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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Please please help me? My boyfriend and I lost our virginity with eachother a few weeks ago. We have sex quite a lot and we haven't had sex without a condom. We ALWAYS use one. There's no way I can raise a baby. We really want to use birth control. I just don't know how to ask my mom. See, the thing is: my mom got pregnant when she was my age (15), so she's extremely paranoid about me getting pregnant. She will hate me and not consider me as a daughter if I tell her. I know that she will never talk to me again. I just really need birth control. Please?
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reader, Fee-Fee  +, writes (14 January 2009):
 Explain to your mum you honestly feel you are ready, and you would like some advice on birth control.
Tell her you have every intention to keep using condoms as well - and I do think this is a must.
You are a very intelligent girl for using them in the first place, you would be amazed how many girls your age just don't think about the consequences.
I am not a mother myself, but if I were I would be proud of my daughter for showing she respects and cares for her body.
The law is there for a reason, and I don't disrespect that at all, but if you genuinely, honestly, truly feel you are ready for sex, the most most important things are for you to make sure you are SAFE and PROTECTED, and there is nothing we can do to stop what has already happened!
Good luck, and enjoy!
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reader, sheribaby38 +, writes (13 January 2009):
 okay i have a daughter your age so i think i am qualified to answer this.
i do not agree with you having sex at your age. i think you should have waited but you did it and thats that.
your mom needs to wake up and realize that you are sexualy active and you cant take it back. thank god your mature enough to use condoms i applaud you for that.
however, you know that condoms do break, so you do need to get that birth controll pill with or without her help. the last thing you want is to be 15 or 16 and pregnat. its not a good life. its a rough road and you can aviod it now. god bless you.
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