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female
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30-35,
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writes:Two guys really like me and I like them a bit. But I can't help looking at their mates. Their not the best looking people but they've got really great personalities. The big problem is they've both been out with my little sister so they can get to me. They've both asked me out already but I turned one down and am still considering the other. The one which I turned down was 18 and the other one is 16. The oldest one has got a baby who's about 2 months old, and he wanted me to get pregnant so he can have another. Plus he hasn't got a job to even support me if I did get pregnant. On the other hand the youngest one has got a job and he knows the oldest one briefly. They talked about it while I wasn't there and the youngest one said he would stand by me if I did get pregnant. I'm still a virgin and want to decide for myself when I'm ready to have sex. But I feel as if I'm being pushed into it all. I've known them both for about a year and feel as if I know them well enough to start a relationship, just not a sexual one at the moment. What can I do about it all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): And how much money does a 16 year old make, I take it his not at school anymore……? Do not associate yourself with boys like this, you are heading for trouble, dump the both of them get them out of your system coz angel I can guarantee you now that these boys are bad news, perhaps you should ask ur mom how expensive it is to raise a kid, you are still a kid at the age of 16 not even allowed to be having sex, do not waste your virginity on a guy like that keep it for a the one guy you know is worthy of it, it’s a gift god gave us to pass on to the man that we love and intend on spending the rest of our lives with not some guy who thinks at 16 he could support you and a baby, think angel think
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