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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should I do? I want to be with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy a couple years ago that is 12 years older than me. We were great together until my parents found out and then everything went down hill and our relationship crumbled. I didnt see or talk to him for over a year. When i did see him again he was dating a girl and ... (180 words)

She's using excuses to talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My (ex) girlfriend, 27, and I, 30, split January 10th after being together for a little over a year. 5 months of that year we lived together but decided to move back with our folks for a few months until finances got better and then we were going to build or buy a home this ... (667 words)

How do I get him back without calling him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex boyfriend and i were dating for over a year. we broke up often but got back together within 1 day max. but this time its different. my ex has been having trouble with his step mother and school. hes been charged for plagiarism and has been going through a lot of stress. ... (415 words)

My feelings for him fluxuate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf of 2 years are both 25 years old. I see him about 2 times a week due to our busy schedule. At times I feel like I'm completely in love with him, while other times I feel completely indifferent to our relationship and feel like I don't like him that way anymore. My ... (65 words)

Can I get him to ask me to be with him again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted about this situation before, and would really like some advice on what to do. To the men out there, your take on this would be greatly appreciated! I met a guy a year ago online. I had decided to put myself out there after a taking a break from a couple of bad re... (794 words)

Only 15 & pregnant..don't know what to do!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm pregnant and only 15. i'm scarred and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend is going to stay with me no matter what and i know this because he told me. i just need help on what to do when pregnant and only 15. how do i deal with it.... (52 words)

Why do I want something to work out in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who I have liked for a few years. One time we kissed but then he said since we don't live very close it wouldn't be a good idea to start anything. We talk a lot, but often just casually online and I get annoyed with him easily and feel like I'd hate being i... (87 words)

Surprise in the bedroom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone...=] Me and my boyfriends 1 year anniversary is coming up next month. We've agreed to not buy each other anything ( We are saving for holidays which will be soon after!)So instead were gonna get a take away, movie, the usual.. However, i want to surprise him in ... (88 words)

I start arguments with him for no reason. How do I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have the most loving amazing perfect boyfriend anyone could ask for and we have been though so much, i really comftable around him and he treats me like his little princess but the thing is i snapp at him for no reason i cause agruements when i shouldnt and i finsh him for no ... (154 words)

My wife says she gets yeast infections when I perform oral sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age - My wife says that when I stimulate her oraly that she gets "yeast infections" or becomes sore? Is there any thing that can be done about the infections or could she be using that as an a excuse to stop me from having oral sex with her??... (47 words)

Co-worker setting me up for failure and I getting quite distressed about it

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11 March 2009 (F)

- Hoping for some help here. Often good answers and will appreciate any help offered. Last year I worked with a colleague who claimed to be 'concerned' about me and discussed my job performance to other colleagues. Some friends of mine mentioned she was doing this. Some thought ... (204 words)

What does sex feel like?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not trying to be a smart aleck or anything like that; just naturally curious. I am a 25-year old female virgin (call me old fashioned but I plan to wait until marriage to have sex). I cannot wait to have sex and was wondering what it felt like, especially for someon... (83 words)

Does my ex have regrets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in an emotional dilemma and I'd like to hear ladies viewpoints. I met a women 6 years ago and we had a 3 month relationship. We first met in a cafe in town. For weeks we did the eye contact thing before we started chatting. It was flirting at its best. We didn't ... (444 words)

More important? Your happines & life? Or your kids?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age - I have been married for about 13 years now. I have two daughters which I love so much. I am an honest, hardworking husband and try to be the best father that I can. I hug my kids daily, tell them I love them, sit with them on the couch and watch American Idol, go to their ... (866 words)

I know this isn't good..I always feel bad after sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Ive been with my boyfreind for almost nine months and recently we started having sex. But im confused because before we do it i feel so ready and i want to. But after we do it i always feel bad. im not quite sure what it is that i feel but i know its not a good emotion!... (173 words)

Ex back in my life, but he's still confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We met two years ago and were together for 5 months. I instantly felt we were great together, never before have I felt such a strong connection with a man, and I've had my share of relationships. I soon discovered that his 7-year girlfriend had dumped him three months before we ... (494 words)

Worried about b/f's conversation with sleazy secretary

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend for lunch and the secretary at his office called.. He said, 'Hello' And I couldn't hear what she said..he didn't move away do much..so that's not the problem. But he said, 'Well how do you want me to answer.' Then you could hear her talking and kin... (127 words)

How to tell the truth without being hurtful

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just need some comfimation that the only thing I can do is tell the truth, and whether anyone has any advice on how to give it. I met this girl about a year ago at a charity event and she was really nice and I found out that she lived along way from me. We left and sai... (172 words)

Weight, body issues, my past & jealousy..jumbled up mess!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm not really fat, but I do have body issues. I'm 5'5, 138 lbs. I want to drop some 10 lbs though. I want to look perfect. The thing is, lately I haven't been very motivated. I've skipped some workouts. Yesterday I was talking to my boyfriend online. I told him I was hungry... (922 words)

Living up to "redheads are good in bed"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sixteen in a few days and i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, i'm a redhead and drowning with boredom i decided to research about redheads themselves, i've always been pretty firey and most of the things and myths i've been told usually connect with me. anyw... (221 words)

Is this normal jealousy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for a long time now, about five years. We've had an awesome relationship which has been happy and intimate and very promising. She's affectionate and tender with me. We spent a lot of time together and had a lot of fun through so many experiences. ... (891 words)

Online friend will not share current pics with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Something has been bugging me about a friend I've met through the net. Over the course of the last four months, we've sent countless emails to each other on a daily basis. She has also sent some gifts over to me via postal mail. I have sent her video letters and static pictures ... (180 words)

Drunken one night stand? Or emotional affair without sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you consider a drunken one night stand to be 'better' or worse than a longstanding emotional affair without sex?... (20 words)

Date: No idea where to take him, what to do, how far to go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok.. major panic here.. ive got a date wiv this reeeeeally cute guy. and long story short, ive no idea bout where 2 take him or what 2 say or how far 2 go wiv him? any advice here urgently needed!!! thnx btw yeh i am gay. thnx tom xxx... (56 words)

Son tells me my husband has been taking speed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Earlier this week our 13-year-old son told me that my husband had been taking speed. He said that when he took him to his basketball training session at the weekend he offered him these "white pills that make you strong and feel good" whilst in the car. My son said no. ... (246 words)

Single forever..any guy I fancy always fancies someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - being single forever,never had a boyfriend don,t know how to get one,any guy i fancy ,fancies someone else. the only guy i thought like me didn,t,always on my own hopeless with guys.30 years old,i hate dating websites,i am shy,quiet,i play hard to get becasue i don,t know how... (81 words)

I love him but he's got a g/f and I wouldn't want to break them up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres this guy (lets call him fred) iv known fred for 3 years now, and we've only just got really close, and since december (tis now march) iv been having feelings for him, the strongest feelings iv ever felt, i thought id been in love once but now i understand that that ... (399 words)

How much porn is too much porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How much porn is too much porn?!? I ask this question because I found downloaded porn on my boyfriends computer. I had never used his computer before ( mine was broken). I then saw there were folders full of it, as well as bookmarked pages. I confronted him about it, and... (437 words)

I can't get over my teacher! I'm obsessed with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I can't get over my teacher. You just don't know... I always dream about him! He won't get out of my head. It's hard for me to listen to him teach when all I do is stare at him. It's hard to concentrate when I'm doing my work in his class because I'm always looking at him. H... (582 words)

I want this girl back but don't know what to say

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey me and my ex girlfriend broke up last month but I can't get over it. I went out with her for over 4 months. We only broke up because some random girl got me confused with her boyfriend and told my girl I was cheating on her. I want this girl back but I don't know what to ... (78 words)

Am I being oversensitive? Am I being really selfish to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. First time posting here. Anyway, lets get started... I used to be involved in a long distance relationship. I was with the girl for 2 and a half year. We started going out in high school when she brought me out of a depression (broke up with first girlfriend... (596 words)

Will our different religions get in the way of our relationship in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey well I been thinking about my boyfriend well my fiance and just know some idea came in my mind and it's hat i am 7th day Adventist that's my religion and my fiance religion in baptist is that going to bring a problem in the future? please help me :)... (52 words)

What can I say or do to get his attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I don't know where to start but there is this guy I really like, he's in my year an single, I see him most days as we hang round with the same people but we don't really know each other that well and don't get a chance to talk to him on his own properly. What can I s... (97 words)

Trying to get back together but he got another girl pregnant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was with my boyfriend for 7 months and we broke up because he was cheating on me with a girl i no he kept texting me all the time while he was with her they were together for about four month they have since broken up but she is pregnant and he is convinced its his me and him ... (131 words)

There's this boy I like, but does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There’s this boy that I like and im not sure if he likes me. I don't want to ask him and i'm way to shy to ask him anyway. I would just like an honest opinion so I know. Here are some of the signs: He stares at me a lot from the other side of the room. When he is... (186 words)

I said I love her and she replied "he he". What does that mean

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello guys..im 18 and i have a friend i been dating for 5months already..i really like her and love her..my parents already know her and her's too..both of her sisters like me and votes for me..we always go out on a date like everyday. we call each other by the term "baby"..we ... (155 words)

I feel like my life is longer my own. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve been with my g/f about 5 months now and I really like and care for her but she keeps saying that she loves me and gets upset when I can’t reciprocate. I want to be able to say it but just know it isn’t true yet. Will this change for me? The trouble is, we are very dif... (278 words)

Any chance of getting my ex gf back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. I was wondering if with my situation I have a chance of getting back with my ex gf? ive been thinking about her alot lately. Anyway, heres my situation, I met her in October of 2008, we seemed to connect really well, and we began dating. Everything got b... (427 words)

My b/f ex keeps updating him on her life. What shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a few months, we get on very well and are very close but I have a bit of a problem with his ex. It's a bit of a long story so I'll try and put it in a nutshell. His ex and he were together for two years but she was incredibly high maintenc... (448 words)

I'm so sad people around me laugh at my wide, square, flat butt:'( pls help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 years old and I'm an asian. I always feel down when thinking that I've got quite not a good figure. My boobs are small (B.34) and actually i'm still okay with my small boobs. The only problem is that, i've got a wide hip but a very flat ass, more like squa... (307 words)

My BF is acting weird around me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and 1/2. Everything had been going great and we even moved in together for about 9 months. Due to financial reasons I was forced to move back in with my mother and this really hurt his feelings. He thought that I didn't want... (1079 words)

I am too wet "down there". Is that a bad thing for men

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with getting "TOO" wet even before intercourse. It's always been like this for me. Not with just one person, it happens whenever I get turned on. I mean it can be seen through my jeans. Anyway, my current boyfriend jokingly comments on this saying 'This is... (101 words)

Outside opinion please: does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have known this guy for 7 months, i met him through learning to to drive! He is a nice guy, my type both personality and looks. Was wierd at first as i was confused to whether i did like him more than just a normal person, but the more time i spent with him the more my... (302 words)

Is it possible for us to be physical and get married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age - i am a non practising christian divorced with children and ive met a new partner who is widowed and a catholic can we have a physical relationship and get married ... (30 words)

300 calories weekdays, 3000 cals weekend. Will I lose weight?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heyx i am on this new diet where i eat 300 calories and do half and hour exersize everyday. though one day a week, i eat 3000 calories, just so i can go out and have fun and EAT once in a while!! would i lose weight from this diet? (I want to lose 1 and a half stone) thankyou... (61 words)

Why did he do this? I'm confused.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im really confused. I have what i thought was a good friend in Reno, we have known each other for two years or so, but have grown closer over the last couple of months (in a 'friends' way...)we both have partners. However, lately there has, if im not imagining it, si... (305 words)

Why do I always feel that he is watching me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, i spoke to my ex for the first time in 3 weeks, he gave me the money he owed me anyway, he handed it to me and said hear u go, i said thank u then he said what did u say and i said thank u again, that was when his gf wasnt there, last nite i saw him again but he d... (126 words)

I want to kiss my GF but I don't know when to do it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have a girlfriend and want to kiss her but don't know when to do so. Please Help... (24 words)

What should I do when I first meet him? Hug? Say hey?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 18 year old guy and im planning to go on a date with a 23 year old guy, i just dont know how to approach him when i meet him? hug? just a simple hey? what should i do when i first meet him? we have been set on a blind date by our friends... but they dont know we have tal... (89 words)

My community and religion do not accept gay people, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - can any body help me with this ugly situation? well it all started when i was 14 back in the school i notice that i like guys and enjoy chating with them all the time but during that time i never know exactely what is wrong with me i thought that is normal but i was wrong un... (205 words)

New to the dating thing. Should I meet him for lunch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! Should I meet him for lunch? My boyfriend is in the area..and he text me this morning to meet him for lunch. He's used to buying food from the dollar menu during the week and on weekends we really splurge. He does pay for pretty much all our nights out. So, he says 'I... (162 words)

I need some guidence and please do not judge me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 14 years but my dear husband has been in prison all those years and a bit more. I met my husband before he went in. He was a good person before he got involved with this girl (she passed away in early 90's) that got him hooked on heroin... ... (811 words)

My first love just broke up with me, I feel so lost and lonely, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of years broke up with me over a day ago. He's just started uni and i'm in my second year (he had gap year); he's finding studying really difficult (not realy cut out for uni) and spends literally 24/7 doing work and so the last few weeks have only been seeing each ... (299 words)

Do I wait it out for him? I'm head over heels!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like the lad its unreal. i just love everything about him. anyways i have since last september and in february i got one of my friends to ask him out for me and my friend told me that he thought about it for a bit (he's always known that i like him) but he said no and ... (160 words)

Am I being unrealistic about my relationship with a younger man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 38 year old single latina mother that has always been interested in younger men sexually. I am by no means rich and am not looking for someone to " take care" of me as I am very independent, happy and secure in my life as it is. I met a 23 year old Italian man an... (397 words)

Can a hostess make exceptions to her own invitation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have recently hosted a birthday birthday for my kid. i also sent out a 'no siblings please' note in the invitations with one or two exceptions wherin the siblings were close to my son. one of the parent cornered me so as to why there were exceptions. I want to if... (77 words)

I need help developing my 'gaydar'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a guy that i really like at my college. the only problem is that i don't know his name or anything about him! i am really shy and find it hard to make eye contact, but have wanted to get to know him more for about a year, and i really want to find out if he is gay and ... (183 words)

How do I stop these doubts and believe her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, bit of a long one this, so I apologise in advance. I have made a stupid mistake for which I am paying for now... Basically, I found out my partners password to a certain social networking site and I made the mistake of logging onto her account and reading her private ... (439 words)

I still feel sick when he sees his text-tress at work! How do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age - I have posted a couple of times re my text cheating husband. Although, without going into detail, I am 100% positive all this has stopped and didn't go beyond texting and he always shows me his mobile phone bills now, I still feel sick when he has to see her through work at ... (268 words)

We still have feelings for each other, should we try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles, I need some advice about my ex. You might have read some of my earlier posts, if not I’ll try and sum it up real’ quick; My ex and I met at school almost 3 years ago, we liked each other from the beginning, and after half a year he asked me out, since th... (339 words)

I want him to know I want more than friendship without scaring him away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated a guy for a few weeks last year but he felt it was too soon for us to begin a relationship so soon after the break up of our long-term relationships with other people. His decision not to move forward with our relationship really hurt me as we have known each other for ... (272 words)

I think I might have caught my husband on a dating site?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I was looking though our computer last night and came across a site that should not have been on there when my husband asked me what i was looking at i asked him if he knew about this site he said no its a pop up i dont know alot about computers but would a pop up... (107 words)

First time sex hurts my girlfriend too much, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some urgent help on this matter. Me and my girlfriend just started having sex (mind you we are both virgins) and we there are some obstacles in the way. The first couple nights we tried I was really nervous and having performance anxiety so it wasn't even fully erected ... (137 words)

My g/f went ballistic seeing that I had my ex as a friend on an Internet profile!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - About a year and a half ago I ended a relationship with an ex amicably after we both went separate directions in our lives. It was a relationship where we both knew it had a limited life, as she went abroad for a long period and I moved to continue my education. We sort of ... (640 words)

We broke up because I found out he already had a g/f, now he promises me he will soon be only mine, do I take him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - please help me... im completely devastated, but im sure you get a few of us... i was seeing a guy. which i only lately found out that he had a gf of 8 yrs, and then he explained to me that he wanted to leave her but couldnt in his attempts cause she said she would kill him and ... (146 words)

I don't want to be drunk to enjoy sex. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just turning 20 and have been with my partner for a while and I love him dearly. The only problem is I've never had a high sex drive and it seems to be deteriorating. It's not just with my current boyfriend i've had this ever since i was sexually active. I find sex some... (138 words)

I have chlamydia. How do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel physically ill right now, I just had a medication abortion last week. I got pregnant by my boyfriend of 3 years and we knew we couldn't support a baby. I was off of birth control for only one month when I got pregnant. While I was at Planned Parenthood they did a rout... (536 words)

Any advice on how to move on after leaving abusive b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

- I finally found the strength to break up with my abusive bf! However, he now has the nerve to turn it all around onto me! I told him how I felt and that I coudlnt be in a relationship where I was treated like that. He basically said it was all my fault. He even tried to tell me ... (392 words)

Help Trying to get pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear whomever, I'm 18 years old and me and my boyfriend has been together for 1year and 2months and we have been trying to get pregnant since we was together for 6 ... (187 words)

Should he quit smoking so his sperm can get healthier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear whomever, I'm 18 years old and me and my boyfriend has been together for 1year and 2months and we have been trying to get pregnant since we was together for 6 months.....the only thing about is we haven't gotten pregnant... he smokes weed a lot and we think that is the b... (86 words)

He said he wants a relationship, but is he using me?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have jst met someone and he said he wants to start a relasionship with me but i havent heard from him since he left on sunday. he is in a open prison so i understand that contact is limited but he was seen in a car on tuesday. ive tryed to phone him but his phone is turnt of... (67 words)

How can I make a Guy I have slept with on and off for over 5 years to fall in love with me?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy back when I was 19, we started seeing each other but secretly since he didn't wnat anybody to know that we were together, we were sleeping together for about 8 months, then all of the sudden one day he told me he had a girlfriend, i stopped seeing him because I ... (185 words)

My new boyfriend with mental illness is frustrating me, should I leave him?

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11 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I met a guy online and have been seeing him for about 3 months now.He is handsome, intelligent, educated and trusted in terms of cheating and I love him so much. I however feel frustrated in the relationship becauses : 1. He is sometimes distant and emotionaly cold 2. Rarely... (270 words)

Why did he tell me he had a date with someone from a dating website?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months. We are very close, talk every day and are intimate, although we have not had sex. He told me early on that he had a dating profile on a website. I have been trying to deal with this fact since he told me. Last week he said he h... (157 words)

I don't want to be made out as the bad guy to his friends

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Need some advice. My fiance and i have been 2gether for 3years. Recently things have got really bad. All he does is smoke weed and not seem to have much of a future. Im 21 and he's 34. Friends of ours are getting married in a few weeks and i suggested we sta... (276 words)

Am I bisexual?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, So, one night i was out with my fiance and we bumped into our gym crew in a club. My fiance was so drunk that night i was really embarrassed and let him do his own thing. My gym instructor (who's female) was stood in the corner moving to the music a little but l... (242 words)

14 yo and in love, but I don't know his name

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I saw one guy in the hospital when i went to visit my dad in the hospital.. he was hospitalized too. his bed is just nearby my dad's bed. he's pretty handsome i think :))) i realized that he is looking at me when i suddenly wanted to turn over and look at him too. just ... (231 words)

Can't get my ex LDR bf out ouf my head! Help!

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a long distance relationship with a guy whom i have never met. We are chatting for the last 4 year. He promised to marry me and showed me many dreams. I trusted him so much. Everyday i spent 6 to 7 hours chatting with him. He always showed me that he loves me alot and care... (254 words)

Resentment over porn & no sex, how to get over it?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so angry with my boyfriend. He hasn't approached me for sex for months but I know he's yanking it to porn and men's magazines. I'm sure he doesn't have a porn addiction, more so a preference. I'm guessing self love is easier because he doesn't have to worry about it b... (132 words)

Where do I get the strength to leave this woman?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im in love with this woman in my group. we fell for each other the first day we met but she's not ready to have a relationship with me because she has a bf of 5 years. after 2 years of flirting and showing love and care for each other, she's now becoming a little cold and ... (157 words)

Can I get pregnant from sperm in the mouth?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im a little nervous. I usually have a 29 day cycle, ive had it for 4 months now. my last period was Febuary 8 2009. I had oral sex with my boyfriend last feb 26, 3 days after my calculated ovulation time of feb 23. Now im around 3 days late... Now what happened wa... (176 words)

Crush on a female whose boyfriend is abroad

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Last year I got a location transfer in my company and met a beautiful young lady at a company workshop. We were in same team and got along well. She was perfect in a lot of ways for me. It was kind of love at first sight (or first meeting) I kept in touch at workplace and thou... (530 words)

I am 12 yo and I am heartbroken. Please help me

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello. i know what you are going to say when i tell you this but please, try and understand. im a 12 year old girl and a year ago i had a bf and we lasted 8 months, like a proper relationship. we were going on this school residential trip thing to Paris, but i couldn't go co... (315 words)

I think I'm becoming a green monster of jealousy

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i'm becoming a green monster of jealousy. There is a girl in my year who i used to be really good friends, but she ended up going out with my then current boyfriend behind my back, among other things. There are many people who don't like her because of her attitude and ... (174 words)

Why am I different down there?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently removed most of my pubic hair and I've come to notice that my skin down there is about 2-3 shades darker than my normal skin. Some of my friends who have removed their hair claim that their skin is lighter. Is there something wrong with mine?... (48 words)

What is my friend up to??

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11 March 2009 (F)

- Hi, i'm female, 20yrs old and I'm in love with my best friend. but I'm just a little confused about the signals he's sending me. I've known him since we were 6 years old, then over a year ago I told him how I felt in an email.. (yes I'm a coward..), but when I sent it I wrot... (379 words)

Should I return my big sister's love

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was always bullied and it felt like ... (197 words)

Incestuous thoughts - I know it is wrong, please help me

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, last post was rejected, too explicit :( I just need peoples opinions. I have always hated my sister (I am 34 she is 30) I am divorced 2 kids, she is single 1 kid and I have been turned on by incest for the past month or so. anyways, to cut a long story short, I had a few ... (120 words)

What is meant by this?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What is meant by 'mind and heart tease eachother'? I have been trying to work it out but with no avail. Any insight to this would be great. ... (28 words)

Did he say he loves me?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my lovely boyfriend for a little while now, and the other night.. I think he may have said that he loved me, but I really dont know if he did or not and now im scared that if he did say that, that he wont say it again due to my lack of acknowledgement. Ba... (148 words)

My partner is abusive both physically & emotionally..trapped!

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I am a 33 with 3 children and with my partner for 19 years. The problem is my partner has always been very quick tempered. I could handle it but it is starting to boil over on to our 14 year old daughter.The other night he came home from the pub and i knew by him a... (225 words)

I am trying to write her an email but don't know what to say

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with this girl for a long time now and untill recently we were close now all we seem to do is fall out over silly things. I know she cares for me as a friend but recently each time I have suggested meeting up she is always to busy yet makes time for her ... (247 words)

I'm dating a girl but really confused about my sexuality

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was here last year, and now I'm back coz I really have this big problem. In my previous questions, I have confessed my identity question if i am a "gay" or merely bisexual. And i have made a big mistake in my life of engaging myself in a heterosexual relationship wit... (245 words)

The good ones are taken. How do I find a girl?

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 14 and im looking for a girlfriend seems as everyone is taken ,how do i find a girl.... (19 words)

My LDR is killing me

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - am in a long distance relationship with a guy from my place but am now very far from him because the university that i go to is in the city while my place is in the northern part of my country(namibia) my boyfriend is now cheating on me with a girl at his school, the t... (160 words)

He turned to porn because he said he was worried he wasn't attracted to me

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - while we were talking/fighting, my boyfriend told me recently that a while ago he had doubts about whether or not he was sexually attracted to me anymore, so he turned to porn to see if those girls were more attractive. he told me that he thought he wasnt into my body type ... (404 words)

He can be so charming but I think he's playing games

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's a long story, but it has no ending yet...i'm trying to figure it out. A month ago I met a guy, I had seen him before, and I always thought he was really cute, but he never paid attention to me. That night, he approached my friend and let her know that he thought ... (853 words)

I have many girl friends but I am not ready for a relationship

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I feels lik i want 2 start a relatnship wit a lady but inside of me i know am not ready 4 any kind of relatnship, why i said so is dat i have many friends dat ar girls but i hv not lik start tinking about any of dem in d nite and i even finds it dificult call dem.but when i ... (86 words)

How does a guy know when a lady claims she is in love with him?

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How do a guy know when a lady claims she is in love him and wat trick wil d guy use 2 proof her. Cos one of my g.fs is claiming she doesent sleep at nite bcos of me which i doubt.... (44 words)

How do you motivate yourself to be healthier?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this site is generally for relationship advice but I have a query I'd love some help on, and I'm sure it's something many people can relate to or give advice on. I am terribly unhealthy. I eat way too much and exercise way too little. I am insanely fortunate that my ... (184 words)

Question to the ladies: do you like it when a guy goes straight to the point?

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Girls pls can i know d qulities dat makes a guy caring and attractive b4 u ladies. and do u girls lik when a guy go straight 2 d point witout beating about d bush.... (39 words)

Should I confront him? It's driving me nuts

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. First time posting, and I'm sure you've heard it a million times already...so here goes. There's this guy (at work) I've {really} liked for some time now, and we had become pretty good mates... and I couldn't help but notice the little things he did that made me rea... (522 words)

Is my penis a normal size?

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a penis that is about 2 inches when not hard but when erected its about 4.5 is that normal? im 13... (23 words)

Advice please: To shave or not to shave?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fren recommended me to shave my vagina and if possible wax it so that sex feels better. Is it really true? Cuz' i feel too naked walking around like that.... (31 words)

Will he leave me if we have a child together?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im months away from being 30 and for the last two years I've been wanting a baby. I already have 2 girls ages 10 and 12 and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 yrs.Ive talked to my boyfriend and he seems to not have a problem with me having his baby. It's me whos scared. ... (101 words)

Do you think he likes me? I'm too shy

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11 March 2009 (F)

- There is this guy who used to always come into my work when I would be working and he would come through my counter, so I would serve him. I quit that job, and moved to a different retail outlet to work. I never told him I was quitting. But hes now coming to my new work- ... (216 words)

Is this a case of bipolar love ??

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - huuuuuhh.... ok. Here I go. ---IT’S TOO LONG SO IF U DON’T WANT TO, DON’T READ IT 2 years ago, i met this guy i'll call Jm who asked me for $ and then dissapeared. So I forgot about his name and about his existence. He also gave it back to me later but i forgot about him... (806 words)

19 year old girlfriend and her frequent visits to Bars... :(

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I am 18 years old. i have met a beautiful girl, who means everything to me. I love her personality, the way she smiles, and the way she laughes. everything about her is inviting. I met her 6 months ago. We werent offcially going out, but we were acting like bf and gf. we b... (460 words)

He treats me like shit but I'm head over heels for him

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - All right, where to start..? I guess first off let me start by saying I am crazy about him and don’t want to loose him… My man and I have been going out for a half a year now, but he still doesn’t consider me his girlfriend. He told me from the beginning that it would be a whil... (858 words)

The Loved And Lost

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Im new here and I need some advice. Okay, here we go. I am in love with a girl I have known for a while. We have been close friends ever since we met and the day I started having feelings for her I told her. She said she felt the same way so I asked her out an... (205 words)

He just cheated for the 2nd time

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - You may remember me, my husband is cheating on me for the 2nd time. Well he went to the courts and retrieved the divorce papers that I filed and had the clerk to shred them. He says he really want to work it out and that we will go to marrige counseling. But in the back of my ... (271 words)

In it only for the sex?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have known each other for about two months and just started to fool around last week. We have a mutual friend and he told me that he said that he is looking for something long term and he doesnt sleep around. The first time we kissed, we were both drunk and after ... (264 words)

How many is too many

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - is six guys alot for a 17 year old girl to sleep with? please help!!!... (15 words)

My husband hits me and I'm not sure what to do

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huge issue i have been married now for almost 3 years and im 23years old but my husband just turned 28, he is a cop and i am a student i was with him when he had to go to police academy and stuck by him in thick and thin but im starting to think that its time to go. ... (270 words)

My wife confessed she cheated on me before we were married

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11 March 2009 (M)

age - I am 12 years into my marriage. My wife just told me the other day that she cheated on me (had sex) with at least one other guy after we had started dating and even after becoming engaged to be married. I had no idea about this until now. I am kind of overwhelmed with... (161 words)

My boyfriend says I'm tighter after giving birth

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had sex only 5 weeks after I gave birth. I feelreally uncomfortable because I think I might be loose or something. The reason I say that is because he said afterwards I am tighter now than I was before. I barely tore at all. But I can't tell if I am tight or ... (97 words)

Help with kegels

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a weird question - when I get really turned on, instead of contracting, the walls of my vagina sort of like pull away from one another (like sucking air in), instead of contracting in on themselves. I've never given birth and haven't had much sex. And anyway this ... (114 words)

I just gave birth, could I be pregnant again?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just gave birth..after I went for my postpartum check up, me and my boyfriend had sex. Well, I've heard that you are really fertile right after you deliver. Anyway, the condom broke. And I m on the mini-pill..but you are supposed to use another form of protection for 72 ... (63 words)

We have a great sex life but he still watches porn without me

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am very active sexually. In fact, I just sucked my husband off this morning before we left for work. I probably give it up to him 3-5 times a week. So please, someone tell me why he has to sneak around and watch porn? I am one of those women with a slightly over the t... (310 words)

What's wrong with me, am I really crushing that hard?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okayy so I don't know whats wrong ive been having horrible stomache aches and when my best friend says im thinking of "him", i feel like throwing up since i have these stomache aches i cant eat and i havent gotten much sleep. and ive just been like staring at things for the... (109 words)

Can you develop feelings for someone you're not attracted to?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have had bad luck in love for a long time. I just started recently hanging out with this guy and he's really nice but I only see him as a friend. Anyway I think he likes me he always buys me stuff and I try and tell him not to but he does anyways. He would be a great ... (151 words)

I think I'm in love with her, I don't know what to do

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been seen this girl for almost two years now, she has two children an no one to father them, well he is there but once in a blue moon. They are separated an never getting along. Know for the past six or seven months we have been hanging out a lot an I think that I ... (186 words)

Is it okay to be friends with this married man?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This friendship is long distance, I met him in a duty mission ( GI) he did in my home town. He was stationed in Korea back then. We met two times only and it was for business. We are keeping in touch since then ( 2 years ago) non stop by email. To me he's a nice guy, he tal... (227 words)

I just don't understand why I can't get a boyfriend.

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11 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I just don't understand why i can't get a boyfriend, not been big headed but everyone tells me how beautiful Iam and how well i present myself, but the trouble is it's getting me down, no man ever chats me up, is it because i look to what some say immaculate. I know I'm pretty ... (86 words)

Is what he did considered cheating/

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - alright, ive been going out with this great guy. we've been friends forever and about a year ago we started going out. i trusted him with my life but i dont really know anymore. recently he went to a sleepover for something at school and there were other girls there ... (202 words)

Scared of pregnancy after my first time

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh god, and I thought I'll be safe when I do my first sex! It just happened, I wanted it to happen. I was worried because we didn't have any condom, I wasn't on pill either. Argh!!! I'm in a foreign country, and I have no health insurance, I also then have no family doctor. in ... (170 words)

Men afraid of women expecting too much?

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - It seems that many men these days are afraid of meeting or getting into a relationship because women expect too much from them. When they hear the words I love you alarm bells start ringing! Oh! here we go she wants something! What are your thoughts about the 'love act', ... (58 words)

Gmail snoop

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for about a year now. We started out as roommates and are still living together. I now have a decent job over here, that I don't want to give up and plus I still have very strong feelings for him. The relationship has been extremely rocky ... (548 words)

Husband who blames wife for anything & everything

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11 March 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I have been married for 27 years. I have always been faithful and a good wife. For over 20 years, we worked for my Dad and were to inherit the business, but after Mom died- My Dad married a much younger quote golddigger who made sure that did not happen and ran his busi... (391 words)

2 days after abortion he dumps me by text! I want him back!

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I LOVED MY BOYFRIEND VERYYYY MUCH SOOOO. we had been together 3 1/2 months. when he dumped me. I have bipolar, and paranoia. so the relationship was always a bit strained with my constant downs, and ups, and constantly wondering what my boyfriend was up too (cheating on me or ... (176 words)

Friend's b/f hits on me right while she is there!

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend is dating this guy. I knew him before they were dating but I knew her a few more years then him. Anyways, he is always complimenting me, calling me hot, calling me cute. You get the picture. I usually just ignore this. I have a boyfriend, we are happy together, ... (123 words)

B/f smells so bad "down there" I almost gag!

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, My problem is simple. My boyfriend smells horrendously bad "down there" and I can barely give him a blow job without gagging. I usually just breath through my mouth but I would prefer my nose (its just easier that way). Anywho, it still smells after a shower, ... (96 words)

What can I do to make him chase me?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy for the past 3 months, and before we started talking he had a girl friend that he was in love with for a year, but we started hanging out a lot, and things weren't going great between her and him, and he broke up with her, and me and him started ... (333 words)

How do I maintain a relationship without drama or romance?

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am rather confused about my current situation. I have been in a long distance relationship with a girl I am very fond of. Unfortunately, it is more or less over - I am ambiguous only because she has stopped answering my emails, theoretically, it could be that she is busy, but ... (156 words)

Is tasting yourself strange?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am fairly new to this site and have learned a lot about my body. I am exploring things that i never gave much thought to until recently. I have done almost no dating. I have touched the more private aras and it is giving me pleasure. I have checked my hands after touching my ... (88 words)

Is seeing the ex necessary for closure?

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, thanks for reading! So about 9 months ago, my now ex boyfriend and I broke up. We were together for 3 years and I have never felt that way about anyone else before. Things went bad down the line because he did not want a relationship and especially not ... (310 words)

My LD girlfriend doesn't seem to understand that I need "friend time"

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is currently going to college 200miles away, i asked for two days off in a row from work everyweek so i can drive down to visit her for 2 days a week and drive back, i also work 10hr days and as soon as i get home i call her to see how her day went for another ... (292 words)

Ex is trying to get custody of our son & he smokes weed!

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My son's father had a problem with smoking weed that lead to a cocaine problem. I got out of there and he never tried to see our son,so i just moved on. Now he's 9 and his father is trying to get custody of him, i tried talking to him but he really gets to me, because he wont ... (85 words)

He likes me to do things to him while he watches porn

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11 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm all about being freaky, but lately what my man has been getting off to kinda hurts emotionally. He likes when I do things to him while he watchs porne; but the part that bugs me is that he doesn't want me seeing what he looks up. He plugs in headphones and goes off ... (98 words)

Why does she have photos of her ex in an organized binder?

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11 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, My girlfriend of two years has always brought up her ex boyfriend even since we started talking, she says she mentions him alot is because she wants to show me how unhappy she was while with him and how happy she is now, and to be honest she does only mention the bad ... (278 words)