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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I struggle to trust, and I "found" a text he sent another woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. I am struggling to trust him. It is probably my own trust issues but I keep finding reasons not to trust him. He swears he is loyal and loves me. But I found a text message he sent to another ...

I am in love, but she's my boss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - I know i'm in love but should i tell her,i'm 43 and not getting any younger. I've known this woman for about 8 years i was instantly attracted to her as soon as i saw her and there isn't a day that goes by that i don't think about her.I really ...

It's driving me crazy how this "thing" is not progressing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Ok so I have a classmate (we have all classes together) and I like him. A lot. and I thought he liked/like me too BUT I'm not so sure anymore.. This has been going on for a year and in the meantime we've kinda become friends. At first there w...

I have been married for a few short months, but the no sex is getting to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - I have been married several months now. Things didn't start too postively when my wife was too tired to make love on our wedding night. It was a tiring day so this was fair enough and I didn't create a fuss. Howver ever since we have sex so ...

Will he wake up and realise what he has lost?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi Guys, I'd be really grateful if you could let me know what you think i should do or how to get over my ex fiance. I haven't spoken to him since last week when i stormed out the house and haven't responded to his email. I've written a mega long ...

My girlfriend of 13 wont even kiss me, she is frigid!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - Ok i am 13 years old and have a girlfriend who is friged but dosent want to be and she gets scared and backs away when i try to kiss OR EVEN HUG HER i like her alot and really dont want to dump her but for weeks now it seems that she dosent even ...

My girl is sexually selfish!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - It always atarts off that we have fool around really wild and dirty, then she wants me to eat her out, she comes, and afterwards, she won't get me off; she's suddenly "too tired," or if she "tries" she will complain about how tired she is, how much ...

My cheatin' heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - I cheated on my fiance. We have been together 6 years. I cheated and about a week later I couldn't handle it anymore, I had to tell her. I know I made a mistake and wanted to be honest. I love her to much to lie and get away with it. I knew it ...

It took him three years to decide he didnt like my past and he dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of three years just dumped me. He has issues with my past from a long time, and yet again he's giving me hard time over it. He said he feels he will never be able to forgive me. I never did anything too wild in my past, but he knew a ...

I am the woman who dated the committment shy guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I am thew women that dated the commitment phobic guy for 2 1/2 years and broke up with him 7 months ago. How do I interpret this mans response? We got together this weekend and kept it platonic. He told me before he came out he is trying to figure ...

I have set high standards but worry those standards might be TOO HIGH!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship for two years. That was the best relationship I had, but I matured a lot during the relationship. The things that i looked for in a relationship when it began, i no longer look for. I need more and i wont settle for less. ...

My wife and I both had affairs but she won't forgive me for mine

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - After many months of hell, and my wife's affair, my suspected affair, myself and my wife decided to give it another go. She has been honest with all that has happenned, so I decided to confirm to her the affair I had that she suspected. She's gone ...

How to respond without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone and merry X-mas, I need some help if you can; my ex and I broke up 5 months ago, at first we didn't talk at all, but like 2 months after the break up we started talking, he would txt me every day, all day. Then without reason he stopped ...

I don't know whether I should wait for him to tell me stuff or just out and ask!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I would like to know did my boyfriend have any serious relationship before me... it`s only because I`m curious, not because I think that is realy important. Also, I`m not sure that he`s virgin like me, so I have a little doubt, should I just ask him ...

I just have to get this off my chest .................

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - this one is quite long...sorry. ill start from the begining. i am in a long term reationship and after about 1year and a half, things werent soo great, lots of arguments, etc and he really didnt pay me any attention ant more. i really loved him but ...

I fell in love with a girl on a train, found out who she is, but she doesn't want anything to do with me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i found ...

Two people I love are having problems in their relationship and I don't know how to help them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - howdy pretty people. so i have my cousin whose also my best friend. well hes datin my friend who just happens to be a really good girlfriend. they have been datin for about 4 months and its perfect. but my cousin had been acting really weird lately. ...

I'm scared that he's still not over his ex, I don't know if I should break up with him over this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about one and a half years now. He's very sweet to me and cares about me, but he still hasn't said "i love you" yet. I know that I shouldn't be comparing, but he said "i love you" to his ex way before one and a half ...

My boyfriend wished his ex happy birthday on facebook but ignored mine!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Things have been going amazingly well recently between me and my boyfriend. But I recently saw something which really upset me and got me thinking. This year, despite the fact that we text/call each other every day, my boyfriend didn't wish me a ...

My husbands anger is getting worse and he is resorting to violence

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - i don't know what to do!!! my husband and i have our problems but i think we argue more than anything. it has resently gotten worse. the other day he got pulled over for the third time without a license and i told him he isn't driving anymore. he ...

My pregnant partner doesn't want sex but my libido is high!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - hi there, so my delema is this, i met this beautiful girl and she was pregnant, the father was waaay out of the picture, and i could not help but fall for this girl. she had a beutiful baby boy, whom is my world, and see him as my own, he is now 5 ...

I rang the guy my friend is interested in, because I believe he is married and cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I haven't registered on this site, thankyou so much in advance for all of your advice :) Sandra tells me that she meets this really good looking guy at work. She told me this a week ago. Says he is funny, and outgoing and witty. One day whi...

I feel like I am cheating my ex when I am interested in other boys

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - So my last boyfriend and i broke up about 2 months ago and now him and i are really good friends. we get along and were still kindof flirty but its all fun. him me and my other girl friend are really close and we always hang out. the problem is that ...

I don't know how to tell if boys are interested!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Not very long, but I feel really stupid asking this question. Guy #1: We've never talked in person to each other before. He started to text me in October, and when he did, he asked me a bunch of questions like what my favorite bands are, etc....

I have heard rumours my 15 yo boyfriend is gay, and I am a girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hey, im 14 and my boyfriends 15. i'm worried about his sexuality and i'm not sure if its just rumors starting to sink in or if he really is. don't get me wrong he is really sweet and very funny but sometimes he sends off signals. when we first ...

A boy who wants to have sex with me and his girlfriend are upset with me, my ex wont get back with me and another friend is pregnant and I am dropping grades due to all this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi there I'm 15, and right now, I'm extremely stressed out, so I thought I'd come to you guys and ask for some advice. Within the past few months, I've had a hard time social wise because of a boy that I can't seem to fall out of love with. H...

My boyfriend has a baby and spends time with the baby Mama!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I been with my boyfriend for close to 3yrs there is a big age difference between us but I love him very much. Anyway about 1yr ago he cheated on me and got another woman pregnant that hurted my soul because although I'm older then he is it still ...