talks,hes charm, he casted a spell on me. i was trying so hard to prevent it from happening i even blocked him from msn several time... (171 words)

To all the parents - how would you react if your daughter was dating a much older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this one guy and I honestly think he likes me back but we're both very shy so nobody has made a move. The problem is the age difference is quite high (34 years - yes, I know, but we get along so well). The age difference honestly doesn't bother me; it might for ... (210 words)

BF never wants to go to the bars with me, but goes with his girl friends...Isn't this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend said we needed to spend "less time together" because we were hanging out 24/7 and arguing alot more than usual. We've been together for about 2 1/2 years. I didn't like that but agreed. I have trust issues and he knows that. Well see the thing is that when we use... (288 words)

Is it possible I am pregnant? HELP

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im on the contriceptive pill and im 16 but on friday two days ago i had unprotected sex, and i have not been taking my pill since wednesday because im due to come on my period and suppose to be taking it again on thursday, but i still haven't come on my period. is it poss... (60 words)

I just wanted to know whether gals look for a manly guy for marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. i'm 22 yrs old. with just 52 kilograms weight which means i look lean. i just wanted to know whether gals look for a manly guy for marriage point of view? in other ways, i'm a fun loving, jovial character... (43 words)

How long do I wait to hear from him???

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i broke up a few weeks ago and continued seeing ecah other. Last week we started arguing i was getting really angry with him and started sending him nasty texts he responded to them all. i truely believe he he still likes me as his actions have shown this. as ... (193 words)

Hair disaster!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Age incorrect... ok well when i was in like in sixth grade my hair was a bit more straight but now im in 8th and my hair is poofy and wavy and gross! i usually scrunch or straighten my hair but i reallllyyy want straight silky hair. im sick of waking up early ev... (172 words)

Is it best to be single? Am I missing out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I came across a thought..do you think its best to be single? most ppl i talk to say relationships are really stressful and hard work anyways..even my mum! am I missing out on much?are couples really so happy as I think? i get lonely as i can not find the right guy at al... (98 words)

Would you want to know if I masturbate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy i really like that constantly asks me if i masturbate in a jokey but serious way...well i do a lot for a girl of my age (i think) but i awlays say i don't. I just wanted a males opinion or anyones opinion actually, to know if i should tell him that i ... (91 words)

What's going on with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this guy for a while now, we have gone away to the most beautiful places and met up every week and each time just experienced the most amazing sexual experience each time, every time. One day he said he didn't want to have a weekly girlfriend, I was confused but I ... (177 words)

Was I wrong to leave this lazy, twisted, emotionally abusive husband of mine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a very complicated situation. My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We married last year in April. We have a six month old boy. My husband does not have a job. We live in his parent's house. I had to apply for state assistance to pay for our son's routine ... (974 words)

I've fallen for his best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

Your sexual experience for the first time

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - its a bit nosy but i was just wondering about peoples experiences of having sex for the first time, whats it like? did things get awkward afterwards? pain? how romantic was it? advice?... (33 words)

I've been confused with his behavior

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I forget about a man who has cheated on me twice been physically abusive.. I've been with him for 4yrs and I know he love's me we've had a rocky relationship cuz I've been confused with his behavior. I'm a single 33yr old mother with 2 boys ages 14 and 8..he has neve... (242 words)

How to choose friends over family and vice versa?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I wanna keep this simple but i need help picking family or friends. I don't really want to tell anyone y im askin this but can u please help, I really do love my family they are so great and i am amazingly close to them but my friends are the best and i know i'll never find any ... (61 words)

I'm worried that I had sex too early

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my bf for the first time last week and I'm worried that it happened too early. It was my first time but not his. It was left totally up to me by him, I was not at all pressured into it and I really wanted it to be him, but I get the impression from everyone else... (300 words)

Period after morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week my bf and I had unprotected sex (it was the first time), he pulled out before he came, but I was still worried that there could be a chance that I could be pregnant. I had only just come off my period 2 days before then. I went to a clinic and was given the morn... (130 words)

We have even been thru counseling and he lied to the Dr. What else can I try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i need help i have been with my husband for 10 yeasr and married for 6 we have 4 boys together and it just seems like we are not ment to be in a relationship it seems as if te only thing we have in commom are our children and sex at times other than that the things he likes to... (279 words)

Clitoris masturbation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so two questions 1)Can anyone give me an idea of how to find my clitoris and how to stimulate it. 2)how do I make masturbation enjoyable... (33 words)

I thought these people were my friends but why would they do that ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I got married over christmas. A few weeks ago I went out of state to celebrate my best friends birthday I messed around with another girl. I told my fiend and she was vey upset but choose to forgive me. Friday night my wife and I went out with a huge group of fr... (135 words)

Pencil dick worries

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 March 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I need some advice. I am a 23 year-old male, who has never been sexually active due to insecurities. I felt up until recently ready to become sexually active. (Not casual, hook-up sex but sex within a trusted, committed relationship of sorts.) However, I have found out that ... (258 words)

Is there anything I can do to stop getting so worked up about these things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'll get straight to the point, my problem is jealousy. I've always been jealous of peoples relationships, I hate people I love getting close to others. At the moment I really like my female friend, and I know she likes me because she's told me. The problem is, we're ne... (146 words)

Should I mention to him how much I like him, or wait for him to make any advances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

I just want my husband to show he loves me more

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! My husband and I have been married for almost 3 yrs. I have one child from a previous marriage that ended due to emotional and some physical abuse. I left when my son was 8months old knowing I couldn't live my whole life unhappy and needed to put my son 1st. I reco... (479 words)

Is it my imagination that she might be turned on by this older man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is this my imagination or is it real, that’s my dilemma? I have been married for six years and we have 2 children and both me and my wife are successful in our work, I have my own IT business and she is physiologist. We are both 29 and she is very beautiful and also very ... (773 words)

He says he was never on this dating website, but I have proof

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im kinda in this situation where my fiance of 4 years and th father of my babies has been acting really strange.i went on vaction for week to ohio to see my family which is 1300 miles away from where im living right now. my fiances mom and sister went with me. while i was there ... (258 words)

I feel like I'm the ultimate "generic" girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling sad because I'm starting to wonder if the reason I've had nothing but back luck (with guys) in my 29 years is because there is something wrong with me. Other girls have boyfriends who love them, and I wish and wish I could know what it's like to be really specia... (1211 words)

Stay in the relationship and try to love him again? Or get out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years now and we've had some bad moments mostly because of his jealousy but we managed to overcome them. I was usually the one who made more compromise and i sometimes got frustrated because of this but I loved him and didn't want to ... (333 words)

I don't like to wear underwear often

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I don't like to wear underwear often. Will that be a problem? Can any one help on advising me on this?... (21 words)

We want slightly different things from life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice on my current situation. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. However, we've recently realised that we want slightly different things from life. Neither of us wants kids or marriage but he is a creative type an... (123 words)

Bleeding alot, different than usual..anyone know what it could be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Firstly, can I ask that nobody judges me or comments on what I am about to say. I'm asking for advice on my problem, not my method of contraception. I've been having regular unprotected sex with my boyfriend for about 2 months. About 3 weeks ago I had terrible stomach cramps, ... (223 words)

My friend says he goes through phases of ignoring people

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, A boy and i were great friends i thought he fancied me for a bit and now he's practicly ignoring me. My friend says he goes through fases of ignoring people. I really like him. But at the moment i think he fancys one of my old friends who hates me now and apparently s... (85 words)

I'm pregnant, haven't told my b/f yet and very confused

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just recently turned 18 andfound out today that im pregnant, my parents and cdlose friends know but i haven't yet told my boyfriend. I've always said that if i ever got caught i could never abort because i'm totally against it, however there's things i really want to do ... (95 words)

I'm terrified of what he'll do if he finds out I'm still pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I turned nineteen about a month ago, I'm a freshman in college, and my ex is still in high school. About a week after I broke up with him, he raped me with no protection. The reasons we broke up was because he physically and emotionally abused me and then decided to cheat on ... (527 words)

Do you think he was being genuine or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! I am totally confused by a mans behaviour and I need to know what people think. I have known a guy for about 2 years now but hadn't seen him for the last year as I have had a boyfriend. Before my boyfriend, this man and I had a thing for eachother. He is my best fri... (523 words)

Why is my period late..Can I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My period was supposed to come on the 16th this month but it hasn't come until now. 6 days late. Me and my boyfriend had sex on the 17th. PROTECTIVE sex with a condom and we were very careful abt the touching as well. There are no signs of my period nor pregnancy.But I'm ... (96 words)

Has he got some sort of double personality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Friends, I am really interested in hearing your opinion in relation to this; I have been with my ex boyfriend for almost 3 years. He always looked serious and he wanted me to dress concentionally ( classic outfits) and he was always critical when i tried to wear sexy out... (229 words)

A question about Frenulum breve

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have found that I have a condition called Frenulum breve where I can just pull my foreskin just below my glans and not more than that. I have heard people telling, when it really goes inside the vagina, it will rip and tear. Has any one experienced this?What is the solution... (56 words)

I'm a monk serving everyone but me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I married my wife 17 years ago. She became pregnant we were in grad. school. We've built the trappings of an amazing life...a son, careers, great house, pets, and so on. We are supportive of each other...we are great friends...but...there is very little physical attraction ... (367 words)

Is medication affecting her decisions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age - My girl left me for another men, she is married i'm single ,the day before her birthday he told me to break up, she said she don't want to jeopardize her daugther possible custody if the husband find out about us, also her job is at risk too, Im a contractor and she is the ... (345 words)

I screwed up and they are all fine without me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - 14 yrs we were together, she was the nicest most caring person you could meet, so why...why would i ruin it all,, i have/had 3 gorgeous children as well to make the perfect relationship,,,, so i had an affair with some blonde bimbo who i fell for!! how , why i don't know, it ... (286 words)

After all this time I still don't know if he loves me

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been i a relationship for 6and a half years now and i still don't know if this man loves me. We have a family now i have 2sons he has 2sons and a 4 month old together.He never tell me he love on his own its always when i say i love you then he says i love you too, but he ... (343 words)

My ex has a new g/f but still talks sex to me!

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone at cupid, Ive got a question, my ex and i split in november he got rid of me for his ex that never worked out in the end, anyway we was still having sex together untill 17th jan when he got his new gf, anyway, we stayed friends but had a falling out 3 weeks ago and ... (303 words)

My gut instinct is that he is no longer interested in me

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my 35 yr old boyfriend in a LDR for just over 18 months. Things started off amazing. He was really into me, and proudly introduced me to all his family and after 6 months he started mentioning moving in together. I felt it was too soon. I just wanted to ... (796 words)

How do I stop having sex with ex I'm in love with?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ex and i agreed to date other people but because we still love each other we dont want either of us to have sex with anyone else. he has a gf now and i think we should stop but i love him so much,help... (44 words)

Can you get pregnant from anal sex?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Can you get pregnant from anal sex? Just wanted to know... (11 words)

Has anyone ever gone away to forget about an ex?

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22 March 2009 (F)

- I am totally in love with my ex and have been for 5 years now! Believe me, I have tried every trick there is to get over him but nothing has worked. Ive dated other men and fancied other men but my ex is the one in my heart. The sad thing is that he does not feel the same. We ... (420 words)

How easily can women change their attitude towards you so drastically after you have popped the big question?

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. Here's a little question for you. Is it possible that an experienced woman in her early thirties might develop a crush on a guy, but realise that this is a crush and therefore try and focus her energies elsewhere so as to forge a relationship with someone who she may be ... (206 words)

Should a good boyfriend accept you for the way you look?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - In your opinion, a good boyfriend that really loves you should accept you for the way you look? Even if you feel fat or ugly? ... (27 words)

My friends and boyfriend don't care

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i went out to a town centre that i havent been to before with my friends and my boyfriend and they abandoned me. i sat down and got out my phone and when i looked up again they were gone. i walked around for an hour no clue were i was going and i ran into them. turns out they... (158 words)

Do I have a chance with her ?

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl..i know falling for her, i think of her all the time and i truely care about her and wanna be with her.. but you see the only problem is that she is still inlove with her ex, who has been a complete jerk to her and they had a baby together, he tells her ... (141 words)

Anyone knows the dating age difference in France?

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22 March 2009 (M)

age - what are the dateing age diffrences in france? i might be headed there this summer. i thought maybe you could tell me just how big the age diffrences are between men and women there? ... (39 words)

I'm 14 and pregnant and really scared.

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14 years old and I did a really stupid idea with my boyfriend that's 16. We had sex in his truck 1 time... 2-3 weeks ago and it was an accident. I found out 3 days ago that I'm pregnant. I don't believe in abortions because its just plain murd3r. I told him today and we b... (476 words)

Any awesome ideas by my honey's birthday?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to make the perfect strip teasing-make you sweat-burn some calories (ha ha) CD. I like things with a good beat and for this genre a seductive lyrical, Some genres i like are: Hip hop, techno, rave, industrial, grunge, rock, etc. Some bands i like are: Theory of a dead... (91 words)

How do I make our phone sex mind-blowing without disturbing everyone in my house

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright- so i am in a long distance relationship-- Well for the most part, we see eachother for about 2 weeks between every few months. We will be engaged next year (yay). So we have phone sex as our way of saying "F*ck me hard baby" It's fun but it's not the best i'd like it ... (100 words)

I have no idea how to make her have a orgasm

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well today me and my girlfriend had sex for the second time and third time and I cumed pretty fast the first time so we went again but I have no idea how to make her have a orgasm I want to so bad I just don't know and we tried different positions and stuff but noth... (77 words)

He isn't on the same page as you, what do you do?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with this guy for 2 1/2 years, married for almost 1 and I thought he was for me. english is his second language, and even though i speak his language too I feel like I can't communicate with him at all. i like to use big vocabulary and i can never use big words with... (204 words)

LDR over, she cheated on me, now wants me back...I'm sonsure of this

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Oh well, this is going to be a LONG question, so please bear with me and apologies for the length of this. Ok, just about 2 years ago (January 2007) I met this girl. I was a postgrad student at university and she was an exchange student who just turned up for 4 months. Well,... (1034 words)

He doesn't want a relationship with me but...

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for over a year on and off. What I like about him the best that he is very reliable when he says he calls he does, when he says he comes he is on time. Someone that I can count on. Girls, this is rare as you know! He is also very affectionate with me. ... (462 words)

Doggy style...did I lose my virginity?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I, are/were both virgins. I'm 13 and He's 15. We did "doggy style" tonight for the very first time, No protection was used. So did I actually..lose my virginity? That's the thing I'm confused about.... (38 words)

Relationship is falling apart I feel like I am putting more into than him

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now... it seems like the relationship is falling apart... we don't hang out as much. we are always arguing...i am more into the relationship than he is...how can i get him back into it...do i play mind games and act like i dont ... (61 words)

We both want a baby..but we know we're young!

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14, and My boyfriend(16) and I are sure that We want a future together....but the only thing is, We are in a long-distance Relationship. We talk about this all the time and I'm having such a hard time deciding what to do. My Boyfriend is most likely coming down to be with ... (180 words)

How long do you last for sex?

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Heya mates !!! What is the average time for sex? How much do you last for sex? My problem when i 'm having sex i quickly ejaculate. How can i help it? I'm devasted . I 'm NOT enjoying my sex.... (57 words)

I'm scared of being alone!

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need some help. i have a constant fear of being alone, physically and emotionally. the close friends i had before all managed to hurt and betray me in some way and those friendships are gone now. i've been recently going out with my ex, and because of our previous ... (251 words)

How do I stop the distance I feel growing between us?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for over a year and a half. We were completely happy before he left for basic training and for a while when he returned. But for the past 3-4 months all we do is argue. We almost broke up and it scared me a lot. How can we stop arguing? What steps are ... (99 words)

How do I talk to him and get to know him?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy at school.. he's amazingly cute. But I only see him around the hallways, and we have no classes together. So we never talk.. I really wish I could get to know him better, but I feel that it would be so awkward just walking up to him randomly and talking to ... (77 words)

How can I make him emotionally attracted to me?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a couple weeks now. It has been fun and all but I feel that he is only physically attracted to me and not so much emotionally. He wants to get physical a lot and says that he is always horny when Im around lol I know that he is not a player, he ... (164 words)

Penis curves to the right..is this normal?

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and i am just wondering why when i have an erection my penis curves to the right. From the view of me looking down at it. i was just wondering is this normal and is there any way to fix it to be strait or is this just the way it is going to be forever? ... (61 words)

I've tried for so long to move on and just can't

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that lives in one state and I live in another. We met each other through my family, and I have known her for about five years. Throughout these years I have visited her state to see family and her often. She has also come to visit me. We both have of have ... (155 words)

Why does he text but never follows through?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had this guy come on to me and flirt a lot. I told him we could start off as friends and he wanted to see each other. I agreed and saw each other once. We were suppose to see each other again but he kept saying he was to busy and we only communicated thru text. Finally, ... (136 words)

I can't open up to people

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and I've recently discovered that I don't open up to people. I hear everyone say "I love you" to other people all the time. It seems so easy to say but I feel weird and awkward when I say it. I can say it to my parents and other family members but I couldn't ... (148 words)

I love him, but he lies.

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have asked a question already and it was anwsered thank you. but i need more help. the answer said to keep calling him out about his lies and i try and he is still in denil. how long should i go on with this? should i watch his every more to see if theres something hes ... (87 words)

My cousin stares at me

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It bother me a lot because My cousin keep stared at me almost often. What wrong w that? Can ya tell me?? ... (23 words)

We never talk about us...so I don't know what we have?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 2 months,we meet up once a week for a dinner,cinema and then we end at his place. I got hurt by someone before him and now Iam afraid to get hurt again.He seems to be a nice guy and we have lots of passion. He does not call me and I don't call... (141 words)

Can I go out with others? He had the chance to ask me out and hasn't!

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated someone last year for about 6 months and it was very serious. We broke up over the summer but have been talking again since September, making our "relationship" about a year long in total. We haven't been with anyone sexually since we first were together. My questi... (234 words)

Every time I go to confess my feelings for her, she tells me of a crush she has on someone else!

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just want to ask for some advice about confessing my love to someone very special to me. I've been secretly in love (yes, in love, and I know the difference between crush and love) for this very good friend of mine for over a year now. I think there was a certain time tha... (247 words)

She broke up with me to go back to him but now says she wants to be back with me

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a bit torn about what to do so i hope i can get some advice. Basically we were together for a while and fell in love, long story short her ex appeared and stirred things up and we ended up breaking up (its been a couple of months now), her and her ex eventually got b... (381 words)

He really liked me, I forced myself to ignore him and now he ignores me!

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy liked me in fresman year. He told my friends to talk me into it. My bestfriend convinced me on going out with him but after 8th grade, I decided not to fool around anymore. I decided to go out out with the guy i like to avoid trouble and so I refused on going out with ... (582 words)

Should I feel guilty for wanting to move out?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a college sophomore and decided to take a semester off. I moved in with my fiance but we have recently been having problems and I want to move out and be on my own again. My fiance says he feels like I'm abandoning the relationship and I don't care about him since when I ... (124 words)

I told a secret and now I'm really regretting it!

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i told my two best friends a really big big big big big secret like a life changing one and now i wish i wouldnt have told them. they havent told anyone yet but i feel like they are going to tell and im scared because if they do i know it will not only hurt me but many other ... (66 words)

Gone without goodbye..what should I do?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met him on valentine's day... It was like a movie-scene.. After a late night at work on valentine's day.. I decided to take a taxi home, because public transportation has already stopped operating. But I found out that I didn't have enough of cash money! So I got into a bik... (533 words)

I like him, he likes me but we both worry about what others will think

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can somebody help me? One of my guy friends just told me he liked me this thursday, and i asked him why he didn't tell me he liked me before, because he said he's had a crush on me for around two months now. He said that he wouldn't treat me the way he should, because he's ... (175 words)

We both hit each other but is this domestic abuse?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I sometimes feel like I'm in an abusive relationship. Me and my fiance fight a lot and it has become physical at times. I hit and so does he. I admit hitting is wrong on any level but I feel like my hitting is justified..is that wrong? I find text messages from other girls and ... (180 words)

I feel like my identity is being compromised

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like my identity is being compromised. I have no job and I am not in school yet. There is tension in my relationship for a number if reasons. I don't trust my spouse at all. I go through his phone and check online records and have found text messages from girls/ exes a ... (168 words)

I have a problem about sex...

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I have a problem about sex. Thing is, I'm heterosexual but I have fooled around with a few girls and stuff. Now, lot's of guy's have said I'm good at giving....blowjobs. But I find that I prefer going down on women more, simply for the fact that women have a vagina and I ... (373 words)

My boyfriend emotionally distances himself from me.

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22 March 2009 (F)

age - My bf emotionally distances himself from me. He takes a situation and makes if into something major and then hides for days or weeks. I think he does this to prevent himself from getting too close. Yes I know he loves me but I know he is fearful. Is he just one of those ... (145 words)

When I'm single I'm unhappy and can't accept my situation

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22 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 20 and I'm single. I've been told hundreds of times by people, my age and my parents age that I shouldn't worry about the fact that I'm single, because someday I'll find somebody right for me. However, I feel like I obsess about being single every single day. Every day ... (197 words)

We're only 14 & everyone says its just infatuation?

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello to everyone who stumbles upon this question and for those who take the time to read and answer this, thank you. I am currently 14 years old, living in the UK. I've been going out with this boy who is the same age as me and we've been together for one year and 3 month... (306 words)

I love texting him but hate leading him on!

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22 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok...i have been having a huge issue lately. i am 17 and i have been texting this guy who is 27 for 10 months now. We text almost every minute and he sounds like a great guy. he has sent me pics but i havent sent him any. the problem is is that i told him that i am 25 and i ... (154 words)