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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

She is already over me because she has starting dating but I still want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Hi My gf and I broke up about a month and a half ago. We were together for 2.5 yrs and we lived together for about 6 months. She started getting distant the last month, and as much as I tried to take her on dates and do romantic things with her, she...

Do I trust the ex? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - so me and my ex boyfriend dated for like 5 months are so but after we broke up we still been extremely close and he still likes me and im unsure about how i feel about him and then i learned recently that he was cheating on me with his best friends ...

Would it be wrong to leave my husband in the state he's in now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I am a married woman of 11 years with 2 boys and i have been having problems with my marriage from day one. Things have been rocky because my husband has trust issues with me for something i did before we gotten married.... he said he forgave me but ...

His text/phone friendship with his ex torments me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Right so a girl my boyfriend had an on/off thing with before me, is back in contact with my bf, phone/text wise. My bf and I have discussed this and he said he just wants her friendship, nothing else. Now, this is fine, but obviously it's always on ...

Need help dealing with this break up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. Its been three months since my girlfriend of over 2 years split up with me. Things were very very tough at first but did get easier. We live in the same samll town so very difficult to avoid each ohter. However things have just ...

My girfriend cheated on me and I have feelings of hatred, but still love her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - my gf had oral sex with her friend in a cinema theatre and gave him a *******....she said it happened because she was too desperate and was out of her mind at that time...she feels terribly guilty now and regrets it and has cut all communication ...

My b/f expects me to pay 50% of his mortgage with no guanantees for me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I am just new to living with my boyfriend in a house that he owns. Recently while discussing contributions towards household expenses he told me that he expects me to pay half his mortgage and that he is not interested in putting me on the title. He ...

Since she fell pregnant, my girlfriend has lost her allure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Hi My girlfiend is 6 months pregnant and i dont feel attracted to her anymore. Before she got pregnant, we hardly ever had sex and on the one occasion we did she got pregnant (she said she was on the pill) When we first started dating sh...

Should I end it now and wait until he is 18?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I am going out with a guy that is a few years younger than me (underage). I really care about him and every day I get emotionally closer to him. I’ve never felt this comfortable with a guy before. We have the confidence to open up to each other and ...

I love him but something doesn't feel right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - well my boyfriend is 15yrs older than me.our relationship has been good for the most part but something is telling me that he is hiding something i.e. i never met his family or kids he has met mine i have never been to his house he claims he is in ...

I am obsessed with a girl who has an on off boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and am in my second year of college. Within a few months of my first year I met someone I felt I was completely compatible with. We had similar interests, had the same group of friends, and she's beautiful. I started hinting at the fact that ...

When I try to involve him in the plans for our wedding he gets mad and says whatever you want!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Im 27 i have been with my fiancee for almost 9 yrs. we are engaged to be married in april of 2010. i am a stay at home mom he works. but i just cant get him really interested In our wedding plans. i am doing it alone and its to much on me i have our ...

His actions don't match his words!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl - and I'm the only person out of everyone I know that's never been in a relationship. The guy i've liked since the summer finally decides to msg me after months pass of not seeing each other to hang out....and it go...

Engaged! Finally! and now he is cooling off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Engaged after five years and now he is treating me like a room mate. Here it is... It's his way or no way! It feels like he doesnt want to get married. He is saying that i dont do enough around the house when it seems that is all i do. Im not ...

My ex wife wont allow me to do anything with my kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I need help. My ex wife wont talk to me about my kids and disagrees with everything I want to do. I cant get my 7 year olds ears pierced, take our 5 year old skating, go to my nieces grad party, aunts funeral got shut down. I need to know why she ...

I am not sure if I am getting the brush off or if he is waiting for me to text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Hi My boyfriend is in a band, and last week had two shows in our town and then left out of state for a week. He always takes me along to the shows they play but this time I had to ask to come along, he acted weird and was drunk (I had to pay to...

She has been swapping nude pics with her ex, should I forgive or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over six months. She is my age and has a son that is almost two. I knew she had a son and there for would be around her ex more then any of my other girlfriends but, was willing to try and ...

My ex is coming back around Christmas, and I am not sure what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - so my ex and i havent talked in like 3 months and he's comming back around not to long before christmas. the second time we dated i realized that i had fallen in love with him. when he finally called it total quiets i was heart broken and i wanted ...

Two breakups in one year, I KNOW I deserve better!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Please help me. I've been through two horrible break-ups this year. The first was a two-year relationship, my first love, the first guy I ever slept with. The second lasted about 7 months. I wanted it to work so badly. I was in love with him...

I thought my crush liked me but he didnt so now I feel uncomfortable around him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I'm seventeen. For the past two years, this guy "Conner" has been smiling at me in the halls. Initially, I thought it was because he liked me, but he just wanted to be friendly. Last June, I found out through, believe it or not, a Facebook chat, th...

I feel like I'm caught in the middle!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Hi! I'm a seventeen-year-old senior in high school. M y question is about peer pressure and judgmental people. Warning: it's a long story. One of my friends "Skye" I have known since freshmen year. We get along and all, but over the past few months, ...

What did he mean when I asked him about trust and love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I asked my boyfriend this question (If u closed your eyes and never opened them again could u trust the man/woman u love to lead u?) He replied: Could I? I'm confused please help me understand what he ment. ...

Stay with him in an open relationship until I meet other men, or stay single and just enjoy being a mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I have a little scenario that I'm wondering if I should move one for good but I feel like I dont want to have to start all over and get to know the person. I've been with this guy for over 4 long years hes been abusive in the past so far he hasn't ...

How do I get over this raging jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I'm sooo jealous! I cannot help it or stop it. Whenever my boyfriend hangs out with one of his girl friends, or when he says he is at a girls house, or whatever the situation is, this jealous green monster comes out. He does act different around ...