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Anyone done this?

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Question - (13 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

It's always been my fantasy to have a threesome with two guys at the same time. Well anyway, I was out with some friends and we were drinking and the conversation turned sexual. I blabbed about this fantasy and a couple of my male friends offered to do it. I'm extremely tempted to do this but I'm scared at the same time.

Has anyone gone through with a MMF threesome? Was it what you thought it would be? Were you comfortable with what you did afterwards? On one hand, I think it would be very hot, but then another part of me thinks its a trashy thing to do and might affect future relationships if the guy were to find out about it. Advice?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009):

Hi, yes you should definitely do it. Me and my girlfriend invited one of my friends back to our house for a 3some and it was awesome. Since then we have had 3somes with two more of my friends. As long as everybody understands that it is just sex, everything should go well.

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A female reader, BradsBabyGirl United States +, writes (13 January 2009):

I'm not gonna make this anonymous cause I don't give a crap what people think of me I'm not proud of my past so don't judge me. . . Anyways yeah I've done a MMF threesome twice never sober though completely trashed it was more of a Idk what was happening or that I was even doing it but I have four things to say 1. It did feel good 2. I regret it an feel dirty 3. EVERYBODY finds out you did it an you get the rep slut an guys think you're easy it sucks 4. That an my whole sexual past is the reason my unborn 7 mth old daughters dad left me (I'm tryin to get him back even as I type this) guys look down on that an I warn you in advance never ever tell your bf especially if he loves you I wish I would've never told my babys daddy alot of the stuff he knows about my sexual history but I believe in a honest relationship... Remember you can't change your past think it over before you do it

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (13 January 2009):

DoubleM agony auntIt is generally a rather trashy thing to do, and you may regret it, depending on certain circumstances. While it may be fun and sexually satisfying, you rely on the discretion by those involved. Perhaps it depends to some degree on the environment in which you live. If in a university or business setting in which others will likely hear about such activity, then you may be risking a great deal of negative attention that you will not enjoy.

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