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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I just found out my cousin was cheating with my boyfriend two years ago, and all my friends knew and didn't tell me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i recently found out that my cousion who im very close with, was cheating with my boyfriend around two years ago. me and my cousion have been close more or less since we were born as we're around the same age. we've always done everythin together, ...

I found a picture of an ex in one of his girlie mags!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I inadvertently stumbled across a picture of a girl that I thought my boy had stopped seeing in one of his girlie mags. (Not that I read these, but it happened.) Do you think it means anything? Should I dismiss it? She was clothed, but the...

I am a virgin being tempted by a sex addict yet wanting to resist

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am an eighteen-year-old female virgin who does not intend to have sex until her wedding night. While I do not have a purity ring (I think I'm getting one for Christmas, though), I do have kind of a purity symbol--I write the word p...

We met online, never face to face, I want to ask him out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so I met this guy on the internet, and we've talked pretty much every day for the last month. I've suggested that we meet up a couple of times, but we've actually never made concrete plans. He's a pretty busy guy, in quite a high pressure ...

My boyfriend masturbates and leaves the evidence in unusual places

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Okay soo my boyfriend of almost 3 years tends to look up porn online alot not everysday but when im not around....this really bothers mee...i know its normal but it makes me sick when he maturbates into out trash can in the bedroom or stuff like ...

We are living together but she doesn't want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Me and My Girlfriend have been dating for a little ova 2 months. Im 20 shes 18. Shes had a rough patch, and shes been used, cheated on, and used some more. Shes been living with me and my parents for about a month now (wed be on our own but I got ...

He came back to me but now I don't trust him at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I am having trust issues with my fiance. We first got engaged just over a year ago. In july of this year he ended it providing no reason at all. During our time apart we continued to see each other. He also began to sleep with other girls (3 that i ...

I have no trust in him, he's been flirting with girls on dating sites again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 yr a couple of months at the beginning i found out the was on dating sites flirting with girls on the net and i asked him about it he said he wouldn't do it again and now i found out hes been doing it again what ...

Is there anyway to get him to want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - So i went out with this guy once when i was 14 and i have to admit he never left my mind sure, i dated other guys but never forgot about him. He was always there in the back of my mind. Now 17 me and him, having not seen eachother in a long time, ...

Is he a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy at the gym like everyday for nearly 2 months now. He's really cute and I went to middle school with him, but he didn't recongnize me (thank god!) and we never had classes together or talked in middle school. I started ...

She's too close to her ex for comfort! I really like her though, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about three months now but she has a little baggage. She has a son with her ex-boyfriend of five years and she and her ex are always hanging out. They're pretty much best friends even though they broke up ...

Is he just telling me that or does he just not love me and is with me for the sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

7 December 2009 (?) - Everytime I tell my boyfriend I love him or I miss him he seemed to get unconfortable, so I asked him why and he said he feels its too soon. We went out for a year lat year and when we were going out last year we told each other we love each other ...

We've barely had sex for 3 months, is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have been in my relationship for 5 years, and we had sex at least 6 times a month, but within the last year, we barely have sex within 3 months at all, what should I do ? Do you think he's cheating? And before anyone say sex toys, high heels, ...

My husband and best friend text daily M-F, should I be worried?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I just found out that my husband and my best friend have been communicating via text message pretty much everyday Mon. - Fri.. I knew they texted a lot and I am O.K. with that. Sometimes he'll come home and tell me what they texted about that day, ...

How can I make him see that she is trying to break us up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - My problem is my boyfriends female friend who has tried everything possible to break us up. The first time I went out with them she got ontop of my boyfriend and tried to kiss him. The second time I went out with them she pecked him on the lips ...