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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

We were getting along so great, and now .... we are not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - i've seen that my crushes friend added me on myspace,so i added my crush he sent me a message say hey next thing led to another i gave him my number we started flrting and texting none stop for a week then he said we should hang out the weekent came ...

I am constantly daydreaming and fantasising about a man other than my husband!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - In my mind, I'm already cheating on my husband. I daydream about this other man constantly and I cannot help it. I try not to think about him, but then my mind starts piecing together these ridiculous stories involving the two of us. From things as ...

My friend has my jacket, she said she didn't, but then she wore it, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Why did she wear it? So my ex best friend has my jacket and I asked for it back a long time ago (we haven't been friends for 7 months on the 13th) and she said that she didn't have it, but she wore it to school today and for the past two weeks sh...

I have a really nice guy for a boyfriend but am attracted to a player

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I'm completely confused. For months now, I've been going back and forth between these two guys. I've been available for both of them, but now that it has come down to it, I'm lost. The first guy, I've been with for 11 months today. But I hav...

Should I tell her or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - i am in this situation, a girl i had the biggest crush ever on for 6 months i asked her out we when on a date couple days later when i asked her out again she said she didnt feel for me in that kind of way but she loved our friendship and really ...

I love myself but this girl makes me feel ugly...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - i fell really ugly because there is this one girl where i liv and she looks like lady gaga she idleises her sum but she calls me fat and ugly am i how can i tell... i am 16 years of age and im 5'5 i am 12stone i have black hair that is sholder lengh ...

How to avoid the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - MOD NOTE: POSTERS ORIGINAL TITLE I am a 38 year old male who just got out of a 9 month physically, emotionally, psychologically and mentally abusive relationship with a 34 year old woman. She had two children. At first the relationship was...

Do I forgive him or just move on...I feel gutted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world. I moved country to be with him and everything was going great - or so i thought. He never logged onto facebook or msn in front of me and i used to question this. So he did 2 nights ago and i see ...

How do I deal with this friendship between my boyfriend and another woman he used to be interested in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Trust Issues: I posted a question yesterday about finding a text my boyfriend of 7 months sent a female friend of his telling her he missed her. I received very insightful responses reminding me it was wrong to read his text messages in the first ...

Is my boyfriend a nice guy? I think he is lying to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi Thanks all of your time. Dear All I with my BF have been together around 3 years. We are stay together about 2 years, He is a Swiss guy (from Switzerland), and I am Asian girl (Chinese). We were break up with 2 month+ ago. I was confused and...

He is not in the mood for sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half but the past few months we have been long distance because I have been away at school. I came home about a week and a half ago after not seeing him for weeks and we had sex the first three ...

The man I am involved with is waiting for a married woman, how do I get rid of her from our lives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I'm seeing a man who has been involved with a married woman for a few years, she tells him that she will leave her husband but they have children and has yet to do so, how do I get her out of our lives....

I am starting to have doubts about my husband and my marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - hii i m really desperate and i need ur help...we have been married for 5yrs nw.i am 29 and he is 35 now .but there s somethng wrong with our relationshp .my parents were initialy against this marriage as they found my husband had lied about his p...

I've met a really nice man but it turns out he already has a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I recently met a loving and caring guy on an online dating site. We hit it off right away, and we went on a couple of really good dates. Things started moving into the realm of a possible relationship. Then I found out that he had a boyfriend. ...

Husband deployed in Iraq and I think he is cheating!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - My husband is in Iraq and I haven't talked to him in two weeks. Before he left we were on the verge of getting a divorce. He had to train in Alabama for a month and during that month he called me just once. After the month training He didn't even ...

My boyfriend is talking to his ex behind my back!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Okay this girl messaged me on myspace saying she was a friend of my bf's ex. She was telling me how he was calling her and messaging her on myspace saying how he missed her but he wants to keep it from me till he is ready to tell me. I didn't want ...

Does he want me yes or no? I need an answer so that I can deal with issues and move on with my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Ok I used to date this guy like 2 years ago and he lived on the same street that I did and the Chemistry was there and everything so I wound up getting pregnant and I did the un thnkable thing and got a abortion I regret it everyday but I wound up ...

Christmas is anything but a time to be joyful for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have always hated xmas. Firstly my older childrens father use to two time me at this time which seriously damaged me emotionally. Secondly I come from a very large family and since back in the UK for 26 years, they have never invited me for x...

I want to find the bubbly person I used to be, and be her again.

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14 December 2009 (F) - Well let's see where to start well my now exboyfriend and I broke couple days ago and the reason was because I felt as tho we have been a relationship for a year and he has no rletionship with my eight year old so i felt like I was being split in ...

Engaged but having second thoughts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - should i get married? i have been in a relationship for almost 5 years, and have been engaged for 8 months. I have lived in apartment with him for about 41/2 years... and things have been good... except for the last couple months. We are supposed to ...

I feel my life slipping away and I want to be happy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have been posting asking for advice in relation to moving on a mutual attraction. I have been trying to get out of a relationship but find it hard as do not want to be totally alone. I feel b/f is seeing other peoplke as he has not been with me ...

I can't help but feel like he is lying to me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi, about a month ago I accidently came across some opened e-mails from dating sites in my boyfriends e-mail account (he always forgets to signout so hotmail opened up to his, and I didn't realize it was his right away). Anyways, he denied opening ...