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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I am obsessed with my wife's ex-relationship... how do I let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I have been married for 19 years and my wife has been honest, loving and faithful. But, one of her (2) past relationships still haunts me. We were in college and she broke up with me to go out with him, then we got back together. Then she broke ...

How do I accept my bf looking at naked pictures?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hi there, need some help! I have low self esteem and I have just found out my boyfriend has been looking at half naked girls on the internet through his phone. I am totally annoyed at this n feel abit angry. Is this wrong? I don't want to say anyt...

Why am I so untrustworthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - trust is a huge issue in this situation. I feel like people don't seem to trust me. Like my friends and family. At school every time i have really good friends, trust becomes a big problem. No one seems to belive me! and i'm sick of it. I'll prat...

How can I make my g/f trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - How do i make my girlfriend trust me that i dont smoke anymore? I have lost her trust because my best friend's girlfriend lied to her that i still smoke and now i have lost her trust due to that....

I don't want to feel jealousy and have trust issues about my g/f!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Im lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for nearly two years, prior to that we were best friends for four years and i can honestly say i've never been so happy. She's perfect, but im just so jelous and paranoid and i dont know why. I find myself ...

Are the things he says to me normal? Do other women accept this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. Aside from all of the false accusations of infidelity (that seem to be habitual for him...and kill me inside), he uses depression and unemployment as excuses for his harsh words about me, my ...

I'm feeling very guilty about my boyfriend and work and feel so alone, please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - hello all, ive let my problems pile up over the years and now ive got to sort them, i want to completely change my life because everything in it is wrong ive been in an on off relationship with my daughters dad for 12 yrs and im tired now he was ...

Should I wait for her to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - ok. there is this girl whom i fell in love with. We've been together these past months. Still she wont make a commitment. She told me that she was scared of being hurt. I told her that i wouldnt hurt her cuz i reaaly love her. She's still 16 years ...

I can't find a girlfriend, the issue is bringing me down, any help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I am good looking guy 27 yo , i have been told many times from different people that i am very good looking and i have friendly and down to earth personality , but the point is that no one interested on me anymore ,, i don't know why i feel ...

Young male, pretty overweight - how should I dress to hide this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I'm a young male, but I'm pretty overweight. Not morbidly obese, but pudgy. How should I dress/appear so that I am more attractive to women?...

My boyfriend is emotionally cheating on me...

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28 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I will have been together 2 months now apart from the 6 month break we took from eachother. we were together for 6 months before that and broke up because i cheated. I was devistated and felt horrible and he told me he couldnt see ...

I never had any problems making friends at college. What's wrong now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - INTRO: I live with my parents because of chronic unemployment. They spent Christmas Eve and Christmas at a distanced city with our extended family and I refused to go as usual. I'm the only Christian in the family, and I'm in my thirties and still ...

I don't feel anything when I kiss or hug her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - im confused about something ...this girl is very close to me and i have broken off with her twice because of my confusion telling her that i need some time and im kind of committment phobic(which is true perhaps because im confused)....still she has ...

Could a four or five-way relationship even work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Im in a really difficult situation at the moment. There is currently 3 women in my life. At this point you might be thinking right what a ba***rd an ye maybe i am. I have been engaged for 3 and a half years to a very money driven career woman. Sh...

Why is my girlfriend giving the impression she is available to other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - heyy just found out my girlfriend, who has previously cheated, has told two different guys that shes hung out with (one of them was the guy that she cheated with and second a new guy shes been hanging with alot) that she is single and me and her ...

How do I confront him without it turning into a major fight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my current bf for just a little over 2 years. He has just gone back for two weeks during the holidays to visit family and he assures me that he is not going to meet any female. We have had problems in the past about ...

Does he deserve a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - The other day I ran into the guy I was seeing over the summer. He ended it with me because he still had feelings for his ex. Well he went back to his ex and ended it agaaain with her. He has been chasing me ever since Aug. He said it was a big ...

Could I love him too much? I'm terrified he will leave me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - 7 weeks ago I got back together with my ex boyfriend whom I am very much in love with..He has said he loves me but only whilst he is drunk never whilst sober. I really do love him but I dont want to be the first to say it. He has not mentioned the ...

Finding it hard to forgive and forget my partner's cheating..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I found out one month ago that my partner of 2 years has been cheating on me, by talking to girls online, on cam, swapping rude pics, flirting etc. I couldnt believe it... but I forgave him, for a few reasons. The first is that i love him. Secondly, ...