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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

He is making my drinking an issue, and says he cant trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over nine months, and just recently my drinking has begun to cause problems. One I start, I cannot stop and I have said and done hurtful things to him in the past when I was under the influence. Jut ...

The way my bf acts around other girls...really hurts me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 1 year now and i have tried to tell him that the way he acts around other girls makes me feel like he doesnt care how i feel or if it hurts me but he does it anyways, what am i supposed to do? I love him and i dont ...

My partner appeared in an adult movie to get money to support her and our baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I have come across that my current girlfriend was recently in an adult film. we weren't together at the time, but we have a child together, i am 22, we had our daughter when we were 20 we were together for 1 year prior to the baby's birth. We...

I had never found my wife physically attractive so I left her for a woman I am attracted to

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - This is something I am really struggling with at the moment and am in desperate need of some advice. A couple of months ago, I announced to my wife of 2 years (been together seven years in total) that I didn't want to be with her anymore. The re...

I am getting all the communications from his friends, but little from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Please someone give me some advice. I have been dating a man for about 6 months now. He has constantly been in my face telling me he loves me and I will be his wife. Well, I didn't say anything to him about this but a really good friend of his ...

My ex hacks into my computer and has sent nude pics of me to my dad

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Disaster. My ex will hack this and read this as usual but still want advice. He went mental because I got a new boyfriend so he hacked my email and sent a naked picture of me to my dad. What do I do? He said he deleted the pictures but he's ju...

I have a crush and we are meant to be friends but sometimes she wont even talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - Me and this girl are supposed to be friends because she said she wanted to be friends. However I am pretty sure she has a crush on me and she already knows I like her. As every time me and her walk past each other her best friend looks at me and g...

A guy I like wants to get to know me before he decides if he wants to go out with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - this guy i like and he likes me says: he likes me and does as far as it goes.. he wants to get to know me and decide.. he doesn't wanna lie to me.. wtf? is he talking about?/ what does he really mean?? should i forget about him?? t...

I love him but he has no time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - i love him so much but he got no time for me at all, we dont see each other i want to give him space so that he can miss me but i cant, what should i do? ...

Why are some guys only interested in sex, I am losing faith in love

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - why do some guys.. make you think HE REALLY LIKES YOU..but he just wants sex... when you DO GIVE in he never calls you again.. and if u DON'T GIVE in he doesn't call and changes his number?? why are all they looking for one night stands?? ...

I know a relationship with him cant be good, but my feelings are still strong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I know I really should have learned my lesson by now, but I've been involved in a really strange off and on relationship for almost two years now. I want this to end badly. I'm a really laid back girl. I don't like to argue, no trust issues, I'm ...

I love a girl from afar and she just ignores me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - Ok so im new to this web and im desperate. Im 13 going on 14 in march. I have liked this girl since second grade. Now that im in 8t grade I fell everyday she keeps slipping away. Shes dating people more popular and closer to her group and doesnt ...

My friends don't take me seriously, there is either a problem or I am too needy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (?) - My friends seem to not take what I say seriously- when I tell them something they kind of brush me off or not take what I say to heart. Maybe I'm being too sensitive, but it feels like they don't really care about me or my life. But then when they ...

A guy I dated between his prison sentences wants to go out with me again, but I don't know if I should or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for several months and he broke up with me cause he went to prison and then we dated again after he got out but he went back for 2 years and then we where friends for a while but he went back again. He wonts to go back out wit...

I want to improve my relationship with my mother, but don't know where to start

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - ok can someone tell me some tricks to get closer to my mom. last year i graduated highschool n didnt introduce her to any of my friends. that really hurt her. i mean a few met her after we graduated but it still plays on my conscience.(if i cud take ...

I don't know if I am being paranoid, or if there is a problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I am currently seeing a married man who had separated from the wife before we met. He told me the truth from the start and we had a beautiful friendship. My gut at the time told me to give him a chance, after all, he was the sweetest guy I had met ...

I'm nearly sweet sixteen and he is twenty ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - So I just met this guy about a month ago through a couple of my good girl-friends. He is really nice and is so sweet to me, which some guys aren't because Im kinda overweight. I really like him and I don't know how to show that I do without being ...

He cheated with his ex, now we are FWB

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - i was with this guy for 8 yrs and then a year and a half ago I caught him cheating with his ex wife. he left and i moved out,and since then we have became friends with benefits. what i would like to ask is, i want to end it but i do not know how , ...

When I decided to marry my female friend, who was my friends g/f became very distant!

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12 December 2009 (M) - i utilize thus to express my feelings, in the open. i have a female friend, girl friend of one of my male friends, whom i met and introduced by her boyfriend. we developed a very good company and we were loving so much. this is a case where the term ...

My boyfriend says he's tired of me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend says he's tired of me. He says he doesn't know if he wants to break up or not. Our latest fight was about my insecurity... I have terrible insecurities about my body, and he knows, and he added some "hot" girls ...

My cheatin' man has eyes for my man eatin' friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - hi i am having some relationship issues here is my problem He did it again he wants to talk to her again but i fear her might fall for her again like last time and if he does i will be heart broken and i love him to death i fell in love with this ...

Unwanted by my father, abused by family member

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - i'm crying as i write this and feel so silly for doing it. i feel like my brain isn't functioning properly sometimes like theres something missing, i feel like i don't think like other people. it's only in the last couple of months that I've kind of ...