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I have a gut feeling my husband may be cheating on me...

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Question - (31 May 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2007)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i need some advice i normally wouldnt do this but i have no idea what to think!i think my husband is sending me lil signals that hes cheating on me or that he has cheated on me. Well lets see hes in iraq and he use to call me like all the time and now he only calls me like every other day or once a day and one day we were talkin and he said i think i hit it too hard im in pain and i was like wat and then he started sayin sumin about how he was excercising and he did to many sit ups and his stomach hurts.then he was tellin me how hes takin these pills and its makin his testosterome* high and hes horny all the time then he used to have a problem gettin my bra off and now hes sayin that a friend of his over there was tellin him how to do it correctly and a girl he works with got out a bra that she had and gave it to him so he could practice! but then i dont think he is cause he said that he wanted to get these pills so when he finally comes home, that first night he could last longer or watever.

He doesn't write me emails anymore or even letters and he used to all the time first the letters stop then the emails started now the emails have stopped!but i mean he still always tells me he loves me and misses me i mean more to him then anything else in this world.i would just like to know what other people thought!please help me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007):

Hmm i was in 2 ways whether my Husband was cheating on me so a friend told me of a great program that would catch him in the act if he was cheating on me.Try this program it so easy and its great for monitering your husband without him knowing and it was great for watching what my Daughter was getting up to on the internet.WinSpy operates in stealth mode. Will NOT appear in Windows System Tray and is easy to use Try it here.

http://www.win-spy.com/?hop=biggranty

I hope this helps.

Sue (Scotland)

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (31 May 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntThese kind of separations are as hard on the soldier's families as it is on the soldiers. Hang in there sweetie. You know how fast summers fly by, then November is right around the corner. What a glorious Holiday Season you have to look forward to!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2007):

thank you everyone that makes me feel better i know it might be crazy that i think these things but i hear so many things from so man different people and i guess its just hard for me with him being gone hes been gone 11 months and i still have til nov. til he comes home you know. i guess it was just my mind going crazy on me cause alot have happen to me lately so thank you for your thoughts i really appreciate it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2007):

thank you everyone that makes me feel better i know it might be crazy that i think these things but i hear so many things from so man different people and i guess its just hard for me with him being gone hes been gone 11 months and i still have til nov. til he comes home you know. i guess it was just my mind going crazy on me cause alot have happen to me lately so thank you for your thoughts i really appreciate it!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (31 May 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntHe's not cheating on you, he's over seas fighting busying fighting for his country. Be loving and supportive. I hope he comes home soon.

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2007):

candy00s agony auntDont panic, wait until he gets home and see if he acts differently around or towards you.

It could be he hasnt contacted you due to work demands or he may not have access to communicating at the moment.

If you need to talk to him when he is back and tell him you love him and that you feel a bit uneasy with him away so much.

xxxx

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (31 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntAs of last week, the government put a stop to military members who are away using the internet to communicate...

It's a safety precaution being taken. If he's doing something to try and please you, be happy about that. Don't read anything else into it, unless he starts acting weird when he gets back...

DV1

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