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writes:Ok well I feel like I'm totally in love with this boy but I'm 13 and he's 15. He told me he loves me and he wanted to meet my mom so she wouldn't b scared about me liking someone older. We r not dating but we were. When we broke up cuz my mom said he was to old for me(even tho she was a freshman datin a senior). I cried my eyes out. He's so nice and he sctually cares about me. I really do like him and I just wish my mom would let me date him cuz I would be sooo muchh happier. Without him I'm always crying,sad,depressed,and quiet. He's a really nice guy and I just wish my mom would meet him. I jus don't understand how she wants to stop me from being with him which is basically her takin away all the happiness out of me. Words can't describe the way I feel about him. He's the only person who gets me and understands me. Wat do I tell my mom to make her relize I'm in love with him but I'm sad becuz she wnt let me b with him?how do I tell her my feelings about this guy? Wat do I need to do about all of this??please help
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reader, helpme246 +, writes (15 January 2009):
One word; rebellion. She went out w/ a senior when she was a freshman, right? Call her on it. There are no barriers when it comes to love. If you call her on it, you'll notice that her excuses get really crappy. Parents have nodefence when their kids are absolutely right. Don't let her control you, see him anyway, it is, after all, your life, not hers.
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reader, Landie  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 I know there you coming from. Its hard when both or just one parent comes in the way of your relatyionship. There's no actual advice somebody can give you because only you actually know your mother and how she might react. But best you can do is sit down and tell her straight how you feel and what you think. If you worried about what she will do or say to you in private go out with her as a girls day and tell her in public that way she at least can't shout at you. Good luck I wish you all the luckME
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