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He said it's his work that's stopping him from seeing me so much but now he won't let me come round to his house. What's going on?

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Question - (28 May 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2007)
A female Sierra Leone age 36-40, *elamta writes:

Dear Cupid,

me and my bf have been going out for two years, one year after we started dating he got promoted to the post of manager. since then he's just changed he doesn't come to see me anymore, and he just keeps making excuses that it's the work and the fact that when he comes around i never want to him to leave, which is true but that shouldn't be an excuse right? Now he does'nt let me go see him at his house. I want to break it up but i love him so much.

please help me figure it out.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2007):

AskEve agony auntYou're hanging on in here by the skin of your teeth, the fact of the matter is he doesn't make you happy any more. He's using work as his excuse, he may be telling you the truth, he may not. At the end of the day you are NOT top of his priority list any more... what does that tell you?

Eve

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2007):

candy00s agony auntForget about him and move on. He isnt worth your time.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (28 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntIt sounds like he's had a change of heart. Don't invest any more feelings into him. You'll be fine, but it's time to move on to someone better.

DV1

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