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anonymous
writes:i went out with my boyfriend that now is my ex boyfriend and we had 9 months of going out. In our 9 months we had fights. i would get jealous. i didn't like him talking to his friends that are girls. i would get mad easily.he made a joke about me and his friend saying that she knows how to drive and i don't. On november he broke-up with me cause he needed some space. a couple of weeks pass and i told him i french kissed a guy and i told him it was a couple times. my intention weren't to hurt him. the guy couldn't get off me. i told him that i didn't like him and that he was forcing me to kiss him. days passed and i told him that everything was a lie. he didn't believe me. after i told him i feel bad for hurting his feelings.i love him. now he wants to move on and just be friends. should i be friends with him? can someone help me i don't know what to do?
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reader, Alfi  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 Best thing to do is move on. if you love someone let them go. Being friends can sometimes make a situation harder, depending on how close he wants to be as friends. If you cant cope with it then tell him you'd rather not. at the same time that doesnt mean you cant be civil. these things are always hard but the best advice. Follow your HEAD not your heart. the heart can bring you a lot more pain than is necessary. I hope you sort things out. .Ox
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